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aameyah:
Thank God you mentioned a bank. It is a scene I am all too familiar with. Most bankers are too comfortable with the fat salary and the trips abroad. They would rather weep everyday but they are comforted when they remember their salary. It becomes a vicious cycle till they are sacked and then they have to face the reality they've been running from.

During morning meetings, the supervisors don't fail to remind you that there is no job out there. But I ask, don't people get jobs everyday?

Its well sha. May God help us all....

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euromilion:
My brother,
Am sorry if I offended you,it was not my intention to hurt anyone,but just to let you know that if we all tell our stories, I bet you that what I went thru was worst than this young lady,however,I think at 25 no one should blame anyone for their calamity,I mean no one.

Life has taught me to be the master of my destiny,at age 14 I was living on my own without any help from mom or dad nor anyone.am not telling u to believe me,but I thank time,because time changes everything.

By age 18 I was a millionaire already throu hard work,I was never involved in crime in my life.hard work pays,I was shocked to see a graduate reduced to yr post.

Once again,my apologies if I was offensive to you.


just to put this across faith without work is futile.prayer is good,but hard work is better.

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aameyah:
I pray so too but my brother, all hope can never be lost!! That is the vendetta the world wants you and I to believe. But is all hope ever lost?
You were feeding and clothing before going to her, weren't you? You had your certi intact, you could have taught in a school.
Forgive me but it seems you were carried away by the lofty dreams she promised you. And like the manipulator that she was, she kept dangling it before you to keep you in line.

I had an uncle who was being treated unfairly by relatives in Lagos when he went job searching. One of the places was his own sister. She would insult him and denigrate him, though she is a nice person, maybe she had issues then.

Omo, he ran back to my mum one day when the lady went to work. She came back and didn't find him, she had to ask her neighbors for his whereabouts.

Maybe he knew he had a welcoming family to run back to. Which is why everybody might not take that type of decision if their own is otherwise...

For me it's not like I'm judging you. But please as much as possible try to stay away from those who'd rather you believe all is lost. That is how they keep you in their chains. Take care....

Thank You Very Much! You Said It All he knew he had a welcoming family to run back to Sorry I Wouldn't Say At That Time I Had One; But Thank GOD for Now, Success Begets Love And Friendship! http://www.bummyla.com

It Is Impossible To Me! Only The Guy Knows What Power He Uses!

euromilion:
Am sorry but,I had no pity on you,at 25 you allowed yrself in such a mess.

I Am Not Soliciting For Anyone's sympathy; Just Pray You Don't Get Yourself Into Some Hopeless Situations In Life! It Is Either You Wait Out The Storm Or You Do Something Crazy And Jeopardize Your Destiny! I Chose The Former! http://www.bummyla.com

When Oceanic Bank Was Still Existing, We Were Handling Some Contracts For One Of Their Top Managers. I know A Top Officer Who Ought To Be Around 42 Years Old, Who Cries Everyday Single Day I Get There, Because Of Threats And Verbal Abuse! This Man Is A Departmental Head! So It Could Happens At Any Age And Level! Pray You Don't Find Yourself In That Mess! http://www.bummyla.com

aameyah:
How could you say you didn't have a choice? At 25?
You fuk up! Even those pastors self!!

Pray You Don't Find Yourself In A Situation Where It Seems All Hopes Are Lost! Where It Seems Heaven Is Shut Against You! But Thank GOD Something Beautiful Came Out Of It! I Became BORN AGAIN! http://www.bummyla.com

iamkingzlee:
damn!!! you went through all of this I salute your ability to endure..

It Was Just GOD Alone! He Did Not Allow Me To Give Up On Him! http://www.bummyla.com

Madam! Family Planning oooh! http://www.bummyla.com

Wow! My Happened around that time 2006! I have finished serving in NYSC, 2 years plus no job, only temporary jobs that lasted like 3 months and frustration was about setting in. So I remember my Aunty, Aunty Ijeoma, my Mother's only sister in the family of 10. I remembered in 2004, when I lost one of my younger brother, she wept more than everybody that came for the burial! I remembered her saying that my late brother asked her for some help, if she had known, he won't live long, she would have assisted him immediately he asked. So she turned to us and made a promise that whosoever among us that needs her helps shouldn't hesitate to call on her, so I decided in 2006 to take her by her words. Though something kept telling me I will regret this decision, but I couldn't place my hands on what was it.



I called her up, she said no problem, come over to Lagos, we now live in Lekkie, I know people in NPA, Shell Oil Company, Starcomms, Chervon, etc, I will hook you up in days to the best job offer in any of the numerous oil companies in Lagos. I was so excited, with my last money I went shopping for corporate wears for my Oil company job. Oh Poor gullible me!


I got to Lagos Lekki, became my aunty's houseboy! Initially I did not complain, it was a little price to pay for an oil company job. I had dreams! I wake up 4 am in the morning, crumb the floor, cook breakfast, lunch and dinner, wash her dog and brush it teeth, wash her car, sweep the compound and any other chores she would assign me.


But when It was obvious she wasn't going to help me, I start going to cyber cafe to submit my CV and became her enemy. I never knew there was something like psychological Abuse till then.

Everyday my aunty will send to my phone from her office up to 20 SMS telling me will never amount to something in life because: I stammer and stutter, fat, dark, tall and ugly

And as an applicant every alert that comes in, rises your hope for job, but imagine getting in a day for one year SMS telling you: How worthless you are, how fat, smelling, dark and ugly you are After sometimes, I started believing her that I was Ugly, dark and fat, no white man will want to work with me. I will be giving them nightmares!

I couldn't go back home, because It means I had given up! I came to Lagos for a good job and A good Job I will get! My Aunty Abuse led me to Christ. I became Born Again


Because at this stage only GOD could help me.

And She did not like it at all.

For 6 months she stopped giving me food systematically. First she changed her house girls like 8 times till she got Franca who she could use against me. Franca claimed I tried to rape her. Thank GOD none of my cousins bought her stories, so it died down.


They started warming my food with the dog's pot and serving me sometimes with the old dog's plate, so I stopped collecting food from them.


I was always the last to eat, I have to wait till everyone finish eating before I eat, if I dare to eat before anyone, Franca will report me, at the age of 25 my Aunty will ask me to Knee down, close my eyes and rise my hands up! If I refuse she will call all my pastors and report me, and for the sake of peace my pastors will ask me to obey. I will knee down, close my eyes and raise up my hands while Franca will be clapping and singing around me in circle "Olodo! Olodo!!! Ode!!!! Ode!!!"


I had no other Choice but to endure! As if the punishment was not enough, she started asking me to lay down at any little provocative! Once she asked Franca to climb on my head while I was on the floor! And I gave a Black Eye souvenir and a licking nose to remember never to mess with a broken young man!


After she started saying saying if I don't cry and wail for her forgiveness, she will never forgive for what she chooses to say I had done! So I became a professional actor - Who cries on cue I could have won an Oscar for my Weeping and Wailing in her house!

The painful part my parents did not believe me, so I stopped telling them of my painful ordeal in the hands of my aunty! aunty Ijeoma


If my aunty catches my watching movies, or sleeping during the day time, she will ask me to crumb all the interlocking stones in her compound! Life was a living hell! But I refuse to give up.


I sold all my clothes to eat in my wealthy aunty's house, where her dogs only eats Tantalizers


Before then, she got me and interview with one Indian man in Apapa-A Plastic company, that was before I started selling off my clothes, belts, shoes to eat, she advised me to wear one of my not too good shirt for the interview, which sounds odd! So I didn't take her advise! I wore my best Pink Shirt, Tie and Suit for the Interview! I needed to create a perfect first impression - That was what we were taught!

When I was called in, to see the India man, obviously, he was expecting to see a shabbily dressed young man, which he voiced out! He was really mad at me, he started screaming "Boy Who do you think You Are! Dressed up Like This? You Are A Monkey! Who Gave You This Suit And Tie! Get Out Of Here"

I immediately started take off my suit, tie and my pink shirt, I knelt before him pleading for forgiveness and for a chance or opportunity to serve in his company, he call the security and I was thrown out!

I felt like committing suicide that day!

To cut the long story short! I got a job without her help, moved out of her house. One day I came to work to find my aunty in the reception room waiting to see my boss, according to her to let her know whom she had employed: A Thief And An Armed Robber


But That was the last straw! I made my point very clear to her that if she ever in her lifetime try me again, I will make her regret the day she was born! I drove the point in and she understood the message very well. http://www.bummyla.com

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