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ThierryJay:
I am not concerned about whether he is the grand leader or whatever. All I know is that his utterances and actions show that he is a racist or white supremacist in ideology. Whether he's a card carrying member I'm not bothered about.

Since when did being objective become about peddling illogical sentiments. Who told you Biden didn't have a choice? He very well did, if black people disgusted him so much, there was no way he'd have that much cordial relationship with Obama for EIGHT years without any slip of his true intentions. Even Mike Pence's differences with Trump came to the fore on few occasions in just four years.

Biden is a suppoter of BLM and that's what he stands for and not some sentimental drivel you are pushing forward.

I know it's hard for you but pls accept my sympathy because obviously your objectivity (if you had any) is simply non-existent.

You've still not answered. Where did he support white supremacists as their Grand Leader? As usual, no concrete irrevocable proof. Just comments, baseless conjecture and more sentiment.

Your sentiment has swallowed the feeble objectivity you tried to exhibit at first.

If Biden can support what he stands for, according to you, even though it is violent and murderous, why can't Trump, assuming that is the case? How does that make him better than Trump because he supports color politics and violent groups? You aren't making sense with your point about Trump's comment on the proud boys. Where did he tell them to begin killing black people, as you've tried to use your sentiment to portray?

Do you really think that if he was racist he would undermine the president? Just because of that? Your idea on that makes no sense. He is not racist because he did his sworn job? Do you even listen to yourself? What illogic.

Go and do more research on your black tolerant Biden. Or keep at uninformed sentiment. You think too highly of race dynamics and like all blacks love to play victim and see racism where it doesn't exist. You are too conscious of people's skin color. And that is where your racist sentiment starts from.

Have a nice day.

ThierryJay:
Well, Trump himself provides evidence. His famous quote "Proud boys, stand by and stand down" was in obvious refusal to criticize the White supremacists who were attacking the BLM protesters. The quote had an undertone of approval by Trump of what the Proud boys represented.

To put the above in context, a lot of Nigerians criticize Buhari for his alleged support of the Fulani herdsmens' menacing activities simply on account of his silence or relative inaction to the issues. How much more when a President openly expresses a tacit approval of white supremacists? I believe that is ample evidence of his white supremacist beliefs, coupled with his other much publicized negative comments about black people. To deny this would be to play ostrich on the sand and thus render you in an unobjective light.

Biden played second fiddle to Obama, a black person, for eight solid years without any issues. He has recognized a lot of people of colour in his campaign and they take up some prominent roles in his administration. He backs up his words for racial inclusion with action and is thus no hypocrite as you are insinuating!

Is that the only evidence, that he made a comment on the proud boys? (A comment that does not support them) How does that make him the grand leader of white supremacists? So because Biden took the knee, given that the BLM protesters were violent murderers, he's the grand master of all violent black "superpredators"? Give evidence of his membership and irrevocable ties.

Have you never seen evidence that Biden is a true racist, or are you playing ostrich on that one, because he was a VP and had no choice but to play second fiddle to Obama? Try and be objective, please.

rontolo:
Nobody gives evidence? How educated are you? Who constitute the bulk of his supporters? Take a look. There isn’t a soul in the US that doesn’t know who he represent. On a general note, take a look at Biden, Bush, Clinton’s cabinet or even inaugurated. Then take a look at trumps. The most divisive and hateful president America ever produced. Over 90% of blacks voted Biden because of Trumps overtly racist divisions. Much of the rest are evangelicals, confused religious types. I call these happy slaves

I'm not interested in your aspersions against my education, and frankly it has no bearing on asking for evidence that Trump is "the grand leader of white supremacists". You still don't have any evidence that he is, just your sentiment on his cabinet. Sentimentality is the lifeblood of the average black. Give evidence that he's racist apart from the fact that you don't like that he's a rich and powerful white man.

If you have remained ignorant and uneducated on Bidens very racist comments about blacks and Hispanics, then you must be as lost as the sheep colonies of blacks who believe Trump is the leader of white supremacists in America and Biden is not racist.

Why haven't you asked why the power hungry old rich white man, Biden, doesn't let young black people take up his seat? He's used his white privilege to run them for decades and you don't complain.

apatheticme:
@the bolded, I don't hold grudges! What you see is basically what you get with me! You play it cool, I'm the coolest chick on the block! You act like a jerk, then I could also become the greatest jerk ever liveth!

It's a good way to live -- free and without any burdens -- and it's admirable. Doubtful you've ever been a jerk here. Been killing then with niceness, esp this guy.

Problem is I don't suffer fools gladly, so can't engage him again when he turns up.

apatheticme:
Oh, sure sounds like fun. I'll check it out whenever I'm less busy. Tnks!

You won't regret the food pics and recipes. You're welcome!

rontolo:
Education is Nigeria’s major problem. A black man supporting the grand leader of white supremacists! Nothing more pathetic than a happy slave SMH!

This accusation always comes up on this forum, but nobody ever gives evidence of him being the grand leader of white supremacists, ahead of Hitler.

Lightorder:
just for expressing his political opinion and view which he has right to? Learn to respect the next guy’s opinion. My closest friend who lives in Washington DC insulted my family, people and even blocked me on WhatsApp. All because she supports Biden. Can she now make heaven because Trump is out

What kind of argument did you have, and what kind of insult did she deliver? The way black people carried the white man bidens presidency on their heads, you would wonder if he was going to give them a message for each vote they gave to him.

Microwhy:
So you know politics and what is required from a leader than A American TV host.

Did you know Piers is British?

GambaOsaka:
Piers Morgan was a staunch supporter, then he flipped, and then became a supporter again, and finally he has flipped.
Unstable as the wind.

Story of half his life. Lol

apatheticme:
Sure, I concur with all you said! That's exactly the scenario playing out on this forum, paid/sponsored misogyny, tribalism and/or contemporary day slavery and subservience to anything Caucasian! I don't blame them, sensationalism/traffic is what puts food on their table! Wahala for who nor understand their tactics! They're just tryna survive!


@bolded, on the humor me part of life is why I responded to his mention, seeing as it was imperative he got my view as regards the topic/story/falsehood even after several instances of being insulted by him.

It is what it is, I know who I am, and according to Theodore Roosevelt, No ONE can actually make ME feel inferior WITHOUT my CONSENT!!

Millions of him, both online and offline ain't got nothing on me! I'll say it as I see it, regardless of whose Ox is gored!

This forum will be alright one day, but certainly not now. Some mentions truly aren't worth a reply because you know you are dealing with misogynistic parrots, even common sense and logic don't work on them anymore. I'm surprised you would even reply him.

Keep riding on the clouds, they got nothing on you!

When not debunking them, been salivating on the food thread quietly...

RealisticGirl:
One can be too churchy, and still look good and presentable. She felt she no longer needs it, cos she has a complete family and also married for a long time.

Don't be surprised the man is nothing to look at twice: bald, k-legged, potbellied, wears sweaters, or is already cheating or planning to cheat with the person he's comparing her with.

If his wife is looking old, she only vegan looking old in his house. She was young and beautiful in her parents care.
So that begets the question, what does he do to her in their house? All he knows is that she's not looking young, as if people are meant to stay young forever and as if he's not the source of her old age. He stated they are well fed, but it's probably the woman doing all the cooking to keep him well fed.

Don't always assume it's the woman who wants to be like that. Some men age their women terribly, then feel bad when they see their friends wives, but they don't want to make life easier for their wives. Some men care nothing for the emotional and physical wellbeing of their wives, they just wake up one day to notice it as a sign of how self obsessed and unobservant they are. If you ask his wife, she could tell you a whole lot of things he's not giving away here.

apatheticme:
Well, from my own viewpoint, Cheating on your spouse/partner as the case may be while married or in a relationship, regardless of gender or circumstances is wrong and condemnable!! Highly condemnable!!!

Having read through this her story (at least the first page), I'm of the opinion that she's either a good story teller for blog related/traffic/revenue reasons, or she's just here to chase clout. Personally I wouldn't be too surprised if it's actually a male behind that moniker, especially owing to several areas of exasperating exaggerations and innuendos!

However, moving forward, if your spouse is impotent/sterile and you can't look for other means of pleasuring both yourselves and opting for IVF, artifical insemination etc to get kids or adoption, then the honorable thingy would be to divorce rather than turn into a public dog!

She's not a feminist! The word feminism has been abused on this site/in this country to mean or imply man-hating. No, feminists (true ones) do not hate men, they only advocate and push for equal opportunities for both genders.

There exists 3 major schools of thought of feminism, the 3rd school of thought which is the radical feminists are those who hate men and propagate battle of the sexes as well as unhealthy rivalry between the sexes!

Men and women are unequal, we can never be. We are unique in our different ways, and play various roles. We ought to complement each other, rather than fight for supremacy! What is being advocated is equal OPPORTUNITIES rather than equality of the SEXES!

Good morning!

This scientists matter is still ongoing? Scientists, stop mentioning me on such matters. Most are invented scenarios by a few misogynists with multiple accounts.

Nairaland has been so boring in past months as every thread is used to abuse and batter women, so much do that it's not worth it responding to mentions. The paid stories are getting out of hand. The technique is so clear. Create thread in which man is the supposed victim, use multiple accounts to bash women, silence any contrary opinion and in a short time you have people who are genuinely influenced by looney social experiment threads.

But anywhere I see men using those threads to wreak havoc in the life of a woman needlessly by extension, to abuse and denigrate women needlessly and endlessly, to create baseless assumptions and brainwash themselves with senseless male plots, fantasies and agendas -- I will debunk it.

But to engage with scientists? No. That single, first exposure was filled with so much misogyny from him that there's no point engaging further.

Good points up there, Apatheticme.

FirstCounsel:
I've heard about the efficiency of these Togolese labourers compared to 9ja ones. Can you enlighten me more please. Thanks

They are so much better and neater. They can make straight walls, unlike their Nigerian brethren. Unless you meet a "fake" one, they are always really good at building, esp tiling.

omojesu202:
thanks for your input.
you're not far from the truth.
I told my brother to ask her what his offence was but he said he won't.
I'll have to call her.

Of course he won't. He knows exactly what he did to begin it. He's leading you on.

If you think you can step into 20 years of their business, with what he told you, only his side of their story, then you have a lot to learn about longer marriages.

It's obvious you want him to divorce her. Or kill her, like you postulated in your first post. But neither will happen. Because the lies that men tell about women turning their children against them is the oldest lie in the book.

omojesu202:
It is no news that most marriages are collapsing.
Mine is just two years but I also see signs of collapse.

What's happening in my brothers marriage is painful to me because I know the financial investment and sacrifices he puts into it. I don't know what he did to his wife but she has turned his children against him.

Imagine that you cannot tell your 20 years old first son to wash your car like 7am, the mother will tell you that you should allow him to enjoy his sleep. Not once, not twice and not thrice.
This is the children you'll go hungry and borrow money to pay high school fees to make sure they go to good schools.

It is painful to me because I knew when he was paying 200k per term each on three kids while his basic was just 300k.

Now the firstborn and secondborn will disobey him on ordinary washing of car just because he can no longer meet up.

Please how would you handle such issues?
You might just hear that a man killed his wife and three children in the news. That would not be our portion.

From outside, she has been a good woman but she didn't blend the children to their father. The nature of his job takes him on transfer always and not stationed with his family but regular monthly visit is always there.

Once a man claims his children have been turned against him by his wife, you know he is lying and fishing for sentiment. This is the biggest lie men tell to kill the reputation of a woman. This lie is as common as the cheating and money card. Watch out for men who make this allegation against their wife.

What did your brother do to his wife and children in reality? Let him confess.

It did not begin with her turning the children against him.

You think because you've mentioned the school fees that it makes him innocent?


It is his job to make a relationship with his own children, NOT hers.

Stop looking for how to blame women for every relationship issue.

Vevejoy:
Thank you!

You brought a serious issue to people who believe marriage solely rests on the heads on women. They will never see an issue for what it is once it involves a woman. Even if he was to harm you, all they know is that you must have caused it some how. They will rationalize anything evil a man does to a woman.


Your husband is a mean, cruel and selfish person --but less than 8% of people quoting your will tell you that. They enjoy it when women suffer in relationships.

He's probably one of the online men who claim they are alpha males. What it entails is emotionally manipulating you with silence and anger, and any other tool they discuss in the beer parlor. It means he cannot listen to anyone with a vagina, most especially you.

He patronizes witch doctors, and that is the sign of an evil person, because there are cruel things he does that you do not know about, and he sees nothing wrong with doing them.

There is nothing wrong with you wanting your mother to take care of you; why did he ask if he didn't want your opinion?

What you should do? Keep praying for him(to borrow the words of women who enjoy such bad treatment), or know him for who he is and treat him accordingly. He's giving you the silent treatment because he knows you will react to it. His aim is to make you miserable for as long as he can, and if you stick around to enjoy that? Well, that is left for you to find out.

ELgordo:
Hey nairaland check out my new toy....

Hopefully not for leftists.

Nuttella:
Have you gone for deliverance before?

Yes. And it didn't stop. It looked like it would, but it didn't.

So I began to doubt all these deliverance places. Maybe they aren't real. Or maybe it's not a problem if I can tolerate it.

Nuttella:
What exactly is fighting you? You have to be specific. I dont want to drop the thread cause of derailers.

Things. Things I can't even describe.

What is praying in the Holy Spirit? I don't understand this.

Nuttella:
Yeah I get. I'm glad you broke their jaw by the power of God and collected your glory back from them, I have also fought my own spiritual battles and won, in short mine is double battles, I was fighting foundational powers and sexual demons aka Marine spirits same time. Tough but I won.

Drop the tips or begin a thread on that, please. Would love to know more about this.

[/quote][quote author=judedwriter post=98198415]Read my post titled "the most powerful person on earth".

It talks about the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is God's power, He is very powerful.

When it comes to spiritual warfare, the Holy Spirit is very more powerful than any of our enemies combined. The Holy Spirit is very powerful enough to reverse any evil of our enemies that includes returning our stolen blessings.

The power of the Holy Spirit is released mainly through reading the bible, fasting and praying in tongues.

I will read that. Thanks.

How do people speak in tongues?

chris51:
Kamala Harris father is a Jamaican and the mother an Indian.

This makes her black? How? Isn't she Indian, then?

judedwriter:
Hmmm....

The way these witchcraft practitioners collect people's destinies still amazes me. Can you elaborate?

I don't think there is any family that doesn't have at least one witch or wizard. I know the one in my family, and my glory that I have collected back from him came after speaking in tongues for many hours.

Explain this more. The steps you took in prayer.

egobetatoday:
Right from the time of John the Baptist until now, the kingdom of God SUFFERS VIOLENCE AND ONLY THE VIOLENT WILL TAKE IT BY FORCE.

How? Will there be an end to evil oppressions?

kdot20:
Before you go for deliverance, you do your own homework and be spiritually intelligent. There is a difference between a genuine deliverance minister and a spiritualist or mystic.

Does it make a difference if it's a mystic? Isn't it the solution one would be after?

meobizy:
Joe is not a better candidate, but at this point for immigrants, anything is better is than Donald Trump. With his win also comes the first black American female Vice President. E reach to celebrate for black people.

How did she become black?

belcom10:
Try to find out more about foundation,

Some people comes from a faulty foundation and some the foundation are good.
Just as you said , to those People you said there life is moving smoothly without praying. Someone has paid the price earlier in the family line to lay good foundation for the others.
You can begin by accepting jesus as your Lord and saviour . 2cor 5:17, If any man is in Christ he is a new creature old things as passed away and behold all things are now new. The blood of Jesus flows will now begin flow in your foundation. The power of sonship will be upon you. John 1:12

Thank you for your response.

Nuttella:
When I was young my aunt called a pastor who did family liberation for us but I dunno if they did it well cause I had to fight foundational powers now I'm grown. The fact that someone life is going well does not mean they are better than you, they might be spiritually weak. Our forefathers worshipped deities, that is why the deities are troubling us to worship them and causing havoc in our lives, they are demons, you fight demons with prayers and fasting.

This means some of these deliverance pastors and places are fake. How will you guide others to find deliverance?

Is this really about deities? What about 4 generations of people who have not worshipped anything, even in secret?

Nuttella:
It's from your foundation, some families are under serious witchcraft bondage/satanic bondage, some people's parents have destroyed strongholds in their family, which is why their life is smoother than yours, so they dont have to battle ancestral powers. God could use you to destroy the foundational powers in your family, just like he used me and is still using me. Stop comparing yourself with others, they attack people with great destiny more, they steal your glory and use it for themselves, it could even be your uncle or aunt doing it to you, you have to be angry in the spirit and collect your blessings and glory back from witches, occult men and demons. Like I said life is spiritual, if you are caged in the spirit realm, your life will be running around in a circle.

Speechless.

You mean to tell me that all those people had parents who did this deliverance? Christianity is relatively new.

How do they escape such things? Some aren't even prayerful.

Nuttella:
2 Corinthians 10:4 says that the weapon of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God in pulling down strongholds. There are strongholds in your life you need to pull down deliberately, that is why you are told to pray and fast, pray yourself out. But first go for deliverance.

What about people that never do this deliverance thing and their lives are sailing smoothly? Aren't they also people, too? Why are others singled out for suffering?