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I WOULD ADVISE YOU TO ADOPT ADOPTING WILL BRING PEACE TO YOUR HOME AND MAKE YOU WIFE RELAXED. I WOULD SAY ADOPT A BABY GIRL OF ABOUT 3YRS FIRST.
THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ADOPTION.
WE KEEP SAYING WE WANT OUR BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN, WHEN IN REALITY WE ARE FROM ONE GENE.
I HAVE THREE CHILDREN, BUT AM PLANNING TO ADOPT A CHILD BY NEXT YEAR AND MAYBE ANOTHER IN THE FUTURE. AN ADOPTED CHILD IS YOUR CHILD ALL YOU DO IS TO TRAIN HIM TO BE LIKE YOU. AN ADOPTED CHILD IS YOUR BIOLOGICAL CHILD PERIOD

Mercychen:
That is why they are always looking for a working class lady who can bring to the table so they can continue gambling and spending their own money recklessly. You better dump his ass.

You don't need to go through all that stress of divorcing him because that will drain you mentally and physically except you plan to remarry which is not advisable as most of them are the same. So, just secretly get a place for yourself and unborn child and leave him without warning, before you lose your sanity.

When he's ready to leave the singlehood lifestyle and become a responsible husband, he can come for his family. Otherwise, forget about him. Life is too sweet to let one person keep you in sorrow all the days of your life.

Marriage is overhypped, especially in this generation of overgrown babies in men's skin.

Modified.

I'm ashamed of all the men attacking me for saying the truth. Anyways I'm not surprised. The truth is always bitter and a hard pill to swallow.

You want her to stay with a grown up man who lacks common sense to do the right thing just so she can answer married. What the heck do you men think you are?

I blame the women that hold some of you in high esteem; making you feel like something when in fact all that is left of the male folk is nothing but a bunch of lazy leeches.

My joy is that, there are still a few, and i mean, very few men who have sense.

ITS LIKE YOU'VE BEEN HURT SEVERALLY BY MEN. YOU SOUND BITTER, BUT I CAN TELL YOU ITS YOUR CHOICE, THE TYPE OF SPEC I MEAN PHYSICAL SPEC YOU WANT, THAT HAS BEEN THE UNDOING OF MOST LADIES, A MOVIE GUY, TALL, HAIRY, DRIVES 4FORMATIC, LIVES IN LEKKI, ETC. ARE THOSE SPECS VIRTUE? ASK AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN LADY THE SPEC OF THE MAN THEY WANT TO MARY MONEY COMES FIRST. ONLY A FEW CONSIDER PEACE OF MIND AS THE NUMBER ONE THING IN A UNION.

SO THE MAN CARRIED THE DEAD BODY NAKED
AND THE MAN PULLED HIS CLOTHES BEFORE DRINKING THE INSECTICIDE?
WHAT A SORRY.

JUST LIKE SAYING THAT THE CREATOR OF THE UNIVERSE IS CAPABLE OF OPERATING A TORTURE CHAMBER FOR HIS CREATION - MAN

Iamfedup:
To begin with I am 22 years old this year and this man has been dictating my life ever since I was born............. He is not worthy to be called a father, imagine this man sent me and my mum out of the house at 9pm in a very silent street just because "I didn't barb my hair" and said stated that until I barb it I will not enter his house................It is not as if he is giving me any money for anything, my mother literally does everything in the house from feeding down to buying ordinary battery for wall clock, he prefers to drink and fornicate with anything that wears skirt just to say the least........I am just fed up I don't have any control over my life and don't know what to do anymore.

YOUR MOTHER IS PROVIDING EVERYTHING IN THE HOUSE, MOST WOMEN THIS FALSE IMPRESSION SO AS TO LURE THE CHILDREN HEARTS TO THEMSELVES.
LOOK. WELL B4 YOU TALK, YOUR SON(S) WILL ASLO HATE YOU

brimdans:
Okay, here is the thing.
I was working with this woman in her organization. Shes high handed, toxic and domineering, but I was coping well with her, she insults me and talk down on me, all I say mostly is sorry Ma.

So this particular day, which was yesterday. There's this particular room in the lab which we were constructing, which she categorically told me not to open that room, because it contains equipment. And I don't handle the keys, but another person holds the keys.

Now water entered the room, from a faulty pipe, and did a little damage to one of the cabinets, and it touched some of the materials.

The woman, now began insulting me that it will be deducted from my salary, because it was my fault?

I asked how is it my fault Ma, you said that room shouldn't be opened by anybody. So I can't accept fault for what I didn't do. I'm sorry. She shouted and shouted to the point of almost slapping me, but God saved her she didn't. I kept my calm and told her sorry.

Again she asked for some remaining boards that were used in constructing some cabinets in the lab, I told her I don't know, but lemme check and ask the person who has custody to the keys. Another tirade began, she insulted the hell of out me. I remained calm, that it will be removed from my salary, and those things according to her is about one hundred thousand naira. I told her ma, I didn't take them, but lemme ask oga Patrick who is in charge of the lab, she refused, that I shouldn't l. That I must pay for all of these things. I kept my cool all through.

She now said I should remove her uniform and submit her company materials, actually some of the materials are at home, so I couldn't get them that night.

She texted and called me countless times to send the company materials, I then told her, I'll send them but I need my salary that I've worked for, for the last month. She now said, before she wanted to pay and forgive me, but that she's not paying me again.

It is Worthy to note that I came purposely to work for this woman from another state, I needed my salary to help me plan my life after my sack. Right now I'm confused, because I've no money, nor accommodation, I can't even travel back. Please nairalanders, I need your advice, legally and all.
Thank you for reading
PS, there might be errors, I didn't have time to edit. Currently in church.

IF YOU ARE INNOCENT OF WHAT YOU JUST WROTE, DON'T WORRY, GOD WANTS TO MOVE YOU TO A HIGHER LEVEL MARK MY WORDS, I DON'T KNOW HOW, GOD HAS MORE THAN A MILLION WAYS TO SOLVE ONE CHALLENGE. BLESS YOU.

THE SOCIETY MADE MEN TO BELIEVE THE OPPOSITE OF REALITY.
LETS TAKE VALENTINES DAY AS EXAMPLE, YOU FIRST TRY TO COVINCE A LADY TO BE YOUR VAL; MONEY AND. ENERGY WASTED PLUS A BP LIMBO, IF SHE ACCEPTS YOU SPEND MONEY TRYING TO PLEASE HER YOU BUY HER GIFTS AND FOOD AND DRINKS, SOME MEN EVEN BORROW BEG OR STEAL TO SPEND FOR THE LADY.
AFTER THE OUTING EITHER WITH YOUR CAR OR PUBLIC TRANSPORT ( SOME EVEN INSIST IT MUST BE BOLT OR UBER)
AFTER WASTING MONEY ON HER DURING THE DAY, YOU TAKE HER HOME, IN THE PROCESS YOU SPEND ANOTHER ENERGY FUCKING HER AND IN THE END YOU BRAG? FOR WHAT? DO YOU KNOW THAT THE AVERAGE ENERGY A MAN SPEND IN A ROUND OF SEX IS ENOUGH TO BRING A MEDIUM SIZE KETTLE WITH WATER TO BOIL AT 100%; AND THAT YOU EJACULATE BETWEEN 50 TO 150MILLION SPERM CELLS INTO HER, ANOTHER WASTAGE, HOW MUCH NUTRIENTS WOULD YOU EAT TO REPLACE THE LOST CELLS? WHAT OF DEHYDRATION FROM SWEAT. HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE YOU HEARD DIE DURING SEX. SOME OF US EVEN GO TO THE EXTENT OF TAKING SEX ENHANCERS TO SATISFY THE SAME LADY
LET ME SURPRISE YOU DO YOU KNOW THAT THE SPERM YOU EVACUATE INTO A LADY GIVVES HER BLOOD? WHEN THE SPERM DIES THE UTERUS ABSOLVES THE IRON AND OTHER NUTRIENT INTO THE BLOOD STREAM TO FORM MORE BLOOD FOR THE LADY.
ONLY MARRIED MEN GAIN A LITTLE FROM WOMEN BECAUSE BEFORE YOU SPEND YOUR ENERGY ON HER, SHE MUST HAVE COOKED FOR YOU, WASHED YOUR CLOTHES, CLEANED YOUR HOUSE AND DRESSED YOUR BED ETC

YinkaOlusesi16:
All of you abusing the pastor lack spiritual understanding. One thing that is certain about tithe is that if you dont pay ur tithe to GOD, the devil will collect it from you with force.

WHAT IS TITHE MEANT FOR TO FEED THE CHILDREN OF GOD.
THAT THERE MAY MEAT IN MY HOUSE

MENTION WHERE ONE APOSTLE WENT TO CHURCH AND PAID TITHE. JESUS SAID WHATEVER YOU DO TO THE LEAST OF HIS CHILDREN THAT YOU ARE DOING IT TO HIM.
PAYING YOUR TITHE TO THE HUNGRY YOU ARE DOING IT TO GOD.
GOD SAID WHOSOEVER GIVETH TO THE POOR LENDED TO HIM.
THE PASTORS HIDE THIS AREAS AND MAKE PEOPLE PULL THEIR RESOURCES TO THEM SO THEY CAN LIVE THE FLAMBOYANT LIVES THEY ARE LIVING.
PLEASE LOOK AROUND YOU IF YOU SEE A HUNGRY FAMILY, PAY YOUR TITHES TO THEM, GOD WILL BLESS YOU

YinkaOlusesi16:
your tithes to GOD is different from the money u give to the poor, obedient is better than sacrifice.

WHAT IS THE PURPOSE AND USE OF TITHES.

Chijeep:
AM NEWLY HAPPILY MARRIED:
My wife can't wash I bought washing machine.
My wife can't cook n I employed a cook.
My wife can't sweep n I employed a house maid.
My wife can't pound yam n I bought pounder.
My wife can't drive n I employed a Driver.

Pls Am I really a caring husband or a Simp

YOU ARE BEYOND SIMP YOU ARE SIMPLICITY

Foodqueen:
That orphanage serves as their home.

Just like every adult, when they grow up, they find their path in life.

They leave and get married.

Will your children stay with you forever

IF THEY HAVE ISSUES IN THEIR MARRIAGES WHO DO THEY RUN TO, ESPECIALLY THE FEMALES

I THINK THE GREATEST PROBLEM MEN HAVE IS PRIDE, WHICH MAKES THEM DIE. IN SILENCE IN THE MIST OF HUMILIATION AND SHAME BY THEIR SPOUSES. MEN FIND IT VERY DIFFICULT TO VOICE OUT WHAT THEY ARE PASSING THROUGH EVEN TO THEIR BEST FRIENDS AND FAMILY MEMBERS TO MAKE IT APPEAR AS IF THEY HAVE THEIR HOMES UNDER CONTROL; MEANWHILE THEY ARE DYING INSIDE.

A MARRIED WOMAN OF OVER SIXTY YEARS OF AGE, WHOSE HUSBAND IS STILL ALIVE TOLD ME THAT 45% OF NIGERIAN MARRIED MEN THAT DIE ARE KILLED BY THEIR WIVES DIRECTLY OR INDIRECTLY

Olunmercy56:
I'm a lady too, let her go, she can't endure a little trial.

I LOVE YOU FOR THIS

THE WEAKEST BEING IS WHO KNOWS THE SOURCE OF HIS PROBLEMS AND STILL HOLD ON TO IT.

300whitewolves:
This is really taking a toll on me, and it's getting worse day by day, am finding it difficult to keep myself in check, the harder I try the more it comes. I even make sure I don't look at a woman backside twice cos I know what that can cause. I have a girlfriend but we are far apart, and I don't want to cheat on her. Please my fellow nairalanders help me out of this situation. Konji na bastard for real.

URGE FOR SEX IS IN THE MIND.
GET BUSY READ YOUR BIBLE, SING CHRISTIAN SONGS, WATCH WHOLESOME MOVIES.
THEN APPLY THIS SECRET LOOK BUT DON'T SEE, YOU CAN LOOK AT A WOMAN BUT WON'T SEE HER BECAUSE YOU WON'T ALLOW THE PICTURE TO FORM IN YOUR MIND: LOOK BUT DON'T SEE

300whitewolves:
Waist beads are always a turn off for me anytime I see them though my babe and I never discussed something like that.

Last week as we were gisting she told me she wanted to buy a waist bead from a friend of hers, as soon as she said it I just didn't feel happy about it, she was just smiling and talking about how she is going to look good in the waist bead, how she will turn me on and all but sincerely, I was just irritated cos I don't like it as a result of the perception I have.

She later got it and I intentionally didn't ask her about it, she showed me but my compliment for the waist bead was shallow, she expected me to rave over it, comment well and all but mehn it was a big and huge turn off for me, that's how she got angry and all and decided to give me attitude and not pick my calls again.

WHEN SHE SAID SHE WANTED TO BUY IT, WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL HER THERE AND THEN, THAT YOU DON'T LIKE IT, THAT SHE SHOULDN'T WEAR IT WHILE COMING TO VISIT YOU, YOU KEPT QUIET, ARE YOU SCARED OF HER OR WHAT

Mercychen:
so... what do you want now? pity party?

i dont pity you guys any longer because you chose to go for the kind of women that treat you that way with your two eyes open to all the red flags. So, bear the brunt of your actions quietly.

By the way, your post is so long.i couldnt finish it. Though i got the message halfway into it.

carry your cross.

I DON'T EXPECT THIS FROM YOU

I WOULD LOOK AT IT FROM A DIFFERENT ANGLE, DOES YOUR WIFE HAVE HIGH. LIBIDO, CAN. YOU SATISFY HER. HOW FREQUENT DO YOU CUDDLE HER, REMEMBER A MANS DUTY IS TO SATISFY THE WIFE NOT HIMSELF. ORGASM IS WHAT MANY WOMEN DON'T EXPERIENCE IN THEIR LIFETIME, IF A LADY MEETS THE MAN THAT CAN TAKE HER THERE SORRY N SORRY. CHECK YOURSELF, IF YOU ARE A FOUR MINUTES MAN, THEN GO LEARN FROM THE MASTERS, DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED, BECAUSE FROM YOUR STORY YOU TRULY LOVE THE LADY, BUT LOVE IS NOT ALWAYS ENOUGH

YOU SAID YOU MARRIED HER JUST LATE LAST YEAR, AND YOU ARE ALREADY TALKING OF VISITS FOR FERTILITY CHECK, HABA, LET HER BE. THREE TO FOUR YEARS WITHOUT CONCEPTION BEFORE YOU CAN START THINKING THIS WAY. GIVE HER PEACE DON'T EVEN TALK ABOUT CHILD BEARING MAKE LOVE TO. HER AS YOU CAN, MAKE HER HAPPY, AND GET READY FOR BABY CRY. OVARIAN CYST IS IT THE TWO OVARIES PID HAS LESS EFFECT RELAX, EAT WELL PRODUCE MORE SPERM AND LET GOD DO THE REMAINING

I WISH HIM WELL IN HIS NEW ABROAD

[quote author=Righteousness2 post=109806339]Hell Fire is not a Place to be; Cut off from anything or anyone that will take u there[/quo

STOP INSULTING GOD BY CLAIMING GOD CAN PUT PEOPLE IN A FIRE, IF YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR BIBLE PLEASE ASK.

WHY DIDN'T GOD MENTION FIRE IN TEN COMMANDMENTS, WHY DIDN'T MOSSES MENTION IT EVEN ONCE IN HIS MYRIADS OF LAWS
WHY DIDN'T GOD TELL ADAM IMMEDIATELY THAT HE'S GOING TO THE FIRE YOU MADE. RATHER GOD TOLD ADAM I MADE YOU FROM DUST, SO YOU WILL RETURN BACK TO DUST. IS DUST FIRE, IF YOU PREACH NONSENSE YOU WILL DIE
ROM 6:23 THE PUNISHMENT FOR SIN IS DEATH NOTHING ELSE. IE RETURNING BACK TO DUST
GOD IS ANGRY WITH YOU. FOR GIVING HIM A BAD NAME. CAN'T YOU THINK

chatinent:
There's nothing like hellfire. Another misconception...unless you explain why the Bible didn't mention why Adam and Eve didn't go there. The original sinners!

YOU'RE RIGHT HELL MEANS GRAVE EVEN JESUS WENT TO HELL WHEN HE DIED PSALM 16:10

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Comrade prove that it does exist..

PLEASE HOLD YOUR PEACE DONT MIND THEM, THEY ARE PREACHING NONSENSE. THEY ARE RUNNING FROM THE TRUTH BECAUSE IT WAS FIRST SAID BY THE JEHOVAH WITNESSES THAT THEY PERSECUTED. ALL OF. THEM KNOW THAT THE WORD HELL MEANS GRAVE, BUT. THEY CAN'T ACCEPT IT.
THEY ARE PREACHING NONSENSE BRINGING INSULT TO MY GOD

Can you as a sinner burn someone who slept with ur wife in a fire as he cries for 1 week nonstop ? [/b] ...[/quote]THIS IS THE QUESTION, WHY CAN'T THESE HERETICAL PREACHERS THINK BEFORE INSULTING GOD. HOW CAN GOD TORTURE THE BEST OF HIS CREATION FOR ETERNITY ABSOLUTE HERESY.

THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH NOTHING MORE

HELL MEANS GRAVE STOP INSULTING GOD, BY CLAIMING WHAT GOD HAS NOT SAID.
IF THE CHRISTIAN GOD CAN BUT MAN HE CREATED IN FIRE AS YOU CLAIM, THEN HE'S WORSE THAN SATAN
CAN THE ONE THAT SAID WE SHOULD FORGIVE OUR ENEMIES 70*7, TURN AROUND AND OPERATE AN ETERNAL TORTURE CHAMBER FOR HIS ENEMIES?
MY DEAR YOU ARE PREACHING HERESY AND INSULTING THE PERSONALITY OF MY GOD.
GO AND REREAD YOUR BIBLE
PSALM 16:10

I AM 100% IN SUPPORT OF SOUTH EAST PRESIDENT, BUT ON A SECOND THOUGHT, IF TINUBU CARRIES THE FLAG OF THIS FUNNY PEOPLE, INSTEAD OF AN IGBOMAN THEIR MOSTLY LESS INFORMED FOLLOWERS WILL VOTE THE OCTOGENARIAN SO AS TO HAVE ACCESS TO THE WEST- MAJOR EATERS OF FLESH (BEEF) IN NIGERIA , SECONDLY, THE ECONOMY IS SO BAD THAT THE NEXT PRESIDENT WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO DO ANY MEANINGFUL THING, SO I WOULDN'T LIKE AN IGBOMAN ENTERING THE SEAT FOR THE FIRST TIME TO BE FACED WITH SUCH DAUNTING TASK. ATIKU WILL WIN ANYBODY NOW, INFACT HE WON IN 2019,:BUT THE NIGERIAN FACTOR. LET HIM TAKE OVER POWER FROM THIS CLUELESS GROUP AND ATTEMPT TO AT LEAST UNITE THE COUNTRY, BEFORE AN IGBOMAN COMES IN. ATIKU SHOULD ACT AS A FORERUNNER TO THE SOUTH EASTERN PRESIDENT

Sazzy001:
Don't you think there's something bothering her & those attitudes she's giving you is a way of expressing herself?
Was she always like this...
Bro you need talk to her she's your wife

EVERY TIME A WOMAN WILL HAVE SOMETHING BOTHERING HER, AND THE SOLUTION IS TO BE APPEASED BY THE MAN ABSOLUTE NONSENSE, A MAN MISBEHAVES ITS THE MANS FAULT, A WOMAN MISBEHAVES ITS THE MANS FAULT, WHAT GARBAGE.
NO WOMAN CAN TRY THAT NONSENSE FOR ONE HOUR IN MY HOUSE, I MEAN ONE HOUR

Mercychen:
It's your cross, carry it.

I've said it, any man/woman who is not ready to take nonsense should not go into marriage because therein lies a lot of nonsense.

By the way, I wonder why you're complaining carrying out your fatherly duties in the home.
The children are your responsibility. so doing all that you mentioned is not a big deal or something to go about castigating your wife for. Do it with joy whether anyone assist you or not. Afterall, na you bring them come world. Na woman wen go faint raising children una dey find while all you just want to do is impregnate her and go your way.

Now, you know how it feels.

I INITIALLY THOUGHT YOU HAD UNDERSTANDING; WHAT RUBBISH?

Dtruthspeaker:
Do not eat meat with blood is The Law.

The law was specific to eating it can not be extended to transfusion.

But any way, you have the ability to lose your life by refusal to take medication however the rightfullness of it is clearly beyond our jurisdiction.

So till Judgement Day then!

Now, it is proven you are clearly JW and not in transformation as you represented to me, but you are keeping your dogmas level, which is appreciated by me.

THE BIBLE DID NOT SAY DON'T EAT BLOOD; IT SAID ABSTAIN FROM BLOOD AND FROM. ANYTHING STRANDED

YOU CANNOT ABSTAIN FROM COCAINE BY REFUSING TO PASS IT THROUGH YOUR MOUTH, BUT YOU INJECT IT THROUGH YOUR VAIN.

ABSTAIN MEANS STAY AWAY FROM.

Righteousness2:
Yes the wife allowed the devil to use her to cause her hubby pains but Divorce is too harsh .

We need to Pray for your Brother and ask GOD to touch his heart. He just needs a touch from GOD.

Precious Daddy, I pray thee, locate this young man, touch and heal him. I Cancel any divorce and I Decree Restoration of Love and Submission in their Home in JESUS Name... Amen!

That settles it! Tell his wife that Righteousness said she should stop crying. She should just submit to her husband wholeheartedly.
We have Cancelled the divorce!
I am waiting to Hear the testimony!

TELL THE WIFE TO KNEEL AND BEG YOUR BROTHER, PROMISING HIM THAT SHE WILL NEVER DISRESPECT HIM AGAIN.

And to all married women out there please note that your husband doesn't need your love, all HE wants from you is respect.

VERDA:
You guys should at least be truthful even in your criticisms....he said he gave one million dollars, he never mentioned he gave it to his church, it is written up there, go back and read and criticize with reason.

WHERE IS HE WORKING TO RAISE A MILLION DOLLARS, IS IT NOT CHURCH MONEY? WHAT DOES IT TAKE TO GIVE OUT MONEY YOU'VE BEEN GIVEN WITH HOPE OF MORE PSYCHING TO GET MORE, HE COULDN'T MENTION WHERE HE GAVE THE MONEY BECAUSE THE MONEY ENDED IN HIS. INVESTMENT THE CHURCH. IF SALVATION MINISTRIES IS THE ONLY CHURCH I WILL NOT ATTEND ANY. THE TIME COMETH AND NOW IS WHEN THE TRUE WORSHIPPERS WOULD WORSHIP. THE FATHER IN SPIRIT AND IN TRUTH.

REPORT HER TO HER PARENTS IMMEDIATELY BEFORE SHE KILLS YOU. THEN BE VERY VERY CAREFUL FROM NOW ON, DON'T MINCE WORDS WITH HER AVOID HER TOTALLY. SHE WANTS TO KILL YOU ALL SHE WANTS IS ALIBI