Prettygirl200: Who be this one? Why can't u just be straight up with your answer, you are here saying what you will never do if u were to be in such situations. " You will seek medical help, discuss with your husband and adop" madam rest you hear?No dey talk wetyn u no go fit do 😏
Seems you know my capabilities or assume they are similar to yours.
You are aware many women have stayed with their impotent husbands and therefore remained childless, and some have gone and secretly slept with someone just to provide their unknowing husband with children?
Different different people na im de, is the point I hope you see if you read my other posts in this thread.
Yes it can be 99% perfect See how fast you run to America Is not perfect in America so it cannot be perfect here thats so low of you mental slavery. Raise your head high and say yes is possible.
My point was actually that it takes quite a number of years to democracy like America that is not even perfect.
FreeStuffsNG: Can you imagine how he got himself on top admitting that he knew that the Iraq plan was classified and he did not declassify it but still reading it to a group of people while they laugh at how he was trifling. A whole former US President o
MatrixReloaded: Indeed I'm not suppose to tell a nitwit what to do by sleeping with another man comfortably just because you want to commit adultery comfortably under an impotent man roof all because he can't give u children. Who even knows the sacbag is fertile enough probably the woman is not sucking it well enough
So, you think I need an impotent husband as an excuse to commit adultery if that's what I want to do?
Guess I'll let you continue believing what pleases you.
BalogunIdowu: This is easier said believe me, except you have no parents again of they have decided to leave the decision wholly to you, if not....divorce ni
Parents? Am I supposed to be a child such that parental permission is required?
I'm sure they'd be delighted when I drop a grandchild in their laps.
maasoap: Your marriage is already built on deceit, it will eventually crash. No trying in shaving what is not worth saving. But I guess you will realise that too late
It might be if I were married to you, but considering how carefully I chose my man and the criteria by which I chose him, which foremost is the ability to be honest and communicate with each other, I'm unwilling to concede that you know what you speak of.
You could of course try telling me why you come to that conclusion though, and I might reconsider your uninformed opinion.
adelafe2019: Difficulty getting and keeping an erection is called impotence or erectile dysfunction. Check your dictionary if you are in doubt.
You and your dictionary may call it whatever you want. Fact is, an erectile dysfunctional person may still produce baby bearing sperm, while an impotent person can not.
If you are a man you must at one time or the other found sperm at the tip of you non-erect diq. In fact, if you are healthy and virile enough and don't fuq often you'd have released sperm while pissing despite no hard on.
adelafe2019: It seems many readers here do not know the difference between impotent (inability to have erection for copulatio) and infertile ( can have copulation but the sperm is weak and cannot impregnate a woman) Op said the man was impotent, so correct yourselves.
Budaatum take note.
I think it's you who does not know the difference and should take note.
Op said the man is impotent, and not that man is erectile dysfunctional. He may have a hard on, which is evidence of not being erectile dysfunctional, and still be impotent, as in not be able produce baby forming sperm. Impotent does not mean erectile dysfunction.
limeta: Deal with your shame alone dont get me involved
I don't have any shame regarding this topic. And you mentioning me is you involving yourself. It's after all not the case that I dragged you into this or made you quote me and respond.
Perhaps learn to be in control of yourself instead of pressuming to be dragged. It would help you much in your future endeavours if you do learn to be the master of yourself instead of a dragged, well, slave?
adelafe2019: To be impotent means inability to sustain election and so cannot ejaculate sperm. This is called erectile dysfunction. This means the man cannot donate sperm through masturbation.
No it doesn't! A man can be impotent and not be erectile dysfunctional, or can be erectile dysfunctional and not be impotent, in which case we just extract the sperm and turkey bast.
Also, sperm can be extracted without him masturbating.
goshen26: No man will accept his wife sleeping with another man, except he's not aware.
If he is already aware he can't father a child, and his wife brings in children it is only a debt that will be paid by the woman in future
I hope you are aware that only one man is required to debunk your "no man" assertion. Some men would be delighted enough that their impotency is not public knowledge and praise their wife for helping hide it.
What has usually happened is he's dragged to church to be prayed for by a pastor who secretly sleeps with his wife and they all claim it's a miracle, thank God. Hopefully, he's not smart or curious enough, or too smart depending how you see it, to look his gift child in the mouth and request a DNA. But as said, we will discuss it so he knows in advance, and that's after considering adoption, which I would prefer.
Protest is the Nigerian solution to everything, it seems, as we want instant solutions to everything. What we don't seem to understand is kicking the pain down the road just makes the eventual treatment more drastic.
If Tinubu reneges om fuel subsidy removal now, Naira will likely be worth 2000 to the dollar as investors rush to take their money to more stable and more competently run economies. Then we'd really have something to protest about.
sukkot: well brother, we know in part. but july is not far. i got the full picture now. i didnt back then. i was just 3 years into the wisdom back then. now i am 11 to 12 years deep. a seasoned veteran
Godwin4444: what about sexual cravings? Will u also tell him u need that from another man?
Not being able to get me pregnant does not mean he can't fuq. So sorry, I wouldn't need another man for sexual cravings, especially if I'm not sex obsessed and stupid enough to think woman must live by sex alone.
Sex, after all, is not why I married him. And if you check my options, you'd see adoption, which does not involve sex.
limeta: [b][/b] Yes it can be 99% perfect See how fast you run to America Is not perfect in America so it cannot be perfect here thats so low of you mental slavery. Raise your head high and say yes is possible.
No one says it can't be perfect. Just that to be perfect in our democracy, people like you would need to learn to engage intelligently with others instead of resorting to baseless insults, and that is not going to happen overnight even if I were to spend all my time and effort educating you to be civil.
Fact is, America has been practicing democracy in one form or another since 1630, and if they are not yet perfect I don't expect Nigeria that's been democratic since 1999 to be more perfect.
Democracy is a learning process. You either learn by the mistakes of choosing the wrong ruler and suffering, or you continue suffering till you wise up.
Juanmike: I am available should the latter be the case.
Sorry but I don't think I'd need you, since I'd rather go for anonymity instead of a desperate person who'd likely hold me to ransome.
I can go have a one night stand with some random on the street or buy from a reputable shop if I ever get that desperate, and you might want to consider selling your sperm if you are that helpful or desperate.
Slynation: Then you ain't obedient...Obi is an economists and knows the effect of complete removal of subsidy, he said he will gradually remove subsidy, first by 40 or 50% while revamping our refinaries. Then, when that is done, he will completely remove the subsidy, which by then the effects of subsidy won't be felt because our local refinaries will be producing fuel...But what we have now are people doing Dangote a huge favour just so he can monopolize crude oil...
Removing subsidy gradually is the same bad policy Buhari proposed only to find the time was never right. And if that was what Obi proposed, I am glad he lost despite my obedience..
Our local refineries are outdated, and it is unwise to pump more money into them. Best bet is sell them and let the market decide petrol price as Tinubu has done. There will be hardship to start with, but we'd be better off in the end, especially if subsidy and fix refinery money is pumped instead into our insufficiently funded education system.