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Abegiii

All these bourgeois that full nairaland sef

More than 80% working class folks don't earn near that amount and they are surviving and even had a swell Christmas, all this online noise was debunked by the sheer size of Christmas celebrations

Nigeria , like most countries of the world are going through a rough patch, don't make it look like everyone in every other country is a fking billionaire, hell theres tons of homeless people all over the streets of America ......or are you one of those who prefer to sleep on American streets than cry in VI?

yemre:
Even if you have 2 kids and a wife and you earn 650k in this economy. If you can not save a minimum of 2m in one year. Then, there's something wrong somewhere! You need to sit down and really search yourself.

The state of things in Nigeria nowadays is enough to learn how to manage resources.

One guy up there already said it all. If you have kids, recharge DStv only on holidays. You see this family outing stuff, make it only once a month and minimize your spending on such occasions.

If you have a car and you work on the island for instance, park your car and take public transport (if staff bus is not available).

Stock your home with foodstuffs monthly and eat from home, at least your dinner (That's if your wife can not prepare your food before you leave home in the morning), that reduces your food expenses.

Your rent must be something you can afford, and not something to show off. With 650k monthly, I don't expect you to live in a house which rent is more than 400k annually (that is if you don't want to forever make money for your landlord. Remember he will always come at about three year interval for rent increase!

Be wise guy, this is Lagos!!!

Peace!

femi4:
It doesn't make sense , you are spending heavily on accommodation

proeast:
Delusional thread. Comments are so disconnected from the reality in Nigeria that you begin to wonder if these ones are living in an alternate universe.

In saner climes, if you're earning above minimum wage, you're considered relatively comfortable. Here in Nigeria, how much is the old minimum wage? How much is the new one Tinubu has refused to pay? Are they anywhere close to the amount the op quoted?

This is a country where less than 3% earns above 200k per month. Many bread winners even still earn below 100k and many others don't even earn anything at all.

Continue deceiving yourselves.

alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2025/01/07/niniola-hints-at-potential-collaboration-with-sister-teni/

saintkel:
pls what's ur tribe and religion first....

Free2Fly:
You're not a Nigerian and won't understand

The Govt doesn't conduct funerals for the dead in Nigerian; families do and it's very expensive, especially for struggling families.

[Ab]So, the father saying that was a way of reminding the guy what lies ahead for him and a subtle threat for him to call his siblings to order[/b].

PantShifter:
Why are you pained?

Did your husband fùck another woman?

deluckiest:
we've been married for the past 11 years. I can't really tell why she's doing it. But it started when I was in the University and warned me not to have any female friend. Guess, she's feeling insecure.

PantShifter:
There is nothing wrong with fûcking another woman apart from his wife

Lalami3232:

O.P I don't care what anyone here may tell you. But what I have to say is "wetin you know say you no go chop, you no suppose bite am". You gave her a lead on and you're here writing trash. She was on her own when you went to approach her(you didn't remember you were married). You initiated an outting (you didn't consider you were married). You took her to a hotel, took off her clothes and inserted your virus infested prick inside her(you didn't consider that you were married). Now she's inlove with you due to her lonely lifestyle, you dey come here to seek yeye validation from boys wey go massage your ego and make you feel like you didn't do anything wrong.
Oga, you messed up and you have to amicably resolve things because you don go wake her feelings. Now you dey come here to seek irrelevant validation. I dislike men like you!!!!

Nadingo:
Gazzuzz is gone. He died as a result of injuries sustained in a car crash some months back.

EMIOMOADEOYE:
If you don gerrit

FOGERRABARIT

DaddyCoool:
Nonsense.
Baby Boomers are 20 years while some are less than 10 years
Also, these are generations according to the West especially US.
In Nigeria we have Ndomie generations, Pre and Post Biafra war generation, Independence generation, Colonial generation, etc

naptu2:
Children born this year will be the first of the Beta Generation. These are the named generations and their year of birth.

Lost Generation 1883 - 1901

Greatest Generation 1901 - 1927

Silent Generation 1928 - 1945

Baby Boomers 1946 - 1964

Generation X 1964 - 1980

Millenials (Generation Y) 1981 - 1996

Generation Z (Zoomers) 1997 - 2012

Generation Alpha 2013 - 2024

Generation Beta 2025 - 2039

EMIOMOADEOYE:
That future you are afraid of, some are living it and they have not died.

Stop pussy footing and start taking the bull by the horn. The reason you are stuck is because you are expecting to get a job that will pay you armed robber salary.

You are blessed to be earning 85k. and you are not married.

What you have is probably enough if you can think.

Sadly, most people cannot spare too much brain power to think for you. They are still too busy thinking their own.

So start thinking and stop whining.

telim:
be deceving your self the mechanic that fix my car as two bungalow, two wives, benz cls 500 and c300. You will see them dress dirty because of the nature of their job but they pay all there bills.

FunnyDude:
The reality is no good job in Nigeria without connection.

Here's what you will do: Look for a service and offer it - anything online service, since you're a graduate you will make money.

You only need your brain, your computer or phone and your Internet to conquer poverty and the future.

Age is just a number.

Check my past threads to see what I've done.


Here's another advice I think you can consider

placeofallure:
This sexuality spectrum thing is getting more complicated every day. When you think you've seen it all, another one will pop up. They're pushing the agenda, making it more popular, making it seem harmless and normal, making more people embrace it, especially children. You'd see it in cartoons, in children literature, graphics on their clothes etc.

I use to have a girlfriend in school. She's straight to the best of my knowledge, but if she wanna watch porn, she'd only watch gay sites. I don criticize tire!

Staying393:
So straight men also do gaybriel

gigabyte13:
No be person wey you help in most cases go help you.....
If you dey expect help from those you help, you go dey disappointed....
If you keep staying away from the needy because, they are asking from you
One day , you will need the needy to help you out, it may not be financially this time.....

Look at it this way, God bleseses you financially, for the sake of those in need.
Avoid the ungratefuls, but don't get tired of helping the GRATEFULS.....

kay29000:
I swear. There are people with that mindset, and there is very little you can do about it. I run a small charity foundation, and we help widows and single mothers. You can't keep helping same person over and over, because there are many people to help. But what I have noticed is that, some people just have that mentality that someone must always give them money and alms, even though they can work to get themselves out of whatever situation they are in. Any small problem they have, that can be easily solved by them will be ignored. Instead, they will wait till they see you again, to ask you to help them out of the problem.

Once you give them money once, or help them out of a problem once, they will turn you to their mini god, and always want you to keep giving them money forever.

Jeezuzpick:
Why won't he attract beggars when he's the one who beggared most of them?

His policies got the majority of them started in their begging careers.

shoodboi2:
If you want to address the issue of people lining up in front of Tinubu's house, address it. What concerns Muslims with this? Or did the author go around asking the people lining up whether they are Muslims or otherwise? He started well but that part where he tried attributing it to Islam is wrong.

People line up in front of politician houses every year. Growing up in Lagos back then, area boys used to come to my dad's house to collect their sallah money and they would always create a big scene until our dad settled them 😁 Such behavior is not unusual and has nothing to do with religion.

egobetter4me:
https://www.nairaland.com/7953428/mom-made-me-miserable-she

I posted the above topic before when I married the ugly village girl my mom insisted I must marry.

We've been together for 2 years now, no child. The problem is that she's always giving me one infection or the other. I've treated infection for more than 3 times and this is someone I married a virgin.

The other day, I was peeing blood and it was so painful coming out. I've never cheated on her and I'm sure she's not cheating but I don't know how she gets these infections.

Right now, I'm on a sick bed battling infection and other ailment....on a new year day. My stomach has been biting me for 3 days now.

I'm tired. I'm thinking of sending her back to the village before she kills me.

I've told my mom that I'm no longer interested but she keeps on begging and telling me that things will get better. Things are getting worse day by day. She's so dull. She just sits at home. No ambition....nothing! Just cooks, washes, cleans, then stays home all day watching movies. A graduate with masters.

I'm so frustrated!

merits:
for better for worse you said on wedding day💍 💒 madam so why are you running?

Acidosis:
Just as your beloved Dangote could not expose Buhari and Emefiele's corrupt practices because of the phantom loans he got to build his refinery. But, when a small competitor from Malta showed up and threatened his establishnent, man nearly became a YouTuber.

Do you now understand that this is not a "woman", but a "human" problem? So just focus on the main issue - paedophilia and/or child labour.

Agadinaagwuofe:
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At the bolded. The problem is not the woman the major problem is the coward simp of a man that allows himself to be humiliated, his self worth trampled, dehumanized. He shouldn't have allowed all these recordings especially the one in bedroom and inside car where he admitted committing the crime. Cheating especially in marriage is not for everybody, if you're not OG with ridiculous IQ level to differentiate "meat wey go choke for neck and ones wey go easy to assimilate" you better pack your toros inside boxer and remain faithful but for any reason you get caught Don't ever allow yourself to be dehumanized. He actually went aboard with the minor he deserves prison terms but shouldn't have allowed the wife disparage her to that extent.

Dtruthspeaker:
See Curse!

Woman make man kneel down beg a whole 13 year old.

Ouchbabe:
I was tempted to say Amen but on second thought the daughter is innocent.
The doom should befall him directly not his daughter.

CSTRR:
"Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a man or woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.":

Prov 31:30.

When the bible said this, many people think it is a joke.

See how handsome the man is, yet he is a pig
And his handsomeness is what will make him marry any quality woman he wants.