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Politics › Re: Video Of Senator Elisha Abbo Assaulting A Woman Inside store by budaatum: 3:10am On Jul 03, 2019
NSNA:
A lot of people miss the fact that he started hitting her as soon as she started speaking Yoruba over the phone. He is Fulani!
It would be good if you'd bothered doing some research.

Abbo, who is the youngest senator in the country, had entered the shop around 6:00 p.m. on May 11, a Saturday. The senator walked in with three young women to purchase adult toys.

But shortly after they began shopping for the toys, one of the three ladies brought in by Mr Abbo started throwing up. She vomited multiple times, prompting the shop owner to remark that the woman should have vomited outside and not inside her shop, especially since she was not a child.
Family › Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by budaatum: 2:48am On Jul 03, 2019
grandstar:
What you said makes a lot of sense.

In one of my posts, I complained of the manner of approach. It's either the MIL's or daughter's fault. If the mother told her like a mother that it's improper for her to be causing nuisance when making love and the woman transmitted it to the husband in the proper way, we won't be here.

Let her husband understand the reason behind. He's probably feeling the MIL is being unnecessarily unreasonable and domineering.

His wife can go: ' Sweetheart, mama said she could hear us yesterday while we were making love. She didn't think it was dignifying , especially to us. Sex is supposed to be a very intimate or private matter"

Husband: 'So what are you suggesting?'

Wife:' "I will feel very self conscious anytime we make love if she's around. I won't enjoy it at all. I'll be very frigid in bed.

Husband: "Okay then. If you don't want your mum to hear it. let us go outside behind the bus stop to do it there. She can't hear us from there"? Or she get super hearing?

Wife:" No be only outside. I have a better idea. We should do it in her room when she's with her pastor.. Sweetheart, lests be serious what can we do".

Blah blah blah
Good one, "Behind the bus stop to do it there".
grin grin grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Moral Problems: Is Incest Wrong? Why? by budaatum: 2:07am On Jul 03, 2019
johnydon22:
So, let's see how this moral question can be effectively treated.

Is incest morally wrong?

If Yes.

Why is it morally wrong?

If, No.

Why?
It is amusing that you chose to hold incest up to a moral light when it has nothing whatsoever to do with morality but just is the right think to do considering the intersubjective understanding of the available evidence. (Yeah! I used your word).

Family › Re: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. by budaatum: 1:41am On Jul 03, 2019
grandstar:
The issue is the manner of approach of both the mother and daughter. It's not your house. Some families live in a single room and make love when they think their children are "sleeping".

His mother inlaw should show some maturity. If the marriage breaks up because of this, her daughter would put the blame on her.
You are the first to respond to this which does amuse me since I can't believe real men fuq where their own mother's hear them not to talk of MiL. If a man wants to fuq his wife with his MiL in the next room listening, I guess it don't matter if it's a two minute fuq on a bed that don't squeak, but what sort of fuq do you expect to fuq with MIL listening next room? Op, did you not say the door was open!? I suggest man improve the quality of his fuq instead of the quantity, and bloody get a room while he aspires to a bigger house!

Some have mentioned growing up with fuqing parents in the room, please tell if you did not cover your ears and make out you were sleeping while they were fuqing? I guess you want your MiL to do the same and cover her ears and make out she can't hear you and her daughter fuqing because it's your house and she must respect you? When the man mother visits, she too should shut the fuq up and respect man and man house and man fuqing and just cover her ears and make out she can't hear her own son fuqing? My head shakes at you all!

If the daughter had been brought up well she would not have been fuqing where her mother would hear her and would have better arranged her fuqing to ensure she and her husband were satisfied. Would she wait for her MiL to tell her off when she visits? Even her own children should not be hearing her fuqing not to talk of her own mother. Or did she ever hear her own father and mother fuqing? Her respect for herself should have made her fuq in private.

The MiL must have been a bad mother is what I think, and it shows in the very timid action she took. A proper mother would have marched into the room where her daughter and her husband were fuqing and pulled her daughter's ears where she was fuqing and very sternly asked her daughter if she had been such a bad mother to her that she feels the need to be fuqed where it would disturb her! "If you husband's mother was in the next room is this how you will disgrace me by making it seem like I never trained you"! The effect of such an approach while her husband's fuq is fuqing her will remind her to respect herself a lot more than she currently does forever. The sternest look of "don't you have respect for your mother?" directed at her SiL as she left the room would increase your respect for her too.

You are all gonna be MiL and FiL one day. Say amen!
Christianity Etc › Re: What Did Jesus Do? by budaatum(op): 11:31pm On Jul 02, 2019
sonmvayina:
To end religious wars....
Reducing unnecessary death? What an intelligent benevolent individual Constantine must have been!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenyan Falls From Sky In Clapham! by budaatum(op): 11:30pm On Jul 02, 2019
kellyboo:
You do not have what it takes to get the product.. But you only want to display your ignorance
I definitely do not have what it takes to get any product from a foul mouthed individual like you.
Literature › Re: Introducing Nairaland 10 Days Book Challenge by budaatum: 10:01pm On Jul 02, 2019
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Islam › Re: Islam's Position On Homosexuality by budaatum: 9:57pm On Jul 02, 2019
JeromeBlack:
So, you believe your prophet is a man? I thought he was a god given how we are not to draw him, he alone was allowed more than 4 wives and he was supposed to be the perfect example for all men.
Yes, in the 7th century, 1400years+ ago. You need to fast forward and join us in the 21st century JB.
Islam › Re: Why Is Islam Afraid Of Atheism (and Apostasy)? by budaatum: 9:47pm On Jul 02, 2019
tintingz:
Interpretations are subjective, each parties will never accept they are wrong as long as they keep interpreting the Islamic texts to justify their beliefs.
There is a standard by which intelligent people get to ensure they do not lead themselves and others astray with false justifications based of subjective interpretations tingz, or did you not learn the meaning of "Peace be upon The Prophet Muhammad" when you were a Muslim?

It is precisely to remove invalid subjective understandings that immense critical scholarship arose in Islam. If you knew anything about such scholarship you would understand its influence on western thought. But nothing! You present the entirety of Islam as the most fundamental of possible beliefs with disregard that people here are educated and have brains.

The unfortunate thing here is that you rubbish that which you lack knowledge of tingz. You measure against an understanding of all that you know as Islam and presume that your own limited understanding is everyone elses understanding. Surely there must be some to whom run means run much slower than your run and its possible some's run is faster than your own run, a fact you fail to consider.

My point is made and I know it is clearly seen it, so until there is something positive to be gained by further responding on this, the Graces of Allah be upon you and Peace.
Politics › Re: EFCC ‘persecuting’ Saraki — Atiku by budaatum: 6:37pm On Jul 02, 2019
Has this Atiku not heard we are on next level? It's called War Against Corruption, Atiku, in case you missed it!
Pets › Re: Help! Ruggedman Is Dying!! :-( by budaatum: 6:31pm On Jul 02, 2019
Basorun, the one who bought me 50kobo Skippy, ascended to heaven on Saturday.
Literature › Re: Introducing Nairaland 10 Days Book Challenge by budaatum:
My second book was part of a series of books of short stories I was given in school. There were 13 but this one stood out, except there's a problem. I've not been able to find it ever since!

This old man was walking up a hill with his friends when he said he could spend the night up there alone on the hill without a fire to keep warm. His friends' wagered to cook a meal for him if he did, but he would cook for them if he failed.

So night came and the old man sat all alone on top of the hill in the freezing cold looking down into the far away village where he observed a candle lit in a window which he stared at till dawn when his friends returned

"How did you manage not to freeze to death", they asked, amazed. "It was really cold last night!"

"I stared at a candle lit in a window far down in the village all night", said the tired trembling cold old man. "It made the cold bearable".

"Aha! You cheat", yelled his friends in delight. "You had a fire to keep you warm which was against our wager so you've lost and it is you who shall be cooking for us!"

The old man was way too tired to argue with them and went home to sleep.

His friends arrived in the evening for the meal they'd wagered and won but could smell nothing cooking but which the old man said would soon be. Time passed and no food appeared so they eventually stormed angrily into the kitchen and saw a huge cauldron cooking over a single candle light.

"What the heck"?! said the very hungry perplexed friends.

"If a candle in a window so far away in the village can keep me warm on top of a cold hill all night", said the old man, "we can let it cook you dinner".

Nb. I've eventually found the book after much research, and a wiki page with more info and some of the stories. The picture is of a copy I read.

Book Title: The Wise Old Man (Turkish tales of Nasreddin Hodja)

Author: Juda L.

First encounter: 1977

Properties › Re: 70L Solar Fridge With A Freezer Compartment by budaatum: 4:23pm On Jul 02, 2019
kellyboo:
Never in your entire useless life ever go to my advert to post rubbish.
Except, I handle threats very badly

Re: kellyboo Falls From Sky In Clapham!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenyan Falls From Sky In Clapham! by budaatum(op): 4:18pm On Jul 02, 2019
kellyboo:
I can see how frustrated you are, jobless than the janitor in hell and hopeless than a LovePeddler in a brothel.
Never in your entire useless life ever go to my advert to post rubbish.. If you're frustrated and retard mentally please take it far from my thread or anything that get to do with me.
Thank you.
@budaatum
Your advert kellyboo, is for a product I am interested in but which you presented rather poorly imo. I believe many would be interested in it too if better advertised, and my comment was a suggestion with specific valid questions, but see how you've chosen to respond!

I'm responding here so as not to ruin your business kellyboo, but I daresay you'll manage to ruin your own business all by yourself just because you lack intelligence. buda wishes you luck.
Islam › Re: Why Is Islam Afraid Of Atheism (and Apostasy)? by budaatum: 3:54pm On Jul 02, 2019
tintingz:
It has to do with the interpretations of the Islamic texts.
No! Tingz! It has nothing to do with any false subjective interpretations that any individual chooses to place on top of the Islamic text!

It has to do with a proper understanding of those Islamic texts!

It is for this very reason that we say, "I believe that there is no god/God but Allah, and that only God is according to the understanding handed to me through the Prophet", and not as subjectively interpreted by some deluded, mentally deranged, just plain stupid and ignorant deceiving others, evil, should be shot, terrorist!
Christianity Etc › Re: About Judgment- COZA Scandal by budaatum: 3:44pm On Jul 02, 2019
You make me wonder that Fatoy judged others and is now being judged. See what happened to the 'false accuser' of TBJ, whom I'm reticent about but who seems to be immensely wise. I bet you accusers of Adeboye or Oyedepo would be torn to bits by us same people. Surely, if Fatoy had walked a righteous path and not one of iniquity, Dakolo and his two other accusers would not have had the ground to stand on.

If Fatoy is righteous, let him take comfort from Job. Judged is he, by public opinion.

Properties › Re: 70L Solar Fridge With A Freezer Compartment by budaatum: 3:25pm On Jul 02, 2019
This your shop could be much better displayed! More photos close up for eg. Why is the fridge installed on a table? Where are the solar panels? Must fridge be in direct sun? If you have a product here you should advertise better than this please!
Politics › Re: Herdsmen Get 1,200-hectare Ranch For Cattle Grazing, Slaughtering by budaatum: 2:37pm On Jul 02, 2019
Good for Bayelsa. Dem no get plenty IGR so would need to see sense.
Politics › Re: Buhari Sacks Usman Yusuf As NHIS Boss, Appoints Sambo Replacement by budaatum: 2:29pm On Jul 02, 2019
giantstrides:
It is quite saddening for those who knew him then,
I knew him then and I'm happy with 2019 Buhari! The 1985 Buhari no send person while the 2019 Buhari has his hands clipped by democracy. If Nigeria got 1985 Buhari in 2019 the current wailing will be 20 times more than what it currently is and ndomie would not be able to bear it!
Politics › Re: Buhari Sacks Usman Yusuf As NHIS Boss, Appoints Sambo Replacement by budaatum: 2:22pm On Jul 02, 2019
Livefreeordieha:
you can't detest the term "balanced appointments... " You can't!!!!

The reason u can't its because that's a fabric of the contraption called Nigeria.. We were amalgamated and established on a quota system, we have an agreed federal character system... Nigeria was planned.. You can't wake up one morning and start to behave like a rabid dog saying you detest what u didn't co.sign... Nigeria is bigger than ur wishes... If u wish to alter the system, then u need to restructure the system or rewrite the constitution...


You can't detest bro... U can't.. Without balanced appointments u can't govern Nigeria in peace only ur families... Nigeria is bigger than u..
Well, I would like it to be replaced by merit, and I understand the current need for it. Hate it though, like its the plague, and wish we gone past this stage.
Christianity Etc › Re: Exposed! Bisola Johnson Lied Against TB Joshua , Mentally Unstable (video) by budaatum: 1:43am On Jul 02, 2019
temmytanny:
This your story was published in 2009, please update
angry angry
Family › Re: My Uncle Said I Betrayed Him by budaatum: 1:01am On Jul 02, 2019
Me77:
Should I finally quit this job and damned the consequences or should I stay and mind my business with no one talking to me. Please advise.
Your uncle did not inform you your boss was his enemy. He told you to bear it when you complained. You wouldn't, grew balls instead and went to find solution elsewhere. Now uncle wants to dump his own problem on your head too?! It's because you are effective. You are able to solve problems. The sort of employee most want but the envy of the incompetent.

If you quit that job before you get another I will personally come over there and kick your ass! Knuckle down. This will go away or the solution will appear. I have faith in you.
Christianity Etc › Re: Pst. Biodun And Bisola Evil Motivated Saga by budaatum: 12:42am On Jul 02, 2019

Celebrities › Re: Police Reacts To Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Rape Allegations by budaatum: 12:41am On Jul 02, 2019

Christianity Etc › Re: I Foresee A Confession And An Apology From Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo by budaatum: 12:36am On Jul 02, 2019

Politics › Re: Buhari Sacks Usman Yusuf As NHIS Boss, Appoints Sambo Replacement by budaatum: 12:29am On Jul 02, 2019
Livefreeordieha:
u are the educated illiterate bro.

First question... Do u see a lopsided appointment in the government or not?? Do u see and sense nepotism or not?

Ur answers will tell us the size of ur brain... Don't worry it's no crime to be boldly stupid in the current Nigeria...

Now back to the issue.. The issue was the NHS boss was sacked and replaced with a northerner still.. No one complained about the disease center control guy because it wasn't an issue... Infact in the current Nigerian format one need not celebrate such as it usually occurs for political gains or appointments under pressure or scarce skills...

How can u even parade ur sef as sane and infiltrate our cyberspace talking about people when even the dullest person in ifon and sabogida ora knows this government hasn't balanced appointments.. But ofcourse no one should speak.
They don't have to be from Ifon so far as they get the job done!

Seriously, I detest this tribe "balanced appointments" idea! When person from Ifon becomes president walahi, every minister will be from Ifon, if I can get highly educated enough people to fill the posts in Ifon, that is!
Foreign Affairs › Re: Hong Kong Protesters Invade Thier Legislative by budaatum: 12:20am On Jul 02, 2019
We really thrashed it!

Foreign Affairs › Re: Kenyan Falls From Sky In Clapham! by budaatum(op): 10:57pm On Jul 01, 2019

Politics › Re: Buhari Sacks Usman Yusuf As NHIS Boss, Appoints Sambo Replacement by budaatum: 10:22pm On Jul 01, 2019
hardtoget:
Prof. Mohammed Nasir Sambo as the new Executive Secretary.
Na researchgate I find for Sambo, which at least shows he get brain.

Politics › Re: Buhari Sacks Usman Yusuf As NHIS Boss, Appoints Sambo Replacement by budaatum: 10:12pm On Jul 01, 2019
hardtoget:
The statement added, “Similarly, the President also approved the dissolution of the Governing Board of NHIS and directed the Permanent Secretary, Federal Ministry of Health to exercise full powers of the Council pending the constitution of a new Board.

“President Buhari has also approved the appointment of Dr. Chikwe Andreas Ihekweazu as Director–General (DG) of Nigeria Centre for Disease Control (NCDC).
After Two Years, Building the Nigerian Centre for Disease Control is Work in Progress

By Dr. Chikwe Andreas Ihekweazu

“If you’re walking down the right path and you’re willing to keep walking, eventually you’ll make progress.” – Barack Obama

These words from former US President, President Barack Obama have inspired me since I became the Chief Executive Officer of the Nigeria Centre for Disease Control (NCDC) on the 15th of August 2016. This week marked the two-year mark of this journey- a journey that has been an interesting learning curve and provided a prism into all that makes Nigeria a great country, and all that is holding it back from greatness.

In writing this article and thinking about what to share this week, I went back to the article I wrote exactly a year ago- Marking One Year at NCDC. In that piece, I shared our top ten priorities for the year that has just gone by and there is no better way to review our progress other than reviewing where we were, where we are, and where we want to be.

At this time last year, we were only restarting the process for the passage of the Bill establishing NCDC. Our young parastatal has existed for about seven years, albeit without full legislative backing. Today, the Bill has been passed by the Upper and Lower chambers of the National Assembly, awaiting Presidential assent. The political commitment from the Executive and Legislative arms of Government shows a recognition of the importance of the work we do- one I am extremely grateful for. The final passage of the Bill will provide us with a stronger backing to protect the health of all Nigerians.

Our new National Reference Laboratory is gradually taking position as the hub of public health diagnosis in Nigeria. One of the biggest wins for us in the last year, has been redeveloping and strengthening this laboratory in Abuja and its sister campus in Lagos- the Central Public Health Laboratory. One of our biggest criticisms that we have received has been our inability to diagnose specific diseases in Nigeria and having to send samples to laboratories outside Nigeria. Currently, we have in-country capacity to test for all epidemic prone diseases in the country: Monkeypox, yellow fever, measles, cholera, Lassa fever and cerebrospinal meningitis (CSM). We have added an additional laboratory- the Virology Centre, Federal Teaching Hospital Abakaliki- to our network of Viral Haemorrhagic Fever (VHF) laboratories.

The work to strengthen our diagnostic capacity would have been impossible without the support of our partners at the World Health Organisation, Public Health England and the US Centers for Disease Control. The National Reference Laboratory is also serving as the central lab for the ongoing National HIV/AIDS Indicator Survey (NAIIS) led by our sister agency, National Agency for the Control of AIDS (NACA). This is a remarkable example of government ownership and sustainability, an excellent collaboration led by the government to strengthen government systems. But, there is still much work to be done, especially in getting the 2KM stretch of road to the laboratory tarred.

When we began, we relied on paper and excel based reporting for receiving most of our surveillance data from the States. In aligning with global best practice, Nigeria is joining the rest of the world to digitalise its operations. Relying on excel was a difficult situation where sometimes, reports came in either very late or incomplete. In some cases, this affected response activities. (read: Time delays during the Meningitis outbreak). To move from that stage, we began the digitisation of our surveillance system using a tool called SORMAS. With SORMAS, we have an application that provides case-based reporting for epidemic prone diseases. We have deployed this tool in all Local Government Areas in seven States across the country and growing rapidly to expand to at least 14 States by the end of 2018. In addition to SORMAS for case based reporting, we also use ‘Tatafo’ for event based surveillance, and an incident management tool called SitAware, while mSERS is used for aggregate reporting. We are very grateful to our partners at the German HZI, Public Health England and University of Maryland, Baltimore for supporting the development and roll out of these tools. Many other national public health institutes have moved to digital tools for surveillance – and we are right up there with them.

Our emergency operations coordination has greatly improved. We now have a National Incident Coordination Centre (ICC) for coordinating outbreak preparedness and response activities in Nigeria at NCDC. With perseverance from our Team at NCDC, we have also began the roll out of State Public Health Emergency Operations Centres (EOCs), At the moment, we have provided six States in Nigeria with EOCs and the goal is to reach 18 States by the end of 2018. It has been an interesting learning process for us and we hope with this, States in Nigeria become better prepared and structured for outbreak response.

We continue to aggressively build the workforce for health protection in Nigeria. Together with the Irrua Specialist Teaching Hospital, we trained over 500 health care workers across all the regions of Nigeria on the prevention, detection and control of Lassa fever. We have started an aggressive research programme, supported by WHO to gain a better understanding of the drivers of the disease, which will help us improve our response. There have been several other wins for us including the aggressive public health communications campaign we have begun, capacity building of the NCDC Team and a greater responsibility and contribution in the global health space. Nigeria is now officially a member of the Global Health Security Agenda (GHSA) countries and Global Outbreak and Response Network (GOARN). We have received incredible support from several partners, as we build more trust and confidence in our work.

There is no doubt that these two years of service to Nigeria have been one of my most fulfilling, despite the challenges. Although, the Chief Executive of an organisation often gets all the media attention, the drivers of all our work and small success are the staff of NCDC. I am privileged to an incredible Team that makes all this work.

I am also extremely grateful for the leadership and support from the Honourable Minister and Minister of State for Health. Nigeria is on the path to building a strong health system and their commitment has helped NCDC make its valuable contribution.

We recognise that we still have areas to improve on and continue working towards this. Ultimately, we are building a strong national public health institute that can effectively protect the health of Nigerians. Stronger Together.

Foreign Affairs › Kenyan Falls From Sky In Clapham! by budaatum(op): 9:33pm On Jul 01, 2019
Kenya flight 'stowaway' body found in Clapham garden

A suspected stowaway who is believed to have fallen from the landing gear of a flight into Heathrow Airport has been found dead in a London garden.

The body - believed to be that of a man - was found in Clapham just before 15:40 BST on Sunday.

The individual is believed to have fallen from a Kenya Airways flight from Nairobi, police said.

A neighbour said the man fell a metre away from a resident who had been sunbathing in the garden.

Beeb
Christianity Etc › Re: Pst. Biodun And Bisola Evil Motivated Saga by budaatum: 9:07pm On Jul 01, 2019
Michellekabod2:
.No
The three once agreed buhari wasn't all that bad option for Nigeria,recall?
Yeah. That's true. Second time then.

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