₦airaland Forum

emmanuelbrown26:
M. I Abaga, hope your wife-to-be is not one of d Nairaland feminist?
Bcs what we hv this day are nothing to write home about, they are all daughters of eve in female skin

It might interest you to know she's above 35.

Ayinke93:
Some of you are so stupid and would have saved us the stress if you can only keep your stupid opinions off the internet. Someone was raped, instead of facing the issue and the rapist, you go about talking about why she’s working in a hotel. What’s wrong with working in a hotel? And what about women that got raped in church, what’s your stupid excuse for that?
What an irredeemable nuisance.

Don't you know that 98% of them are chronically stupid?

No matter the situation their default is to blame the woman for being raped, battered or murdered. They don't ever think about the person behind the crimes. Their concern is that the woman is to blame. Somehow she got herself dead or raped or beaten up. And they must let everyone know how their deranged thinking process functions while they are at it.

Until it happens to them, they won't know how it really happens.

Hathor5:
Thanks for this.

I weep for the generation of women who have to choose from this pool of men.

They will have to get wise. Or pay for it with their lives.

cococandy:
That has always been the pattern


It’s as if women offend them by moving abroad.they wish nothing but evil to their perceived “abroad women”. Whenever there’s a thread about something happening to a Nigerian woman abroad, come see them like crickets dancing and gallivanting like mor0ns. Utterly disgusting!

Sometimes one wonders if their problem is illiteracy, poverty or both. Most misogynists fit the bill.

maasoap:
Give it a rest

Have you considered that yet? Miss me with your bulls hit.

maasoap:
Stay away from toxic people, mentally unstable people, greedy people. I have three generations of women under my care as I'm typing this. I don't have time for your useless gender e-fights like you people don't have both genders in your family that you would give up your life defending.
I'm just pained that she allowed an animal to waste her after seeing all the signs. That's it and I'm not going to stop saying that.

Who told you I have time for your rubbish victim blaming posts?

Happy denial.

maasoap:
It is about gender for you but not for me. What is there to condemn about the man? The killer, an animal! I'm telling you and me that if we're being threatened by our wives/husbands, we should heed the warning and stay away from them. We only have one life, we shouldn't gamble with it.
Happy gendering fight.

The worst thing about people that say it's not about gender is that it usually is. The same way they say it is condemnable but/while/however...

We wouldn't have this conversation if you weren't so hell-bent on blaming her for her death, rather than blaming her murderer for her murder. Thus the cycle goes on.

Happy denial.

cococandy:
So wives should kill their husbands if the man’s property is not in her name or in their joint name?

Is that what I’m understanding?

The more you question them, the more you see their fuel is irrational misogyny dressed as concern for women.

They will go about it as if it's logic while they deliberately blindside whatever could be said about the man. They will defend it on the altar of murder apologetic "logic".

Once a woman lives successfully in a foreign country, they want her to be killed to teach her and other women never to achieve anything or they too will be killed with their twisted logic.

Another thread full of disgusting posts. These boys need a conscience and true logic.

Pakute:
Let's hear from the other side. We can't trust a gender that is known for false accusations.

How can you trust a gender known for rape?

lexy2014:
That's not my problem. Meanwhile, Did you miss where he said the victim should have stayed away from the husband?

Bye.

lexy2014:
I think u are getting too emotional. Did you miss where he said the victim should have stayed away from the husband?

At the word emotional I have lost interest in giving you a real response.

maasoap:
I do and I will. If my wife threatened for whatsoever reason, I will make sure that I stay away from her.
A woman lawyer murdered her husband in Ibadan and got away with it. There was another one, a woman lawyer who murdered her husband in Lagos state. This is not about gender, this is about knowing when to stay away from the partner that sends death threats to you.

Now that she's been killed after he lied about a reconciliation of sorts, it's still her fault.

I know you will not condemn the man if his wife killed him. You would condemn her. It actually is about gender. That is why crime in Nigeria continues, because men keep excusing men by blaming their crimes on women. That's why we are still having this conversation. Because it is easier to condemn a woman than her murderer.

maasoap:
He was off but there is still take home in his post:
This is the truth. You can't control how different people react to the same incidence. She should have stayed away from him, most especially after death threats from him.

I hope you have the same consideration when women kill men any time they feel anger and betrayal.

There's nothing to take home in his post. It's the same post all over the place, and it is demented murder apologist reasoning. The usual victim blaming when the victim is female.

DKM123:
This is the response of a TYPICAL NIGERIAN MAN. He doesn't even know the family. Yet, all he could mutter from a report where an evil monster burnt his wife (the mother of his four little children) and a young man (who has a wife and child of his own) to death over a mere property that he wanted to sell (even though it is NOT his own) is this. His fellow Nigerian men are agreeing with him with likes and shares. This are Nigerian men for you.

This is why I don't understand what our women see in some Nigerian men? Thank God the white man gave us internet and so foreigners can see the mindset of the average Nigerian man.
Sometimes I ask, who are this foreign women who say Nigerian men are the the next best thing since sliced bread? They ought to do just a little bit of research on the biggest Nigerian forum and see if indeed they wouldn't run for thier dear lives once they come across a Nigerian man.

Tufiakwa!

Don't you know they lose their toxic masculinity to have these foreign women? Which foreign woman do you think will gave anything to do with men who reason little better than chimpanzees in the wild?

They are ready to do the dishes, keep their voices down and roll over for them. But once they see a Nigerian woman, they remember their ego as men.

lexy2014:
Who bought the property? Did she acquire the property with the man's or was it a joint acquisition?

So if a wife doesn't discuss the name that should be on the property she acquired by herself, then the husband should kill her?

Pls which property did the brother in law buy that he didn't discuss with the killer that warranted his death?

So women should control their actions and reactions. What should the men do?

Nothing except killing and flying off the handle. No responsibility whatsoever. No obligation to be humans .

kayperry:
How is violence even an option among other things JUST becos be found out his wife owns property oblivous to him solution na to kill her .... no matter the hurt or pain he felt if he must retaliate why not just do unto her what she did to him or just disinherit her if he can't forgive.
You should have a bed next to that so called husband in psychiatric centre. how is killing her a solution, whats the brother offense

Thank you for this your comment. We have a lot of murder apologists once the person murdered is a woman.

Dimanene:
Hello, your comment stinks! It's cool when a man have a property in his name or son's name, without the wife's names. But an atrocity when a woman does same.
Bunch of hypocrites! Ain't gonna reply any response from you though *spits*

Do you think a murder apologist will have anything reasonable to contribute to this thread, except more excuses and justification of murder?

Many people on this forum need to be checked.

dep07:
I haven't been myself since i heard this news.
Benjamin , you see your life. What on earth could have pushed you to do this? How could you?
If you were tired of the marriage, you should have just walked away. Why why why
Please he isn't a lazy guy,He is a chartered accountant,has a consulting firm in Lagos. He actually refused to join the family in UK .
He is doing well for himself in Lagos.
He was to go visit them this Easter.

You are asking why, when it is obvious he is a jealous entitled bastard? Whether a chartered accountant or not, he's clearly not doing well enough.

koning:
That "BUT" you are taking lightly would have kept this woman and many more like her alive. If you are married and have 4 kids with your husband, why would you not discuss what names should be on your property documents with your husband. Why be sneaky and secretive about that. Maybe they would have agreed to put their son's name on it.

No one supports killing another person, but women, please, you may not be able to control your husband's actions and reactions, but you can control your own.

There's no way the husband will attempt to kill the mother of his 4 kids if the wife took time to discuss issues with her husband. At least reach a compromise. All these 'open eye" way of thinking sends them to early grave. Of what use is the property to her now?.

That "but" is the rubbish justification men give to other men who have killed or beaten a woman up. It means you are ready to support evil because of this or that.

When will you actually condemn the men and the actions they have taken? "But she did this, she did that". Does that justify killing or beating her up? We are yet to see you support a man killing another man with that "but" commentary. You use it only on women.

When will you males grow up and develop a conscience?

Deal with the issue of men who think they are above the law and entitled to killing and battering women. Not useless "I don't support/condone/tolerate/stand for/have never done this but/however/while/though/due to" platitudes when you know nothing about the woman in question.

Later when men are branded murderers, women beaters and rapists you will come out and claim it is a generalization. It's not. You support it with "but".

kayperry:
For you i guess everything is just about scores, try reset your priorities.

it's a sad one, may God continue to save me from wrong decisions & choices. and may justices catchup with the evil man

When someone points out the evil of men on the forum, it is termed counting scores.

Grow up.

lilvicky68:
Sometimes instead of handing over to the police the person suppose collect better beating first.

They're even helping him to hide his face, so that when he escapes he can go on the same act and nobody would know.

Pierocash:
This is highly condemnable,and callous. I hope the law catches up with him.


But however, Nigerian women shouldn't see abroad as Uhuru for them. Once they get there ,they change and turn to monsters tormenting their husbands using the useless law over there as shield and buckler . And some men have different ways they react to betrayals and treachery which is the Hallmark of Naija women.

I don't have enough rest in peace right now, the last one I imported is already used for the victims of Kaduna train attack,and dollar is somehow expensive now,I would have imported one rest in peace for her

The usual "but".

If you don't blame women for the actions of men, will you cease being a man?

Don't address the evil of the man and preach self-control in men. What stopped him from controlling himself? Will you always justify murder with "but this, however that"?

Fear men.

Watch males trivialize it with jokes that aren't funny and sermons on the mount. Wives must do this, wives must do that. Yet, never a word for evil males.

Are we surprised at such stories when even after killing the woman Nigerian males will still come round to blame her?

GloriousGbola:
and this is why we have the western mgtow movement which has been misadopted by nigerian youths into redpill nonsense

double standards

the sisterhood is giving jada a pass for cheating , and for creepy predatory sex.

no woman would be so forgiving of will smith if the roles had been reversed

a little cheating and mooning

isokkayooo

There's no pass for cheating, but what can you do when the man who was cheated on has forgiven her whole-heartedly? Castigate him for what gives him peace of mind?

MGTOW/TRP is really for damaged men. Even the people that came up with it were respective failures at relationships. Blaming women and trying to manipulate them isn't the essence of relationships.

We should all learn to be as open minded and accommodating as Smith. Life isn't all about fire and brimstone once it involves women.

author= GloriousGbola post=111580006

All of those things you listed are already happening. Rest assured, there are plenty of guns in circulation. The only people who don't have guns are those who abide by the law.

If they are happening, it will not be at the unprecedented scale that is being advocated.

Already the Nigerians licensed to carry guns are outsourced to everyone with money. Police, army, nsdcd and Co, you have your money and you can use them for debt collection, land grabbing, seizing people properties etc.

You will not see a politician wielding a gun, but just let one gun get near your Lagos touts under those bridges and you will see carnage and hell unleased on innocent citizens.

We are already in the place you have described.

What use will the country be if all the law abiding citizens are dead or victims of crime?

We talk about America system.

Yes, the system where there's 911 and laws. Where a person can get treated for a gun injury without having the cash on him at that moment. The system where the shooter can be tracked.

Tell us, can Nigeria handle this? Clearly not. And like everything that gets out of hand, it will become an epidemic.

That is also the issue. I live in festac. There was a time when we had aggressive car vandals. For the police to come by, they had to be PAID.

It is better they are paid to come than bodies lying in the street everywhere a Nigerian feels they are meting justice on vandals, thieves etc.

Right now in lagos it looks like we may have sleeper boko haram or bandits. There are literally thousands of okada riders and they have taken over spots everywhere. I sometimes hear them driving around at 2am or 3am.

The solution isn't more guns, but more effective policing. Left to it, Nigeria will become the next Afghanistan.

What will I do if they decide to storm my home tomorrow?

I once faced down two thugs in my home with fists and prevailed . This was eight years ago. I am older, fatter and my wife asks me who will take care of the family if I am not so lucky this time.

If you feel everyone should have a gun as they face the same threats, then that is fine. Even in countries where people have guns these things still happen.

And aboki criminals are much more crazy and much more dangerous than Yoruba ones.

You are still calling them criminals? They are terrorists.

I do not mind people having guns, but not in the mindless, lawless scape of Nigeria. Guns are good, but they should not be for people who are more interested in using them than dialogue.

GloriousGbola:
With all will and jadas history and all that has come out since then , this is the first time I find the word simp applicable

Jada is for all intents and purposes still feening for 2pac, a fellow who will is 20 times the worth of as a man. 2pac that had to do fake gangsta to blow and who was an accessory to rape. That is what will is feeling intimidated by

Then she cheated on him. With their sons friend.
She could not find some stranger, some guy her age, no she went for a young friend of the family. That is grooming predatory s**t

If will smith had pulled that s**t, going after willows 21 year old friends he would have been cancelled so fast

Jada pinkett is not the woman to get into this s**t over. She is bad market.

I am just.sad for the guy. In hindsight he was fine with his first wife but decided he wanted geto /pako babe.

This is the bobby brown and Whitney story with roles reversed.

This is certainly interesting. However, Mr Smith is standing by his wife whether or not people think he's been emasculated or a simp. He's doing what he is doing on his own. Nobody is forcing him to. What are her little crimes compared to his great love for her?

He's got his family to protect. He's not ready to scatter that because of a little cheating and mooning. He's a virtuous man. Slapping isn't the way to go about it, though.

wirinet:
Believe me, his Hollywood career is over. No producer or director will ever star in in a movie again after this.

He might still make in in Rap music though, where violence is celebrated.

You'd be surprised.

The academy and his costars don't seem that much bothered by his actions. They hailed him. He's only resigning after he went on to party that night and was outed as a hypocrite. Was the academy impotent to remove him at that moment after his assault?

He's not going anywhere. He has fans as emotional as he is. They will keep him in showbiz.

Golan007:
Taken out ot context.

She knows his mumu button and the mofo responded to it as expected.

Again:

How did she emasculate him once again? Did she carry him to the podium to slap Mr Rock? Or was that a decision made and carried out by Mr Smith himself?

Men will make foolish decisions and other men will seek for how to rope women into it. Aren't you tired of trying to blame women for bad decisions men make daily?

Even your driving would be affected by such thoughts.

They are still called bandits? Weren't these people proscribed terrorists?

Golan007:
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Rubbish.

Will Smith has made jokes at the expense of others in public.

He has made jokes referring to one's baldness in the past.

In the past, he's shown snippets of violence and has been booked for it.

When a man screwed his balding wife, all he did was cry. Couldn't do shit to the guy.

At the Oscars and similar events, roasting is allowed and even expected.

The joke wasn't that deep until baldy emasculated him once again.

Willy willy took over the idiot.

How did she emasculate him once again?

You can never find a boy on this forum who will agree that the actions of a man are made and taken by a man. They will always find a way to blame a woman for it. When will they get realistic?

Karlovych:
A 53 year old man destroying his life and embarrassing himself over and over again because of a bald, short narcissist he calls a wife.

Always acting out emotionally over simple issues that a reasonable adult deals with in a matured manner, like in this case over a joke.

No wonder the Mrs baldy cheated on him, a foolish, weak man that resorts to crying to avoid taking responsibilities for his actions. A weak, helpless soul that allows himself to be cucked from the grave by a rapper that died over 25 years ago.

His childish outburst has given plenty of comedians more material to work with and roast him the more, perhaps then he can cry and ocean of tears and baldy can sob on her red table.

The man made a conscious decision to love his wife, something a lot of you can't stand. He is weak for that. Maybe if he beat her up you would applaud him?

He slapped someone and yet she's the cause of it. Did she walk him to the podium, raise his hand and use it to slap Mr Rock?

This closeted misogyny is getting tasteless.