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PoliticsRe: Tinubu Storms Oyo 2 Welcome New Members To APC.See How Ajimobi Greeted Him(Pics) by BluntBoy(m): 5:39pm On Dec 16, 2017
biacan:
The gathering of thieves
Biacan!!
CelebritiesRe: Adesua Etomi Wellington Glows As She Rocks Denim Jean by BluntBoy(m): 5:26pm On Dec 16, 2017
gwama:
So you've already tasted Banky's dick undecided undecided

CelebritiesRe: Adesua Etomi Wellington Glows As She Rocks Denim Jean by BluntBoy(m): 5:15pm On Dec 16, 2017
safarigirl:
shocked..oga, this one you wey you sabi Banky size....I fear you o
Perhaps, he is gay cheesy
EducationRe: Primary 3 Exam Question About Buhari & Jonathan: Unfair or Not? by BluntBoy(m): 5:09pm On Dec 16, 2017
That teacher needs to be sacked. What sort of a stupid question is that?

Questions are meant to demand answers that are as objective and/or factual as possible.

The answer to that question is debatable and should not be among multiple-choice questions. It should be a question where students are given the opportunity to make a point for the choice they pick. What the teacher has done is force his preference down the throats of his/her pupils.
RomanceRe: When Your Girlfriend Starts Crying Out Of Love, See gifts she bought after that by BluntBoy(m): 5:01pm On Dec 16, 2017
lolipopandy:
okay you noticed
I am sorry. I was just pulling your leg. Don't mind me.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 4:56pm On Dec 16, 2017
Next2Bezee:
Doctor oversabi, you were the one that brought psychological disorders to the topic. The only symptom the OP highlighted was that the girl was quiet and you rapidly assumed it was schizophrenia.

If being quiet was what we had to go by, then it could possibly be a myraid of psychological disorders.

Again i repeat, You DID NOT pay her school fees. There is no law forcing anyone to show etiquette. If the OP does not like it, she can move to another room. But you need sense asap, i wonder how you have survived until now no brain power at all. shocked
It is obvious that you didn't read the OP but depended on some of the comments here to display your staggering level of ignorance and lack of proper education.

The OP never complained about quietness. As a matter of fact, the OP wrote that everyone in the room liked minding their businesses but that the girl in question was really something else. Get it into your thick skull: the OP wrote that everyone in the room liked minding their businesses but that this girl was something else. The OP never complained about quietness and I never said quietness was a symptom of a psychological problem.

These were the strange behaviors of the girl as highlighted by the OP:

1. The girl always stared at everyone like she has got trust issues. (Which made me suggest that she might be suffering from catatonic schizophrenia).

2. She was always glancing over her shoulders like she is scared that somebody was going to stab her or something. (Which made me suggest that she might be suffering from paranoid schizophrenia).

3. She never talks.

Where you saw quietness is what baffles me because the OP never mentioned quietness.

You just wasted my time. Next time, do well to read the OPs very well before spewing nonsense.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 11:14am On Dec 16, 2017
Next2Bezee:
And those symptoms could also pass for a bipolar defect, so your assumption is way out if line ...considering you now decided to claim that someone you didn't know is a murderer.

I do not see where the OP has expressed a desire to take some time and try to befriend the quiet girl and here you are, comparing her with murderers.

Your argument is as primitive as it gets, i will tell you what i typed to the OP....You did not pay her school fees...so your epistle is crap. As long as someone doesn't not nose into the matter of others, even if they are aloof, then they are minding their business oga and that doesn't make them a hermit.

If you're thinking if forcing everyone to socialize, then you need more than just an education. You need sense.
Bro, use your commonsense now cheesy

You said the symptoms could pass for bipolar defect (whatever they means). You are stating a possibility, not a fact. So, why use your statement of possibility to rubbish my own statement of possibility. Na which school you attend sef? cheesy

Anyway, I wrote that "she could murder them in their beds if she had paranoid schizophrenia.

The bold indicate possibility and not certainty. I never said with certainty that she was suffering from schizophrenia. I only said that it was possible that she was suffering from schizophrenia.

No one said people should be forced to socialize but when someone cannot even exhibit proper etiquette (like saying hi to those with whom you share a roof), then, you are either rude, untrained or suffering from some psychological problems.

I insist that you need to go back to school, my friend.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 10:12am On Dec 16, 2017
Yinkakatty:
I also need you to understand that people exhibit different behaviours that can make you dislike them in the hostel. For example, in my second year, in my hostel, Gas isn't allowed, we use stove. Now, I have cold easily and right in my small room of six people, my roommates cook and also turn off their stoves in the room with no consideration whatsoever for other people. Mind you, there is a kitchen. How do you expect me to cope with such people? She's here to tell just her side, don't make hasty judgement .
You are the one making hasty judgement, my sister. I am still wondering how you concluded that the OP is the sort of person who does not mind her business.

It is usual to have problems with roommates and by extension people in the social settings like workplaces and schools. The reason is because of differences in a lot of things, from personality to habits. But there are ways we can get along rather than cutting off people, especially people with whom you share a roof. That is why we have communication. Communication is how we solve conflicts. Conflicts will always arise in our relationship with others, even with our siblings, but is cutting them off the best bet? Of course, not.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 10:05am On Dec 16, 2017
Yinkakatty:
There are two sides to a story bruhhh ... She came here to rant about how the girl isn't talking to them buh have you ever seen anyone with no association whatsoever? Even if it's just a friend, she will have. Why is she friends with that one friend? They have something in common!

People like Op are people that don't know how to mind their business and they feel like everyone should be like them. In my experience, I have friends, acquaintances, but it's a hostel filled with different personalities. If your person and my person don't align, how can we be friends?
Too many contradictions and much hypocrisy in your post. You admonished me to always hear both sides of a story but failed to practise what you preach. How did you know that OP does not mind her business?

I think the problem with you and many others on this thread is emotions. You are letting emotions run high and blind you from seeing the essense of the OP's call for help.

The OP is not wanting friendship. She never wrote that she wanted the girl's friendship. She wrote because of the girl's antisocial behavior which included staring, not talking and always looking over her shoulders. Friendship is a hard thing to form but common etiquette like greeting shouldn't be a problem among people who are not even friends but are roommates.

I have not taken the side of the OP against the girl. All I have done is work on the available story. Unlike you who has jumped into many unverifiable conclusions cheesy

If I am mistaken, you can show me where the OP complained that the girl denied her friendship.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 9:27am On Dec 16, 2017
Next2Bezee:
Why are some Nigerians like this? Uncle are you the one that gave her schizophrenia?? huh

Somebody is busy minding her business and you're saying she may be deadlier than a snake, you and the OP should better drop this primitive village way of thinking. Even if they just brought you people from the village, there is no need to showcase it to everybody.
Get some education.

I never said she certainly had schizophrenia. I only said she could be suffering from schizophrenia considering how the OP described her behavior. One of the symptoms could pass for that of paranoid schizophrenia.

Go and check the lives of famous serial killers like Gein and Richard Chase, all of them had psychological problems, especially antisocial personality disorder.

Lastly, not talking is now the same thing as "minding your business"huh You people have really abused the phrase "minding your business". Minding your business does not mean being aloof. Minding your business does not mean you should live like a hermit in a social setting. Hermits live alone. If you want to be a hermit, then you need to leave the social setting and go and live alone in a secluded building in a forest or somewhere. Someone shares a room with four people on campus; she is always staring and not talking and you call that "minding your business"? Even the whites who brought up all this "mind your business" stuff still respect common etiquette like, at least, saying hi to roommates and the authorities encourage them to report strange behaviors and movements.

There is nothing primitive about my argument. There are people who spend years studying others (psychologists and psychiatrists). If we all decide to always interpret strange or antisocial behaviors as merely a result of different backgrounds or as an act of "minding your business", then, why do we need psychologists, social workers and psychiatrists?
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 9:04am On Dec 16, 2017
Next2Bezee:
Don't you resemble an antelope yourself?

The girl has not done anything to you and has chosen to stay on her own, but some water spirits will still not allow her rest.

If you can't stand her then you can move to another room, afterall you are not paying her school fees.
Bro, the OP is right to ask for help. The girl in question may be deadlier than a snake. She can murder them in their beds if she is suffering from paranoid schizophrenia.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 8:51am On Dec 16, 2017
Yinkakatty:
M in my final year and I think I've been exactly like your roommate for most of my stay on campus. You know the major problem you have? People like you tend to think that everyone is like you, you make noise, shout, gossip with other roomies about another roomies. Feel me? Want you to know people are different, y'all are from different backgrounds and it can't be thesame! Not everyone likes to gossip, not everyone likes noise and she's not bonding because you people don't have like minds, you know? She's probably thinking of how to become a billionaire and you are thinking of bonding grin
I think you should read the OP again.

That girl has some psychological issues that may need treatment.

First, she stares strangely (can pass as a symptom of catatonic schizophrenia).

Always looking over her shoulders (can pass for a symptom of paranoid schizophrenia).


Finally, while it is true that people are different, it is also true that we are made to live in a society. We are made to live together and not in isolation. The reasons why we are different is not for us to go and live separately but to live together and learn from one another. That is one of the reasons why they were even in the same room in the first place.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 8:37am On Dec 16, 2017
Hector09:
u got it wrong, my dad was a teacher nd he talks alot, my mum was d former women leader nd judge and my village, she is also a good talker if there is any words like that oo, my sibilings talks alot too, i cn remember my elder was sug spokes person during his time in skul, bt i choose to be difference, am born this way
You can talk and still be reserved. What matters is your coping mechanism.

I am also a reserved person but that does not mean that I wouldn't cope when life throws me into a situation where I am expected to relate with people. Left alone, I am a very quiet person, but that does not mean I don't have social skills.

There is an explanation for why you may be different in that regard to your siblings. Attachment styles also matter. Children who enjoyed a secure attachment style with their mothers always grew up to be sociable people.

I repeat, no child is born that way. I don't believe biology has anything to do with that aspect of our personality. It is just like saying someone is born to be a fervent Christian. You learn the fervency. It is all part of learning.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 8:28am On Dec 16, 2017
jamariwolf:
true. I also bliv that when a child is kept indoors always, this happens.
You are right about that.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 7:32am On Dec 16, 2017
Hector09:
bro some people are born that way, i luv isolating myself cus i enjoy it, bt i ve improved, i cn now interat with some one bt nt always
Nobody is born that way. The family is the first agent of socialization and that is where many people learn to be social or not. For instance, if the father is reserved and not very liberal, he may influence his child to be reserved. A violent and controlling father or mother may cause their child to develop narcissistic personality disorder which would include inferiority complex and a desire to control/bully others.
RomanceRe: When Your Girlfriend Starts Crying Out Of Love, See gifts she bought after that by BluntBoy(m): 6:07am On Dec 16, 2017
placeofallure:
Eeya, can't tolerate such anyway. Those gifts are like a reminder of what you'd be missing should you go back to your ex. I can't stay with you if you dangle your ex or her memories before me. It means you're not so much into me, before you know it, I'm gone! That's why in all my 3 decades of existence, I've never been heartbroken. No guy can rubbish me let alone me buying stuff to placate him, No!
Don't be too sure. Love can be a really mad thing cheesy
RomanceRe: When Your Girlfriend Starts Crying Out Of Love, See gifts she bought after that by BluntBoy(m): 6:04am On Dec 16, 2017
lolipopandy:
Dnt think this is love mtchewww just becareful cuz she seems desperate to me n she cnt stand going bk into the market in search for another man,so I'm just saying my own o cuz if I see such text in my mans phone mehn I only ask once n I'm done .buy gift bawo

RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 5:55am On Dec 16, 2017
Hector09:
My type, when i was in 100 level i dnt talk to any one in my room, thou we re just 4 cus thats d maximum, i just they mind my business ooo, my room mate start gossiping abt me, na that day i knw say boys can also gossip
How can you live in a room and not talk to roommates?

That is some psychological issue. You have a lot to benefit from people just as you may have a lot to lose as well. You can't be in a school and want to live like a hermit.

It is like my ex. She had problems in school, same as one of her roommates. She wouldn't talk to anyone and continued combating the problem all by herself while her roommate and some other girls and boys with similar problem had already solved theirs. It took amnesty for her to graduate. She and that roommate later became very good friends.
RomanceRe: I Have A Problem With My Roommate. Please Advice Pls by BluntBoy(m): 5:48am On Dec 16, 2017
jamariwolf:
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's most prestigious universities (name withheld, I love privacy) and we're just 6 in a room. Everything is going fine, everyone minding their biz but this particular something creeps me out. She's always and constantly in the room (except for class hours) , staring at everyone (like someone's who's got extreme trust issies). She's always looking over her shoulders like someone is coming to stab her or something, and the worst part, she never speaks to anyone.

You know the saying 'Fear the most quiet person in the room'?
Oh yeah, I'm tired. No roomie bonding at all and I need a break from her black face. We have just two months(after December) before we go separate ways but I can't take it no more..
RomanceRe: I Really Really Really Really Really Really Really Appreciate Y'all by BluntBoy(m): 5:17pm On Dec 15, 2017
iamJ:
lets not even begin, I saw the thread, u were gossiping, anytin said in the absence of the person being discussed is gossip, lets not even begin ur mata, just learn to mind ur biz next time
But you mentioned us in our absence. How about that? I was offline at the time you mentioned me.
RomanceRe: I Really Really Really Really Really Really Really Appreciate Y'all by BluntBoy(m): 5:15pm On Dec 15, 2017
Dasherz:
for a dude with so much controversies... I'd rather not
Sorry, my Dash. I just thought you should see his post. cheesy
RomanceRe: She Claims That She's A Nairalander(pics) by BluntBoy(m): 4:15pm On Dec 15, 2017
kimbraa:
He's leading 'cause he does it often while Caringguy does it once in a while. But the Caringguy of a moniker stands a better chance of taking Airforce1 off the streets if he's consistent with with, and his looks is a plus for him. grin
You are right. Caringguy could run Airforce off the street of attention-seeking very soon.
SportsRe: Lionel Messi Blasts Super Eagles by BluntBoy(m): 4:04pm On Dec 15, 2017
Messi never blasted Nigeria. Go and read up the original article properly. He sees Nigeria as a major threat but believes that Argentina will qualify.
RomanceRe: I Really Really Really Really Really Really Really Appreciate Y'all by BluntBoy(m): 10:42am On Dec 15, 2017
iamJ:
the op is my online friend but if you notice I don't pretend, friend of foe if u're wrong I will say it, gave him benefit of doubt that's why I said u people were wrong and lied Abt events

We are both saying the same thing lack of oxygen causes coma, it's lack of oxygen in the brain not organs oga, I asked a real doctor not Google

I don't have time or strength this morning to dig but I know I saw it, bluntboy and dashez were gossiping Abt me on Julie on a thread and I saw it

He stands to gain nothing from it, just like airforce gains nothing from his threads people just like to be the center of attention

If somtin bad happened to him, I'm glad he is ok but u guys made it look fake
How does one gossip on a public forum? Your sense of importance is more than slightly deluded.

CC. Dasherz

RomanceRe: Who Has Met Safiaa Offline? I Think A Male Is Behind The Moniker by BluntBoy(m): 8:54pm On Dec 14, 2017
Zartyr:
I think safiaa is a male hiding behind a female moniker.

If you have proof that the person behind the moniker is an actual female, and this proof indicates that you've met her offline or communicated with her over Skype or a form of video messaging then bring the proof forward. If no one has this kind of proof, then it's safe to assume that safiaa is just a troll and any guy hiting on her is hiting on his fellow guy.

Let's all be wise please. Stop giving jobless trolls a chance to deceive us.
She doesn't come across as a troll.
RomanceRe: "I Was Drunk, A Man Took Me To His House & Bathed Me Without Touching Me" - Lady by BluntBoy(m): 6:10pm On Dec 14, 2017
LessNoise:
Just say u wan the handle grin
No o. She is a friend. She is not on IG.
RomanceRe: "I Was Drunk, A Man Took Me To His House & Bathed Me Without Touching Me" - Lady by BluntBoy(m): 6:06pm On Dec 14, 2017
LessNoise:
(1) Really bro if you had sex you wouldn't know not to talk of the lady collecting the D

(2) If u ff the chick on IG you'd no she's HAWT!!!!! Why is everybody using the word UNCLAD I mean wtf does Tha Mean.....true tho NA...KED women don't fancy my attention anymore buh this particular girl would make u use Vaseline jus checking her pics
On IG?

Music/RadioRe: Biggest Moments In Nigerian Music Industry In 2017 by BluntBoy(m): 5:33pm On Dec 14, 2017
The biggest moments in the Nigerian music industry in 2017 were:

1. When Dino Melaye released his award-winning acapella "Ajekun Iya" which took over major streets in Nigeria.

2. When Senator Adeleke overthrew Michael Jackson as the king of dance.
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CrimeRe: Female Thief Caught And Disgraced In Ijebu Ode, Ogun State by BluntBoy(m): 1:05am On Dec 14, 2017
Annibel:
Everything must get comma.. cute girl... but stealing. thus world self..
The bold shocked

RomanceRe: My Chest Is Too Big. Help. PICS by BluntBoy(m): 9:07pm On Dec 13, 2017
Mrbolt555:
Its too big
Bro, you are too old for this nonsense na. O je ma ya omo ale kale. Anu e o se mi. Shio!!

PhonesRe: "Nigerian Twitter Is Full Of Misspellings" - American Guy. Nigerians React by BluntBoy(m): 5:17pm On Dec 13, 2017
sirBLUNT:
ur sef why not complete it "yourself" ur why not "your" this is exactly my point..so who is guilty now? bro abeg swerve!!!

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