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Badgers14:
You might also spend an eternity wondering why you lost her, why you couldn't take things easy for few months

Most of them are looking for perfect women, so one little incident and they are already rattling their blades of war. They are very unrealistic.

We don't have reasonable men anymore. Most are just a caricature full of selfishness, inconsiderateness and other terrible characters to find in one man.

But they will spend their time condemning and castigating their female partners. They never look inwards.

The funny thing is that even in homosexual relationships, there is always the receiving party. Thus what they are doing here and in their lives offline is just dumb practice of baseless indoctrination.

NapoleonHill:
Even if you have plenty money, women like that will bring you down. By that time, it wouldn't be about food anymore. To remain rich, you have to have a conservative wife.

See how men love shifting the blame to women.

You make your money and claim to be in control of it and even deprive her of anything your ego and emotions dictate to you that she must not have as her owner, why then do you now seek to blame failure on her? Is the woman in your salary account too?

funshint:
Then he should tell her directly and stop disturbing us. After all these he'll still go and apologize to her. Abeg his problem.

Lol. You know very well what will happen. All these threads are to seem like champs.

wallrichy:
You can't really know a woman until you marry her into your house. Women are like chameleon that changes at every point of their lives. Imagine giving a woman some handsome money for change of her wardrobe and she's still asking you for fuel money for the car she's going to drive and returning empty without even buying just a mere boxer short or inner wear for you. Nigeria ladies need sense badly.....

Yes. Men are innocent little lambs and women are everything evil under the sun.

Next!

pmc01:
It wasn't intended as a test from the onset, obviously.

It's just situational reaction. Now he knows what to expect if he loses his source of livelihood while they are married.

Lol.

Just look at how boys transform the smallest of things into the biggest of things. What if she reacts differently to real life change situations? Because of food she didn't even eat, it means if he loses his source of livelihood that she will... Give him everything to eat.

Half of you aren't ready for marriage. Look at what a male mind can conjure from such a simple incident, if it is true. The other half are scared to be due to indoctrination.

Animegirl:


Men with their Yeye way of testing a lady. I don't see any wrong in what your girl did na.

I mean if you have the money, why not spend it? Life isnt that deep abeg. Nigerian men should actually calm down.

See how you made her the wicked person here because she refused to eat your 1500 food.

Reason why most of you have failed relationship/marriage. Small issue both of you can resolve, know her reason and let her know yours, instead you turned it to Russia and Ukraine war.

Just say you want a new girl and move with your wahala.

Preach.

Premiumwriter:
Why not sit her down and talk instead of all these tests.

If you want to start cutting cost. Tell her straight.

Seriously, I don't understand all these testing of a thing.

Even Jesus say do not tempt the lord your God.

Talk more of you testing another person. And you are just going to judge her by just one act?

Stop the tests? Do you want men to stop living?

The whole story is even a stupid one.

LordIsaac:
What a home!

If you can believe the story. He's not saying the truth.

Lazy red pill toxic over-entitled man. Imagine what he does to his exes.

Atk1nson:
Some Nigerians never learn. You still want chinmark to tell you a "story"?

I bet you another one will rise up today and they will troop into it and even abuse those that warn them.

Someone is paying 50% - 100% a year "guaranteed"...what business is that? For him to pay 100% a year , he probably should make 150-200% a year guaranteed.

If he makes that much , why doesnt he just go to the bank or even MFB and take a loan of 15-20%, why will he keep corwdfunding expensive fund from investors expecting 100% a year.

Furthermore , this person who runs a business that can provide ROI of 200% keepings raising money from investor every hour, every day, every month and every year as though the projects are limitless.

They never learn.

Every 3 months another one springs up. Every year, more tears. It's funny. Will they ever learn? Or are the forces of greed and laziness that strong?

Who puts all their money in a Ponzi scheme? People are too lazy and greedy.

Daboooomb will tell you that it is the "wise" like himself who do.

Imagine this woman saying that she wanted to hear what the scammer had to give as his excuse for running away with their funds. Are Nigerians for real? She said she didn't want to join others in insulting him. Lol.

Reflect7:
A superstitious colour-based belief caused by colonial brainwashing.

Black and other dark skin is caused by the heavenly BLESSING of a chemical called Melanin.

It is what prevents you from dying of sun-related diseases and skin ailments.

God, in his infinite wisdom gave you MELANIN as a protective element, which is why people are darker-skinned the closer they are to the Equator.

India, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh, South America all have melanin-enriched populations.

The sunniest continent, Africa, has people with the highest concentration of the heavenly chemical from the Almighty.

WITHOUT that melanin, YOU would not be alive today because your ancestors would have perished thousands of years ago.

Every day you wake up, THANK YOUR MAKER for making you black.

Ok.

Every commenter here is black and proud?

Which ancestors? Do you know where people ancestors come from? Think outside the box.

With all that melanin, who is and has developed the world around you that you feel entitled to as a melanin producer?

tensazangetsu20:
So why has the western world always been developed and others poor?

Because they are white. It's so simple.

PaulOtl:
' a hotel room ' is the right way of saying it.
I noticed that a lot of people make that error.

I wonder.

Mathiasa:
I wish my dad do the same. I lost my mom long time ago and dad still looks young but no woman at all. I feel sorry for him at times.
You should be happy for him.

And who told you that he doesn't have his fixnof women when he needs them? You're seeing him through the eyes of a child, not the eyes of a man.

Gamesmart:
See the dumb Simp doing his simping.

Oya, let me put you on the spot, Simp.

Highlight 10 sensible points that apatheticme has stated if you truly believe she was making sense.

This boring anthem again?

Grow up. Be a man. Change.

Bye Felicia.

Obinnasmart:
If she was in her house,will the man come there and kill her,if he did ,am sure it would have been more easier to catch him,help us to help u ..why re u even sounding bitter and taking it personal..must i say everything ...be calming down abeg..nobody collect ur thing

Even if she was in her house, how many times have men not burst in to rape, kill and rob women? What of Uwa who was murdered in a church? Or hiny Umoren who was lured in the name of a job?

You people just want to claim it is their fault, but you have never scrutinized the bastards behind it. Or are they your colleagues in the profession? The little girl murdered by the proprietor of her school, what do you say her crime was? She wasn't at home, right?

Who said it is personal when people point out the lopsided sort of comments you have been posting?

Focus on stopping murderers, rather than blaming the victims. Focus on the MEN behind the evil, or are you avoiding something? Beyond a heart, develop a thinking culture.

respect80:
I couldn't help but laugh at the bolded
So now I be runs guy abi?
It's all in your head sir... Enjoy your day

You will be surprised at the stupidity of many commenters on such topics.

Obinnasmart:
And u think its only men that kill,whats with u guys and gender and tribalistic stuff..if its not sexism,its tribalism..whether man or woman,we condemn..but then be at the right place at the right time..she might not be a runs girl,some of this girls u find in the hotel are all not runs girls ,some are drug peddlers ,some are girls used in blackmail , some re pastors that come to preacj for u in ur room

Statistically, who murders more?

Stop hiding from facts with your one in a million cases. It's disgusting.

Legendoo:
Oya go and bring her from the dead since they shouldn't stop prostituting to strangers on the net who are likely to murder them.

I should talk to my gender bah, no be the same sex obsessed men dey carry these women go hotel to murder them but your frustration is with folks like me telling these women to be careful cos everywhere don red.

Continue, them go Kill you tire .

Until you address the need for men to stop murdering women for whatever reason, you will continue to hear the truth.

You talk as if you don't have females in your family. You think these murderers care if they are walking to church or to cater at an occasion. Address the murderous men or the problem has not been dealt with. You are only playing with the symptoms.



It is yourself they will do in tirelessly.

Obinnasmart:
Yes a runs girl has the right to life and also family has the right to demand for justice.. people should just be careful of how we live life...i have never heard that a girl in her room was killed and such happens,it is much easier to find the killer, where they for wan start for this one..it is sad ..i dont wish death for anyone or pain but people need be calming down..this same night ,u will still see someone after reading such news hooking up with a man he doesn't know and going to a room with him..God help all of us

Have you forgotten uwa? Or hinnyUmoren?

You people just talk because you think everything is about girls hiding indoors while men prowl the streets looking for how to kill them and you never question the men's motives and actions.

Obinnasmart:
Am sorry but dont compare her with that of chinelo, everyone knows ..u see,thats the reason when they tell people to be mindful life they live, they turn to insult you,what is a 21 years old doing in a hotel room ,she had a visitor so am assuming killed her,she has no luggage,hotels have bars and open spots if need come that u wanna discuss business,am a business man and the day my client invited me to his hotel and ask me to come inside his room help him pick some of his bags ,if u see the kind of fear that gripped a street man like me and i was just there wondering,so this is the same room this girls enter without even prior knowledge of there company..nawao..abuja de hot

When will you direct all your scrutiny to the man who murdered her? Are you scared to mention that part?

Legendoo:
This is one of those Snapchat girls, I been dey talk about. I don see am before sef.

They will be advertising toto to complete strangers on snap.

Please wetin you expect. We don talk tire but woke oliriburikus keep encouraging them.

You see now , them go Kill you tire . You think say na Western world you dey.

Rip though, nobody deserves to die like this but try and be using una sense . We don talk tire.

When will you condemn your gender for being murderers? Or is murder better than prostitution?

Whenever such a case turns up, rather than turning the heat on the murderous men, they will try and blame the victims. Guess murder isn't a crime to Nigerian men.

Torg77:
what probably happened is that they agreed 25k night but after he released he say na only 10k him get LOOOOOOL she starts to fight him maybe and then he battered her to death and strangled her

Tell us the funny part.

Fashionista01:
Nigerian girls learn to be independent to avoid untimely death.

Nigerian men learn to avoid being murderers.

Airsaylongcome, come and see this!

Isn't the lingua franca English in Nigeria? Yet see some responses. Most of these people can't speak, read or write correctly in their own languages, too.

apatheticme:
As in!!

Dude had nothing to say. All he could do was shifting the goal post and chanting simp everywhere like a broken record!

Mehn, I really don't envy the next generation, they'll have to deal with empty uncouth vessels like him.

Tufia!

I really pity the young ladies who will encounter these damaged boys. They will be dealing with willing sociopaths who will stop at nothing to be right in their wrongness.

The era of men is over. They are few and far between at this rate. Nowadays, we have deluded and embittered wimps and idiots masquerading as men because they have the organs, not because they really are.

Fairmedia:
I always thought about this, a lot of unsecured barren lands, easy for terrorist to take advantage of. We need to start thinking of what to do with our forests, and barren lands.

Like what, free grazing businesses for the assailants?

apatheticme:
I just taya!!

His mates are innovating, the only thing in his empty calvarium is "sex, fccking, simp, logical, emotional, opening the V, masculine, feminine"

Like wtf, how can someone still reason like this in 2022, so crass!

You forgot dic_k_wagging.

There's nothing new forum boys will come up with. They can't even hold intellectual discourse successfully beyond their dry red pill talking points.

This one is jershals apprentice, and he can't even learn the trade well.

Gamesmart:
Dick-wagging of a daft Simp.

Tell him to make a point now, he go run.

What point have you made since you began? Or you think it's your usual failed diversionary tactics that are the point?

You haven't logically faced anything apatheticme stated. You're only searching the online nooks and crannies for your mythical "simps". You haven't said anything beyond that. If you logically can't stay on point, what are you still doing looking for who to mention to soothe your frayed ideas?

You're a simpleton with undescended scrota. Change.

Gamesmart:
AAAAAAHHHHH!

National conference of regional General Secretaries of Simps Alliance!

(And I am sure they love being tagged "Secretaries" )

apatheticme, I hope you love your anal area being touched? Because these Simp Secretaries will kiss your ass die here.

You are free to say anything as senseless, illogical and idiotic as you want. The Simp Secretaries are here to validate you and your feelings.

Please just reward them with the great complements of "You are a .....................Real Man. So responsible and mature" every time they kiss your ass. They will have an orrgasm.

Professional Simps:
https://www.nairaland.com/7011620/women-abuja-protest-against-national/4#110696732

It's 2022.

The real men are moving mountains and developing the world, but you are here whining and chasing your tail while whimpering about simps?

You are a simpleton. Change.