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tegrianonigltd:
Una no know the real story, Una don analyze and judge, nail the man to the cross, then make your Nigeria sister saint mary. Una well done ooh.

Lol

If you could explain what is going on, we would appreciate it.

Kobojunkie:
No roaches for me abeg! Those things look too disgusting to even attempt.

I can maybe try locust some day, this because I know what they eat.

What about roaches that are fed clean food, grown in farms?

VULCAN:
Below are those people who see what they want to see and never what is truly there.

There are so many amongst us.

The third wave Feminists like the person below believe that a woman should be allowed to do whatever she likes and the man should stomach it.

If you check well, this person also supports Jada's slow boil destruction of Will's legacy.

Mtscheww!

From the video, who do you think is doing whatever they want?

Red pill assumptions. Nth wave male victim.

donbenie:
He's dragging the whole internet into it for the ride?
Are you by any chance saying he was the one who shot and posted the video on the net?
Maybe before you throw all the blame game on him,you should give that a hard long thought..
Who posted the video and what was the aim?

His technique is quite simple and a lot of men do it: make videos as if he's innocent, pretend to be devastated, cry to weaponise children, say she's a slay mama, etc etc

But in the background with secret cameras you can see how vile he truly is. He should move on without his boring drama.

luminouz:
Trash as usual!!!

God!! Yet you will be someone else's wife one day??

*Sighs*

STFU.

You know nothing about my relationship status. Keep fantasizing.

descarado:
As long as its Nigerian person versus oyibo especially Nigerian girl, we will demonise the person cos we lack oyibo bumbum.

Guy is losing it.
He didn't know this lady will file for divorce.
Very manipulative man.

Already had restraining order against him over the kids.

I don't care what was their issues but a man who left his wife after few days of giving birth is worst than the devil.

He don't want social media attention yet everyday he is digging himself further into a big hole.
Thank goodness its not Nigeria where you can easily declare the mother of your children man and drag her to court without giving her access to see her kids.

He has been incriminating himself.

My small minded boys here thought its about redpill black pill.

Cursing a woman who just gave birth in front of her kids has already nailed him to the coffin.

Guys should not cry injustice when justice is meted out.

Finally.

I didn't even know who these people are until a few weeks ago when the man began playing his cards. I've always said that those cards are signs of a vengeful man, not a wronged man.

When I saw his most recent video, I realized he's jealous of her wealth since she earns more than he does, and that he's so embittered and cruel. Calling her names (actually slut shaming her) in front of his daughter, trying to deprive her of her daughter (the older one) don't be surprised he makes a contract on her. He's not a reasonable man. He knows she gets her living from the internet, so he's trying his hardest to destroy her with his regular videos.

He's definitely losing it and he's dragging the whole internet into it for the ride.

Kobojunkiee:
You never had roasted termites before? It is so delicious.

It's the work of lizards, geckos, spiders and other insectivorous creatures to have at insects. Why would humans want to eat fake meat, let alone the insect kind? Though I don't mind those huge larva.

Have you tried roasted roaches?

IdanNla:
That is exactly what I want to do but she has been avoiding me giving me excuse for not talking to me when I called she would miss my call and drop WhatsApp messages for me when am not online..

What do you understand about the psyche of a rape victim?

Be careful that you do not use male logic to doubt the truth and destroy the life of someone else. Many of the people here commenting have sisters who were raped but did not press charges. Because there would be men like them who will claim it didn't happen even when the truth is that it does happen.

Don't use the judgement of bitter red pill guys on the forum to give flawed judgement. Or your decision to do so will...

Farfalla:
Speaking of big reptiles, many people swear by crocodile meat. Never been curious enough. I think turtles are major delicacies in some Caribbean islands, but still....

My papa also tells me stories of how, as little boys, he and his siblings/cousins would trap porcupines and wild rabbits.

Now rabbits seem rather edible, but porcupines and moles? Ah, ah! I'm not that curious.

The image below depicts hawkers in Malawi selling roasted rats along their highways. You won't find me near there.

I join them to swear by crocodile. I don't recommend seal.

I join them to swear by porcupine. Not bats or civets.

Wouldn't try moles. Variety is the spice of life, but not moles! (Come on, I hope nobody is eating those poor blind creatures?) And not hundreds of roasted rats! I'll never be found licking my chops for these ones.

There are grades to meats, but I don't think those little domesticated animals are any good for consumption. Waiting to hear of the people that eat geckos, though.

Fahdiga:
You have forever written your name in gold and posterity will be kind to you and your generation. Shame on the people that rallied against this good and courageous man. Shame on people like terrorist Gumi and his foot soldiers. Shame on nairalanders like Omenkalives who sympathize with terrorists.

You fell for it. He got another appointment. From whom? These people will keep toying with the sense of Nigerians.

kayperry:
who dem slap whu dey cry bayii, even the so called victim have apoligised according to OP and they've reconciled ... abi something else dey wey you no wan tell us

Rape apologists/rapists for rape. Threatening victims and trying to gaslight them didn't begin today.

Kajaard:
Boldfaced in RED: they are your brothers as well, Lol , You should be used to them by now, nothing you say will make them change their mindset. I hardly argue with folks here anymore because it's tiring.

Boldfaced in BLUE: that dude serving 3 life sentences in the US deserves it. I hope you know he committed the same crime in Japan before running away to the US where he did it again and got the 3 life sentences. These sickos never change.

Cheers

Which brothers? Ewwwwww!

Ah, I see someone else here enjoyed watching a criminal expose himself...

I'm done on this thread. It could be that illiteracy is the reason for certain posts on such topics.

Farfalla:
1. All reptiles - snakes, lizards, chameleons, turtles
2. Rodents of any kind- rats, capybaras, porcupines, grasscutters
3. The whole lot of amphibians - frogs, toads, newts, salamanders
4. Cockroaches

1. These actually don't taste that bad, the bigger reptiles. Still curious about turtle. The people catching baby lizards are annoying.

2. I thought I'd hate this class of animals, but they are quite tasty --again, the bigger ones. The people catching regular rats are trouble seekers.

3. Agreed

4. Insects. Agreed.

Kajaard:
Lol

Your brothers have been typing nonsense all over the thread: He tore off her jeans and raped her as revenge for her raping him first.

If they set foot in the abroad with this mentality, they will say white people are racist. We even have such a case on the forum. Guy said "I was just fingering her, I didn't rape her". He's enjoying 3 life sentences in the abroad.

The arguments on this thread don't hold water in a competent court of law.

Astoria:
I don't respond to imbeciles, it will amount to me dragging myself to your level. Find your roots, I am done with you.

What constitutes rape to some people is so pathetically childish. In a quest to play the victim, males have been submitting rubbish that their raped daughters and sisters will weep at. The sense on this thread is lost to guttersnipe, people with such low reasoning and even worse crimes on their hands.

You should avoid them. Many of them are supposed to be in jail for rape, but they've given these daft arguments and escaped the law because law enforcement is other men like themselves.

Teerach:
Oya drag him to the police station na.
Baba did you miss the part that she played with his d**k. Somebody said he didn't rape her, you want to force him to admit what he didn't do? Why would she carry her legs to his house? Someone she's not familiar with? I nor dey carry my body play near man. If she worked with such principle, she won't be in the mess she's in right now. School is on strike, what is she still doing in campus? UJ for that matter. Northern Nigeria where bandits nor dey smile. Abegy she should let the guy be joor. Which reasonable girl goes to a man's house and sits on his laps, touches his d**k bla bla bla when they aren't dating?
Go home for the strike, for where. Stay for your hostel abi lodge, for where.
Like I said op, don't engage the girl in any conversation that may implicate you.

Why would he be running from being implicated unless he's guilty?

You said he said he didn't rape her, thus he didn't. This is how pathetically illogical some of you have become. If a murderer says he didn't do it, it means he's innocent. Right? By his description he is a rapist. He described a rape that he committed.

Many of you believe that because she sexually molested him, he must rape her in return. Please, stop mansplaining. It isn't a wise comparison. Even he knows that isn't the case. He knows what he did, that's why he's here selling excuses to escape the law. He knows that fellow serial rapists here will give him a soft landing, but he knows what happened was a rape.

Don't arrest him, keep making a case for him as if you're his paid lawyer. Yomi Fabiyi ². Half of you come from the Netherrealms, so there's no reasonable sense in most of the posts on this thread.

Aflix:
Well, if penetration with finger is rape, then touching the guys dick with her hand should be rape as well. Las las the two of them de guilty.

Google rape and stop trying to mansplain what happened.

Kajaard:
Nope. Some of us are decent and tell people off regardless of gender once they are in the wrong

Hope you won't join them in claiming that she raped him first in a bid to protect an obvious rape.

Aflix:
Why is everybody acting blind to what he said about what he said He said the girl touched his dick and caressed him. Isn’t that sexual molestation as well

She did that, then he raped her violently. Take it to court, a real court, and see if they will take it kindly that he raped her for sexual molestation.

Your point doesn't even make any sense.

luminouz:
K

Rape apologists/rapists arguing rape as if their lives depend on it.

How many victims? Two? Three? Five? Seventeen?

luminouz:
I'm the most logical person I know.
I have given you reasons but your emotions are still in the way. A woman kissed you, caressed you and you made a move, she resisted (just like most women do, to make themselves look not so cheap), you leave her, she came back to repeat that same process like three times. Do I need to tell you that she wants the diick but doesn't want to look cheap in giving the pussy?

What evidence does she have, you illogical creature? He didn't have sex with her. So where is the rape for God's sake!! The highest she can claim is molestation, which goes both ways, from his write-up.

It's the dude I blame for his weakness, trying to play her emotional game. A guy like me won't give a fuq.

You women can't just help but bleed emotions all over.

You are not logical —far from it. You are self-deluded.

That you don't know what constitutes sex with a woman indicates you are ignorant too. He didn't have sex with her, indeed. I'm sure if a guy put his finger in your anus you would say he was the one who was being raped first.

When you are ready to reconcile her inappropriate touching/sexual assault versus his account of rape, then you can call yourself logical. A woman kissed you, so that gave you the right to struggle with her and forcefully pull off her jeans and put your fingers in her vagina when she said no? What do you call that act?

There's nothing you won't defend even when he has her vaginal cells on his fingers. Maybe you expected her to go around with a go pro to satisfy you. Or maybe you think everyone is using the sort of "logic" you wield.

He knows what he did. You, on the other hand, are playing the game of whataboutism and other obscurity. Hardly logical.

This is why when Nigerian men try such rubbish outside their enclaves they are sentenced. Such stupidity is a crime, and thinking that way is criminal too. You think a real judge will listen to the claim that the man who ripped off her trousers was raped, and that tells your brand of illogic.

You probably think you're defending him. You're defending criminality. And these sorts of things don't go away. Because you raped people and argued it away means nothing.

chigbokingsley:
Sorry dear, u are the emotional one here. Infact u are not being objective. U think rape law applies to women favor only, u lied. The interpretation of the law is different from layman view. She started by molesting and sexually touching, harrasing him.

Google rape. Stop being emotional.

It is good you know what sexual harassment is. But why you want to deny what he did is rape is the funny part.

luminouz:
Weak ass reply

When logic has failed you, is this what you resort to? Sexual assault v rape. Go figure.

Maybe because he's a handsome, classy got who felt entitled to her body, you feel he's innocent.

Rape apologists should give it a rest. He's guilty.

Teerach:
Sir, it takes two to tango. She going to his house and sitting on his laps? Haba. Now she's trying the blackmail game for probably what she started. No one is saying op is a saint, but blackmailing him is way too much.

She sat in his lap, she didn't put her fingers in his anus. There's a difference you're refusing to acknowledge.

He's guilty of rape, and you know it.

Teerach:
Op, don't speak to her on phone so she won't record it. Don't reply her chats. I'll rather she meets you in an open space and complain. Cos if she's trying to blackmail you, then don't give her evidence to do shitz. Reset your wasap in a way she can't tell if you've read her msg. Ignore her. As long as she doesn't have your testimony, you're safe.
Like someone said, follow her cry and make emotions about how she tried to rape you too. Turn the table around. But do it outside so she doesn't record anything.
And lastly, get a gf rather than trying to play with a woman's emotions. In my understanding, she probably wants to date you. But it's a no no.

You don't want her to record it because you know he is guilty.

chigbokingsley:
When she was caressing, robbing her boobs on his face, romancing his whole body, u don't see that as sexual harassment. Look, let call a spade a spade, she sexually molested, harassed and induced him without his consent. Whatever he did to her was as a result of being unconscious of his action just like one adding sleeping substance in an opposite sex drink/water just to have him/her.
She is the rapist here.
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She tried to rape him?

Why was he tearing her trousers off her to stick his fingers in her? Is that the action of a raped man? Or a rapist?

Men on the forum don't even know what they were saying. We know— you must defend a bro always. He's a handsome guy after all.

If she is the rapist, why is he the one who was dragging her jeans off her and forcing his fingers into her? Why did he decide to forcefully touch her unclothed genitals? You know what sexual assault is, but you want to tangle it as rape to let this handsome entitled bro to escape an evil act he committed.

It seems you don't know what rape is.

Try to be less emotional.

chigbokingsley:
Look, don't be scared of her little threat. Firstly, you invited her over and she came not by force by willingly.

Secondly, she sat on your laps, kissing and sexually touching your body, rubbing her boobs on ur face.

Rape doesn't apply to women only but to either party. She tried to rape u by doing all those nonsense without your concent but ur ability to control yourself stopped her plans. Just be ur ground and tell her if she ever try to blackmail u, u will have no option than to report to the rightful authority

She tried to rape him?

Why was he tearing her trousers off her to stick his fingers in her? Is that the action of a raped man? Or a rapist?

Men on the forum don't even know what they were saying. We know— you must defend a bro always. He's a handsome guy after all.

luminouz:
When she dragged his diick, it wasn't rape...when she placed his hands on her boobs, it wasn't rape, when he stopped and she came back again and again to kiss him and molest him, it wasn't rape.

Better get your emotions in check!!! It's dripping all over my feet

Even in the face of evidence, evidence that he's confessing with, you have decided to be emotional and illogical.

Why didn't he say no, and it would've become her trying to rape him? He clearly wanted it when she didn't. Instead of running away, he decided to struggle with her to rip off her jeans and force his fingers into her.

If she goes to the police station, do you think your "logical" approach to it will exonerate him of there vaginal bruises she must've sustained? If they collect DNA from his fingers and collaborate it with her true allegations, what will he do? All she needs is a visit to a hospital immediately after and all your "logical" assumptions are dead.

Most of you rape apologists and rapists thrive on the fact that in Nigeria you can't check evidence and don't want to. You are illogical and it stinks.

Yhungsarm:
This incident happened last week Thursday. Am a 300L student of Unijos and the girl happens to be my coursemate.

Normally, me and these girl no dey the same level, she can't even talk to me in school but ASUU break happened and i didn't want to go back to Lagos so i stayed back in Jos.

One day i was chatting with her friend who happens to know her and he told me she is still in Jos, so i chatted her up since i was bored and i didn't lie to her, i told her i was bored and i needed someone to talk to for the main time. she accepted quickly and even told me why i didn't chat her up sooner than this. she promised to come to my place and on Thursday she finally came through.

This is the most astonishing part, she knew i had sex with her best friend so she asked me about it and i did not lie about it cus i know she knew and we talked about some nasty stuff related to sex. i was seated on a mini-cushion chair and she sat on my laps literally dropping her boobs in the middle of my face.

As a guy i thought that was the signal, so i carried her straight to the bed and i wanted to gain access and she denied it so i just stood up and left. After a short while she came back again now saying if she handles me and all those stuff, i tried again and she denied i was angry and i wanted to tell her to start gping but i calmed down. she started seducing me badly and i was confused so this time i dropped and dragged her jean with her, we started dragging but she was just saying am trying to rape her and it is unfair, if it is what i do to girls all d time.

i was fingering her at the time but i did not penetrate and i felt it was tense and if i penetrated then what she is saying is true so i stopped and controlled my urge.

She zipped up and started crying, I was like but i didn't do anything and she was like i did everything i want to do with her and it is fault bcus she came to my house.

After a shortwhile, she stopped crying and asked me if it was sex i want or friends with benefit...i was very confused at that point like wetin bring all does one enter so i didn't reply then she said she knows am a rapist and i just want to sex and all dat shit.

i kept my cool after some time she started saying am not normal at all and she jst can't believe what happened, she also said she will tell me something when we she is out of my house.

So i paid her Tp and she went home, i did not chat her up at all. fastforward to Saturday i saw her message saying her forcefully had my ways wit her and jst ignored her so she will deal with me and i will pay for it.

i won't lie to you am very scared, i don't even know what she wants, i started asking her what she wants from me exactly but she is not replying at all. I seriously don't know what to do am very confuse, I don't even understand why i fell for this plot of hers.
What do you think i shud do

Note: I did not have sex with her at all and i never wanted it, she was jst all over me and doing all those stuff. Sex isn't my problem on a normal day bcus am a handsome guy and i get it most time.

Who told you rape is only about penis in vagina sex?

You have already raped her. Go and Google what rape is.

You're a handsome guy, but you said you were dragging her jeans off her and forcefully sticking your fingers in her. Why do you people always come up with that line? She's not at your level, so why did you so badly want to have sex chats and sex with her? Now you're here to play innocent.

Let's hear what she has to say about what happened.

Fahdiga:
Upon all the money this one is still trying hard to impress people

Money isn't happiness. It's simply clothing.

johnmba:
one day your money will disappoint you.

Many people who scream "entitlement" don't know this.

Money isn't and cannot do everything. One day money will disappoint everyone.

Likeandshare:
Like if you think Buhari is a bad leader,share if you think he is a good leader.

Lol, truly you've become a likes and shares guy.

Give us quarterly updates on your likes and shares. That would be interesting.