₦airaland Forum

stanliwise:
And the gender wars goes on. Mtchew

ogaemma:
Blame idleness.
If that man was busy with some business or trade, he will not have that time.

free2ryhme:
It’s a tough reflection of the struggles at home pushing people to such extremes and the challenges of surviving in a foreign land without proper preparation.

AutoChick4U:
That's like 4m per month if converted to naira

Bahamas95:
Just shut up if you ain't got any sensible thing to say.

Na women like you dey pray make their MIL die......I know your type.


I can't just push my mum aside because I've gotten married, she's also free to love her father......It's a free world.

Daughterboard:
I won't like to choose between my mom and wife because they are one and the same. I would rather prefer to choose my father.

Livadesh:
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Until we the males know we're the endangered species. We'll keep answering this question the same way.
A very bad wife can be a very good mother to her children, the response to this question is to be on neutral ground. As for me, any of the parties that ask this dumb question go collect wotowoto from me.
All these people saying because my mother will always be there for me, ask yourself if your mum is not the older version of your wife, is she always there for your dad??

Olufemiolaolu:
You are a simp

Eriokanmi:
This is true but mothers are irreplaceable and to both genders. Forget marriage oo. When the chips are down, you'd know how irreplaceable mum's are. I'd choose my mum again and again, over my wife, especially in areas where mums are treasured. My wife will still get the love she deserves, no doubt.

My lovely mum died last year and my wife said she'd fill the gap as a mother. She's not even been able to fill 10% of that vacuum that my mama left behind till now. it's almost a year since my mum passed.

Mariangeles:
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Genesis 2:24

udeh3:
As a man, I sometimes wonder why this kind of question consistently keep coming... Your mother is your father's wife. She can never take the place of your wife. Maybe, you will call your mother to take care of you when you're old

You'll live more with your wife than you'll ever stay with your mother. And the constant use of my mother supports me here and there doesn't make sense. Marriage, especially for the young is a growth process. Even your wife at a certain stage will start recognizing the duty of her immediate family and then start prioritizing her. Your mother wasn't this caring when she was newly married. She grew into the responsibility you're seeing.

How will you compare your mother to your wife when the age gap is generational?

Men should learn to accept their wives and give them opportunities to make mistakes, learn and grow. Marriage comes in stages

I frown against comparison between mother and wife, father and husband. It's a sign of weakness and ignorance

Fiscus105:
I STRONGLY BELIEVED THAT WAS, HOW YOUR OWN MOTHER CAME AND LEFT IN YOUR PAPA HOUSE.

I guess AY's mother has completely moved in, to stay with her darling son till rest of her life.

Meanwhile, you are going to marriage, expecting wife to come and go, was that how your mother came and left? (b]Infact, you guys needs deliverance and your way of thinking is something else[/b].

Bahamas95:
No woman would try that rubbish with me.

Was she there when mumsy was nurturing me?

yemmit90:
This shows you are not close to being rich yourself. Both the Rich and the poor are always think of how to grow from their present conditions, the only difference is that, the rich, having attain some level of financial freedom, tend to have more opportunities and resources to navigate their ways into success, while lack of opportunities and resources may brings the poor to further failure. One thing is certain as far as Nigeria is concern, if you are not born into rich family, you can never become rich withiout encounter a life changing opportunity that you used to your advantage.


Rich men have more frequent casual sex than all poor men combine. The poor mostly don't have option but to sleep with their wives who can mistakenly get pregnant at anytime.

Unlike the poor, they have resources to take care of many girlfriends, including married women, and they don't go deep to the extent that you will get pregnant for them.

suckprick:
The rich and successful people are busy thinking of ways to grow in every aspect of their life. Poor people mind and thoughts are clouded with big yansh, big breast and sex- sex - sex all the time (reason they born plenty). Now you know why they are poor.

Tallesty1:
Once they have enough money than they know what to do with, they'd become bored and do weird things

ehikwe22:
This man is not a good man. The mother is not good either. The wife, I can't say. And his crew members. Mohbad was surrounded by evil people on all sides

Okiton:


There are so many things in life we have to be grateful for. At least having responsible parents is a part of the blessings

GloriousGbola:
husband of my youth - interesting

because he will def not be the husband of her old age

Amotolongbo:
Regina: Sweet husband of my youth

Ned: Yummy wife of my aged

harjay1986:
as today I still have like 7 local turkey on free range and Noiler like 8 , so I feed them once in a day with finisher.. a bag is around 21 to 22k

Tallesty1:
Don't buy from Temu if you don't understand measurements. I see Nigerians crying on Twitter and TikTok that what they received is smaller than what they ordered, even though the length and width of the product are clearly written there

DarkPheonix:
The child is probably not even yours and your wife is getting sexually satisfied without you, the opposite of love is indifference.
Did she marry you cause she loves you or??

Divaan:
Sir, be real to yourself, have you ever cheated on your wife during these 2 years period and been caught and forgiven?
Did your wife have any complications during pregnancy?for example, a woman who has had cervical cerclage done during pregnancy probably realises that her life is worth more than 10 mins round of sex with someone who probably will marry someone else when she's gone. Same with many pregnancy complications.
What is the foundation of your marriage? You have just told us this little stuff, we do not know the nitty gritties that may have hardened your wife to make such resolve. For example, a divorcee kept cheating with his ex wife under the disguise of seeing/ supporting his ex children. The wife being a lover of peace didn't bother to stop him. She was even glad to have someone out there helping her out in that department. Their sex life suffered just like yours as the wife completely lost sex interest in her own husband.
Another question I have for you is do you insult your wife(sexually) whenever there's a quarrel or make her look like a prostitute due to circumstances you met her,etc do you give her money or meet the house or family needs?. All these and more can make a woman resolve never to have sex with her husband again but will continue living in peace with you.

uchesa:
Not easy being a father. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂 Two lovely kid s , a boy and a girl always seeking my attention and love. They just want to sleep in my arms, needs me to feed them,tuck them up in bed .
It's great to be a dad.

harjay1986:
I reside in Ogun state, two bedroom flat 200k per year, no agent fees, which I save 20k per month for, every time we get paid, my wife will buy basket of peppers and tomatoes from farmers at cheap prices, then we grind it and place it inside freezer, from our compound we raise turkeys and chickens that serves as protein only spend 20k for their feeding per month, as buying Gari and Beans in local Market which come with low price sometime I do make garri from scratch at home .... alot just to reduce expenses

Someone mentioned DSTV ... a have a free to air decoder at home, that air cartoon and some other interesting stuff so no monthly subscription except for data which I do 20gb for a month around 5k, I share this with my wife and because at work I do have free wifi with no restriction

On transportation to work i spend 1k per day that is 20k for a month

NexLoaded:
You probably want to mock us

diamond68:
very apt 😆

I need to enter Bauchi

Saviola86:
I am a single guy and I make approximately the amount he quoted

I do not party
I am not fashionable
I do not womanize
I only goto work and come back
Send my mom her weekly upkeep and assist my fiancée

Yet I struggle to have a reasonable savings by end of the year

So what will you say about that?

Blackdisciple:
Ehh na you wan dey stay for lekki na ...
Na you wan dey eat 10k pizza every night and ice cream.
Na you wan dey carry babe go shopping every month end.
Na you wan dey give babe monthly allowee na.
Na wan dey wear shoes of 200k, clothes of 100k each.
Na you wan dey wear watches of 100k each.
Na you wan dey use iPhone of 1.5m

Bro I dey see that your money every month as a guy wey I be I will leave comfortably in a room and palour self, where I will be paying at least 600-750
I will still have saving to account for at the end of the year, meanwhile housing project is ongoing in a location of my choice and I can also establish a good business as well and if it requires me to go to shop after work in the evening I will just to help who ever that is handling the business and if you are a married man, well the married folks here will help you will some ideas .

But I bet you will that amount I will leave comfortably walai

Czsamanie:
So, in your own Lagos you'll see a house of 400k PA?

and the living condition of that kinda place will be okay? or commutable to the kinda place that pays 650K?

The way some of you talk, I wonder if you've ever stepped on Lagos soil..