A man that has the fear of God evident in his life, although it might not be so easy to detect, as there are camouflages out there!

Ihateheadslamer:
Atiku that was once a vice President twice for that matter

Vice-President is a different political position from president.

Very true. Premarital sex is a sin against God. There's no o validation for it.

Ganduje wey dey hustle for position in Tinubu's government... If you know, you know.

MisterBanny:
Lord have mercy. This is a challenge too difficult to handle, a tragedy of multiple proportions.
I feel like killing myself if my death could bring them back to life again. Hard luck my people. RIP

Why will you say this in the first place?

KennethEnyi:
This is rubbish. What’s the point of living to 102

It's a privilege, and it's something one can pray to God and hope for. I will do that oo. Do you know how amazing it is telling the younger generation at a hundred plus years about how life was in the previous century

baby124:
This is definitely a script cause your mother is not ready. She has spoilt her son to this extent and she will keep destroying him. I personally suggest you find your way out of that house as soon as a you can and forge your own path. Let them find their way. You need to save yourself before you can save others and their mentality will hold you back. Just check in on your younger siblings and send money when you can. Your mother should also be hustling for herself and her kids not putting the burden on you! What if you were just like your brother? Will she not find the money?

They will all be fine, go and fight for yourself first and come back to help them if they can. Your mother should chase that old man out of the house to go and figure out his life if she wants to even enjoy the fruit of her labor. He’s a lazy guy.

From what I an thinking, this matter goes beyond what you are just commenting here.

DownTime44:
That will be so difficult. My mum will not support depriving him food or shelter. I don't think she can watch him or anyone else go hungry when there's food.

I wish i could disappear out of this world. I'm tired.

I know how painful this situation could be for you, but God the greatest comforter will comfort you in Jesus Name!

bummyla:
Secondly, if your brother is not a threat to your mother, you people can simply ignore him, like we did to my elder brother. He eats food when offered to him at home, when not offered he respects his self and not go near the kitchen.

He keeps to his lane! Which is sometime good!

Now some of us are doing better, we send him money from time to time, to help him keep body and soul together.

If he minds his business! Just let him be concentrate on your self and your other siblings, but please dont disrespect him!

We do not disrespect him!

We still respects him as the first born

Yeah, he shouldn't disrespect his elder brother, that's an important point to note.

Waow, I just came across this thread again...

sojayy:
11. Husbands knacks their wives with care n empathy while boyfriend knacks theirs like no tomorrow n sometimes shift their womb adventurously. ;

As a boyfriend, you should not knack, it's fornication, it's sin against God.

Jennyclay:
Whether husband or boyfriend, Biko you men should take good care of your wife and girlfriend. It’s your duty to provide for your wife and girlfriend. Don’t be stingy!! Don’t run away from your responsibilities!!

Even the Bible says any man that can’t take good of his wife/girlfriend is more worse than an infidel.

Was "girlfriend" mentioned in the Bible?

yesloaded:


If you are less than 25yrs, bro please forget about dating and channel your energy on money making

Learn a reasonable skill and monetize it

A girl of 19yrs is not ripe for any serious relationship (quote me anywhere)

I'm not trying to sound harsh but I love to be realistic

Work hard and smart, make money because this is what you need

Good luck

There's no issue about loving a 19 year-old girl. The problem is how he's blind to the red flags this girl is showing. You should never make the mistake of judging someone's (a girl in this case) maturity by age. There are matured 19 year olds, and immature 35 year olds, and vice-versa.

Flick490:
Are you a time waster? On a serious note, for you to be dating a 19year old Nigerian girl means you're either 20yrs or slightly above 20yrs. This implies that you both are still too young to go into relationship, at least a serious one. A girl of 19yrs can never be loyal to you, she still wants to explore and taste all the available dicks first.
The sad truth is that you love her more than she ever loves you. You're broke and can't throw a birthday bash for her, u can't afford good gifts for her birthday. Girls like to get birthday gifts from their guys and want a big party. But u can't do all these now cos you're broke.
I advise that u move on, redouble your effort at hustling so u can make good money. She has already found a guy that can do all these for her .

There's no issue about loving a 19 year-old girl. The problem is how he's blind to the red flags this girl is showing. You should never make the mistake of judging someone's (a girl in this case) maturity by age. There are matured 19 year olds, and immature 35 year olds, and vice-versa.

shomutuski:


You are truly in love with a 19yr old girl? LMAO XD

men like you lack gut and drive, you are here crying while shes leaving you for another guy who is creating value for himself, cant you see that the you are the cause of your problem and your solution?

Go and make your family proud, stop all this nonsense over a small girl that alot of niggaz will still Bleep the shit out of.

There's no issue about loving a 19 year-old girl. The problem is how he's blind to the red flags this girl is showing. You should never make the mistake of judging someone's (a girl in this case) maturity by age. There are matured 19 year olds, and immature 35 year olds, and vice-versa.

Obakoolex:
Please what exactly does this Poco Lee do
And how has he been able to mingle with all the rated and latest artist.?

Poco lee is majorly a dancer and he's an influencer also. Didn't you hear Ayra start mention him in her song Rush, where she said "...dance like Poco lee"?

falcon01:
Why change it?

It's a general code for all mobile networks. NUC actually approved it. The *310# code for balance inquiry works for all mobile networks now, and not just MTN.

Nicely written... Thumps up!

ukaface:

Keep looking for virgin
Don’t settle for less

Una harsh on this platform shaa😂😃😊

A finance friend in Shell earns 750k per month.

Interesting, and this was about 2011 ooo...

IyaebeTheGreat:
Let's be realistic how much can 800k carry for the whole month considering the increase in price of almost everything

Wait oo... Are you saying N800k is small for a month Just dey play oo!

I am just hearing unrealistic figures here... As in eehnn... What percentage of workforce in Nigeria presently earn N8,000,000 or entrepreneurs that generate up to N5,000,000 monthly? These goals are unrealistic, abeg! Hope those girls ahaa remember what SMART GOALS mean (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Time-bound)?

iCauseTrouble:
It will only be fair for APC to give David Lyon her ticket as he won the previous gubernatorial election.

Well...

Technically yes...

Aonkuuse:
Bro if u are serving in Abuja, no body should deceive you, miss CDS for one month and you will know the mess you will get yourself into, some biometrics officers will even refuse to do ur monthly clearance except your CDS officer clears you. the only way to escape it in Abuja is to get someone to be taking the attendance for you. even in other states, there are states that take it serious, no one should use the experience in other states to deceive you.

Well... You gat a point!!

rinzylee:
I laugh 😂 😂


Rent

Tax

Insurance

Transport

Heating in winter

etc



Your body go tell you if you are not doing a professional job that has a certain salary cap.


This is what most people who rushed the care job visa for UK didn't consider.

They converted £20,500 p/a to naira and got blindly excited and jumped without making informed plans.


After the euphoria of landing, reality sets in and so many regrets and stories start jumping out.


Sit down and plan o....all that glitters isn't gold.

It's important to sit down and plan finance... That's right... Sometimes, some of these people who want to japa just do the conversion without factoring other things.

Reading along.....

crossbreedwears:
I don't think they are up to 21

Na you born them or are you one if their family members

190:


Oh shey?

What does that mean

What he said does not even relate logically with the post at all...

JASONjnr:
Lol.....


If you're paid and you're assigned some duties that requires working over the weekend then you have no excuse for it.


Infact, this Saturday and Sunday I was working tirelessly to compile nominal rolls and other official duties ...

Called two of my colleagues to gather information from them, they didn't pick up but returned the call late at night!

But I'm getting paid to work and to deliver and gain better experience on the job!

Money isn't everything though!

But, you need work-life balance shaa.

They knew the school rules before they applied for admission.

N3TRAL:
He was made Vice-president because he was the meekest Governor from the South. Obasanjo didn't want his successor to experience the pepper Atiku showed him. Jonathan even became a Governor by chance or maybe luck as his name suggests.

Goodluck Jonathan failed as President because he wasn't prepared for leadership. He's a good man without an inordinate ambition for power.

In 2019, a man who had never hoped to be president under APGA and swore never to leave APGA was selected vice presidential candidate of the PDP. What was he going to do? How long did he prepare for it?

It is my conviction that the most prepared should have it. Tinubu prepared since 1993 to save Nigeria as President. 30 years of training and planning will most likely produce a better result than 8 months of taking advantage of the "South East turn" and "Muslim Muslim Ticket".

So, you mean there should be a "specific training" before one can become Nigeria's President?