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pretydiva:
Omo! The rate of divorce these days is so alarming. Are there still good men out there??

Ask of good women. A lot of bad ones that decide without husbands consent

Bunch of nincompoops

You want to get out of pain and yet inflict pain on yourself. That is what I call stupid arrogance of the highest order. These guys should be declared terrorists with immediate effect.

fakum:
Sorry my people this might be a bit long.

Yeah, be careful, just like every other addiction. Anything your partner do while dating will most likely continue in marriage, be warned.
I had sex an explosive sex life with my wife when we were dating and few years after marriage. We makeout everywhere with any little opportunity. Now we are almost 5 years in marriage and things have changed, though it has been coming gradually.

The last time we had sex was like 3 weeks ago, make I suck, NO, make I use hand, NO, and na she give me signal to come do ooo, I vex run my thing, cum and told her sex with her is now more of work. she got angry, I no send. Later in the morning, she brought the matter and I told her yes, she is making sex look like work, that she probably don’t enjoy sex with me anymore. She started saying its pressure, stress,….but I know it’s all lie, I had my suspicion (she doesn’t cook nor wash, virtually does nothing at home now aside her work which closes early and baby who we all look after).
3 days ago, I had a dream abut her, I prayed about it, she asked me about it and I refused t tell. Guys, throughout yesterday, conji wan kill me ooo, I just busy myself with phone. Later in the night, I came in and saw her sleeping, I surf net small , come sleep. I had another dream about her, woke up and time check, past 1 am. I saw her pressing her phone, probably doing her facebook as usual, that her fav app. Na so my suspicion start to play ooo, she started masturbating right there again, I vex but keep calm (this is not the first time ooo, normal level).

Now, this is why I’m angry, I LUV ORAL too much, its my favourite part of love making, for sometimes now, anytime I start my movement going downward on her, she will stop me, make I use hand na, NO, but see Aunty put her hand for THERE now. I’m not surprise, why? Because she confessed to me when dating that she is addicted to masturbation but working on it, that she will stop. Out of love I didn’t judge her, no one is a saint, I also saw it as maybe we can work things from there, bringing it in to our love making to spice things up in our sex life but now, I see my wife prefer masturbation to my oral and sex in its entirety. Guys forget, I’m not hyping myself but I dey try for oral. I can be there, 30min, 1 hr doing my thing (magic), and the result Is always awesome, as I gain more satisfaction in seeing my partner having orgasm than anything else.

Prior to now, because of excuses and stuffs, I have stopped asking for sex but anytime she gives signal, I go deliver. Now, I have made up my mind kind of, make she continue her masturbation, anytime conji hook me, I will find someone to give me mouth action till I’m relieved and movee. Worst case, 3k or 5k. You cant be starving me giving excuses while doing your thing. After all, this is one of the sins of marriage we were told during our class and she know.
I’m not a fan of f*cking outside, I neva enter another woman since we got married though I had enough changes and the pressure and I still don’t want to, not because of her though because she probably doesn’t deserve it but I’m going to get my BJ and have myself relieved issa decision I don’t think I will stop unless God says otherwise.

I will continue to be the loving husband she know, I wont change, I will even get better just as she continue to be the loving wife that she is, but we all have urge to be quenched.
So guys, don’t overlook anything you cant overlook in marriage, e get why! Once most people get what they want, they tend to change or show their real self and marriage isn’t an exception. Some just want the name “married” and have kids (like my wife, after all, she don marry, don get pikin) and once they achieve this, anything can follow though it ought not to be so. Its all my fault sha, I overlook everything ( probably because I know non is perfect and I saw some good traits in her) I wanted companionship as my main reason for marriage but hers were different(though see like attention die), I should have known better. Please marry who have same marriage goals as you.

Finally, this is not to discourage anyone from marriage , marriage is a beautiful thing and I’m happy I’m married and I love my baby (make una no think am oooo). Just pray and marry a good wife like me (even better).

#Peace!

Look here, Oral is not healthy for you. So because of Oral, you want to go outside and be Oral. Guy go buy samsu ol they do 1 hour before you cum, she will forget her masturbation. Focus on the real deal and not some tongue wagging shit

Omihanifa:
It's clutch first before the break. If you match the break without first engaging the clutch the car will jerk and stop

fake driver

Arrogance and stupidity beggets downfall.. Act and stop talking.

lhordspy:
I have said this so many times.

Only cowards hide using a proxy war to fight its enemy. What is the essence of the billions of dollars of military equipment that US and its allies are afraid to allow ukraine fire them into Russia's territory?

Cowards can only keep arming ukraine in a clout-chasing show of force and support. The day Ukraine will mistaknely fire any rocket into Mother Russia territory. That will be the end of them(Ukraine) , the US, NATO in general and its puppets called allies.

It doesnt matter whatever you do in life. But always remember and have it at the back of your mind; never to poke the bear.

This is the difference. Justification..Russia's move into Ukraine has no Justification. If I agree that NATO/USA is using Ukraine which is not even the case, then I can say NATO needs a justification to launch out. It could be a trap for Russia.

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.

What is your friend too doing on dating website. She is a suspect. You can decide to stay back in Nigeria

Entprys:
DSS ?
That is Abuse of office

No. I bet you all lock3d fiking stations has fuel. Th3y shoukd go therr and start seling to peoole for free. Most will start selling and queue wil dissapear

daben1:
If he agrees to settle out of court, I see the company sacking him very soon

He must make the coy sign never to victimize him.

Apology for what. He committed an offence, was punished immediately with red card and Ghana had a one on one opportunity but missed it as well.
So what is he apologizing for.

pinkPUSSY:
Why singling out only SS while Ondo and Lagos are equally there? All of you are the same..

Clown that doesn't know when she shot himself on the leg.



Meanwhile, what has APC government done about high poverty rate that jumped to 133 million Nigerians under his nose ?

Look at the South South figures again and come back

Mad people. What makes such incidences happen is very simple. The use of the phrase "I will kill you today". "If I no kill you today, make I die" and their likes.
People should learn that that is a proclamation from the tongue, a prophecy which will definitely come to be.
Stop been negative in life. The bible says be angry but do not sin. Unfortunately most Christians aren't genuinely broken hence they stick to negative confessions otherwise they would have learnt to tame their tongue. The body finds strength from the tongue, and heart. So guide them jealously using your head.

fancifulasuquo:
Why saying Ghanians should beware of Nigerians ??

Do not mind him. He is very daft. In

Looking at the age of the children, you will see a well-planned family. So unfortunate

zed7:
It's quite funny though, the way some people brag with suffering. I've heard people brag about how they refuse to take annual leave. They believe rest is for the weak.

Some brag about how far they trek daily etc. We have been so used to suffering right from birth that 24 hour power is something to be excited about.

Until you actually visit a developed country you'll never know how stressful and pathetic living in Africa is.

As for the birthing of kids anyhow, that one is unexplainable.

They trek more in developed countries than Africa.

lhordspy:
The shege that awaits arsenal after worldcup ehn.
All this initial gra-gra is not necessary

Please check your BP . Just full of Bitterness

yesloaded:
This is too bad

Heres one of the poorest country in the world that yet to recover

And yet they are doing these to themselves..

I just find it hard to understand people that perpetrate such evil acts. Haba

Tokskob2008:
Lol, me sef they think so too. Gasket got burnt, no be to buy another one and solve the overheating problem? why sell and buy another car entirely when it's not that the engine got knocked

Too much money dey worry the op.,.

Problem is some mechs will change the gasket and next thing, oil shortening will commence

Nonexisting1:
The nigga is dull. What awaits him in the UK is better imagined than experienced. I pity him because the wife he thinks he has is not a wife but a loose cannon. A woman that has jumped into the arms of another man in less than three weeks of her stay abroad is the person he is calling wife. She is already in love with the other nigga which is why she is looking out for his welfare but the mumu husband is still here talking rubbish.

Not necessarily. We mustn't read extreme meaning to everything

Carcholce:
No he’s right. The OP is really stupid. The more he’s on about all this, the more he’s giving the wife reasons to be whatever She wants to be over there.

He is insecure not stupid. Is it your marriage. Mind your choice of words

wealthpreach:
No rest, really? Loss is part of football. Deal with it.

I tire for the self acclaimed analyst

Give or take, his speech wasn't flowing. He doesn't have a perfect command of the queen's English and this will always remind the the Britons that he isn't original

Afamed:
The Pandora fraud has no idea about governance .Just jumping from 1 media house to another

SO he should mumu like you and tell everyone is security approach when he doesn't even have the mantle at hand. Continue

Registeredguest:
I'm a lady in my mid- twenties, I got married aged 22, (always wanted to marry early) on the second year of our marriage we were blessed with a baby, parked to our house and things were rosy. I have always been a workaholic due to that I have never lack as a young lady in terms of finance.

I have always helped him in his house projects, might not be much 100k, 50k, 20k when need be. I never siphoned my money to myself, as a young lady I envisioned my pretty little family on my head, (3 children, handsome husband and pretty wife with a fine car living happily)

Now to the main problem,I think it all started when he told me he has seen a genuine plot of land that we should buy it together, I told him no, I want the land all by myself I have money to pay for it, (just want to have something tangible for myself alone) he said no problem.He sent me an account number of the seller I sent 600k to the seller.we did the necessary documents and everyone was happy.

After some weeks, I decided to dig around his phone then I discovered that the account I sent the 600k to, refunded 200k back to my husband, woke him up instantly I demanded for an explanation.he story no make sense. I was heartbroken, for months I was hurt...the two families got involved and settled the issue.money I no see...

Ever since this issue happened,the home has not been peaceful, fighting everyday. I find it so difficult to forgive him. I insult him, he insults me, he broke my phone, I break his door...I was demanded for an apology he says
"I'm his wife, no be today man dey collect him wife money, he say woman go build house for him husband no ear no go hear" those things hurt me more... everyday was fight, I parked out,I went to my sister's place,he didn't call, he didn't reach out.

3 weeks after I parked I discovered I was pregnant,and informed him immediately through text.i stayed at my sister's place for 2 months no word from him... I decide to rent my own place,I rented a place and went to his house to park my remaining stuff,I meet him home,as soon as he sees I came with a truck to park my things he knelt down and started begging me...I was like,na today I commot for your house why now? He say he think say I dey play, he no think say I serious like this,for good two months you didn't say anything why now...with enough dragging I parked my things to my new rented apartment... since the day I park till now this man has not allowed me rest,his family members has been calling me to come back home, his dad came from the village to plead on his behalf.


My dad is insisting I should not go back...I'm now 6 months pregnant ,I need a father in my children's life.im finding it difficult to forgive him,I'm struggling within myself to forgive and trust this man again.

How can I let go of the past and move back with him...I decided to pay him a visit on Friday,he was happy I came,he did everything possible to show me he has changed but that feeling of betrayal and hurt is there.i left there this morning with querrell,I know I started the querrell,but I can't just seem to forgive him.please I need your help and advice on this pressing issue of mine.

No insult please, I have cried enough.

You created unnecessary issue out of it. Grow up and become an adult.

Zonefree:
Ukraine as a country has been acting like a manipulative bitchh. I stopped taking them serious when their president asked the world and NATO to close the sky against Russian invasion, like asif the sky is a pot of beans.

So you do not know that restrictions can be implemented in the sky

Corridon:
Relocate to where exactly? Lagos is congested already and you are telling people to relocate! Maybe for them to relocate to the lagoon.

You took this out of my out.
Obviously result of dormant institutions

She should first explain why she is crying. Obviously the guy said the truth. Why coming here to use appeal to pity format which is what most females do.
All that is required is to come and prove him wrong logically using facts, rather you came here shedding crocodile tears.
Please shift make we see road.

This guy should stop lieing. Haba

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DontBullshitMe:
The Inferiority complex of Nigerian women is staggering.

Using a blonde hair for a birthday photoshoot.

You are a black woman. You will never become white no matter how much you try.

And white will never become black no matter how they try. We are all unique

lhordspy:
Putin is just too good for this game.

I know this new law is targetted at those foreigners that are on ground in Russia to facilitate the release of Brittney Yevette Griner.

With this new law, that girl go tey for jail pass prison warder

Someone who is gay still had the effontery and gut to sneaked in cannibis into Russia, when the tension between Russia-US is at its peak. Double wahala .

After ending the 9years jail term for drug smuggling, she will face another charges for influencing sexual disorderliness for sure.

Russia say no to evil western cultures.
In Russia there will be only DAD and MuM .

Except she pushes for LGB..... in Russia