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franchasng:
Its really sad.


She started well and ended badly.


Many people underrate power of giving. That power of giving is part of what made me who I am today.



Last year alone, I can't count how many cars I drove, it was as if I was a car dealer, to the extent someone at a filling station where I go to wash car jokingly told me that boss, be careful oh make them no kidnap you oh. I jokingly asked him why, he said bros you don change more than 5 cars in 2 months, I just smiled and borrowed sense from his statement.


My point is, I remember during my time of struggling, I cherished giving to people, just anybody. Sometimes I give almost all I had and I won't even be scared.


I even gave almost all my entire savings as a seed to a Church building project and when I got home I was so scared that I will go broke but a spirit in me reassured me not to worry. Giving unlucks supernatural blessings.


Givers with joy never lack no matter what, I am a living witness and my wife is yet to come to terms with my giving spirit, sometimes she will be like, na wa oh, take am easy oh and I will tell her, you won't understand cos truly she won't understand, it's between me and my maker.


I cherish giving a lot


Dear God, make me a giver to nations and I promise not to grumble.

Don't you think he is taking advantage of her at this point? His wife needs a new years present? His children want a car? If all the projections he gave her were fake, don't you think he is an opportunist?

Kobojunkie:
Sad and disgusting what these blind teachers and prophets resort to in the name of God.

She was coddling a grown man and is reaping the results.

Pastors abroad work for their keep, as far as the ones I've met. But the Nigerian ones want their flock to feed them, then beat their chests on their pulpits that they can never be poor in loud bragging voices. Yet it is the members feeding them.

Their god must be so lopsided.

mirinder:
your deadbeat mom

Go and take your medications. You are ill.

Shusher:
I don't know of other Abbatoirs but the one in Lagos i went to some years back had a section dedicated for just pork. Farmers bring their stock there to sell and slaughter.

I don't cure pork.

I prefer to cook it . Used to prepare plantain and yam soup (Ukodo) or egusi/melon peppersoup just to name a few. Those dishes can make a grown man cry with joy

These foods you described sound quite tasty and unique. I haven't come across that your plantain and yam soup before.

I know anything with egusi will be a hit. But that pepper soup part, I don't understand it. How do you prepare it?

Any day you prepare these things, please let me see them just once. I would like to try and make them, too. Just mention me on a dead thread. I've never heard of or seen these delicacies you mentioned.

doggedfighter:
Oh didn't even know he's in the bitter geng.


Just dashed him handsome to help his music life. Now I know better

He will be singing about rape and sex only, at this rate.

MrFollowFollow:
You lack comprehension skills.

Go back and read the story again, this time read it very slowly!

And you lack intelligence, hence you are quick to run your stupid fingers.

Reread the post, read it slowly. Then come back with manners. Else you're a certified id_iot henceforth.

Mannerless infant.

Mercychen:
Was bored. Couldn't cook because of the busy week and series of church programs. So , I decided to solo out and relax.

First pic, my first meal of the year after which
I set out to have a stonecold ice cream. though the place was crowded. So,, I just settled for some photo shoot.
Thats me radiating the glory of God Almighty.

Who was taking your pictures?

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

A sad story.

But what stopped your mother from saying that the food was salty? What stopped her? You've painted the picture that she cannot speak. Is she disabled? Your wife didn't deliberately set out to kill her. You're exaggerating for reasons best known to yourself. Talk to her and find out what truly happened. Unless you know it was the doctor who was giving her the food, since he knows everything that happened.

Let's hear the wife's side of the story.

AmazingELixir:



Let me check his moniker to see if he is one of the miscreants disturbing this platform.

He is.

doggedfighter:
Tall, dark and handsome dude.

Also drops filthy posts about females on the forum. And he's just a boy.

That aside, considered handsome on which planet?

It's safe to say that most misogynists are not cute teenagers.

Incels for a good reason.

jahson19:
This pig is not ur regular bred pig, this is one expensive meat I tell u with very lean fat

I would like to try boar meat. Maybe it will be better.

Shusher:
Nigerians hatred for pork is attributed mostly to religious beliefs or the thought that it eats from the dumpster. Most pork in the market are farm raised.

As a Nigerian, i know most people in the country like to jump on the bandwagon of beliefs instead of facts.

Yes, Pork is more expensive than beef in Nigeria, if you decide to cut off the fatty part, in advanced countries the fat is used to make other bi-products so they only make use of the lean meat, it's better than turkey.

I don't eat beef, very unhealthy meat!

I am from Delta state and pork is one of our favorites used in preparing many native delicacies.

Pork is number 1 meat worldwide and contributes to 36% of meat consumption.

I really have wondered why Nigerians don't eat pork. The sort of hate and disgust it inspires is uncalled for. You need to hear how they talk about it like pigs feast on human bodies and trash. Religion over sense.

You surprise me though. I thought with low demand for pork that it would be cheaper. You'll never see an abatoir that stocks pig.

Personally prefer cured pig. How do you prepare yours? And which delicacies are prepared with it?

Mecka:
I have this fetish for women like you. You are confident, brave, smart, outspoken, bold etc. you never back out from a fight. I wish my future wife will be like you. I'm willing to meet you in real life so we could share ideas. Happy new year

Happy New year, lovey-dovey you.

Trying out new foods and activities is always fun. Have had some wild animals on the menu. Life is too broad for just beef, chicken and fish.

Doradorwa:
Why would the Dj pick another person call.... I consider that tor be very rude and an invasion of one's privacy. Person no fit try am with me oooo

You didn't ask how the speakers were carrying the beats from the party to houses 3 streets away, yet the owner of the phone couldn't hear the call while in the same building. How the partying guests knew it was his phone and not that of the DJ that was answered—maybe they were dancing and waiting for that call.

Hilarious OP.

Iko5000:
Lots of good lean meat in wild Boars as they move around a lot

This sounds like an interesting meat to try out. Expected it to be like pork.

Shusher:
This is bush pig, it's lean even the domestic pig is far better than cow meat.

And yes, its lean meat and white meat too. Less cholesterol.

Meat like beaf is a slow killer.

I wouldn't rate pork healthy meat, but it seems this one has a different fat content to pork.

Do you eat pork in place of beef? Is it cheaper? How did you start eating it? I thought Nigerians hate pig and see it as dirty meat.

jahson19:
This pig is not ur regular bred pig, this is one expensive meat I tell u with very lean fat

Okay. I've never tried it before. Bet it tastes really good.

Was imagining pork as lean meat.

Magnoliaa:
Happy New Year, Dear, Love, Popcorn, Cupcake, Cherry, Hotdog and Smoothie.

Some words are censored here on Nairaland, though, but it's hardly noticeable. Fùck, whòre, pīmp, d.ullardi.nho.

Sure I know you ain't that old, lol. But you've been around for a while. At least, 2 years? Lmao. It's crazier though how you've never 'confirmed' it. You really could be a guy; but then a guy so strong about feminism? Haha. But sha, you 'like' one small boy like that here. So, there's that.

Outlet for internal war? I don't understand. And that last (French?) phrase as well.

Happy New year to you, Magnoliaa. Lol, what sweet words. I feel loved.

Those words better be censored except on sections they are useful. Otherwise these boys would make the place uglier than it already is.

Which small boy, Mag? Tell me! Is it the cynic tensa? Now, we have a lot of strong feminists who are men — like that guy who opened a thread about his brutish father recently, he's a feminist in the making. Hopefully.

To be completed...

jahson19:
That's some nice lean meat u got there comrade, enjoy urself

Lean? Isn't this a pig any more?

flyinnizam:
Jubilations as my brother brought home this 2 bushpig this morning. New year don set for us o.

No pics of the final product?

jesusjnr2020:
What's That One Thing You Desire From God For The New Year?

What I desire from God for the new year, myself, is more than one. In fact they are many, but fortunately for me, all of them can be summarized into one, which is, that God's Will be done in my life in the new year.

That's because God's Will is perfect for me because it encompasses everything I need, including those thing I was not aware of and may not realize that I need, but God knows i need them, so His Will for my life covers every single one them.

Hence, the one thing I desire from God this year, is that, not my will but His Will be done in my life this year.

So what's yours?

That God would be real.

Truly mathematics is very important.

It's a pity many people seem to hate it.

Magnoliaa:
This, the bolded is one of the best compliments I've received in a while.

I mean, I get the usual- beautiful, 'intelligent', good hand-writing ... butttt ... I can't describe how that made me feel. I likee so much to use words how I want, the way I want to, in whatever contexts, forming them, adding them... And it felt reeeall nice to see someone notice and commend that. I mean, pinpointing (EXACTLY) what it is I do. (Poetic licence and free reins, etc).

Sooo, thank youuuu. You prolly never even imagined how your simple comment in passing would make me feel. How far it'd go. But I truly appreciate it. This is my crown cherry on a Sundae 2021 before it ends.

Now your comment. God. I'm even so giddy to string any coherent response... I'm still ''awwww-ing.'' ^_^

Lol. You're welcome.

Honesty goes a long way.

Magnoliaa:
I see. I guess it's because you and I started interacting fairly recently, I was wrongly attributing this newness to your moniker. 'Cos I was wondering how you knew that guy and the nonsense they all do. I forgot you're an old-timer. Plus I hardly see any older member without a gender next to their usernames - only 'new' monickers do that.

All of us have been all of us at one point o. I think that's very peculiar to that guy. Accusing some lady's monicker of being a thousand other monickers.

How the heeeeckkk did they ever accused of you of being Jalopee2008?? Whaat?? What's the link? How??

Oh, yeah. My own censoring is self-induced o. If I no want, I no dey like to dey refer to them directly. I didn't know 'he' is censored on Instagram.

Just LMAO.

There's no censoring for h* on Instagram (we will get there though), but I've noticed there are some words that can't be used freely online. It's funny to see you doing that here. I enjoy your poetic licence.

Lol @ without a gender. It helps in passing across the message sometimes. Few times. Though I don't consider myself an old-timer— more of a recent commenter.

I haven't been accused yet, but anything is possible. Maybe he's the outlet for an internal war. Who knows?

Vive le multiple accounts!

Magnoliaa:
Lmao. I no even care. I just wan know how you take find out ni. I'll keep it in mind to stay away from that monicker, amongst others.

H*s e-life, h*s choices.

He would come with one moniker then hide four blocks away with another one to strike like wet tissue. Same MO. He would be lucid and yet deranged all at once.

When "they" were at it there were a lot of campaigns on my alternate monikers. I am Hathour and Pocahontas. I am MariahLavina. I am you, too —and enjoying this monologue. I run Jalopy2008 on good days.

Have you began censoring those words now? I thought it was only Instagram where h* is forbidden

Magnoliaa:
So that monicker belongs to that dude? What ever gave you the impression that h* is friendly with h*s main? HAHA!

Bringing heat to the coals?

From his excessive quotes back to back, and certain mannerisms, it was clear that they were the same. They/he is now blissfully quiet.

mardis:
How is he weaponizing the children? From the attitude the woman is displaying, she isn't in anyway stable to take care of the children and besides, the children have come of the age where the father can have full possession of them.

He should collect his children, you said. Is he the only one who has the children? Did he provide the eggs used in producing them that you feel he should collect them from their mother? If not that you believe in weaponizing children, you wouldn't think so.

She is capable of caring for her children, because her issue lies with the man. Why should the man have full possession of them if he isn't trying to hurt her? They are her children too, so why should the man possess them fully if not to hurt and deprive her of her children while he goes on to have others with his lover?

You forget that he is already having another child elsewhere, while the woman isn't. So who is more negligent of the children? Who actually cares about the children? Yet you want him to take "possession" of the children, as the weapons they are in his arsenal.

The man is negligent and cares little for his children. He's only making noise because she's not allowing him to get married to another woman while still married to her, which is criminal. If he were serious he wouldn't tow his side chick path

West2019:
how did she get your girl friend contact

Yet he claims he cannot contact his wife.

Isn't this forum full of comedians?

ivolt:
Your story is confusing.
Were you actually married? Have you divorced her?

How did your ex-wife gets so close to you that she knows everything about your girlfriend?

Modified:
This is likely a fake story. This same OP was complaining about his wife not buying cloth
for their maid, less than 2 years ago. How he went from being rich to broke to rich again, divorcing and acquiring
a new girlfriend within a spate of 2 years is real wonder.

He claims the side chick is a baker, so it explains why he wants her. He needs someone to sponsor him.

His story is always what I knew it would be: full of lies and loops to make him look innocent. They probably separated because of cheating and not money.

mardis:
Try and make a proper divorce arrangement, the one that will involve her family members and yours. After that, get police involve not to arrest her o but they should cut her warnings never to come close to you, your wife or any of your family members. If she fails to adhere then she will face the penalty squarely. What a nicompoo of a woman. You want to reap what you didn't saw.

Again, please collect your children from her.

LMAO.

To the issue: aren't they her children too? How do you think weaponizing her children in that manner is lawful?

JONNYSPUTE:
.....Did you read where he said she blocked all avenues for reaching them? Why do you like arguing just to be politically correct ?

He doesn't know where the people he paid her bride price to live? The same wife that calls to threaten the girl he's cheating on her with? How does the call come in?

He knows exactly why he is demonizing his wife and he knows exactly what he's doing to get people on his side. All he has to do is mention money. No inkling of his own behavior and character in the entire write-up. He's a lamb to the slaughter, it seems.

Believe men who play innocent at your peril. Let us hear her side of the story.