₦airaland Forum

gaby:
And no offense too bro, and I still maintain, in this case, experience remains the beat teacher.

You learn and experience as you go it.

Experience is the best teacher but you can still get your best life experience from other people’s experience.

OloYeOfEgbE:
it's not educative.. It's gossip. Men don't gossip. Guy get a life or go find work

It is not gossiping!! Allow those that will say their mind to do so. This is how we are silently killing Nigerian men that are in bad marriages. We bully them to keep quite and suffer the wrong choices they made all in the name of men don’t gossip about their marriage!

What of those of us that nearly married the wrong woman. Can we also share our testimony and thanksgiving story?

I made the same mistake as you some years ago. I got to realize you have no business in trying to change a woman. If you hold your frame so high, she’ll have no choice than to maintain the frame for you. She’ll change to suit your taste. But if She doesn’t change, retire her from your list of girlfriends and continue with the other 6 ladies in your life.

MrBrownJay1:
...or probably, that dude is so fertile, that it only takes one nut and babe gets belle. its obvious this dude knowingly wants to get these women pregnant.

Yes I know he could be fertile but he can as well be deceived into fathering another man’s child. Think am well.

This guy is a fool. He’s already admitted he don’t pull out, woman he meets can rope him with another man’s pregnancy.

VeryWickedMan:
I sent her to you. Next time...

I sent her back to you.

That was how one lady visited me to spend a week. It was actually my first time spending even a day with her. On the second day of her visit, She was in the kitchen with just her night wear, I started smacking and grabbing her asx playfully. Aunty told me to stop but I thought it was joking stuff. I was about to land another smack on the asx when She grabbed a kitchen knife and held it in a position like She was going to stab me on my chest.

I paused for some seconds, I had to rethink my whole entire existence. I don’t even know who the this lady really is, we just started talking before She suggested to visit, I mean I do not know if she’s mentally unstable or even worse. The way She grabbed the knife and positioned it, I did not near her till She left my place.

You are a scammer!

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You need them, we need them. But you have to redpilltilize your human senses when you need them.

cherryCola:
From SS2 I was on my own..... .

fvck my d*d cause he neglected me.... .

If you want God to be happy with you, forgive and forget what your dad did and show him you only needed him to bring you to earth to do great things on your own. Forget what he did and Appreciate him.

If you show him love and support, he’ll apologize to you someday and be freed.

usagee36:
Sorry wasn't old enough to get a woman pregnant then. Nice try

It seems your village people are using her to call you.

usagee36:
Haha you even came with a date.

Yes I remember the date correctly. Sorry to break the news, chidima aborted the pregnancy. She’s now a baby mama to two baby daddies.

Something is telling me chidima is the lady you impregnated in July 12, 2000 right in her married brothers house, and disappeared.

Awinneralways:
What if it’s a lady you’re still asking out and she gets annoyed and become distant?

Just imagine the blue pill question you are asking.

I remember an incident that happened with my grand mother. At some point while I was growing up, it became difficult for her to beat me whenever I do something wrong. I would always whisk away before She even gets close to hit me with whatever object She was going to attack with.


One day we were at it again when mama suddenly fell to the ground and started crying out loud. I was in shock.

“Mama what happened”,

Mama did not answer but continued crying in regrets. Neighbors gathered and started shouting at me for beating my grandmother. They sat mama down and asked her what happened. She wiped her tears and started narrating all the wrongs I did 8 months ago. How I would leave the electric bulbs and ceiling fan ON despite her warnings, etc................ (Mama does not know how to put off the electric bulbs and ceiling fan because there were many switches on the wall that confused her)


One of the neighbors asked her, “Mama, Did carchoice hit you? Mama shouted at her, “Do you want him to hit me before you know he wants to kill me?

I moved closer to them to explain my own side of the drama. As I was explaining, mama swung at me and missed, this time She fell hard and it was fatal.

My heart sunk, I had to rush to her and held her, She started another episode of cry. I couldn’t help be bursted out crying too.

I was right in her grip, I expected she was going to finish me completely. Instead She drew me closer and started wiping my tears.

RIP Mama Abidjan!

falcon01:
I dey greet oh oga quagmire

Giggity!!!

Beermoney1:
2 wrongs can’t make a right. Sometimes one person needs to be matured and do what it takes. Marriage is not fight, u win so i lose or I am the winner you are the loser. It takes maturity to swallow your ego and make things work. In my work place, I supervise some older ladies. They scream, shout sometimes when I ask them to do something they do not want to. This women for you, but you need to be calm, play the fool to get what you want. It is not written on your forehead. Maturity is the key.

I get your point. Your response just unlocked a new level in my brain.

Beermoney1:
You are asking for marital advise from boys that are not married. Go and get your wife if you want your marriage to continue. It's your family not your kinsmen or nairaland. Fix your home, fight for your marriage to work.

So the woman that packed out by herself doesn’t want the marriage to work?

suffering:
Fun fact; the population of Nairaland is 90% 13 - 24 year olds hence the ubiquitous nature of sex-themed topics.

That’s why Nigeria is suffering

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There are actually some men/young men that womanize a lot but still have the money. Not everyone goes broke from womanizing

caesymore:
Mehn...
They even told a white lie as over 70 is same as over 500, I did toxicology back then in third year, lots of my collogues quite cigarettes' smoking after finding out cigarettes' is a carcinogen with over 500 chemicals to thank for that.

Personal me I wonder why people smoke Cigarettes when almighty God has given us Weed.

Not everyone can smoke weed and remain stable.

This is an E350 not 550. Know what you are selling.

bizbrainko:
So what options did he propose? We all should use our money to eat akara

Yes, and carry olosho

Funny

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I’m not surprised


They’ll still come out for Shiloh

Poswahala:
Please am not suffering from mood swings..this is something that is affecting my life and not some mood swings

Mood swings affects life.

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Why not start from a mental home first. Take care of the problem.

A lot of Nigerian women have mental problem but they call it “mood swings”