₦airaland Forum

Ashawoman82:
are u suggesting that women should only be seems as baby making machines, they shouldn't be giving any other responsibility as giving birth alone is an occupation?how do u want men to value women when most of u have this archaic mentality...

Ashawoman82:
there are more riskier " occupation" than giving birth, that's what he's saying since u see child bearing as an occupation.

BlaqFaze:
it's obvious most women have nothing to offer so they try to make a big deal of basic natural processes a normal healthy female is supposed to go through.

If she doesn't give birth, who will...who gains more actually because it's on record that women love their children unconditional compared to their conditional love for other things

GO0DHardDick:
If e sure for you as a woman, produce sperm yourself and impregnate yourself na let's see Since your pûssy is all you have to offer

jaxxy:
do u know female animals give birth? Its only humans thst complain about it and then try to complicate and glamorise it.

it is totally natural, there are women who do surrogacy for money. 18 year old girl don't make a these issues when they give birth..

I think complication are more likely when women give birth at older ages or go to quack doctors.

gare2510:
Unfortunately the monetary compensation cannot restore your health from radioactivity, carcinogenic chemicals, it is hard to see a rig worker of 15yrs that has not witnessed a death onsite the truma is everlasting.
Finally both parties in a relationship are important and there should be mutual respect and appreciation.

TundeEdnut35:
Soweto is a dangerous enclave with myriad gangsters, kleptomaniacs, psychopaths, miscreants and drug peddlers.

loswhite:
Kolo you can pray to he barren so no one will force you to give birth

jaxxy:
U went for CS that's why. Little girls are putting to bed daily without these issues or expenses in the village.

Giving birth is a natural gift women have been blessed with it is natural to them. Yes there can be complications but its mostly a natural process.

loswhite:
A woman can choose and pray to be barren...lol but we know they will move from church to church...lol praying for the so called sacrifice....kolo ppl

Towma:
Apart from that, how many men work in oil rigs compared to number of women both married and single that give birth?

RingRoadCartel:
Last time I checked, it takes two people to make a child.

airsaylongcome:
Brati, nothing against motherhood. But the OP coming to tell us stories of how they sliced someone's abdomen open blah blah blah is bunkum for me. I've seen soldiers brought from the battle field, operated on without anesthesia in bone wrenching pain. So all that talk of abdomen sliced open is waffling

RingRoadCartel:
The child is the compensation.

For men who are capable and reasonable, they get their wives push gifts.

BlaqFaze:
Simp wan lecture us

RingRoadCartel:
OP have you ever been to an oil rig make you see how men dey risk their lives DAILY to put food on the table.

Magnoliaa:
🤣🤣

Magnoliaa:
A paralympic athlete too?


They really are all the same, SMH.

dominique:
He knew what he was doing when he went for a "naive church girl" barely out of her teens. He was looking for small girl to control and exploit. He deserves whatever disgrace he's facing today. After gallivanting about, you now believe you deserve to be "rewarded" with a "virtuous" woman. Rubbish! Good thing the sham of a union did not produce any kids. Having a child for this type of walking disaster is one of the worst things that can ever happen to any woman

Walex0:
Oscar case was a mistake....he thought an intruder was in the house

KarinaSlim:
Everybody come and see o.

So there is this man. His lives opposite my house. I don't speak to him. It's over 2 years now. He saw me in a shop today and was saying that we are neighbors but I act like a stranger to him. That I should be greeting him first atleast he is older than me.

I know I should be greeting him cos he lives opposite my house and he is older than me but his face is too black and his face is somehow not friendly

Should I be greeting him since we are neighbors or should I tell him to be smiling more?

CJStarz:
Wife 44? Or U meant to type 24?

No. I'm saying that able bodied Nigerian men don't get married to disabled women. But they expect it the other way round, hence the new set of topics revolving around it.

Farfalla:
BRATISLAVA, behold!

XAUBulls:
Okay @Bratislava, here we go.

Able-bodied men have also married physically challenged women. I remember back in Nigeria in the 2010s, a guy and a young woman were dating, then the woman had a horrendous car crash and developed spinal injury which led to the loss of usage of her lower limbs. In the final analysis, the handsome guy still went ahead and formerly got married to her because he was truly in love with her and they have kids now.

Second, there are a couple of female ParaOlympic Games medalists with lower body paralysis due to childhood polio who are married to men who are NOT physically challenged. You can do some Googling on these specifics as well.

I hope that helps.

SharingIsLife:
If you are good and fair offline, you can never need to seek relationships online no matter how ugly, poor, or deformed you are. I stand to be corrected if you think I'm wrong on this.

XAUBulls:
If he's got charisma, money and good looks you would give it a thought... At least your children would NOT be physically challenged.

A lot of folks have married physically challenged men and vice versa in the past few decades.

We4all:
A 21 year old deceived a 70 years old man. Israel should bury his face in shame.

Kukutenla:
Your point being......

chiiraq802:
Let the US navy look for those black spots on there forehead and shoot them point-blank in that place.
Death to terrorists!!!!