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Teaveapoet:
Very true. The last time I sent data to someone who came on nairaland begging. He insulted me and my family.

What?!

VeeVeeMyLuv:
This is the reason why people are calling for some govt agencies to be scrapped because they are not doing anything there but collect fat salaries.

Most of these jobs u listed here pay well in advanced countries because they know their value. But here in Nigeria people not only look down on them but also trample their self-esteem under their feet

Everywhere in the world has low paying jobs.

Everyday this question.

Have computers and robots stolen all your jobs yet?

Someone with an hourglass figure vs someone who is out of shape. It's not rocket science the tailor would do a terrible job.

He wants you to take a loan on behalf of he and his sharp tongued wife (according to you)?

How will you pay it back when he's satisfied his buddies in business? If he doesn't pay back, what happens to you? What do you think his wife would say?

I don't know who this man is, but he has a head and a good mouth on his shoulders.

backnbeta:
The world of celebs...a world where looking at a woman alone can end your career

Ever wonder why it isn't every celeb this happens to? Why it isn't every pastor it happens to? Why it isn't every man it happens to? Or don't other men look at women?

Because these accused men are rapists or sexual assaulters, that's why it happens. It's always the type of men who feel they're untouchable that do these things. And it has nothing to do with their success, because when they are poor they do the same thing and deny it. It's not as if every woman goes around with a huge cam waiting for rape to happen, so that people will believe them. But it's that these men are constantly looking for opportunities to do these rapes and sexual molestation. They can't control themselves. And they know that society will not ask them why.

We need CCTV and better laws for all.

This is that same starks guy. There was no girlfriend then, and there isn't one now. He's been taking himself out to these places.

Magnoliaa:
You say whaaaaaaaaaaaaaat?

LMAO.

You logged in because of my comments?

Awwnn.
Awwnnn.
Awwwnnnnn.

M blorshing.

Keep your blorshes in check. Some of your followers enjoy the literature.

FiremanX:
Ikorodu feminist, if he's a deadbeat he wouldn't have given her share to her kids

What is that?

orohbiro:
Chai the girl done win lottery

She's dead.

Deadbeat father, too.

Magnoliaa:
LMAOOOOO.

Ahtink say you don mention this before?

I nor be lawyer...

Be like say you dey confuse Gadaf for the other one...but anyway, it's fine, jare.

I don leave the thread *yawns*.

I will keep saying it. Each time I read some of your responses, that's what comes to mind.

Thou, Magnolia, art a lawyer. Color this place with your thoughts. It's why I logged in today.

And yes, you did encounter the vulcanizer on that thread.

Magnoliaa:
LMAO?

Entertaining?

Person wey I nor even spend two seconds with.

To be fair, the entertainment was your obliterating him.

I don't know why, but your early responses on that thread were delicious. I'll bet you're another lawyer.

Magnoliaa:
Vulcanizer?



You know them.

Them will defend one of their own until the last blood.

It's a legendary thread on NL. Really.

Vul_can your vulcanizer. Still high on RP fumes. You two were entertaining on that thread.

Quite legendary.

Klass99:
At the text in bold, it was a case of darkness has to flee when LIGHT shines . Those ladies did nothing to him, he dug his grave and buried himself, all on his own.

True.

He dug his grave and buried himself, but those ladies put the tombstone on his matter.

Magnoliaa:
Except for a few of them like Gadafii that are perenially irredeemable, lmao.



A national treasure that should be preserved and protected at all costs.

The vulcanizer is also irredeemable.

Ah, but that was a thread to be on. Imagine a day where malignant guest would shut up and unearth his other moniker while the guys who couldn't believe he was a traitor were trying to keep up his heat when he had gone AWOL himself.

Klass99:
Oh yeah . What is the way? Please enlighten a sista, let me not assume things in my head.



Stop playing yourself in circles just busted my head I'm laughing out loud. Nice play of words

Don't assume he expects the unconditional unexamined surrender of body, soul and spirit of the woman to the man. Once that is done, the detox has taken place.

It's 2023, they should grow a pair and own it

Magnoliaa:
E be like so o...

Just observe how they now reason with two braincells occasionally.

That M.motimo is a legend.

Klass99:
You know what tripped me most about that thread was how Poco nicely called him out on his BS with statement of facts only, then M.motimo completely finished him with sound knowledge and more statements of fact, about the country he lives in which he was so clueless and oblivious of.

Lol.

They really worked on that guy and walked him out of here.
I was amused at the beating he took. He couldn't even respond properly.

I'm always amazed that after typing garbage, these same people will advertise a product or look for a job or show us their pimple coated schlong that they've refused to take to the hospital and expect anyone to respond. That thread only proved how ignorant and —pardon my Spanish— how daft the average male poster here is. It's like an oath they took when signing up. To be thoughtless, shameless and stupid.

pleasureosondu:
First, I don't support physical abuse in any form. But answer this question; who's supposed to show that respect first, man or woman?

A man approaches you, after some time, he proposes marriage even if he may still be rejected. And if he doesn't, he shoulders the wedding responsibilities and other key decision to ensure his family survives. Sometimes, he wins, other times he loses. If you think that such a man doesn't deserve respect, I wonder who should. And if you expects a man to be loved by his wife coz he has a big dick, you must be joking.

But?



It's 2023. Stop hiding behind but. Just say you support it and stop playing yourself in circles.

Klass99:
The question was simple. How do you detoxify a toxic marriage? You haven't answered the question posed to you, since you claimed a toxic marriage can be detoxified and what's worse you have turned the issue into a gender war.

There's only one way he will expect it to be detoxified, but he knows that if he posts it, it will expose him for what he truly is: capitulate to the man.

It is their only solution for the ages.

Klass99:
As in ehn!!! It's unbelievable the kind of junk one reads on this forum. That MalignantGuest thread will go down in NL history as one of the most memorable threads ever.

@bolded: Memorable in a don't be a shameless misogynist pest like malignant guest way. He is a subject for any student who wishes to dissect online personas.

If aliens come to Earth and access the website, they will wonder what sort of prehistoric mono-dendritic primitive slime balls typed the sort of things that make front page threads.

But it's okay to marry men from separated parents. This forum is so full of garbage that it stinks.

I said it: after the clown was exposed for living a double life (as a red pill hater boy online and on the other hand a slave husband to a woman who out earns him), others would bring up new topics to continue the misogyny. Then, that failing, they will retrieve the old vomit from the sewer where they invent such topics, and resume the usual drivel. This is one of such topics.

Since malignant guest was busted, the place has received less anti-female posts.

Myself2:
That is the height of ignorance. Is it not what he put inside the woman that the woman delivered ?

Anyway, children are a gift from God, any sex He gives you, hen you accept with thanksgiving. Do you know Angela Merkel's male siblings, how about Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, who are the male siblings of Sinach and Beyonce ?

I think society joins to put stupid unnecessary pressure on couples who have one sex of children to try and have more children so they can have the other sex. Imagine me that has three boys, some brethren in church even use joke to mask their pressure that "you should try and have girls o cos it's girls that look after their parents in old age". In my fathers house, before he and my mom passed, with all sense of modesty the contribution of my two sisters combined towards the well being and upkeep of our parents does not come close to what I did for them. The only person that comes.close even is the last son of the family, not even any of.my sisters, not that they didnt try in their little way but for me, my parents were a project for me, so I did things even they considered too much, so what's the sex of the chid got to do with it

Did you personally take care of them with your hands, apart from your money? If you think monetary contributions signify who cares more, then do what your sisters likely had to do via using their hands to take care of your parents. Anyone can get money and send it, big or small, but the ones who really take care of others are those who do it with their time and commitment, physically.

It's the reason many children remember their mothers and not their fathers. Because money is nothing.

Silly and misleading.

FiremanX:
But seriously some men out there are very foolish, how can you pay someone 3 million just to talk to her? this is why most of these girls brag around

Thought you guys said they do it for a piece of bread

Enddy50ty:
The money she used for hiring a lawyer for this court case should have been used for a DNA paternity test in a reputable hospital to determine if truly Sanwo Olu is the father of her son.

If she had presented a DNA test results to the court as evidence this case would have been over even before it started.

How do you propose she does a DNA test on a man who is unavailable? Do you expect her to fight her way into his office and that he would willingly give her his sample? Or would the test be done in a sand castle?

Tell us. If you were his son, how would you go about getting him to admit it and carry out the test?

Why should people have to give up their wealth if it was gotten legally? That's unfair.

thebosstrevor1:
Story for the gods.

So na to dey talk about IT and LinkedIn be the point of relationship...haha.

Man! Relationship is all about going out, fucking, playing together, going out, fucking, more fucking, more watching movies, taking about useless and funny things, poking fun at each other, playing mind games, getting angry, fucking and talking about life goals, number of kids, exchanging gifts and if possible marriage. Relationship is not about talking about IT, LinkedIn and corporate world.

If you are looking for a woman that will develop you, then you must be dreaming, you are the one to develop your woman, i never see where 2 people of the same status dey develop themselves, how dem won start with out quarrels

Preach to the teenagers on the forum. Very opinionated and very juvenile in their summations. Imagine a guy talking about LinkedIn and IT as a sign of intelligence and criteria for dating.

It is at that point you know that the forum is overrun with loud children.

1Sharon:
Such arrogance lol

Most Nigerians aren't intelligent (if it doesn't apply to you, don't get offended)
Paradoxic.

And people that like to think themselves as intelligent are usually the opposite.

Every time the pseudo-educated men post, it's always about how they need intelligent women and talk about their "level", as if intelligence resides in men only. Once again, are these men intelligent?

You will see a tech guy dating someone in finance and he will say she's not intelligent and can't hold conversations because she can't talk about the same things he does. Meanwhile, in her field/area of interest he's not considered intelligent. Look at his flimsy example of LinkedIn—how many people are actually on LinkedIn so that he uses that as his criteria for intellect?

These are men who have never compared their IQ scores to that of any woman, yet talk about intellect, and if they met one in their field they would feel she's too pompous, or ugly, and other poverty addled logic. They would be the same ones to denigrate her because she doesn't conform to their ego, tag her a feminist and still look for sex from a slave.

There's no winning with these opinionated, myopic, U-30 perfectionist boys. Any girl who listens to them is wasting her time. They've bought into all sorts of unrealistic ideas on life.

Can't he say it himself? Or is he scared?

"It's not in our blood/lineage". As if it's transmissible.

Come out boldly.

Nazgul:
Dating a comfortable guy isn't the problem most guys have with girls. The problem is lacking the intellect to relate with him on his level.

Most comfortable guys are exposed, so they have vast knowledge about things. They go to places, they keep up with recent happenings in the cooperate world. Now imagine finding an average regular girl who has made up her mind to date rich guys. Obviously you cannot discuss work with her, you cannot discuss happenings in the IT world with her, she basically wouldn't be able to relate with him on his level.

All she would have to commune with him is money, sex and outing... nothing more. Sooner or later, the guy in question would leave her to look for someone whom he can easily relate with on his level.

I can basically tell you that if you meet 50 average Nigerian girls, 30 would have no idea of what LinkedIn is, 18 would have heard it before but don't have a profile there, only 2 would tell you that they have a developed profile on LinkedIn.

The solution to all this is to date someone within your league (whether you're male or female). That way, you two can work towards developing each other and not taking advantage of each other.

@bold is stale

Why is it always assumed by men that they are more intelligent than women, that they are always looking for "intelligent conversation"? Is it an ego thing, or you don't realize that what interests you doesn't interest the next person? That people have different occupations? What level? Did only men go to school?

Intellect this, intellect that. Half of men aren't even intelligent. But since they can't really pick rich girls to go out with, they begin to pick at imaginary intelligence. Are men intelligent? Hardly.

Women need to raise their standards to include intelligent men. Many of them reason myopically. It's just something they parrot from their classes whenever they bring up relating and intelligence. They don't want any relating. They just want a sex and slave. When it doesn't come easy, they fall to intelligence and relating. They forget that they get old and less desirable the more they are picky.