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jacoik:
It depends on the tooth you want to remove. It range from 8k to 20k base on your location. You will first do S & P before removing it tooth/teeth. S &P is 10k plus the teeth

What is S & P?

Some people talking about compacted teeth. This is the forum where anything goes. LMAO.

Go and visit a dentist.

etrange:
Sorry, OP. Please, don't take drug prescriptions from internet users. It's very important that you follow the instructions of your physician.

He mentioned his laboratory scientist.

nigeriansamurai:
ok sir, please go look for a defenseless kid to molest cause if you near me i will beat you till you see JESUS and MOHAMMED...

You didn't understand my post.

People who are happy to these animals and are supporting them as natural are likely the same people who will feel conflicted when their daughters have to use the same restrooms as people who identify as girls yet aren't. For now they're playing at activism.

nigeriansamurai:
7 gay people liked the above comment

They aren't.

They are likely 7 straight women who believe that's equality. Not until they insist on showering with their daughters at the gym, because there are many identities that appreciate the support but are pernicious.

TERFs know better.

Ancient hologram, if that's the hologram pictured. Such poor taste.

1Sharon:
I think the reason why men die before women is because they don't speak up when they need help. They bottle things up.

That's not why.

As logical beings, what should one expect when men don't marry women their age or older than they are? Logically who dies first, the wife who is 20 years younger or the older by 20 years husband? The man, clearly.

That's where the evening newspaper anthem and other illogical indoctrination gets men. But when the results are plain to see, we instead hear that it's about having many children or struggling to maintain their finances.

No. It's because men are often times older than their wives.

descarado:
When you didn't bring up your chikd with love, those posts are what you get.
Angry narcissists with low self esteem.

Really loveless people.

descarado:
40yrs
I laugh in Cantonese

Majority of the people here are in secondary school.

The adult here are in few threads and the content of the threads will show you they are matured.
Reason I don't bother responding most times.
Just read and pass

One is angry at what you quoted lol.

I refuse to believe it is adults posting these things. How can it be?

The sorts of comments on this thread indicate that any advice given here is to soothe the conscience of a devious man who knows he's planning something quite wicked.

Some say she's a 13 year old Jezebel, even after reading the first post on the thread. Make it make sense.

Efewestern:
Men who should be correcting some abnormalities in the way this man runs his home are doing otherwise. It's a pity.

We can see this man has lost control of his home and I'm feeling the wife is the one calling the shot. A teenager who doesn't like coming home after school hours must certainly have a reason. Kids sense hatred and bad energy from afar.

Just went through some of his old post and see how completely this young girl has suffered in the hands of her step mother. And the OP is shocked that the little angel is rabelling.

Just went through his posts. And I just knew it.

If it's a true story we are dealing with a man whose brain lies beneath his belt.

efemena5050:
Ancestor well done ....faceless forum will always give rise to assumed personalities without any identity in life. enjoy ur exorbirance......I blame u ....dey call ur papa Children .....Simple topic for discussion without any form of insult from my end .....u tht claim to be an ancestor ....resorted to demeaning rhetoric.....see the adult in u.....adult tht still wear diapers

You are right about her anyway. Especially given the OPs history on the forum.

Truths9ja:
exactly you are much on point. No cordial relationship with his daughter at all. It’s when her daughter knows the right to sue her dad that he is asking advice from the people. The huge problem is from the daughter dad.

That's it.

Efewestern:
We know the game and plot. Key points to note.

* Girl behaves well when daddy is around.

* All negative things are reported by the wife. The man hasn't experienced any bad behaviours. My wife said this , she said that.

I know men reason too much with their joysticks that they always fail to protect their flesh and blood, but I think it's about time we put an end to the terror of women to their step kids. It's becoming unbearable and I'm already feeling sad for this innocent child because the wife has so much manipulated the head of her father.

That's exactly what's happening here.

It's his duty to be a father. Not the woman. She's enjoying the benefits of his inability to be a father to his daughter.

phorget:
It will even be better if the boys in the village get her pregnant, she will understand what it means for someone to lose an opportunity.
For now she has the same opportunity as the children from the other wife but she chooses to misbehave and abuse the opportunity, theres no crime if they make her go through some pains so as to reset her demeanor.

You haven't really read what he posted.

You were concerned she's having sex. Well, that won't stop. So what exactly is the point sending her to a remote village, except to deprive her of a better life unlike the children of his favored be wife? She didn't misbehave on her own. It began under his roof. The reason is in his write-up.

Leave the vaginometer duties and you will see it clearly.

efemena5050:
Glaring evidence have been presented before us by this man seeking our common resolve and recommendations
..for example the girls phone .......having different escapade with men in terms of conversation
.....the late coming to home after school ......
See my own submission to this is that,so long tht spoilt chin chin of a girl don't see tht second in command mother as a mother she will never respect her even when the would be mother try to correct her ...infact she will become more aggressive to her ....as for the father his nature of job will cost him this his daughter who is already derailing.......in conclusion owing to the foolish system of the whites in terms of child support and tht girl will continue to grow horns until it becomes thorns to herself ...so my only recommendations remains shipping the bad crude to an already crude country where she will be refined from her bad crude base to a partial bad crude ....after over heating and local reformation process must have taken place .....she will learn to respect her rights nd parents

If that is all you saw in his post, then you cannot see that he's a preferential father. Read through his post again and you will see it blatantly.

He's neglecting his daughter and has violent tendencies himself. This really isn't about her sexual activity or lack thereof.

Anyway, this is a forum of children. Half of you are yet to pass the 40 age mark.

Badluckynigga:
Rip to him, but I find it hard to believe, na naija we dey oooo, that might not be him ooooo

With the big missing tooth? It's obviously the guy smiling in the pictures. That's why there's a lot of focus on the face.

But gruesome pics anyway. Why is it looking like that?

Truths9ja:
yes, and also there’s no much love between the new wife and her children with the husband daughter in the family. The write up of the man shows there’s no cordial relationship with the new daughter in the family.

Why choosing his new wife over his own child? Why can't he find a middle ground?

Clearly this is his plan on evicting his daughter to please his new wife, without a care in the world what happens to her next. He just wants her off his hands. His new children are his only priority. He needs advice so that he can kill his conscience and do what she asked him to.

khalifjgusau:
However, don't you see that his words stemmed from a mix of anger, frustration, and fear regarding his daughter's troubling behavior, indicating a potential danger to her parents in the near future?

A man threatening to beat his daughter so badly that the authorities will take her away?

He's allowed to be frustrated. But then he sounds like someone who isn't ready to see where he went wrong, as a perfect person, or talk to his own child reasonably. If he's been threatening her, it's only going to make her worse.

He's still besotted with his new wife. Anything she says goes. His priorities don't lie with this daughter. That's the cause of his problem with her.

khalifjgusau:
Her father's explanation led me to understand that his priority now is to address her behavior. Initially, she began to grasp the significance of her parents and adopted a demeanor of politeness and respect, akin to a daughter honoring the memory of her absent parents.

He should address his own behavior if he wants to change hers.

He sounds like her. Children are good learners.

Whining cheat.

Men are quick to do interviews nowadays. Is it something in the water or are many embracing feminity and masking it as being true?

Old men looking for teenagers will get what they have coming.

descarado:
Wish somebody out there will direct that girl to social service. That's when he will know he has messed up big time.
That gal is screaming for attention,love and care and the human called her dad is not aware of such.
Rebellion is the number one culprit when someone is looking for attention. Even adults do that. That's a very lonely preteen out there and so vulnerable. The dad and step mum that should be her protector and guide are yarning dust.
I'm so angry. Let this be one of those nairaland fake story.

Let's hope it's a fake story.

Because if it's true, that's a girl with a father who failed her with preference for his wife and their children.

Truths9ja:
yes , you may be right. The point here’s that her dad is hiding secret things from his daughter.

Secrets like the woman he's living with isn't her mother? Maybe he fought to "collect my child from her mother, it's my child"?

flokii:
What usually gives abroad dwellers the impression that sending a terrible child back to Nigeria will automatically make them better?.. are you guys subtly admitting that the Nigerian system still has some good sides or what?

They know it is a place where they can carry out cruel, unlawful activities and get backing from cruel, unlawful people who have no care for human rights and probably know nothing about them either.

phorget:
Dont just send her to Nigeria but send her to a village where she will have to go to the farm,fetch water from the stream, cook with firewood, feel the bite of mosquitoes and tsetsefly, attend village schools and then learn your local language and culture. By the time she is done experiencing all these then she will become a changed person and beg you to come to her rescue.

No boys in the village, right? Punishing life will correct her... Or make her deeply resentful and evil.

Why should she endure that while the children from his next wife live in relative comfort? Sounds like child abuse.

SpartaOfLagos:
You want to send her back to Nigeria on the advice of your second wife so that all your attention will be on herself and her own children abi ?

Keep simping mister man.

You want to send her to Nigeria where she will join cult and her situation becomes worse abi?

Your new wife will keep manipulating you until you make that most stupid decision of sending your first child away...

Are you from a polygamous family?

LagosG:
Pls don't send her to Nigeria to. I went to one of the most expensive Nigerian schools and we had a lot of kids like this. They greatly influenced the rest of us. I guess by now you know your daughter is no longer a virgin. I would advise that you research on strict Catholic boarding schools wherever you're located. A school where she has to wear uniform and adhere to time structure. A school where academics are as exciting as Olympics. Now, teenagers will always be teenagers but your daughter feels like an outsider in your own home. This is the truth and she feels betrayed by you because of your new family. I know I don't have all the information but you need to see things from her perspective. She feels betrayed, that's why she threatens her step mother.
Pls take my advise. Otherwise your daughter could end up a teen mom or worse a drug addict lost in the world who doesn't want anything to do with her father. Did she grow up in Nigeria? Is her mother alive? How often does they speak? The boarding school, if possible lt it be in England. Cheers

You're the only person here who knows what's wrong with her. She's not being treated fairly at home. So she's looking to be loved and accepted.

Truths9ja:
put her into deliverance. She needs to deliver from evil forces from her father’s house that overshadowed her. First you need to deal with her spiritual aspect before you go to physical aspect of her life.

What she doesn't get at home, she's looking for outside.

Parenting isn't about wanting to beat ones children and looking for drastic measures. She's a good girl parented wrong.

khalifjgusau:
It's a good decision to bring her back to Nigeria for her studies at the boarding school. This will really help her learn discipline and other valuable lessons. Despite your love for her, please be patient with her adjustment. Once she completes her secondary and degree studies in Nigeria, if you see positive changes in her behavior, then consider taking her back to abroad again...

What if she becomes lesbian instead and continues as she is? He's far from the root cause.

efemena5050:
All these over sabi trying to always sound intelligent and wise ...very annoying. U see where the oga say due to his work schedule he don't normally have time for the jezebel to be ......ur trying to discredit total summations of people .....here ....wetin u know?.....the man better send tht child back to Nigeria to face hardship either in a village school or command day school (army) where the oyinbo rubbish will ridden from her

She's not a Jezebel.

It's happening under his roof, under his care, meaning that he's the one nurturing it. Let him tell us more about his fatherhood and parenting, or does he only listen to the side of his new wife, the way men usually do, to the detriment of his child from another woman?

Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

All you know is how to beat. You even want to beat her so badly that she will be taken from you.

You and your new wife have a lot of explaining to do. Your daughter isn't a saint, neither are you two. You made her that way. If boys can have conversations with her, why can't either of you? This is how Father's drive their daughters into the welcoming arms of pimps and other shady characters. The problem is never you.

What you see is what you nurtured.

This is the most misleading image and title.

The lizard pictured isn't a Gila monster, one of which is the culprit in this story.