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AmazonTopaz:
I am telling you

I even found out that her bitterness did not start with the late Queen she came for TB Joshua and a lot of people too.
That is not how to talk particularly for an academician.

Really.

Her intelligence stops at her education, it doesn't extend to wisdom. She's too bitter and angry. Not a good look. The language stunt is to water down her persona.

The good thing is that her outbursts are only for dead people. That way there won't be more bitterness sown in her wake.

Kobicove:
What exactly is she trying to prove?

By the way why is it that a lady as beautiful as this is a lesbian?!

Aren't all lesbians ugly, old, misandrist, masculine feminists on Nairaland?

gaby:
She spoke our language here too...


https://www.nairaland.com/7326341/throwback-igbomen-suck-dry-not#116545129


What a rare gem and natural talent.

She had it all to go far and beyond where she currently is at but she just might have messed all of it up....

Kai

Na we humans dey set ourselves up for failure by ourselves most of the time...

She went about it the absolute wrong way...

This right here is the quality and cv for a UN secretary-general position but she successfully threw all of that out the window...

Such a bitter and vengeful person can't be the UN sec general.

ecolime:
Note, my boyfriend is aware of the whole situation. he himself is confused. plus I am 23 yrs old just incase my age will aid in the diagnosis

Meaning you are having unprotected sex. You girls never seem to learn.

And the guy is confused. Really? Lol. What won't one read on this forum.

Mindlog:
It is dumbfounding, people creating threads on issues that urgently require specialist care which they already know of.

I'll never understand how they come about their posts. Maybe they want to hear what they want to hear, that's why they don't simply go to the hospital. Everyday one growth or skin condition or pregnancy symptom or the other. They never learn. We're lucky she isn't sending the graphic images of it.

cococandy:
He’s probably not gay. He doesn’t seem the have the mannerisms (I’m sorry to stereotype them) but who knows.

I think what happened was that it was first noticed in the gay community. So naturally you know someone somewhere has to make it into a negative point against those people. Just like Covid is “China virus” and Ebola is “African disease”.

Yeah, he doesn't look gay. Maybe he simply wasn't cautious of the virus' transmission. Kind of like how people get chicken pox without intending to, and without doing anything much to get it.

cococandy:
It’

It’s actually spread by contact. Anyone can get it by close contact. So even if you’re straight and someone has it, you can catch it by contact.
Don’t want you people to relax and not take precautions thinking that being straight gives immunity to it. You can literally get it from touching their clothes. Please be careful and stay safe out there.

Yes of course sex is one of the closest forms of physical contacts there are. So if one gay person has it, then can give it to their gay partner. But guess what? So can straight people. So be safe y’all
https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/if-sick/transmission.html

I understand that. Just curious if he's gay. Because the disease is being paraded as another gay sex disease, much like HIV, yet it's still transmissible to others.

tolufase:
Perhaps you should also refer them to the popular book "how Europe underdeveloped Africa". Most people don't know that these European countries particularly Britain did more harm than good to African countries

I guess Africa was a space faring continent when the Europeans came across it and underdeveloped the place. That's just awful.

Revolution2022:
Constituency funds.

You have to give it to him, he knows how to enjoy his "wealth". Interesting guy.

Is he gay?

Mindlog:
Why have you not gone to see a gynecologist so far?

Help us ask. As if this forum is a hospital when it's full of cockroaches and mechanics who will give non-medical advice.

etrange:
Dude, gender has no role in IQ. Nothing you write here remotely invalidate that fact. You can go on and on on your quest for supremacy, but take it or leave it, environmental factors and other genetic factors determines intelligence, not gender.

You are preaching to a deaf choir. They really believe that men were born with more brains. One can only wait to see the hypocrisy when their daughters are born.

etrange:
I'd like to believe you didn't read my text carefully cause anything other than this would imply you have an issue with comprehension, and you appear more intelligent than that. Please, read the comment you quoted. I said "other genetic factors". The word "other" invariably excludes gender.

The genetics factors I was referring to are those those that can be passed from parents (regardless of gender) to thier offspring (regardless of gender). We've seen very intelligent women who got the trait from thier fathers. We've also seen very intelligent men who got the trait from thier mothers. This is enough to tell you gender has not role when it comes to IQ. The gender of a baby is a game of chances that revolve around the chromosome contributed by the male partner. A man may have higher tendency of having a girl child based on his gene. A man can also have higher tendency of having an intelligent child based on his gene. The intelligence of this baby does not reduce based on gender result. There no single empirical evidence to support that.

Again, that environmental factors work with genetics is not the bone of contention. The bone of contention is if men will always come out more intelligent when subjected to the same factors as the opposite gender and the answer is NO. You can't send your male child to school and marry off your girl child, and then come back tomorrow to say men are more intelligent just because the guy can speak better English. You can't have the girl do all the house chores and expect the same results with the boy. These are some of the factors I was referring to.

The most extensive study on intelligence curve in the US is The Bell Curve by psychologist Richard J. Herrnstein and political scientist Charles Murray. And they propose that by removing race, gender or class as criteria (via the establishment of free primary education and the prohibition of discrimination) the main criteria of success in academic and professional life is primarily based on individual cognitive ability. So you can argue this as much as you want, but the truth is, intelligence has absolutely nothing to do with gender. There are so many research papers on the subject of "why girls get better grades in school" and most of them end up with circumstantial factors as the reasons. So it's mind-blowing for someone to slightly suggest boys are naturally more intelligent

Good evening to you too.

When I posted something similar, tech bros began writing epistles that avoided the point and "I cannot respond to women"sentiment. Lol. The truth is something they never want to relate with.

They claimed that females don't like tech, that they hate it and aren't intellectual enough for it because their brains can't handle it. I asked them if they pushed her into tech and not the kitchen, if she wouldn't be able to stand up in tech. Ensue the first paragraph.

Your submission is emotional and female by their standards. Expect them to give themselves numerous likes and talk over your post. That way it's only what they're thinking that they will ever know.

etrange:
A good deal of NL members are men, that's very obvious. However, there are more ladies than you think. They just don't comment on threads due to the intense misogyny going on here. The guys are always on every thread abusing and sexualizing women. To some of these guys, it's fun; to others, it's way to make themselves feel better about thier own underachieving life; while the rest just want to belong. You see threads where men commit all sorts of crimes, and we all gather to criticize the men in question (though we sometimes foolishly make it about thier tribes or religion). However, when a lady is the culprit, it becomes a gender thing for the guys. You'd read "fear women", "Nigerian women are wicked", "Nigerian girls are useless", "olosho", etc. Even on threads where women are doing great, you'd still read "this one punna go sweet o", "her husband dey enjoy o", and other expressions that objectify them and undermine thier achievements. These comments are made by people who complain thier tribes are being marginalized or that the white man is a racist. Yet they boldly make these misogynistic statements without identifying them as discriminatory.

It has become so normal that while mods are fighting tribalism, nobody really cares about the sexism. Words have power. It's easy to speak someone into depression/anxiety or low self esteem. It's easy to spoil someone's day with words. These words can make someone give up because regardless of what they do, the outcome is the same. I mean, if I were a lady, I'd stay away from such a demoralizing platform. So some of these ladies decided to leave the platform for the guys. Some are still here but hardly comment. Others have removed the gender identifier or even identify as male. I mean, look at it, the other day, someone created a thread asking why we have many women on the BBN thread. He called them jobless. The person forgot that the rest of NL including the dirty sexuality section are filled with men. It's becoming increasingly difficult for the ladies here. It's as if we're going back to those days where women had to use thier husbands' names or even fake male names to advance thier achievements like Margaret Keane, Trotula of Salerno, Jocelyn Bell Burnell, Lise Meitner and numerous others.

That's what they want, to pass misogynist comments so that women stay off and it becomes their online man cave where they can hate women freely and pretend it's not going on. The worst are the ones who post with punctuation, yet they just want to spread and smear everything about women with their daily hate. Watch them post long epistles on nothing but deriding and preaching toxicity at females. In fact, their reason for that will be misandrist whataboutism. That will be their sole focus so that they can avoid the truth about their misogyny. Their selective amnesia is so that they can continue as they've been doing and cheer each other on. How many misogynist users are there compared to misandrist ones?

Sometimes I think it's teenage boys, but then you'll know some are just depressed, bitter incels at work.

The forum isn't worth it.

Not even the technology section. That one is filled with people that know some commands yet live harrowingly backwards, egotistic, misogynistic lives. In there, they believe women know nothing and that they know everything. Yet they wonder why no females are commenting. But when they do, they want to talk them out. After all, women weren't born with any brains but men were.

This place is another 4-chan. Misogyny is its only fuel.

https://www.nairaland.com/7302747/what-does-bible-say-makeup#116108815

https://www.nairaland.com/7302747/what-does-bible-say-makeup#116107481

https://www.nairaland.com/7326737/woman-assaults-police-officer-lagos#116552237

https://www.nairaland.com/7325813/miss-ekiti-bolarinde-roseline-wins#116534081

https://www.nairaland.com/7324880/caf-womens-champions-league-bayelsa#116520794

https://www.nairaland.com/7324200/pregnant-woman-asks-guests-without#116504566

https://www.nairaland.com/7323183/19-year-old-brazilian-lady-gives-birth#116483584

https://www.nairaland.com/7323044/bride-trips-falls-friend-tries#116481262

https://www.nairaland.com/7298517/eedris-abdulkareem-thanks-wife-yetunde#116040202

https://www.nairaland.com/7285589/hard-female-software-programmers/2#115883587

https://www.nairaland.com/7285589/hard-female-software-programmers/1#115822198

The usual stale drivel. And let's not forget the gibberish men on the forum can spill. Behold the chief arguer on the thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/7285589/hard-female-software-programmers/1#115801675

Blind bigotry. If it isn't what they think, they don't want to know.

samonak:
What do you expect from a bitter Lesbian?

Aren't lesbians always ugly, expired, unwanted, masculine women any more? Or is she only bitter? Have Nairaland men forgotten what they say lesbians are?

It's interesting how you all skirt around that part. Also good to see Nigerians support a lesbian. There's hope for you all.

searchng4love:
I can't be discussing a chronic lesbi@n who abandoned her family for ......this



I won't be responding to mentions on her matter henceforth

This explains a lot.

She's a sacred cow, and sacred cows say a lot of hateful, intolerant things then turn around to say that they are being victimized. Expect diatribes about the rainbow nation from her if things don't go her own way.

IamMobisola:
So basically you are saying those who have fertility issues don't deserve to have children or those who opt for artificial insemination?

Help us ask them.

deolumike:
You better check yourself into an asylum and get proper treatment before you degenerate into full psycho and murder an innocent boy-child.

You have allowed hate to possess you beyond your control.

Wish you could post this under posts from male users who post a lot worse things about girls as children. But, of course, that isn't considered hate. This is.

freddie009:
She did what is best for herself, but was this decision best for the child?

Yes. Some children are born to widows so it makes no difference if she births and raises the child herself. Once she's ready for motherhood, nothing will stop her from being a good mother.

ednut1:
This is why their society is getting scattered by the day. Imagine a child not knowing his father and finding out its from a donor. Na there mental illness dey start

What is wrong with what she did? Mental illness doesn't come from artificial insemination.

parkervero:
This movie was overhyped in the year 2016

Lol.

Farfalla:
A 20-year old Nigerian girl is already attracted to men who can give her material stuff. She will probably not pursue Telemundo love at the expense of wealth/comfort. Whatever gift she receives from a man serves as an index of his love for her.
- 2K recharge = man likes me
- An expensive phone = man loves me
- A big car = man loves me very much
- A trip to Accra = man loves me
- A trip to Maldives = man loves me very much
- Residential property in Lekki = man is my soulmate

Naija girls know who to pick and who to avoid very early in life because they have this dire need to glitter and glitter they will. I guess it's what the other gender refer to as entitlement mentality.

But you see the rest of us? Zimbabwéans, Ugandáns, Kényans, Maláwians, Tánzanians (mumu of them all), SÁ, Congolése, Rwandése, Éthiopians, Mozambiçans, Zambîans? We are generally hopeless. A yeye man, let's call him 'Ken', will come with very sweet words and the girls of these countries will fall for him. All he needs to do is hold her waist like one Alejandro or Eduardo in Telemundo, look into her eyes, tell her sweet nothings, kiss her sensitive spots and seal it with mind-blowing sex. That's it. A new pair of "soulmates" are unleashed into the world. No iPhone, no 2K recharge, no trips to exotic locations. Just pure love, devoid of materialism.

As time goes by, reality sets in (at 31) and she finds herself in either of these two situations;
1. Ken is now her husband and she, the breadwinner of her family. They cannot chop love. Ken is now very comfortable being a kept man while she's busy forwarding his unsellable CV to her acquaintances.
2. Ken somehow managed to put himself together in the course of their courtship, acquired some finances, but married some other lady he's "compatible" with. The universe never rewarded her for foregoing materialism, rather, it rewarded the lady who wanted the glitter and went for it.

Either way it suddenly hits the lady that Telemundo romance isn't reality and that financial stability in a man is a crucial aspect in relationships/marriage, despite the demonisation of gold-diggers. However, she's acquired this new-found knowledge at 32, while a Nigerian girl already knew this at 22.

Prrrrreach!

parkervero:
This is the most stupid India movie I ever watched

You watch Indian movies? People actually do that?

etrouble:
True definition of poverty

If you mean the flesh, no.

Magnoliaa:
Did you learn or you're being influenced by mass opinion? If I was a young boy looking up to you, I would never find you worthy of emulation, 'cause both your misogyny and attempts to virtue-signal and be politically correct are wildly flailing without direction.

On the other thread, you were talking about how most women are st*pid (including Dr. Anya), but now she's suddenly right to you?

Which is influencing which sef- I don't get-. You just so badly want to have a comeback without even thinking your responses through. You wanted to shine as a misogynist then, you insulted her. You want to form like an enlightened black man now, and you suddenly think Uju was right??

Uju never even literally addressed black people or their thinking, smh.

Lol.

That KRISS guy is one of the most obfuscated 'like' chasers. Although most misogynists only have use of women who support what they also support, his case is glaring. It's interesting to note he began as a pseudo-feminist, so that when he began posting misogynist trash it would look like he was well meaning and just being sincere.

They can be contradictory right now then agreeable the next. What a forum.

SKIBiNSKI:
It boggles the mind, nigerians attacking another nigerian in support of a white man, these same nigerians will cry racism by white people.

Good to know we should support people based on their skin color and not the content of their personal actions.

hush15:
While her comments maybe inappropriate for the monarch, we can't rule out her personal experience that lead to her conviction. It's not news that the royal family invades so many countries in their exploration days and this has altered the course of so many nations and lives were lost. Many have tried to recover from it and they are now better off for it while some are still struggling. Nigeria falls in the latter and we still feeling the impact till today.

This is too emotional for something as big as wars. You want to say her clan never hurt or killed anyone else in their history of existence? What if embittered descendants of those people come out to make claims just like hers? Wouldn't the world be full of foolish people if everyone is to dip into their pasts to lay blame and stoke hate to feel accomplished? Is hers the only place in the world to face war and death? All this black rememberance is getting old and pointless. The people dead and responsible are gone, is the way to build the world constant crying about decades old wars from the comfort of American professorial seats?

Black racism is the worst form of entitlement. The world was built on wars and crimes. In future the same will be said of her and her generation. Who will compensate the victims of the crusades? The victims of entry into the new continents since the dark ages?

If not for those invasions, she would be a 3rd wife in Okonkwo's hut cutting up the faces of obanje children and running naked without an internet to act woke on.

PharoahIII:
Some useless nigerians will come here to insult this wonderful prof Uju. Useless people that dont know their history. If only they know how the british empire ravaged and raped developing countries especially african countries. All the diamonds and gold used in making the so called crown jewels were lifted from africa. Useless people

And before the British empire sailed along Nigerian shores, who was facilitating wars in Nigeria 100s of years earlier? Weren't Africans still ravaging and raping themselves pointlessly, without building anything in sight? The way modern people act like conquest is evil, yet it is as old as humanity is irritating.

The same tribes that kept slaves are angry that white people used them as slaves? Blacks are always looking to reap where they didn't sow. Get back to Africa, shun our world if you are so aggrieved.

More black victimisation tales, yet they are enjoying what the colonials brought to them. Maybe you wanted other stick and stone wilding naked people to conquer you for you to believe it's justified. Some professor. Peace has made people stupid.

Pells:
She was looking like an ugly witch from Benin before she died
Enough of her story
She is gone and gone for good,you all should stop sucking her di#k
She was never an important person in Nigeria History

She was not ugly. She was one of the most beautiful women.

At her age she looked good. She was important, after all Nigerians all want to live in the UK.

Farfalla:
I can't even begin to imagine the age-shaming and slut-shaming that would come her way. I'm 100% sure they'd label her an ashawo who wants to remain single so she can prostitute herself to different men.

Or that she's a bitter old cargo who wasted her youth on irresponsible men and is now misadvising young girls because she can't find herself a man.

They'll even claim she's had numerous abortions for different men and that she will never be able to conceive, hence her bitterness.

There's no story on earth they'll not come up with.

I'm kind of surprised you know everything their one-track Neanderthal minds will come up with.

You, Farfalla, have nailed it. Over nailed it. The only thing you forgot to do was use the following in its variations as your first line before the epistle that will ensue contrary to it:

"I don't support the slavery/abuse/hatred of any gender among blacks, especially not females! Insert: (However), (but), (it must be said), (what happened here must be due to), (I normally don't), (sometimes), (I must say), (yet)...(any means you can think of to say the exact opposite of first sentence)"

Alusiizizi:
Don't play word games as I will not indulge you. Read my post. Men are supposed to protect/provide for women and children and as such they are beneath men. It is impossible to have your cake and eat it to. One cannot advocate for protection and equality at the same time.

LMAO. "Don't play word games" indeed. Is that a command or a wish from your fantasy? Why would anyone indulge your 1D submissions? When you post contradictory bias things it isn't word games, but once it's brought to your notice that you posted contradictory bias things you begin to sound commanding and don't want your word games to be scrutinized.

The day you realize you are wrong will be cold day in hell. You will be too proud to admit it and prefer living a lie. Nobody was born to be beneath anyone else or for their pleasure. Nobody will stay beneath anyone else. You mistake living, thinking, breathing people—women —for animals. You think you need money so that you can own one. Protection indeed.

You don't like feminists because they've diminished your "authority" hence your hate and war against them, roping them into everything you feel is wrong in your world. Every topic leads back to your true problem: women.

What protection? What equality? Blame women, meanwhile don't be men. Keep looking for what you cannot even give God, yet you want it from women. It's amusing.

Men and the internet are truly a bad mix.

Welcome to Nairaland, 4-chans junior brother.