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12rev:
Slaves or no slaves, the question is HOW? Not who

12rev:
Abeg where the extraterrestrials dem de now?

ThierryJay:
I also share the view that the second scenario is highly unlikely, especially as the first possibility already has a reference in the Bible. And since several documentaries have implied that the pyramids construction appeared to involve technical & engineering prowess that was beyond the capabilities of ordinary humans existing at the time, its fits into the theory of giants being involved in the process especially when you considered the fact that the bible mentions that the giants (Nimrod & co) made great technological strides at the time.

KingAzubuike:
The universe is too big for there not to be another form of life out there.

Kobojunkie:
1. His mom may be a victim but she is also the reason her children remain in that situation so, she has her part in this as the OP rightly pointed out. Being a victim does not give one a pass on making right decisions of her own.

Not saying she's right, but we can try and empathize or understand her reasons for staying back. Her decisions are clouded by the abuse she suffered. She's been conditioned to stay there. Maybe if she had a way out she was leave him.

2. The Op clearly explains that the mom fights her husband and her reason for staying, again as explained by the OP, has to do with the kids and not a want of the man in question. She is afraid she may not be able to make it on her own out there. That no be Stockholm but anxiety.

Oh, I didn't see where she fought him. I think he mentioned the man beating her constantly. But that's for the OP to say. She might be afraid and anxious, but either way, she's still a victim. We can't blame the brutish nature of his father on his mother. One is the perp and the other a victim. It's hard to understand if you haven't encountered such a case before.

ednut1:
humans have be able to go to space heaven is not there. Hence babel story is fake. Or did God move heaven in 1960s

ntyce:
Thanks

There's no physical proof that heaven is even up there...
Man has conquered everything in the planet...

I do believe in heaven though but I know it's not up..

KingAzubuike:
It's a pity at this age, y'all still don't believe in the existence of aliens. The simple answer is aliens .

No technology or man power of that era was capable of such engineering feat.

ThierryJay:
Some school of thought has it that it was the giant offsprings from the union of the fallen Angels and the earth humans that built the pyramids. They seem to be the only earthly beings with the manpower capable of pulling off the technicalities associated with the construction of the pyramids.

The only other theory is that there was superior technology at the time which would imply that there was a much more advanced generation in the early times that went extinct altogether with their know-how.

The mystery is intriguing!

ednut1:
no such thing as tower of babel. Heaven is not even in the skies

chariisGRACE:
There are numerous articles on the internet that disagrees with your claim of slaves building the Pyramid.

Professional craftsmen did the job. Some of them were not native to Egypt.

Kolawole2130:
We have been married for 3 years now. We stay in a self contained apartment. He tries as much as possible to pay his bills while I support him too with paying the bills.

Since we married, anytime I talk about childbearing he gets angry. Like he may not talk to me for days. I will be the one to come and beg him later. He says his not ready to start bearing kids that he wants to have enough money to take care of the kids. He says he doesnt want his children to suffer.

I am so pissed off, I am 32 now and he is 35 and he earns 100k while I earn 70k. Is that not enough to raise a family. Plus age is not on my side he doesnt look like he will be ready in a year time again. Am already getting tired and people around me are getting married. No body can even talk to him. His mind is made up already.

The last fight we had he said i can go and divorce him if i cannot wait till he is ready. He is busy reading for professional exam instead of him to be thinking of how to produce seed. Professional exam that will last another 2 years. His family can't even talk to him. Am just frustrated already.

jesusjnr2020:
When people try to preach about their own personal interests, likes and dislikes, opinions using God's name.

Righteousness2:
When I see or hear things as these, I see more reasons to appreciate GOD for the Privilege HE gave to I and my siblings to Have Parents who didn't put us through things as these.

Young man! I Have seen reckless Homes mend together again.
I Have seen almost radical homes come together again in Love.
The Rallying point of these Homes was JESUS Christ.

The Missing link in your Home is JESUS Christ. I can tell you that for Free.
If you can embrace JESUS Christ and Stand in the Gap in Prayer for your Home, you will be Suprised how GOD will mend every Broken walls and restore Love and Unity in the Home.

I Have seen it Happen and I Believe Same will Happen in your Father's house. But Somebody needs to stand in the Gap.

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is his mom to be held responsible for her part in the problem?

2. Why should he be wary of his mom when she doesn't seem to care much for her own self, let alone her own kids?

Phillipsburg:
Thank you so much. My mom prays. She prays so much too but whenever HE changes, he'd still revert back to his old ways. I've done a lot of talking to him, invited many elders too. But he'd always still do the same. And the worst is him making example of how his own father is a no-nonsense man.

Phillipsburg:
It's a long read because I had to pour out my mind wholeheartedly. Please endeavor to read through.



I so much hate my dad right now. And even my mom for supporting him. I can always remember how unfortunate it is for me to find myself in this family in the first place. Infact, not having a family is better than this living hell I found myself because these people are bent on ruining my future with their own life.

My father is the person who will be fighting with my mom in a brutally physical manner where they'd be running after themselves in the street after almost stripping themselves naked. He's the one who doesn't know how to reprimand his children except by using curses. He's the one who would go out and come back drunk and turn everywhere upside down. All these I've endured for almost every part of my life and my mom has refused to leave him saying because she has kids for him.
I know some of you people will start saying all manner of things about how you would have cherished your parents if you had one blah blah blah but this is hell. It's choking me I feel like dying.

I just met a girl who happened to be my girlfriend and we've been together for some time now and my father is help bent on separating us because he doesn't want me to marry close to him so that there wouldn't be clashes between him and the mother of the girl because he feels the woman is a violent person.
As they've turned the house into a place of sorrow, i couldn't think of spending even a minute inside the house. I usually spend the evening with this girl at her place and return when everyone at home must have slept. The next thing was for him to start cursing at the girl and even threatening to go to her house and throw tantrums.
I just want to get out of all these because it's choking me. I can't breathe. I feel like I'm losing my mind because of everything. The emotional torture I feel whenever they start fighting. How angry I feel when he starts cursing everyone and shouting at us in front of the house and disgracing everyone of us throughout the whole neighborhood. The way he go about gossiping and talking bad about his own children and wife to outsiders and the whole neighborhood. I'm sick of everything.

I just wish I was born without a family because I'm even afraid of imbibing his behaviors and acting like him when I later settle down. I will never forgive him for making me become who I don't want to be.

pocohantas:
Them sabi pick name wey pass them. This one sef go still complain of Naija girls. Person wey no fit ask question, e still no fit use google, but e hold smartphone.



The way he sat on his high horse to start telling us he doesn’t do this and that, I know his type. I avoid men like that. Always acting like the most principled and quality man out there. They can be very judgemental, whiny and petty ehn. E dey good make man go chill with im fellow men once in a while. Talk about man problems, laugh and forget.

Na this one wey if you dey date am, small quarrel e done type dissertation drop for your WhatsApp. You will be seeing “Njoku is typing…” for almost 30mins. Oga wetin you dey type? Rest jare!!!

PennywysCares:
Imagine
Meanwhile in nija the slayqueen will even humiliate the husband and to make it worst demand xpensive gifts this Xmas

Boniwhite:
[s]E be like sai na you be feminist patrol officer, NL chapter

cos all you do is roaming the whole cyberspace, looking for thread that bash men. Then you start spewing venom,& saying terrible things against men
the other day you literally crucified the uber guy for defending himself from a woman attacking him!

what do u want exactly?
men should lay on the flour for women to walk on?
every day you keep bashing men, were you abused as a child?

you are a bitter soul
SHAME ON YOU!!![/s]

Ahmback:
Product of bestiality

luminouz:
Well, in fairness, the small diick/terrible bed skills are on the menu of almost every jilted woman's tale. I found more than few very untrue.

The gay/bisexual bf? She already left him na. What else would I say again? That she should stay?

jornwhite:
No one as disputed or said otherwise, it makes no logical sense for a naija man to be wailing over british women, instead how about redirecting to what concerns & affect us.
if we go all day criticizing british women how many are here on NL to read it
That statistics are not available does not negate the rate of paternity fraud in nigeria, female reaction to such threads is enough hint.
Everybody needs objectivity, why will ishilove marry chatient n decide to have babies for vbunja, what kind of objectivity is that

Yes some of us will marry the ladies we condemn & criticize night n day, buh the essence of complaining or criticizing is for the women to change, hopefully if naija women change for good, naija men are direct beneficiaries thats the objective, now you see

helinues:
How about the wedding IV now... People would still know

helinues:
That's why I said only those who don't have hearts behave in such manner.

There is no need of perceiving something you are not interested to eat

It's really humiliation

qtguru:
If the gay knows he is into men, why bother with women, these guys are just disgusting.

luminouz:
Funny how all jilted women's exes always have terrible bed skills and small diick.


I just taya

helinues:
Is gay something to be proud of in Nigeria society?

And if they don't see you with girls, they start asking question as well.

But in all, only those who don't have heart behave in such manner cos sooner or later, their partner would find out.

jornwhite:
Even if the topic centers on british women, it is not out of place to discuss it in a way that concern us/nigeria, how many british women dey NL to start with

descarado:
Denial is hitting them hard.
It will get worst. More hpb loading. They haven't seen anything yet.


It is on this forum that I see a black man hating on black woman because of inferiority complex. White ladies are angels( from the comfort of their dinky rooms). They pay their bills, they do this they do that bla bla bla.
Team white woman.


And to say our sisters are seriously bleaching changing accent to appear white to these modafkers

SankaraSo:
Paternity fraud by Nigerian women is so alarming.

It has become such a serious issue.

My advice to men is - MARRY YOUNG VIRGINS.

And during the marriage nake sure to always be in charge.

Magnoliaa:
Lol... 'women are powerful and control men in marriages with bottom powers'. Ehnn, oya, let's elect women leaders. 'Noooo. Women are powerless outside the home.' Lmao.