blazepascal: Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.
We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.
They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.
But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.
Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.
We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.
You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.
Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.
Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.
Get up! Be scared of your future.
#BLAZE
It is you that will suffer. There is difference between working and suffering. Eating from your sweat is not suffering. It is stupid men that make some women appear to have a life line and you appear to be one of them. Everyone must work to make a life. Let us stop breeding women with sence of entitlement. God never created women to live off men. Men were only put in charge of affairs. Everyone must work to earn a living
Jennyclay: The court should make sure the foolish man pays back every single dime he owed his wife!!
He should be ashamed of himself . Shame!!
I can’t spend my money on a man. God forbid!!! When I’m not mad!!!
You meant your husband, but you can allow to be spent on by a man. This is how some of you curse yourself and end up with a foolish man and a broken relationship/marriage. Imagine you been generalized for the moronic nature of other women.
Emmypure: Asari went to far with that statement, I expect the military to arrest him so that he can explain more.
Arrest him or invite him. Understanding English and the law is a great problem in Nigeria. What he has said may not be far from the truth. How can we have security agencies and criminality of that height still exists? Definitely there are accomplices in the goverment and the substantive law enforcement structure.
Endtime11: Omo I don turn William Shakespeare on top many matter, If you're not mentally strong no near relationship as a guy, I don turn to big brother, the father, councilor, provider, corrector, guider, initiator, protector, problem solver and many more
Is this what people face for a successful relationship to take effect
Stop being a talkative and busy body. Do the rightly needful always and move on
GoWithGood: During job hunting yesterday, I became very hungry and felt like I was about to faint in the nearest possible time if I don't have something down my stomach, having left the house without food. Normally I don't like eating outside because it's more expensive and you get less for your money but due to the level of hunger I was, I had no option than to look for the nearest place to eat.
A broke applicant, I went to the least of restaurant to eat and the least price for Garri and soup was N800, here in Calabar. Hmmmmm. Na wa o. The poor are really suffocating.
Anyways, I watched one video where Tinubu said "let the poor breathe. Don't suffocate them". Standing beside him was Buhari who was looking at him with a stern eye. I don't know why he wasn't comfortable with the statement.
Please let the poor (job seekers are in this group) breathe. Don't suffocate us the more. What is even the value of naira when the lowest plate of food is N800?
That N800 pain me eh. It would have done me better at home. Now no food at home, hungry and penniless.
How much is it in your area?
Come off it. You won't even get food cheaper than N800 in the USA. So why the fuss
I was so shocked when I traveled on Christmas Omo See Innoson motors everywhere
I pray Rivers government partner with him
Partner with them for what? Must the government partner businesses to drive. That is a lazy man's thinking. Innonson should do more 5o attract the Nigerian public, make pricing and purchasing attractive.
Zxcvbnmghtr: So what difference will it make apologizing? Some people just like making unnecessary noise. Almost 95% of Nigerians were against the removal of the subsidy in 2012 simply because we did not trust the government of the day.
It is not unnecessary noise. Okay your response is also unnecessary, must you respond.
Realguyman1: Why are the Nigeria government at all level so useless(especially that of South East and South South)? Why is this yeye governor trying to gamble with the life's of innocent South East citizens?
Why not make sure that the safety of the people is guarantee first before telling them to come out? Or have he forgotten that the Nigeria government declared ipob and it affiliates terrorist groups?
He is dealing with terrorism issues and not just some child play something that he will just wake up and give command just like that. Or maybe he is the one sponsoring and controlling the terrorist group for him to just give that kind of command
I think it is the right step. When the people see that the government as also closed their businesses and source of lively hood completely, they will be the one to stand their ground, thereby weakling the structure of the sit-at-hone miscreants. By then the government security apparatus will be effective.
Government should blind everything, so that the battle ground will be free and clear for missiles
lhordspy: I agree with you. Trump always put America first. BUT what I am trying to is that, over time US has stepped on alot of toes, they have rewarded themselves with lot of enemies. Opting out from NATO will be of major consequence. US feeds, works, grows on alliances both militarily and economically. Without alliances and groupies; US is powerless. US need NATO more than NATO need US.
USA created the NATO and USA is NATO with 811 Billion USD with no other member having contributed more than 80 billion USD. Most of what all the NATO countries have is from the USA. Trump wants to pull out because he expects more funding from the other NATO countries. Saying USA is nothing without NATO is a pity. USA formed an alliance to which is a war strategy otherwise Russia would have as well but USA was steps faster. If war breaksout Russia will try but they will eventually bow down
CuriousCart: I have noticed that most Nigerians are adults by age only and not thought. 80% of adults lack a clue about their next move and direction.
They usually copy what other successful people around them are doing on the surface.
If a colleague buys a car, they start getting worked up until they also buy a car. If a neighbour opens a shop for his wife they rush to open a shop too. If their friend is into tech, they abandon their budding career and start taking tech courses upandan.
I think the copiers do this because they believe mimicking will make them reach the same goals as the person but they fail to realize that life doesn't work that way because there are many unseen events and efforts that may have led to the copyee's success.
The colleague who bought a car may have been gifted by a sugar daddy or recently lost a parent and inherited the car while you are planning to use your entire savings plus loan. The neighbour opening a shop may have had 15 years experience in that biz line while you just want to dive into it blindly. The tech guy may just have the brains for it while you are more likely to succeed at sales.
Finally, when they are done copying and don't achieve the same successful result as the copyee, the next thing is to accuse him/her of using juju and using people's destiny to succeed.
Just do you.
Crap observation used to generalised. Is that how you are?
I cant say if this problem is peculiar and I would sincerely appreciate mature comments and suggestions.
My marriage is just about a year old though I had an on/off online friendship with my now-wifey since 2017 before we decided to get serious late 2021. Our physical courtship was kinda brief - about 6 months - while we both resided in the same state but different Cities (about 3hrs apart).
I used to be very sexually active in my previous relationships - trust me when i say I'm quite good in bed - but with my now-wifey, I decided to limit the sex part cos i felt at a man's age (tho my sisters also advised same) that there r other things to look out for in a woman. So basically, we did not get too intimate during courtship. Worryingly, even the few times we did it, I rarely got to orgasm cos she couldn't match my stamina.
Fast forwards to 1 month into the marriage, I was diagnosed with High blood pressure which the doctors advised BP drugs might affect my libido but it will later regulate/normalize. Then the problems started! First, I get aroused normally with good turgidity enough to penetrate my Wifey's tight "body" but I tend to loose erection after some mins of thrusting and that's the end. Never comes back on again. Few times I was able to finish but that's not without alot of mental imagination to make me finish ontime.
Very worryingly for me, I decided to check myself with other women and dear readers, I achieved stronger turgidity and no fail moment. That was my first shock.
Summarily, my wife and I still dont live together but this situation has gone worse now. I got no sexual feelings towards her and na by force we dey manage run 1 round in weeks. Meanwhile, I get sex requests from other girls on a daily. I'm very sad about this situation especially when i look at my wife because she ought to be enjoying this thicke alone forever.
As a man, you can imagine how you'd feel when your woman feels ur impotent while other women are bugging you for your time.
Various extreme thoughts have crossed my mind and I'm seriously bothered which isn't even good for my health. Should i confess to my wife?
If a man can’t give me enough of these 4 things I listed above in my marriage, I’ll gladly divorce him.
BTW, the lady should be happy that the ERROR called marriage has ended. A better man who would appreciate and respect her career must surely locate her.
You are one of the problems in marriage. Change your orientation. A man does not owe you money. Equip yourself and be a better person first so that you can be of value in your marriage. Men work harder in sex, women enjoy it. Nobody owes you attention, grow up and stop been a kid
Jennyclay: Whether husband or boyfriend, Biko you men should take good care of your wife and girlfriend. It’s your duty to provide for your wife and girlfriend. Don’t be stingy!! Don’t run away from your responsibilities!!
Even the Bible says any man that can’t take good of his wife/girlfriend is more worse than an infidel.
It is a lie. It is both duties to mutually care for each other, while the man oversees, hence a woman was called an help meet from inception and not a liability. If a woman does not provide for her own as well makes her worst than an infidel.
Maize247: That's your personal interpretation. Are you more vast in law than some SAN and INEC. That law is ambiguous and it is only the court that can tell us what it means so keep calm and stop the bully of the judiciary
I do not think your level of knowledge is my fault in anyways. If the court permits a defendant to represent himself/herself in the court of law, where is the case of the politial honorary position of SAN that is romancing you. You even mentioned INEC.
victorsola: so other states are what, are they not representing composition as well. Falana who happens to be a constitutional lawyer says there is nothing special about fct .
It is not about what we think but what is written down
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. Shame!!
