Bola146: They wouldn't listen, na by force to buy bone straight hair and iPhone Slay mama my ass
The way some of you post.
What if it was her boyfriend who she trusted that was behind the act? What if it was her friend? You have no idea if she wanted expensive weaves, but how you've concluded on that is up to you. You don't know what phone she uses. But you're quick to assume.
What is wrong if she wears expensive weaves that she can afford? People have these things without the means you've all concluded they used to get them.
Or do directors and workers in parastatals not have children again? Who did this to you people?
Newton2024: My response in summary; every religion is biased against women and the poor. Men and the rich enjoy more under religion. Woman and the poor suffer more under religion.
However, Christianity is primarily not a religion, but a lifestyle of Christ. Jesus Christ never introduced any religion or man-made doctrine except reemphasizing the laws of the old as directly delivered by God through His prophets. All these laws were summarised into LOVE.
Any other thing outside love of God and neighbours is simply an overdo and this is what africans are known for. I believe Deeper people have realized their mistakes over the years and they have made tremendous corrections. Nobody is perfect. I believe they had those doctrines out of good intentions.
You've got it.
It would be nice if they state it openly that they made mistakes, and that there are corrections to their doctrine. This quiet way of going about it makes it look more like hypocrisy than amendment.
It was interesting having civil conversation with you though.
Newton2024: I agree with you but they were not lying to people. They only formed their doctrine based on their level of understanding then but now they know better. Just as their members have started driving cars, watching TV and wearing suits, I believe other extremism behaviours will fade out with time.
In all these, I pity their single ladies who lack independent mind most because no man will want to marry another man. Most of their men will like to marry from outside because men are moved by what they see.
But why did they use their own personal tastes to make their women look silly? I have seen them in biting cold refusing to wear leggings, trying to do work in skirts. Their women don't wear hats to church, can't wear certain clothes etc. Funny thing is their men are free to do and dress as they please.
In all one should pity their females, because they get old and nobody comes along to marry them. Their doctrine harms them because it is of men. Their women only marry boring old men who have been waiting to see their wives on the spirit, rather than just allowing them to marry themselves and pray about it later.
It can be called lying, because their main pastor has sons who married women they called worldly, sinful and hell-bound, with wedding rings to tell you how fake the whole thing is. How were they overseeing pathetic weddings while their own children have so much glamor?
Hangulsaram: Just listen to yourself, an old woman on a sick bed who has no option but to eat what was given to her and also may not want to cause trouble b/w her son and the wife. Like someone says here knowledge is also important you think if the woman has the knowledge of the implications of eating that food, she would prefer to starve to death instead. Micheal Jackson’s personal doctor is in jail today because of negligence on his side. So you don’t know that this DIL a an go to jail for negligence and manslaughter. @ Beremx, You would n’t quote Oyibo’s now. She simple killed the woman out of negligence so all of you here talking trash should stop defending evil. @ SoundOsonic Just read the nonsense epistle you type there. I’m not saying the man should not forgive his wife, the deed has been done but let condemn evil and teach people to be careful with other people especially when their life is involve.
Listen to yourself.
Why didn't his mother talk? She was not in her sick bed when she ate the food. She was simply not to eat salty or sugary foods. Why didn't his mother tell her that the food is salty and remind her about her dietary restrictions?
You people are being unnecessarily emotional. Perhaps there's a reason you want his wife to suffer for a mistake that even the man himself could make, because all his mother had to do was remind her. After all, she was talking to the doctor. The doctor didn't magically know what happened to her. The mother told him. Why couldn't she tell her daughter in law? That's something the OP is avoiding while trying to demonize his wife.
What trouble could she cause calling her son to tell him since you say his wife has horns and fire oozing from her mouth, as the scary demon she is?
There's a lot the OP has not said in his story.
I sympathize with his mother, though. But she has to speak out. This is her health that is at stake. No time to fear who she will offend by asking for less salt in her food.
FamilyAdviser: Today I went to a land I purchased newly to supervise the fencing and also set it on fire to ease weeding the grasses behold I saw this big snake, I gave it a hot chase with the help of my brother we killed it.
My brother insisted we eat it I refused after much deliberation we took it home and used it for pepper soup. I tasted it and along the line I end up eating over three pieces of it.
This is how it began and ended
Did you remove the scales while cooking it? Why is it still so colorful?
Blue3k: Certain people like to ask how can desert northern Nigeria be more populated that tropical southern Nigeria. That argument rest on two false premises that are easily be refuted with common sense or some basic research. Northern Nigeria isn’t a desert and most of Nigeria is tropical savannah. Nigeria also has extensive river system that can easily support its large population. Note none of this tells which population is larger at any given time that’s why the census is conducted.
A desert is a place that gets less than 250 mm of rain per year. (Map below)
Most of northern Nigeria is Tropical wet and dry climate type with semi-arid climate in the northern most parts of the northwestern and northeastern Nigeria. Only a sliver of Borno is desert at the border of Niger Republic. (Map below)
List of major Northern cities and avg yearly rainfall: Kano, Kano – 674 mm Jos, Plateau - 1240 mm Ilorin, Kwara - 852 mm Abuja FCT - 1469 mm Kaduna, Kaduna – 998 mm Maiduguri, Borno – 466 mm Bauchi, Bauchi – 1122 mm Sokoto, Sokoto – 398 mm Yola, Adamawa – 624 mm Minna, Niger – 1161 mm Lafia, Nasarawa – 1061 mm Jalingo, Taraba – 602 mm Katsina, Katsina – 437 mm Mubi, Adamawa – 853 mm Makurdi, Benue – 983 mm Gombe, Gombe – 437 mm Birnin Kebbi, Kebbi – 467 mm Gusau, Zamfara – 577 mm Dutse, Jigawa – 638 mm Lokoja, Kogi – 1167 mm
Newton2024: It's like they have understood their mistake and they want to correct it but they don't know how to come out on it openly. This is why it is good for everyone to be independent minded so that fellow human like you will not use his overzealousness to mislead you.
It's hard to correct.
Why did they make their members have a strange set of lives, then suddenly turn around to change it? They should come out openly and say they were lying to people to live like that. Not by bringing out the epitome of sinful living as a speaker.
Maybe their heavens requirements have changed.
Beware, the doctrine of men. Unstable as many Waters.
Beautiful responses here to the eternal negativity some boys use as a screen for their life insecurities and failures.
If marriage is so bad why not ignore it, rather than fighting it all day with hard words, when in the end it is likely that a lack of money has made you disdain, hate women, relationship goals and statuses that are unattainable to you? These things sound like self-hate being projected at women.
Same misogynists/women scorners that are secretly dying and plotting to have romance and get married to the dreadedwomen one way or the other, by hook and by crook. There's a lot of growing up to be done.
Newton2024: What is worldly with wearing ear rings? Please enlighten me.
Ask the people in that sect. That they can allow such a woman in their Church after dooming women in their Church to looking boring and dirty, isn't that an all time high for confused dogma?
But you see the woman that came to anointed Jesus Christ before his death also wear rings and Jesus never cast her away, infact Jesus say her sins be forgiven for her and she go justify.
Although the woman is wearing ear rings, we as deeper life we don't cast sinner away, let them come the way they are as long as Jesus will save them.
Even Gs also preach message on deeper life saying no ear rings in the church which have led to discrimination in the church whereby some who are not save don't like coming to our church.
As long as they will be save by Christ why then should we say no discrimination .
Moreso The program is a non denominational program. You might say we are becoming worldly but remember Jesus say go and preach to sinner not church goer or deeper life goer.
I hope you understand now.
Behold the doctrine of men that changeth much!
Does that church accept the wearing of earrings? Do their sect members wear earrings? Aren't these the people who demonize women for wearing jewelry and get married by exchanging Bibles instead of wedding rings? People who can't let someone walk in to their Church with her head uncovered or in trousers? In a sleeveless blouse?
Does this mean their women can now look like that woman and still come to church and get to your anti-jewelry heaven?
Don't try and whitewash these people.
Why is this Church getting worldly, and the world getting churchy?
kmcutez: Even if true, it’s that how all these things should be revealed. Why did he not make a police report, instead of coming to social media to talk like a child. What concerns us with revealing that Burna ran to Ghana because they wanted to kill him. What concerns us with Shatta fucking Burna’s girlfriend. WTF concerns us with all these rubbish talk. Please don’t quote me again if you don’t want me to spew my anger on you.
Anger on behalf of Burns, an alleged criminal?
His manner of exposing him is left up to him, but if he didn't say it, would you be happy listening and gyrating to a murderer or a person who could potentially sexually assault any female just because he's from your country? Isn't it good that it's in the open? It means he's dangerous. Criminals waive anonymity.
So he was having sex with his girlfriend? These musicians are something else. Which styles did they do together?
Vinnie2000: You have turned to this to m*le bashing, right?
No. It's simply facts.
You do crimes or post foolish things. When it threatens your career, don't look for whom to blame but yourself. Yet it seems these people don't know that's how it works.
But lucky for them, they have brainless followers who are the same and don't care for human lives.
kmcutez: Nigerian artistes should leave Ghana. I’ve been saying this for awhile. They don’t want to listen. See as Ghanaians are dragging them into the mud. Very soon they will all lose respect. Nigerians, please leave Ghana. I don’t talk anyhow o!!
How is he dragging him in the mud if it happens to be true?
The way Nigerians are quick to attribute the crimes or idiocy of people who they worship to other people, claiming they are being witch-hunted, when they come to light is absurd.
Expected. Nigerians worship the worst sorts of people.
I.ambull on this forum posts garbage and some idiots on the forum still want to listen to his "music". Later on when it comes up he will say women are out to destroy him, and that it's the work of his enemies.
Actually not. Why didn't his mother speak? It's only a person who can't speak that will keep quiet and look on while they are being given what they know they can't stomach. What happened to calling her son aside and telling him?
Unless, of course, the OP is lying about that part, because it doesn't make any sense.
i926: Enugu metropolis is underlain by shale which is an aquitard, and borehole instability might be another issue due to the shaly nature of the subsurface. Running a geophysical survey before drilling, will definitely yield a good outcome on where to drill and depth to drill to. But the problem with the people is that they don't believe in spending money. I know a hotel worth millions, but there's no borehole, they buy water to refill. Drill borehole..mba.
Unlike Northern politicians that commission water projects for their people in cities, towns and villages..an average Eastern politician would prefer to carry some big booty bitch than do such.
Igbos ain't really smart.
Do you think they will listen?
Nigerians don't drill boreholes properly/knowledgeably. They feel they should just drill anywhere and water will come out. They don't believe in survey. They think it's a way to steal money from them. Anything that requires them to get a professional opinion is usually avoided. It is the same reason why rather than seeing a doctor, they prefer to come online and take any medicine they see.
TheGift: What exactly is your question? In plain and simple English , please?
You don't want men to be red pilled anymore?
You seem to be against men getting the red pill.
The red pill says you cannot let a woman walk away. Especially not with anything a man owns. Not even if she has given years of her life and children to the man.
That is the red pill gospel. Now, for you to denounce such acts, you are against it. Watch out for the S-word being used to quote you.
Timoleon: No where in the write up does it say the woman paid for the roof. If she did, she’s entitled to it but I’m not convinced she did as there’s no information to support that.
Because women can't afford pieces of roofing sheet, right? You need information to prove it while you assumed he owns it without any information to that effect.
franchasng: She doesn't need to fulfill all his demands, she is not obligated to do so. She can do the ones she can and ignore others. But bringing it to the public to mock the man is a total no, she lost it
But he lost it. He was trying to manipulate her with his position.
He claimed it was god asking her to buy his children a car and get his wife a new years present. When she was doing her good deeds that she felt led to, she was doing them quietly. It's when he decided to prove he's not genuine in his intentions that she had to expose him. Maybe her post will help someone else realise they're being used in the name of religion.
Too many pastors get away with evil when people don't speak out.
maestroferddi: He was not putting a gun to her neck to oblige him.
She could have declined and moved on....
The arrogance is completely needless...
Likewise the begging is needless.
He didn't have a gun, but he was misusing his authority/position as a pastor to demand things he never demanded of his father. He was even giving her "prophecies" to sway her to believing him so that he could make more demands. Manipulation.
That's not how to repay kindness. That is fake pastorship.