₦airaland Forum

bunnae:
Heard it gets spoilt so easily too. The packaging, outlook and everything is just too discouraging. So are so dirty, that you might even need to wash with detergent first before you cook. . Nsukka market has some of the ugliest rice I have ever seen.

ChelseaArmy:
If price of locally made rice will reduce drastically... Foreign
rice will not flood Nigeria market

babtoundey:
Overly religious people are already tagging OP's father a witch, occultic "people" sent to his church to sow the seed of darkness. Sometimes, we live all our life, exhaust out strength to fight the enemies that exist only in our mind.

What religion teaching or injunction teaches you to reach verdict on issues you're absolutely ignorant of?

OP, all these fanatically religious people telling you your dad belongs to this or that or that he's an enemy of God are only trying to create discord between you and him. Don't let them push you into doing things you will hate yourself for forever. If you give their advice any thought you will definitely despise the man who might have done everything in his capacity to protect you and your siblings. Instead of you taking all these "I saw witches and wizards in my dream" seriously, apply logic. Talk to your dad. Ask him some questions in relation to what transpired. Let him know what your fear is.

Your father maybe as pious as he has always been. Don't mind all these soothsayers in religious cloak.

PotatoSalad:
Bats are nocturnal.
Nigerians sef. I can't even keep a pet owl or cat cos people might capture it and burn it to ashes when I'm not around.
odd looking animals stir up y'all's religious beliefs.
Mtchew

DNP2020:
Sorry? elaborate.

joshboo:
Bruv if a lady tells you she's bleeped 3 guys just multiply it by 10 honestly.... you know the right thing to do. Just do it

AbujaCitiBlog:
She lies through her teeth! She is a lesbian. Please divorce her now or cry later! Such women are evil. Her interest is in Women not men. I try to warn men, never marry a former lesbian or a repentant lesbian. They will still go back to their evil ways!

Tbadbad:
Hello everyone, ‘my story is long but I will skip some to try to make it short, sorry for my grammatical error, I am not a writer and I am writing with pains and I might made some mistakes, please bear with me.

I have been dating my wife to be since 2017, I have been taking care of her and everything, the truth is I was hearing some funny stuff about her since I met her but I didn’t take it serious because I trusted her and I really thought she was decent from every other girls.

When I met her, she told me she had only dated 3 boys for have sex only three times, her first boyfriend and two other girls she met in school. I really believed her because she was acting decent.

At a point I began to suspect her when I started hearing some stuff about her but I didn’t pay attention because I trusted her, sometimes when I asked her if she ever dated some one else or cheating on me, she will just turn the whole thing to quarrel and I will just lock up.

Fast forward to 2020, I got her pregnant before I left Nigeria, we did introductions, but she lost the baby during child birth which was so painful to us, but after some month I begin to hear some news about her, and I confronted her and threatened her that I have proof, which she confess to me that she has dated about 3 boys, slept with them several times, she also bleeped 2 girls just once and they didn’t date, she just had crush on them and bleeped them before she met me, and she cheated on me when she found out I was chatting with my ex’s, she couldn’t bear the pains even after begging her, sex her and still give her money to school, the same week she met a guy and bleeped him because she wanted to ease her pains, and 2019 when we had little quarrel, she met a guy and bleeped twice because she thought we broke up (what happened was that we had little argument and I have her money to sch and we didn’t talk for a week, that week she met a guy and stayed dated him because she thought we broke up).

I was heart broken when she told me, and I wanted to brk up, her parents begged me and they never supported her and they were even surprised she could do such thing because she came from a very decent background. I forgave her but I still have the pains in my heart, we always chat everyday, because of corona things are some how and I don’t have money like before, she begins to show me some attitude which is not really comfortable and I explain things to her and she apologized.

So last month she told me since I left she have been having sexual urge to sleep with a girl because she have been watching lesbian porn, that she promised never to cheat on me with a man and it’s taboo but she wanted to have sex with a female, I was so shocked and didn’t know what to do. She said she just started having the strange feelings because she have been watching lesbian porn since I left, I feel like I don’t know anything about her, I wanted to brk up now because she is begging me and she is saying she is just trying to be truthful to me because she promised herself never to hide anything from me or lie to me. What should I do? Should I continue to be with her and marry her? Or run away? Mine she have never slept with a woman before and she has always hated lesbian but because I have been a way since feb 2020, she usually watch porn to help herself. Pls what should I do?

Kessnorman:
My dad worked as an air traffic controller, then my mom told him to save for his children or invest he refused rather he was spending the money recklessly after everything my mom is the one that still provided for I and my siblings.

Kessnorman:
At least your dad used his handwork to provide for you while mine was busy doing nothing to help I and siblings.

banmee:
You are basically a caveman. You make it sound like a woman should feel lucky because you are a man. Both of you should be lucky to have each other. Or am i missing something? You do realize the only reason you think that way is because you live in a poverty stricken country. Go to a normal country and the you'll find women who will feed and cloth you. And they won't be rich either.

IamAsiri:
You just read my mind . What's to say the likes of her cannot physically and emotionally their husbands or even go to the extent of killing if things go extremely sour? As if it shows total submission or even lack of anger issues.

Clowns full this nairaland sef. Smh

incogni2o:
There aren't

They are weak Men.

Including me. I was so stupid and brainwashed into it.

Humility is not obliged to the Man but to the Woman.

How will you be going into marriage and its the Man that is kneeling down.

What's the essense. It is nonsense and one of the tools used to make Women less Humble.

incogni2o:
She did not die

She is dead already.

Dead to that spirit that consumes most women.

This one is sure a great wife to be.

owendei:
While some read and understand, some read without understanding, and still, some do not read at all but follow people's comments to have an understanding. Na him dey bring the matter so o.

apatheticme:
As in, it's rather amusing!

@bolded or just plain broke! Most Broke niggars are naturally angry! And the easiest target to take out their anger on is a female, cos she's supposedly weak and can't throw punches!

Hmm, they will never address if the brokeness is what makes them such bitter incels. Instead they will say you're gold digging if you tell them that it's poverty that makes them so concerned in women matters. Poor men naturally take to bullying women and trying to assert their superiority.[i]


A funny incident occurred in recent times to me that made me wonder just how bad this gender discrimination thing is in our society, coupled with the current level of poverty and hatred of anything female and comfortable!

[i]If I tell you half of them are poverty-stricken men with nothing to live for, whose only pleasure is in bullying women and thinking about sex, you may not believe it. The other half have mummy issues. And the other half of that half have been taught a lesson in life that they refuse to learn from, only to grow bitter. And some are just plain gays.


I took my car to a car wash last week and I sat down waiting for the boys to finish their job while surfing the web on my phone, to my amazement, I just heard a man raising his voice and quarelling in anger with the car wash boys, I unplugged my earphones and tried listening, and I was genuinely amazed to hear him say "why would you wash a woman's car before my own", and the car wash boys were making attempts to calm him down that someone was already assigned to wash his car. The way he said the "woman" was so derogatory that, you could practically feel his frustrations and pain as he vibrated with hate and anger. It was quite funny a sight to behold!

It will interest you to know that the hatred they reserve for women who drive is a very special one. Who did this thing up them? I wonder if their wives will ever hold a steering wheel.

However, I looked around and soon realized the major source of his angst, he drove a Toyota Matrix meanwhile I drive a 4matic Benz 2015. I just quietly plugged my earphones back on and ignored his rantings, I didn't say a word. He soon got tired and drove off in a rage. When I got home, I told my husband and he just shook his head and said if it were to be him, he would have ignored the man too! I told my husband if it were you, he wouldn't behave that way.

Exactly! Laughing at the angst part. Inferiority complex is a dangerous thing. Can you see how emotionally stable men like that are? See how he missed the opportunity to have his car washed at once.

I think I'll take finally take your advice, just ignore them and live my life!

Please, ignore them.

apatheticme:
Ogbeni, suit yourself! I got stuff to do!

Woman bad, no wahala, woman good no wahala! Do whatever you fvkng like! It's a free world!

Emperorx:
Please which state do u reside that u want to rent house with 60k and buy land for 150k

WoundedLamb:
Lol... you are funny and this is what you get when you're more bent on criticizing than on being objective. Really, why not get informed before engaging? The president signed 17 executive orders on his first day at work covering the issues of corona virus, immigration, inclusiveness, etc. Just because the OP singled out this one to bait the likes of you, you're already biting onto it and building your entire logic around it. You guys just fall in any direction you're pushed. Lol.

Samfloxin:
Why did this good looking lady date this class of a man?

Discombulator:
It's called a moniker not an English word,I determine how the words fit,take correction

Ikennamurphy:
You're Ignorant, no need to go further with u

LilMissFavvy:
So that's what a new president is concerned about in his first day in office, quite pathetic. A time is coming when more than half of the US citizens will not be straight. They will either be gays or transgenders.

owendei:
Was it stated that she swallowed it?

Discombulator:
The word 'unsophisticated' does not have any relation to this scenario,unsophisticated is not the same thing as 'Bad'.

Ikennamurphy:
Urinary bladder stone

apatheticme:
Exactly!!!

You warned me, and that was the one thing that crossed my mind when I saw the rubbish he responded with in his mention!

The guy is just plain hopeless and exasperating!

apatheticme:
@the bolded; Between me and you who is emotionally unstable?? And not just emotions now, you're obviously mentally challenged and deranged!!

I stated my opinion, somehow the only thing your warped mind could come up with is "afterall you are a lady". You must have really suffered in your first life in the hands of a woman!!

Cos the way your brain has been wired to think only in terms of gender divide as regards every little thing, rather than perceive people as humans first before seeing and blaming their gender for whatever issues present is simply astonishing!!

May you find healing for your troubled soul and low self esteem!

sapphiere:
What kind of hair is that?

missawele:
I saw a post like this on reddit and thought I should create a thread here.

So, to those in their 40s and above that are happy, what is your advice to those of us in our 20s and early 30s?

What have you learnt over the years that you think can help us to live better lives?

ahnie:
is that pregnant teenager his daughter or wife?
abi she's his wife and daughter?

Why is the slowdiot above you taking my comments personal?