₦airaland Forum

studentofTruth:
Whatever you say, you haven't experienced parasitic friendship. If you do, you will know that some so-called friends are better cut off from the taproot.

Imagine a friend who can see you in an accident and only think of picking your phone and whatever money you have and walking away!

I have seen it all!

Your friend did that to you?

Hamiltonii:
Concentrate on your life, Simp.

Incel.

Let's see what the Trump haters will make of this.

It's not a presidential issue but why didn't they didn't notice water levels falling since? Incompetence on every front. By the time all the (illegal) migrants join in drinking up all the more water on their special visas...

Hamiltonii:
You are a gay. gay!

Try not to make women an issue in your life, especially as you will have daughters who you will read these misogynist posts of yours to.

Ayo2004:
Some of these oyinbos are crazier than Nigerians and that says a lot

If it were to be a black man,many stupid Nairalanders will come out and starting saying rubbish like "black man never learns","Africa is cursed"

Even without running water and toilets, there is no black or African that foolish. They would've been using everywhere else in public as a toilet.

The story is even hard to believe. How was he coping with the stench?

Hamiltonii:
Are you a gay?

Are you an incel?

Hamiltonii:
That's the language feminists understand. Force and power so that they would know they are second to men. They should do ONLY what men permit them to do. I like the Islamic view on women. No apologies.

Why don't you like the Western view on men?

thundafire:
U know they read. Trump signed the withdrawal notice since last year and Biden now in power have seen that the people of Afghanistan are sabotaging themselves instead they decided to leave them. Did u see the military forces fighting then u will understand that even the military forces are even in support of Taliban

(Let's pretend it was Trump who made this decision. )

Anyway, that's the business of Afghans. It's getting obvious that wherever terrorists are, the soil is fertile with supporters.

Nbotee:
Oga is seeking attention as Messi has taken over the media and airwaves.. Since wen is transfer rumour concerning him now an issue?

Probably now the trend, kind of like Osaka.

apatheticme:
That was me being sarcastic bro

Good morning!

Lol, I didn't even notice that was what you were doing.

Good morning, sis.

Ishilove:
Disgusting!!

Not really.

What if that's the only way he could find love and happiness in a relationship?

They're better off than some single straight people who can't get a committed partner or child.

apatheticme:
Maybe they have a conscience afterall!!!

Is it possible? Don't forget these people have committed so many atrocities, and it won't be the first time they're seeing people fleeing from them.

These ones probably want special visas, and once in America will begin to fight for what they claim to be running from. Some will return there in future or their children will, to continue terrorism, as is happening currently.

PrinceMajestic:
It's a actually a win win situation. Sharia should be used to govern the world, if you're not morally corrupt I see no reason why sharia should be problem to you. You want a world where men sex men, where men sex any woman they see, where girls walk half naked, get naked on TV for you to watch, Bleep on TV for you to watch all in the name of civilisation and human rights, a world where leaders steal funds and nothing is done to them, a world where injustice, corruption and evil are celebrated, a world where women claims to be equal with men, a world that criminalise God approved breeding ratio 1:4 but allows 1 man 1 wife disregarding the women high population and leaving women to prostitution without marriage. This is the world we current live in only the Talibans sharia laws can cleanse the world of this evil. You guys are too evil, Let Sharia reign

Is it only about sex? Is that all religion holds— policing sex and women?

If that's how they find love, who are we to judge?

henryobinna:
so men deciding to go their own way and those who decide to enlighten themselves about the tricks females use to take advantage of them, is evil and demonic.

The Bible tells you in all your gettings get wisdom, but it appears you've decide to dwell and permanently wallow in ignorance that is why anything you don't understand or have poor knowledge of is evil to you. I feel pity for the kids that'd grow under your guidance. May God help such children.

I feel more sorry for any women or children under your guidance. Imagine an adult talking about tricks of women. Only a weak man believes the demonic irresponsible message of trp and mgtow, two creations of bitter white men on the internet. What would you have to offer any woman or child except hate and demonic input?

Wisdom demands sense and thinking before speaking, but you have neither of those nor the principal thing. You've dwelled so long in sexist pretence of wisdom that when you drop posts it highlights your very lack of it from your words.

It's attitudes like yours that breed feminism. And if you quote, it won't be read or responded to. Tough luck.

Nice to see the people who use more than one account on the same thread.

If men want feminism to end, they have to end male sexism and other undesirable attitudes.

Rather than acknowledge that, men are fighting to continue as they are. They've used the Bible and biology to try and justify their "superiority", to try and bend women to their will, yet it won't stick. Misogyny breeds feminism. If you don't want feminists then stop misogyny. Unfortunately, many men who are beneficiaries of male privilege will argue blindly for the next decade because they are scared to lose undue benefits. Begin to scrutinize your actions, words towards women and you will see where feminism comes from.

It will be interesting to see what happens in the next 10 years in Nigeria. Maybe men will embrace homosexuality to cope with the fall out. Or maybe they will be backing up their female children with feminism hypocritically.

ume1000:
did you advocate for female superiority aka feminism

Yes or no

"No insult intended but







if foolishness could be measured you would be used as it's si unit"

ume1000:
so you want women to rule over you

Why not ask the US to be under Nigeria since you so advocate equality

Perhaps you would ask God to explain himself to you afterall he is a being

Yours truly was recently a victim of feminism
A woman attacked me in my house , destroyed my properties ,tore my clothes but fools like u said

* You for comot from the house give am
Another said
*You no know say na woman

*If woman dey curse u Waka leave am

The idiots said I was wrong in my own house , shouldn't have retaliated

If you want women to rule over u it's up to you just don't bring this foolishness online

In contrast to what most simp think

FEMINISM IS NOT GENDER EQUALITY ITS FEMALE SUPERIORITY

No insult intended but







if foolishness could be measured you would be used as it's si unit

LMAO.

What does what you quoted have to do with your post?

Your story is more funny than stupid at this point.

You're another emotional man who can't stick to the topic due to his assumptions. How do you know what I would've said? Isn't that foolish of you to claim?

If you have a problem with simps who advised you, go and meet women who have been told to apologize to their husbands after the masochists beat them to comas.

BTW, hope you've apologized to said lady? You didn't watch your mouth with her. See what your nagging caused.

tensazangetsu20:
Boko haram members are everywhere in Nigeria. They are in the navy, army, air force, police, frsc name it. Also their sympathisers. All this Okada men, gatemen and co from the north are sympathisers or members of the group. Southern Nigerians are still sleeping when E set E go happen. I will just be far from this shithole and watch the islamisation from afar. It's my tribe the igbos I feel sorry for but Igbo land is gone walai. The inner Igbo villages are already being islamised.

You know the drill. This is exactly what happened in Afghanistan. Even in the next hundred years they will be at war, because there are sympathizers among the people they are trying to "rescue". One even wonders if they really need rescuing. Nigeria is entering that stage. Moderates who secretly sympathize and support the cause. Politicians who try to use them while they can still bend. And the well-known faces who say the opposite of what they want.

All inner villages have been compromised. You need to see some of the deep reaches they go to behead people at. I once saw such a post in the newspaper. Via the herdsmen, every part of the interior is known.

Nigerians are fond of praying, they'd better be praying because from 2023, 2021 will begin to look like paradise.

tensazangetsu20:
The fate of Nigeria in the next ten years. I just feel for future Igbo girls who would be married off to jihadists. Prepare for names like amaka Umar and ezinne abubakar.

Lol. This is way too fatalistic.

But it's surprising the rate at which they're overrunning Afghanistan. Nigeria is already massively infiltrated, with the daily news we see. Hopefully they will sleep for long.

neyoohhh:
Not an argument.

All the best.

Assumer, FC.

K.

neyoohhh:
An insult isn't a sign of intelligence, the joke is on you.

You can say, according to so and so report compiled by so and so, we can see that 80 percent of women are physically assaulted, 40 percent are this and that for clarity..

Yes , it's better to be backwards than forward thinking when dealing with reprobates, I'll rather fight for true human rights than waste time on entitled cry babies.

Thing's that matter in my world..
Productivity, family stability, community, children's safety, lifting people out of poverty etc not useless woke grifters.

Adios

You still sound uselessly stupid.

Go back to your sand castle, assumer.

Adieu.

urchcoded:
your point being?

If we are following our feelings of superiority to be what nature demands, we would be right to accept the slavery of blacks and the supremacy of the white man. They believed it is nature for them to be above blacks and rule them. They graciously came to Africa to make sure of it and get manpower to do wonders. If we follow the Bible on such things, they have a right and reason to. And they have proved it was divinely mandated by the extent to which they have singlehandedly developed the world for all humanity. They are truly the lords of this planet.

neyoohhh:
You have no statistical evidence, is correct. Your rebuttal should be , here are my stats to show what i have written is based on objective reality but no , you ignored that part and assumed it's a personal attack.

You said it , which means you must have experienced it hence the corresponding assertions .

The whole crust of society now is that everyone wants to be either a victim or virtue signalling.

The perpetually agreived have thrown out common sensibilities of objective reality in favour of subjective rationalizations of truth's

They want to be victims and perpetrators at the same time.

Rubbish

You still sound incredibly stupid. How do you manage to do it?

Renew your mind and stop hallucinating.

Some grew up in palaces with great networks and supposedly good women in their lives, yet they are as backward as the ghetto when it comes to human rights and equality. What a joke.

neyoohhh:
No statistical evidence.. it's all in your head.

Maybe the families you come from, my network is full of families who reared lovely women and prioritized them over males.

Sometimes, I wonder if Nigeria is a multitude of countries pretending to be one because everyone's point of views are so divergent.

Maybe you grew up in the ghetto where men beat women . Can't relate.

When you can't face it, you try to turn it into a personal attack.

Who told you I grew up in the ghetto? Don't become ridiculous in your deflection and detraction from the truth. Some of you are so scared of the reality you begin to post your hallucinations about me. You know nothing about me.

Guess it's another one of the "it's your_______" crew on the beat.

Jump out of my mentions. You have nothing sensible to say. These particular assumptions you made make you sound stupid.

urchcoded:
Both are toxic. From the biblical perspective, you cannot be a christian and feminist. No, you have to submit, or keep quiet and let a man speak. This means a lot. Of course, it's an ancient book, written when women had little or no value. They were actually commodities. As times changed, people realized that the old testament was too old and could not represent the realities of the recent times, hence the new testament came about, which took to account the realities of the changing times. Well as far as I'm concerned, the new testament is now old and should be updated to accommodate the realities of today at least women shouldn't be told to shut up and wait for someone to talk because the person has a penis. Anyway, naturally, there is no balance to this gender issue, you can modify nature or tweak it and get away with the consequences some of the time, but never always. Most times, nature has a way of reminding you that you have altered something fundamental and the more you try to repair it the more it scatters further. In other words, apply caution in seeking so called equality between men and women, it has consequences. Some, you may override, some will lead to a ripple of chaos in the family, society and the world at large.

Must be the same nature that makes whites superior to blacks. They need to reinstitute slavery so that we can follow the Bible perspective properly.

Righteousness

Feminism isn't evil. It is like white people saying racial equality is evil.

And if they are both evil, why have pastors neglected talking about the large number of men who use masochist cults like the incels, red pill and men going their own way to demean, oppress and abuse women? These are rebellious male cults and pastors need to talk about them more than the attention they give anything to do with women.

Or maybe they are quiet about them because they support and believe those evils as men.

If men treated women well, there would be no feminism. The root cause needs exposing and treatment. Not hiding from it. Because we don't want to compare it, we end up allowing a greater evil to fester.

Check the news on what sexism/masochism has caused. Recently a young man shot to death several people including his own mother because in his male cult they all hate women and down grade feminists. They believe they are superior and women owe them preference.

In African homes, they go to church to fight feminism and return home to beat and oppress their wives because of what? Is that living as God wanted it?

Ijaya123:
Who still listens to Feminists? Maybe those who want to end up frustrated and devastated.

Oyedepo was right anyway. You cannot be a feminist and still be practicing Christianity. What both preaches are at variance to each other.

Simply put, if you’re a feminist, dont marry.



Feminism has everything to do with marriage. Maybe you should tell us the definition that Nigerian women have given feminism. We can take it up from there.

Tell us what feminism has to do with marriage, while you're enjoying the benefits of feminism on a daily basis.

The question is: what do Nigerian men understand as feminism that makes them dedicate so much time on the pulpit, in hatred and fear to trying to condemn it, rather than working on being better men in marriage? Is it that the church has no better message?

Is it fighting feminism that will take them to heaven?

Too many insincere pastors who preach half messages, and men with misplaced priorities that listen to them.

Answer the question and ascertain the truth that Nigerian men don't know what feminism is.

[quote author= ]The feminism we have now isn’t a fight for equal right in all areas...It’s favouring women at the expense of men, And women are bringing the ideology into their homes causing problems in already difficult to manage marriages...

That is what the pastors are against..women are our sisters, wives, daughters, cousins. .nobody is after suppressing women...u women are the ones crying foul all the time..[/quote]How is it favoring women at the expense of men?

In Nigeria? Or in the UK? If in the UK, why is that an issue to Nigerians in Nigeria? If in Nigeria, has the patriarchy been abolished, and aren't men still with glaring male privilege?

Feminism seems to be an issue to men who know the structure is crumbling and the positions they've held aren't because of merit but because of gender.

Those pastors who preach these things are defending their monopoly over a lot of things, and by keeping women in their defined state of submission, they remain the decision makers over the lives of others and beneficiaries.

That is why rather than preaching to men, they preach to women. Way too many men are interested in the preaching of submission, to the detriment of their own value in a marriage. I was surprised to see a man say that a man loves his wife by providing for her. No, he doesn't.

With women able to provide for themselves and their families, how can that former male privilege be a definition of love? One can easily see where men are confused about what they have to do, because they have never been preached to about it. They don't understand that providing money is a responsibility they owe their family according to the same Bible.

Feminism is something men would , if they cared to understand it, embrace. Unfortunately, they are treating it like televisions, the internet and Facebook.

We all know the public outcry and how they said the world would end in 2000AD, the same pastors. Yet here we all are making use of tech and the internet. All of them have online channels.

Their objections are invalid and they will eventually conform. You can't keep people as lesser humans, yet you want to be free from being ruled just because you were born with a penis.

The castle is bound to crumble.

jesusjnr2020:
Lol! The bolded is quite funny but makes sense.

The problem is with their mindset. Before I got saved, I have heard several church leaders justify the ego of a man severally and say that man was made that way by God, but It was only when I got more knowledge about God and His things, that I came to know that it was such a big lie and completely unfounded, because God didn't make man that way in the beginning. A man's ego only came after his fall, therefore it was as a result of sin.

So that's the ungodly mindset they are still using to judge women, not that of Christ even though they claim to be His followers.

Very true.

It's interesting to note that you gained this understanding after knowing more about God.

I've never believed men are born with pride/ego, because biblically it is the devil who carries that trait. Yet it is something these pastors say proudly in defense of irascible, irresponsible, irredeemable behavior from men whenever they want to hold marriage series: "We are men, we have pride, we have a lot of pride". That is carnality talking.

In whose image is that? Who is their true father? When the devil showed pride, what response did he get? It's the same response gotten in marriages.

Most men attend these church marriage services because they know it is mostly about submission for their wives. submission as Nigerians know it is something different. When you tell them to love their wives, they tell you that you can love your wife and cheat on her, because they are men. It doesn't make sense.

We need Jesus. Urgently.

Akuruoulo:
Why not recite it ?

Why should I? Any curious man can read it for himself. Or is searching the scriptures forbidden to men?

I leave the thread for Bible bangers to actually read their Bibles.

LilMissFavvy:
What are you talking about? Am I a MOG? Do I own a church? You men know the truth yet can never remind your MOGs to preach the needful. You hate it when people speak up.

Don't mind that character.

He's all over the place asking others to preach, while he did sits back and makes assumptions.

If you ask him why pastors avoid preaching that men who can't take care of their families are infidels, he will tell you to go and preach it, as if you're the pastor who is avoiding it. Too many self serving men in churches.

Don't be surprised it's a woman behind that handle.

Akuruoulo:
Which verse of the Bible were they afraid to read out ?
This is my question

They(the verses) come right after the submission one, so it's just a matter of reading on rather than selectively reading.