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apatheticme:
What do you mean by sought??

Who planned what?? That only males should provide??

If anyone planned anything, then it's definitely you males. Cos over the years, y'all males are the ones who make patriarchal rules to run the society and pass down such rules from generation to generation, afterall it's a man's world.

So basically, twas planned that only your dad should cater for your family financially till date bah??

Dude, your argument is too damn shallow




So according to you a man (or should I say boy) arguing in a logical manner, using an exception or minority or self to generalize to an entire population means you're smart right??

For instance, your popular Mantra here; Nigerian girls are ........blah blah blah because a thread is created for instance about one girl or woman who did something bad! y'all would jump out and use a singular event to generalize!

Should we then posit for instance that all Nigerian men are rapists, once the news of a man raping a woman or even a minor surfaces?? Mr logical argument??



As far as you Incels/MGTOW/Alfa Mails are concerned, no Nigerian woman must be doing well as far as marriage is concerned on this forum, she must be lying!! It can't be true, since y'all are allergic to good news and desperately latch onto bad news and celebrate it to prove a point to your deluded selves that you're on the right track!!

Well, I said what I said!! You can believe it or not, that's your own headache.



It is you Senseless pillers/Alfa Mails who lie and push false propaganda against the entirety of women on this platform in a desperate bid to feel among a stupid bandwagon mentality and agenda!

I speak facts, and time will tell who is lying or speaking facts! Usually, in life, empty barrels make the loudest noise, and real is usually not loud!!

You don't know me from jack, so running amok on this thread trying to discredit my points because you so desperately need it to be a lie is a new low for you, Mr logical!

"Oh, she must be lying, what she said seems too good to be true".


You're too dumb to be logical ha ha ha ha ha ha




Modern Day Man, please kindly stay single. No one actually cares if you get married or not.

Make all your chicken change, hold it tight to your chest, carry it to your grave sef, don't spend a Penny on any woman! I'm sure no one would even notice!!



The fact that you feel airing my opinion on a topic translates to anger further confirms your dumbness!!

Threads are created to sample people's views and opinions on any subject matter! Drop yours and leave mine alone! Or did my comment prick your conscience?? Why you come they disturb me??

Afterall, y'all drop vitrious comments every single time, dragging the entirety of women on this platform, nobody has killed you for it. Biko, Mr logical, if you like get angry or worried oh, I said what I said!!

If you're not worried,why quoting me with epistles?? Trying to discredit my points by saying I'm lying. Did I quote you?? Remember you quoted me first.

You even went as far as calling another guy a simp because he agrees with my opinion,and you say I'm the one who is worried??

You're a small boy, desperate to win your nonsensical red pilling arguments here. Take a chill pill with your crimson pill,and read my previous posts again, this time slooooooowly!!

Maybe you'll understand!




Incel Gamesmart (sounds like Gaysmart though ) who feels ontop of the world once he has labelled any fellow man with differing opinion on Nairaland Toxicland "simp", face your toxicity and leave others alone to air their own views about life!

We understand that you didn't have enough to eat and live growing up, your family probably lived from hand to mouth,so clutching your measly change to your chest is really important to you.
Some people had more than enough,so they are not bothered if they are able to make impact in people's lives without ethnic/gender bias and without expecting anything in return!!

Ciao!

LMAO

You are really trying with these incorrigible little incel boys.

When the dangling tri-organ carriers want to make sense to themselves, they become illogical.

All of them here use one incident with one girl as an excuse to tar all girls black, but refuse to have the same brush used on them. That is their logic: denial. And they will scream their denial while trying desperately to insult and demonize the females. Mostly sheepish stuff.

You will have to leave them unlearned. When they get a bit older, maybe in their 40s a bit of reality and sense might get through to them.

airsaylongcome:
How the hell can P=2I x R when you have initially stated that

V=I x R and -----(1)
P= V x I --------(2)

Substituting (1) in (2) we get
P= (I x R) x I
P= I² x R ≠ 2I x R

Let's assume they made a typo on the superscript. Because if that's mathematics of today, people can die from these fundamental calculations.

yunqdady:
You are just a bitter divorcee. Nothing more.
Cost you nothing to have avoided it but you being woke has landed you on a mess, you are now bitter. It's well with you

It is you.

Is this how you seek attention still?

SmartPolician:
Will Smith is not a fulfilled man because he married a wrong woman - the biggest mistake a man can make.

You know this as you're Mr Smith who has forgiven her? Or perhaps you're their bedroom ceiling that sees everything to know this information you've shared?

falcon01:
I don't want to go in details but I was attacked by three idiots in the night in a house around 2 am, I was sleeping woke up to three dudes with torchlight very bright, they were searching everywhere. First instinct was fight them off I don't know how but I was able to push 3 of them out of the room with punches untill I started feeling dizzy. yup! I was stabbed 3 times and blood was gushing and it was getting cold. Bottom line, they packed everything, I walked to the hospital that night on foot I don't know how but I got there and I keep winderingv how the Bleep I'm alive. Its 3 years now but I Steel feel slight pains due to some dead muscles in my rib sidee due to severe beatings i recieve and yeah they had a gun but I'm pretty sure it was a toy gun cause they would have shoot me when I was fighting since I hit all of them on the face.

Jet Li himself.

This will be a good read

Officialgarri:
Fraud is not just yahoo yahoo o (i.e scamming foreigners)

Posting deceitful publications with sensational headline to swindle the masses in the name of soliciting funds is also FRAUD.

I can only hope that the woman who is probably catching fresh air from this terrible heat gets a share of the money that might be raised using her name

Because Nigerian men have never thrown a widow out of her husbands home.

Hndrrxxx:
made it to the top and I give back to the slum

Again: who owns the money (you're complaining about)?

Hndrrxxx:
Wow




But what's with all these celebrities playing chess under bridge when they have the money to take the homeless kids away from the brigde and set them up

Who owns the money?

Beehshorp:
If ladies will learn to stop all this online hook up...

Its really sad.

If men will learn to stop murdering women and trying to blame them for being murdered by men.

It's really sad.

Non Nigerians taking up ministerial posts. Strange.

edoman2016:
@kobojunkie @bratislava,

You guys have turned someone else thread to bible study classes. Continously making comments that are no longer relevant to the OP's subject. Its enough.

I won't comment past this.

I was trying to open up the OPs side when people expect her to keep platonic relationships and force herself to be happy to them. She has every justification to want what she's wants since it's in the Bible.

Sorry For derailing, OP.

May you get the husband and children you desire. You have used money to limit yourself. There are loads of happy people living in squalor with their families. Money doesn't make family. Neither does religion. Get what you want.

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

We need to hear her side of the story. You sound inconsiderate and stubborn.

Once men begin to post like saints, know that they are far from the truth.

Once men mention money, know that they want other men to hate their women. Once they involve children, just know that they want to assassinate her character.

Gradually the truth is leaking out. We are getting there. The point where politics will be exposed as just noise to cover the evils of its most saintly players.

AmazonTopaz:
You spoilt everything by including Chelsea why you dey find trouble.

As a Chelsea fan I take offence

Even your number 4&6 get as e be

Maguire lol

Kobojunkie:
I don't know what what means.

You will.

Magnoliaa:
Oya, the two of you, alele! Before I open my eyes and close it now. Log offline and go home to your parents, it's night. Since, both of you have been arguing in my "following" tab and like on two or three different topics.

Lol.

(Points at Kobo Junkie) They started it!

Kobojunkie:
Doing what exactly?

What you're doing. Your posts smell like freesia.

Kobojunkie:
Why what?

Why are you doing this?

AmazonTopaz:
And who is this urchin common get lost

A lot of single urchins have a hot to say about single and married women.

Those pots are never tired.

Kobojunkie:
As I told you, I got confirmation of my born-again status in October 2017, so it is not possible that I was not born-again in late 2020.

If you had instead asked if I was baptized with the Spirit of God, an experience that is completely different and separate from the born-again experience, even though many confuse them as one and the same, then my answer as before is "I don't know".

Why?

Kobojunkie:
1. Nope!

2. I came back on nairaland in April of 2020 as a born-again, so I have no idea what you mean at all.

Lol @bolded

I'm sure it was last year or late in 2020 that we crossed posts, and you couldn't answer if you were or not. That was the interesting part about your gospel.

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, you may know of what I post, but don't be so sure you have me figured out by it.

2. I am afraid you are seriously mistaken. To be born-again is to be Born of water and born of Spirit and I recall well the events or the day I experienced a birth of the Spiritual kind in October of 2017 - I doubt anyone can even forget such an experience. That was the day I came to know tha indeed the supernatural indeed exists and it has remained with me since that day.... 24/7, even in my dreams.... i am not longer composed of just a mind, body, and soul - the way I was born from my mother's womb. I now have a Spirit component added to all that as Jesus Christ explained in John 3 vs 5 - 8

There is nothing like the same kind of Gospel.... even Jesus Christ warned you all against following the doctrines and traditions of men(and their churches ), lies He called them, declaring that you curse your very selves by doing so - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. There is only one Gospel and that is God's Law and Covenant, God's Truth as revealed by Jesus Christ Himself. Every other kind is a lie and removes those submitted to it far away from God's Truth and Power. There is nothing cute about it.

3. What she needs is to abandon all the lies- the doctrines and traditions of men, to instead seek God and Jesus Christ for her self in His Truth and Spirit. She can read through the 4 Gospels as many times and she needs to in order to achieve that. God is True, His Word, Jesus Christ, is Truth, so until you hear from God Himself, you shouldn't give up and give in to the lies of men, and their churches, ever!

1. In that case you deliberately post things that are your diametric opposite?

2. You seem to have forgotten that interaction. That was our first clash. Before I realized you're your quirky yet divisive self in a harmless way.

integrity16:
Firstly she gave them unprotected access to her honeypot, I am not trying to exonerate the men had it been she denied access perhaps the story would have been different, maybe a rape case or so.

Secondly, she had a choice to end the relationship with the dude and move on with the pregnancy but she chose to pin it on the dude and she knew he wasn't responsible for it. So I say again unapologetically, FEAR WOMEN.

Fear men. The only creatures who will double cross themselves then blame it on women.

A man will see another man's children and act like his wife got them there by magic. He should go and face his co-guy who did him the favor of siring his children and stop looking for cheap sympathy. Let him go and unearth the sperm donor and stop disturbing us.

He has probably foisted his in seed in another man's home and now the chicken has come to roost. But he won't know until that man does s DNA test.

integrity16:
Fear women.

No. Fear the man or men behind those children. They willingly gave her children knowing she was married. Men are so heartless to themselves.

Nonexisting:
Stop changing the narrative, focus on the issue at hand. When will you vaginarians start accepting your wrongs. Gosh

It seems you don't like being dealt with in equal coin. Open any page dealing with rape or missing females and see the nonsense scrotal people will post all in a weak bid to avoid their wrongs.

Until you take crimes against women serious, nobody cares about these Petty cases, as another man is behind this mans woes. Enjoy the mans world you created. Lol.

What of the millions of men behind such cases?

This is why women must conduct DNA tests on all the children of a mans exes. Because they go about sowing seeds for other men to water, then later the same men will cry when it is another man who is the cause of his tears.

Stripping people for crimes is barbaric and sexual assault. You want them to pay for their crimes, yet you are stripping them naked. Do you want to have sex with them or have them arrested?

Dmacqh:
This topic bring back memories. Exactly a year ago . My problem is I denied her . She blocked me . Almost a 4month pregnancy.
The truth is we broke up around March last year , and she came with pregnancy by May . There’s no way I will know if it’s me or not . Yes the pregnancy duration tallied during our time together .
Now I’m trying to reach her , but she blocked my line and my siblings line .
I wish there’s someone who can help me and trace her . I just want to see her and know if she’s alive or not . My nights have never been the same .

Your problem with her is that they sell condoms and give them out free in certain places, but you feel that you can't use them. Then you want to deny the fruits of not using a condom in 2021.

Kobojunkie:
If you paid careful attention to the teachings of Jesus Christ and how he constantly associated those who claim to believe but refuse to obey His commandments with the devil, going as far as to declare them children of the devil - John 8 vs 41 - 47 - you wouldn't utter so lightly the statement there in bold.

Recall, in John 10 vs 1 - 19, Jesus futher declared that the many false prophets out there come to steal from his sheep, to kill and to destroy them. Your decisions to submt to the doctrines and traditions of your pastors and mogs(along with their voodoo houses) are not as harmless as many of you pretend, not according to Jesus Christ - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13 .

I'm going to derail you by telling you that you're adorable when you start quoting your Bible passages.

I won't lie, I'm not a Bible person. I don't pay careful attention.

Kobojunkie:
1. You don't me at all.

2. I don't have a standard of my own. I follow the standard set 2000 years ago by Jesus Christ as documented in the Gospels. The only thing God asks His followers to abide by, this in all of scripture is His Law. Same thing Jesus Christ commanded His followers to do and that is they trust in and obey Him and Him alone.

As for spirits and masters, you can skip over me on that.

Lol.

1. I don't know you, but I know what you post.
2. But you once told me that you don't know if you're born again or not. Scary voodoo, huh? Yet you're here. Spreading some kind of gospel.

But we're not here for that.

Do you have any scriptures that will help this lady get what she wants?

Kobojunkie:
1. How do you know that description does not fit me to a T?

2. We don't get to make up our own individual beliefs as Christians. You either meet the standard as set by Jesus Christ, or you don't and whatever you do not concern Jesus Christ. It is that simple!

By the way, how do you know that separation her from beliefs that are not of Jesus Christ and have failed to help her in over 20 years does not help her?.

1. I know. You aren't.
2. Everyone has their threshold, their standards, because there's all kinds of Pentecostalism. Just like you are sticking to your standards and it's not everything in the Bible you abide by. Thus your standards.

I will answer when you answer if you have the Spirit and if you have one master.