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Klass99:
At the bolded, extremely selfish and some grow up refusing to have sense even as adults. Seven blessings to you and cheers🍾🥂.

That sense one is real. Some parents are in perpetual sufferings because of children. Sometimes one wonders of it were not better they didn't have them.

And then in later life they get married and even colder/selfish-er. Life is strange.

Klass99:
At the bolded - Seven blessings to you and cheers🍾🥂.

Amen.

The light of goodness on you and cheers.

Sirqt5:
My own mother who toiled n suffer for me... somebody will tell me to kick her out of my house . Dem neva born that woman who go try am with me

That's what they all said until they got married and pushywhipped. Then they remembered that a marriage is between a man and his wife, not a man his mother and his wife.

It can be between his wife, himself and her mother, though.

cococandy:
When sick and old in-laws come to love with the family, the expectation is that the wife will be the one to provide care for the sick and old family member. So your wife should have the final say on who’s coming for extended say in my opinion.

Because let’s face it, your wife would have been the one to give your mom bed baths, bathroom care etc. now that her mom is coming, she’s still the one who will be expected to do that. Not you.

So it might not be the presence of your mom she didn’t want. She just didn’t want the extra responsibility which invariably falls on her. Before you ask why she can’t treat your mom the way she treats her mom, know that her mom will be willing to die for her but your mom won’t. That’s the difference

She might've said all this, rather than denying him the presence of his mother until she died. Then, they would've looked into his to sort that out.

The guy sounds haunted by what happened.

Bordey:
I can't imagine sending my mum away to stay alone becos my wife is not convenient cos of her presence in my OWN house. Mehn when there are billion women in the world that can replace the wife.. She stays or you wife leave MY house. I'm the last born, I don't use my mum to play. Op you are a weak man, let the mama go and stay with the rest of her daughters. If you allow it then you indirectly treated your mum badly

He's already feeling guilty.

But why do people neglect their parents because of spouses? Maybe their parents did that to their grandparents too, so it's only just dessert going round.

Children who lived with their parents for a minimum of 18 years, inconveniencing a man and his wife tirelessly for close to 2 decades, suddenly get married and think they are the only two people on the earth because they are husband and wife now themselves. Their parents mean nothing to them. Siblings mean nothing. They don't have umbilical cords any more.

As a parent, don't sink too much into your children. Be selfish. Children are the most selfish people to walk to the earth. They see parents as burdens, so while caring for them, don't put too much heart or care into their rearing. They will marry someone and refuse to acknowledge that you need their love and care too.

The op knows he treated his mother badly and it's haunting him in the form of his in-law wanting to come and stay.

Dtruthspeaker:
Guy, don't think about it. Do not, I repeat do not let her in!

Although, you should have kicked her out when she did her shit but now, you are gonna have to kick her out if she does not buckle. The same thing she did to you must be done to her. Imagine, she could even ask.

Unforgiveness is written in your heart. Yet you preach a gospel.

First Nigerian politician with brushed teeth and clear skin.

tommy589:
Thank God for your life.

You still get mouth to talk,hungry lion (except you no chop am)A total stranger gave you meat pie and you devoured it.
Shebi na only 2500 hecollect,if na the one of lacing the meat pie with sleeping drugs to collect your bike. 3 days you are still sleeping by the roadside

Lol

Scandalous pastorpreneur and business partner.

Anyone who believes that is a pastor will believe that pigs fly too.

Juniorangel:
Not a good experience at all. My madam always has the final say but Oga will be doing like he is the one in charge once him enter office madam go codedly give am instructions on what to do and will just be quiet as if she doesn't know what is going on, very manipulative woman.

If he listens to his wife who has better business sense than he does, it means she is very a manipulative woman. But if she listens to him, is he certifiably a very manipulative man?

May God save the logical gender on this forum and beyond.

michigang:
why do you hate men?

Where is the hate? There are certain posts that are created to denigrate and display misogyny on the forum. They're part of a demented social experiment to brainwash men against women, to impose wrong unrealistic ideals about women to young inexperienced men, to make hate acceptable in whatever form of logic it may be propagated as.

The men who do it have no woman in their life and no money. Their only satisfaction in life is to bring down women to have a feeling of online importance. Once they do (have a woman or some change finally), they shut up or begin to type wishy-washy posts. Ask yourself where the main red pill hate advocates are after a couple of years.

I began posting because their opinions on women are wrong and evil. They aren't true. There's no hate involved in it.

Why do you hate women?

Bintabisiriyu2:
see wetin? something wey i go grab and disappeared only to appear in my bedroom.

shey u dey wine me.

You will be invisible, but not the money and your clothes.

Bintabisiriyu2:
"If you were a superhero, what
would your superpower be?"

My answer:
... na the superpower of invisibility to secretly sneak into bank vaults and cart away plenty money without being noticed.

But they would see the money/money bags floating and lynch you.

AMI3:
I am happy Seun Osewa. This is long over due it is like u read my message and listen to my mind.

Please spare no one. I believe if u are call upon someday to lead this country u will do it without fear or favor irrespective of who the person is.

I am 💯 in support of this. Welcome back my beloved Nairaland.

Funny.

Did you see his Twitter escapades? This is their arena.

Lukgaf:
Nice one Ṣeun. We hope you apply this to Islamic section also. The way some elements speak about Islam on our thread is worrisome. Thanks alot

The tribal hate is by far more toxic.

Hard to understand why rather than reason, people reason through colored lens of emotion. Like gutter rats.

Enlightened people will stoop to such savagery just because their tribal faction is supposedly better than the rest. It's disgusting.

Koralords:
Na now you know ,you guys where encouraging this tribal was all this while ,before the election I deliberately stop readung comments on nairaland

Especially now there a loads of hateful comments, likes and shares that indicate some people are so toxic and drowning in hate. Nothing worse than having nothing to do with the hateful wars and getting dragged into it without know what it is truly about.

How do people live on hatred so much? It's disgusting what people support.

Not a particularly tasty type of meat.

That aside, we should really talk more about the interesting people on the forum.

Toktee:
Ugly idoma man.
He even resembles death.

Lol, what an observation.

Just looking at him, it is obvious he shouldn't be employed. This is how one last married a guy with a face like that and ended up murdered. Some people will see clear danger written all over the ugly face of the people they encounter, yet they will employ them.

MasterJayJay:
Your obsession with mark of the beast is ridiculous.

You have debit card. You registered for NIN, BVN, etc.

Most of you pastors that called yourselves need to proper Bible school.

Mark of the beast is NEVER a physical stuff.

“These words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart…. “You shall bind them as a sign on your hand and they shall be as frontals on your forehead” (Deut 6:6, .

[The beast]…forced all people, great and small, rich and poor, free and slave, to receive a mark on their right hands or on their foreheads, so that they could not buy or sell unless they had the mark, which is the name of the beast or the number of its name” (Rev 13:16-17).

Notice the mention of hand and foreheads on the quotes above.

Mark of the beast has nothing to do with chip or any physical marking. It would be more of a spiritual marking.

“Do not harm the land or the sea or the trees until we put a seal on the foreheads of the servants of our God.”
Will God also use microchip to seal his people, huh?

Rev 19:20
"But the beast was captured, and with him the false prophet who had performed the miraculous signs on his behalf. With these signs he had deluded those who had received the mark of the beast and worshiped his image..."

Rev "16:2 The first angel went and poured out his bowl on the land, and ugly and painful sores broke out on the people who had the mark of the beast and worshiped his image."

Rev 14:9 "A third angel followed them and said in a loud voice: "If anyone worships the beast and his image and receives his mark on the forehead or on the hand"

Rev 14:11 "And the smoke of their torment rises for ever and ever. There is no rest day or night for those who worship the beast and his image, or for anyone who receives the mark of his name."

Notice how worship is also associated with mark of the beast.
To worship someone is not mandatory. In worshiping, you are surrendering and pledging allegiance.

A Christian shouldn't be bothered about mark of the beast. If you claim to have pledged allegiance to Jesus Christ, the mark of the beast is not for you.

It is not what’s under our hand, but rather, who is in our heart?

If it isn't physical, what is it? Show us with proof what it is, or you're guessing and rewriting the Bible by yourself

Horokrox:
Humans haven't landed on Mars or any other Planets in the Solar System so these scientists mostly are not in any position to tell us whether ET👽 life exist or not morever even the oceans remain largely unexplored

All the samples collected from these planets isn't enough proof to you that there are no ETs on those planets?

Hollywood is Hollywood. Oceans are oceans. There are no aliens.

Horokrox:
The same scientists that have not even explored 80% of Earth's oceans are not in any position to talk about ET👽life in the Solar System as pertaining to their existence

They don't exist.

Unless your ETs have been invisible on Mars since the first probe landed.

BigDawsNet:
U hav evidence NaSa is just doing child's play

Where the evidence they do exist?

Clearly, they don't. Not in all the space that has been explored, even nearby planets. It's a good fundraiser, though, and a nice Hollywood theme.

Wainey:
they are not pumping money cos of extraterrestrial life but they are trying to look for other suitable planet just in case the lifespan of Earth ends

Do you know how important the theory of aliens on Earth, UFOs and extraterrestrials are to the release of money? It's not just because they want a suitable planet. That's the least of their interests or concerns. At the distances they go to look for these suitable planets of yours, surely you know it's wasted effort to imagine taking people across such great distances. The distances they travel are lifetimes without number and they have found nothing—far away let alone in their own backyard. But if they keep speculations up, they will keep getting funded.

There's no suitable planet out there. They're looking for life on the side as a cover. And great wealth. They don't care about your suitable planet, because it doesn't exist.

jaxxy:
The sun is way more bigger than the earth unlike the proportion they depicted as.

Who are "they"?

BigDawsNet:
Among the stunning variety of worlds in our solar system, only Earth is known to host life

But I believe we have extraterrestrial life somewher in a small planet hidding from us...

There's no extraterrestrial life anywhere. It's just a myth to keep pumping money into space research

Yugoslavia247:
I Hope so

Yes or no.

Righteousness2:
The signs of the coming of JESUS Christ are too loud too visible to be ignored.

In the skies, in the nations, in the oceans , they are everywhere.
You are not just living in the last days..
You are not just living in the final hours…
You are not just living in the final minutes… You are living in the final seconds…

Run into a relationship with JESUS Christ.
Jesus is coming soon!

Because of planets aligning?

These things have always been in the skies since the world began. It's not a signal of the end of the world, rather a sign that it's continued and will continue to do so.

You should preach, but not fear mongering.

Forget about the temperatures and global warming. The world is coming to an end, blah, blah, blah. Heard that enough in 2000. It's not as important as:

What happened to his hairline?

TotoGame:
Yoruba people thinks about nothing but Sex, that's why most of them are lazy and unemployed

Is this true?

burp18:
How do you know they're sleeping on thesame bed?🤔

He knows where he sleeps.

pansophist:
If you read my last paragraph, it's evident that I'm referring to societies and also that good women suffer as well. Nigerian men are not saints, honestly, I've written here several times that the first chain of blame is on the men, who let things rot this bad.

Women just adapted to a society men created. The kind of women in any society is a reflection of the male leadership there.

Was expecting an epistle about good men, but being good isn't a men thing for Nigerians, so let's never hold our breaths on that.

That said, it's not a reflection it's a resonance with male vibrations. Cultures, mores, norms—these are all agreeable to a society. Thus, there shouldn't be complaints about what these girls put on their statuses. They are resonating with what the usual requests from boys in society are. And all over the world, there's one thing they all want.

If you want to change the society and women, and you know it starts with men since they've built everything including every debauched system in place, why then do you always preach at women? Shouldn't the message be about being good men?

Maybe you should create a topic on that. Constantly preaching at the symptoms, when the cause is left untouched achieves nothing in the end.

BigBrother9ja:
I think it's okay
For as long as (in a guy's case) I'm not matched with a SLÚT/whóre with uncountable bodycount.
I can never even be okay or love any girl with more than a bodycount.
God forbid!

No guy should play a role of captain save-a-hoe or settle for someone that has been passed around like football by multiple men.

Above was stated as the unbendable law by an omniscient virgin man deserving of a Mary.