₦airaland Forum

Nasri100:
Come on tell me the truth. No more blue balls.

What, you did it already? Trapped? 5 kids? Ugly wife? She ain’t even got a job? Damn you don’t got a job too?

Tell me the truth what happened? We are here to help you.

But you finna need a real job cause it ain’t gona be easy especially if you trapped in this hell hole called Nigeriaghanistan. Things are changing. The world is getting harder.

Man You finna pay child support and bills till your hair coming from your follicles turn pink

Wish you luck a s s h o l e

You are stupid. And naive.

Teenagers like yourselves will post any amount of rubbish they can summon.

NigeriaIsGreat:
take for instance Mr A earn 50k monthly then gave birth to 6 children. While Mr B earning same 50k has just a kid. Even though both of them are poor, but Mr B can still cater for his only child much better than Mr A with 6 kids

Even if he has one child he will still be poor.

Children are not the cause of poverty.

Scholace:
at least you have accepted too many children causes poverty right? But your argument now is that it is not only too many children that causes poverty. Of course we know there are other factors that cause poverty.

Children cause poverty, whether one or two of them. That's what is constantly pushed here. People are poor because they have children.

Kobojunkie:
If that is what you get from this here...Studies in the United States have shown that one's economic mobility is greatly impacted by the economic status of the family one is born into.
... then I can't help you.

~Children cause poverty.

Kobo junkie 2024, 2023, 2022, 2021

Interestingly you're also an anti marriage crusader. I understand you may have certain dispositions you may not want to pass on to your children, but to say that children are the cause of poverty, that's a little too much.

NigeriaIsGreat:
what other factors aside too many children will you attribute as the cause of POVERTY?

It's not just children that cause poverty.

But if you think it is, that's alright.

Kobojunkie:
It seems lying is what you've resorted to in this case.

Studies in the United States have shown that one's economic mobility is greatly impacted by the economic status of the family one is born into.

~Children cause poverty.

Kobo junkie 2024, 2023, 2022, 2021

NigeriaIsGreat:
yes you're right, some family with just a child or two are also poor but you wouldn't compare the level of poverty of those with 1 or 2 child to those with six children. Some single persons too are also poor, but at least they do not bring in innocent children to the world to suffer and continue the cycle of POVERTY in their lineage. I believe you know Nigeria is in a sorry state now? Government is the major cause of it, while the masses has their own share. One of the causes of the masses is having children beyond their resources. These children at the end of the day are being put under pressure to take over the responsibility of the family which has led so many of them into crime like Yahoo, robbery, kidnapper, ritualist etc inorder to take care of their family.

You have been fair.

These vices can be found in any type of person. I tend to disagree with it as I know some people with one child who have never seemed to get it right. And I know those with more than 4 children and they're much better off.

There are a host of other factors that determine poverty.

Kobojunkie:
Again, Studies in the United States have shown that one's economic mobility is greatly impacted by the economic status of the family one is born into.
Having children in poverty impacts the family's economic mobility as well as that of the children.

Why are you denying what you're saying? Children cause poverty according to you.

Kobojunkie:
That was never said nor implied. Rather, what I consider to insist on is what was made clear in research which is that having children in poverty directly impacts the economic mobility of the family and the children themselves.

But they have children and they are poor, so children cause poverty. Isn't that what you and the gnu nasri100 are saying?

Kobojunkie:
It has been researched and shown to be the primary cause of homelessness among singles in over 68% of states in America. Yes, drug abuse which leads to mental illness is the number one cause of homelessness for singles. Now, then this does not consider those whose cases of mental illness and health problems were not even drug-related.

2. You are making statements against known facts. It impacts the economic status of a family as well as the economic mobility of those children.

People with children are poor~you are right.

What is the non-academic thing he can't mention? Did he harass or rape anyone?

NigeriaIsGreat:
in Nigeria, most poor people have more children than the rich ones. Poverty is synonymous to too many children in Nigeria. You can hardly see a poor man with one or two kids in Nigeria. Even if you want to be wise as a poor man to have less children, your fellow poor people will convince you beyond unreasonable doubt to have more children expecially if you don't have both sex yet. This is a terrible problem in Nigeria.

It's not only people with many children who are poor.

Nasri100:
I don’t know why you and Lalastiklala are replying that dumb ass BRATISLAVA or whatever the name is on this topic.

It’s clear these are the people that don’t see anything wrong in giving birth to many kids without a plan to raise them. You can’t afford the next meal yet you are giving birth to 5 kids and one idiot doesn’t see anything wrong in this?

I am bored of impacting common sense into these lots. Nigeria will never get better trust me. These people are the majority.

You are stupid. And naive.

Kobojunkie:
Studies in the United States have shown that one's economic mobility is greatly impacted by the economic status of the family one is born into.
Try to apply that to the Nigerian setting and you immediately begin to see why it is essential for a man and woman to plan out there family and lives not based on how many children they desire to have but on how many they can afford. While having many children is not the cause of poverty, it has been linked to why many are unable to rise out of poverty. Why do the poor have large families

2. Some can afford the many children they have. However, the vast majority of those who have many children cannot afford to feed or even cloth them let alone educate them.

3. Comparing a family with kids they are unable to fend for in poverty to a homeless man with mental/health issues unable to keep up as a result of the disability is unfair.

Not all homeless people have mental health issues. There are a lot of single, childless people living in multidimensional poverty. Having many children doesn't determine anything.

There are also a lot of people with many children who are middle class and above.

LalastiklaIa:
Yes their are homeless people without children but it would be worse if those homeless people now have so many children to constitute nuisance in the future.

Then why demonize having many children since it clearly is not a result of that?

Man sounding woman.

JaskTime7:
No. He has not done any test yet.

He should. I believe blood pressure tests are free.

Didi2d:
Did you say Angola?

Maybe after stealing diamonds.

Lifeinlight:
does changing of environment guarantee success?

Different things work for different people. A change of location is always a good shift.

JaskTime7:
he has been complaining migraine headache, weaknesses and body pain. He hardly sleep at night sometime

I send you a mail

Has he been tested for common ailments in older people, eg. High blood pressure, diabetes?

Neptunium:
It's no curse but lack of money. 5 children from 2 parents who don't have the financial means to fend for them.

Why do you people like to act as if having many children is the cause of people who have (financial) problems in life?

What about the people with many children who don't have that problem? Having fewer children is not the solution to lifes problems, so please, stop looking down on and bashing such people.

There are homeless people who have never been married and have no children, living rough on the streets. Which "5 children" do you blame for that happening?

CockPit:
All these ugly poor white women on welfare dating our eligible young men.

Isn't he an ugly poor black man looking for her benefits himself? What is eligible about him when he's the leech?

Hathor5:
I am interested in the curriculum for a one-year-old-baby. I was hoping someone would enlighten me as to what teachers are instructed to teach this age group in particular.

There's no 1 year old curriculum. Neither is there a 10 year old curriculum for a child in grade 8.

They'll be in class with the other children who are older, but their presence there means they will learn anyway. You'll just know if your child is able to learn and interact. I can't explain it.

Hathor5:
A lot? What is a lot exactly? Is there a curriculum for 1-year-old-kids?

Depends on their learning pace. Children will learn regardless.

Personally speaking, a child can go to school at 1 year of age. Do I recommend it? No. It's not for everyone. The curriculum is whatever class they fit into in school.

Hathor5:
It doesn`answer my question. What can a 1-year-old learn at school?

A lot for a year old person.

Some children talk faster than walk earlier than others.

Ibtxxo:
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How can he break the York?
He is planning of doing rituals to make money since he had lost hope in life.
Is money that is just holding him back.
The baba told him to bring 100k to do the work

Plus the head of his only beloved friend he confides in.

Movie role?

Cooolme:
Greetings everyone. This festive season, I traveled to my family house and noticed something.

We rented out the 2 bedroom in our compound to this couple with a little girl around 4 year old I think.

Understand that my lil Bro (10) is the last born, so he stays with my Mom and 3 other of my sisters including the eldest. He is very close to our last sister (13), they do literally everything together.

So I noticed whenever our last sister plays with this our neighbour's kid, my lil Bro leaves whatever he's doing to join them. He grew up with the ladies in the house though cos My dad is late so I'm more like the father figure now. I don't live with them, the 2nd boy (17) lives with me and is in the university at my state of residence. This is a new estate we moved into and unlike our former estate where he goes out to play with his peers at the play ground, this one is very quiet and more like OYO (on your own).

Normally, there's a gaming console in the house and also a desktop computer, put them all in the house last year, he could make use of that whenever he's bored but he choose to play with the girls. My Mom doesn't have a problem with that but I don't want him to start behaving like a girl or something, so I'm considering putting him in a good boarding school cos he's too young to come stay with me at the moment.

Also looking out for the best way possible to handle this, need advice from mainly parents please.

Thanks.

He'll become gay if you dare that. Just leave him be.

ivolt:
Since most of the men are the wives in the relationship, they are expected to praise their husbands .

LMFAO

Bongadu:
yt women are over rated, you'll hate yourself for forking one tbh

But you will want to take their daughters from them after 7 years, right?

guysbewise:
With chatGPT Linux ports commands are now child's play:

netstat:
netstat -tulpn: Lists all listening ports along with the processes using them.

ss (Socket Statistics):
ss -l: Displays listening sockets.
ss -t -a: Shows all TCP sockets.

nmap (Network Mapper):
nmap <target>: Scans open ports on a target machine.
nmap -p <port> <target>: Scans a specific port on a target machine.

telnet:
telnet <hostname> <port>: Tests connectivity to a specific port on a remote server.

lsof (List Open Files):
lsof -i: Lists all open network connections.

iptables:
iptables -L: Shows the current firewall rules, including port-based rules.

firewalld:
firewall-cmd --list-ports: Lists all open ports managed by firewalld.

nc (Netcat):
nc -zv <hostname> <port>: Checks if a port is open on a remote machine.

socat:
socat TCP-LISTEN:<local-port>,reuseaddr,fork TCP:<target-host>:<target-port>: Forwards traffic from a local port to a remote host.

tcpdump:
tcpdump port <port>: Captures network traffic on a specific port.

lspci:
lspci -nnk | grep -i net: Lists PCI devices, including network adapters.

Are you the OP?