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Job first bro...he doesn't need comfort for now. Unless the money he has is enough pay for the rent, pay for the training he wants to embark on and still remain enough to keep him going for a longer period of time until he gets a job.
If Na just small money, make him just use am pay for the training and use de rest hold body fess...after all him friends are not complaining.

odinson1:
Leave those fools
While they keep spending on their girlfriends,guys like shola will continue bleeping them raw and Free

The simp said money will make a woman love you,so what happens to the love if the money goes away?

he's a fool, ignore him. Na him type dey train woman finish for skl and dem go still dump his sorry ass.
My current girlfriend's ex lives in a 3 bedroom flat in Abuja and has 3 cars. When uses flight whenever she wants to go visit him and when this guy wants to give her money, it comes in 20, 30, 50k.
This babe agreed to date me sometime last year while I lived with 4 other of my guys in one room. I resigned from my place of work just one week after I met her and so you can imagine how broke I was during the first 2 months of our dating. When she comes visiting, and my guys are around, we will spread the duvet on the floor on one side of the room and lay down there gisting and playing until evening when my guys will stroll out and we go collect.
This same girl sometimes helps us cook, in fact, there was a day when she came to the house and found out we've not eaten since morning because none of us had money, this babe used her money to go buy some foodstuffs and made jollof rice for us. She helps us clean the room, toilet and kitchen
sometimes and even helped me wash my clothes once. This is a girl whose rich ex boyfriend does not allow touch anything when she visits him, not even to cook the food she will eat herself.
I think money is secondary when it comes to things that sustains a relationship. It doesn't mean the guy should be broke and useless. You've got to have prospect, she has to see you've got real plans and you are working hard to be better.
Even girls prefer to be with their guy and watch him blow than just moving in with an already made guy.

Badboibipo:
Lol be like loneliness never tire una

you sound like someone with very low self esteem

Badboibipo:
There’s this guy on Twitter named shola that’s always ranting about quality women blah blah , and discouraging men from spending on women, saying men are kings and women should be the one spending on us. Well that’s 100 percent CAP!
Yes, men are kings but women are queens as well. You see the truth is that women respond to money, not because they have anything to actually do with it but for some reason their brains love chocolates as well as MONEY! If you deceive yourself to think you can get girls without money, you will wait a long time before you eventually get one and trust me she will leave very fast because your “you’re the ant in my anthill” cheesy line won’t work for so long. So many marriages crash faster than a drunk speeding driver because there’s no money.

Money will make a woman love you, not your stupid romantic lines. Even the American movies that deceive you people to think that love exist outside finance, they are just acting a script. Do and experiment, go abroad and talk to women without money and see how many you will catch. The only difference is that they may not be too desperate for your money abroad but last last it’s still your pocket that will make them want to be with you. Even yahoo format, the guys usually offer the women money and make them think they are rich before the woman falls in love and they start billing her. No woman will want you without money, shola is teaching you people the secret of loneliness, you go masturbate tire if you listen to him, or you may just as well turn gay. My 2 cents.

Crazy coming coming from a senseless guy that thinks he is wise.
Money sustains marriage and Warren Buffett and bill Gates are divorced?
Money keeps marriage and our celebrities don't remain married for even 6 years?
You will spend that money sheepishly and Na de poor guys Ur babe go still cheat on you with..

victooman:
thanks for the advice, but this sounds more like assumptions ,, woman wey go rude go rude irrespective of age,, but thanks for the input anyway,, the girl l am dating humble die

I personally don't care about age in dating.
But I fault where you said age does not matter in terms of according respect....assuming you have elder siblings, one older than you with just 2 years and another older than you with 8 years. You will definitely fear and respect the one who is older than you with 8 years more than the one older than you with just 2 years...it's a natural law.

And when people say juju nor dey....

Flamemignon1:
And if they bring it close to you,just say you don't play for their team rather than going on a violent tirade because you straight people do the same to lesbians but they don't get violent

now rest

Flamemignon1:
Shame..... that's your defence?

man, I don't give a fvck about your sexual orientation. Just don't bring it close to me...

Flamemignon1:
You are so full of hate. Sexuality isn't written on the forehead so no one knows if you are gay or straight. What the OP is saying is that if a queer man approaches you,tell them you are straight and you don't play for their team,shikena. I go to gay clubs when I visit Florida and the amount of women there trying to hit on gay men especially the gay strippers when they are drunk and Hot forgetting they are in a gay club,the men just tell them they don't play for their team.....you don't see them giving the women bloody nose,lost tooth or swollen eyes. If you do the bolded, it shows how insecure you are in your sexuality thinking just a compliment means you are gay because a real straight man wouldn't care knowing how secure he is in his sexuality

get the fvck out...

Gay bastard...who cares if you are gay or simply stupid. Just stay on your lane with your gay stupidity. The moment any male bastard approaches me in a way that gives even the slightest suggestion of intimacy, both sexual or emotional, that bastard will leave with a bleeding nose, lost tooth, or swollen eye.

Triangles1:
No mentioning of names no tribal war, meanwhile I need to take a deep look at their head.

Fool

OlawaleBammie:

U registered more than ten years ago and u have not in any tym made any post or topic on nairaland... Not even a single comment, cus as i checked now, u re only having 1 comment and 1 topic. U must b a legend in minding ur business.

nor be lie

Romanoff:
My dear, you're now in the marriage o, hustle for your own happiness. Pursue your dreams with all you've got. If you need financial support to make your dreams come true, look to your family members.

Wait on having kids till you can sort out the issues in your marriage.

All the best.

and now this is meant to be an advice?
Why didn't you tell her the last one which is to pack out of the marriage.

Ha..!!!

FERNANDEZISBACK:
siofra pls is that really kriss AKA Zonefree?
So this is the kid insulting ladies?
Thanks for calling his BS out...

Nairaland why?

but seriously, that guy is not ugly...just poor camera and poor background.

siofra:
This you?

why the vawulence....

tonididdy:
29yrs no GF ??


Anyway like I always say, the reason you can save that much is because you have no responsibilities.

My advice: stay in your sis apt for 6 months then get a small apartment that costs less and start your life.
Now is the best time to have kids, do marriage as the money is coming in.

Warning: from my understanding, your job is a jackee job ( I mean kee-body job) if you continue @35 your sperm count maybe too low already frm working so strenuously at old age.

I repeat start your life now the ovation is high!

people be talking about a man making a good life and you are concerned about his sperm count at 35.
So instead of saving to establish himself first, your priority is him saving to enter marriage and continue suffering and waiting for divine grace to uplift him?
Crazy.

Op, please ignore any suggestions about saving to build a house for now. That will tie your money down and you may not complete the building.
Save enough to start up a side business which will act as security even if you lose your job tomorrow. From that business, you can start saving up to buy a piece of land and build as your business progresses.
All in all, I don't think you should still be with your sister after this year. You still need a space of your own, even if it is a self con.

The first priority of any man trying to start life should not be to build his own house, but to have a steady and sure means of income.

Omo...be like Na give up oo...nobody dey give me hope sef

amosblac:
Thanks boss..I have checked my mail countless times but found nothing from u. Guess it's the network or somtng

open the email message request on your nairaland profile...or you can write me on WhatsApp...09.1.24247947

Kimiso:
try and change the battery for a new one,..am unable to reply you on phones due to ban

thank you bro..but could the fall have instantly damaged the battery?

slimjohn2k5:
Keep it till the battery drains out, charge n thank me later

did that already...it happened on the 6th of this month.

Greetings phone experts.
My Redmi note 10s that is barely 5 months old fell off my hand and hit the floor. Ever since then, the screen went blank even without a visible scratch.
They've tried new screens, but none worked and eventually, they said the only remedy is to change the panel and the screen which will cost me 69,000 naira.
Has anyone had similar experience?
The phone spec is 8gb/120

Greetings phone experts.
My Redmi note 10s that is barely 5 months old fell off my hand and hit the floor. Ever since then, the screen went blank even without a visible scratch.
They've tried new screens, but none worked and eventually, they said the only remedy is to change the panel and the screen which will cost me 69,000 naira.
Has anyone had similar experience?
The phone spec is 8gb/120

She looks like a cheap, dirty LovePeddler.

If you rob someone, why kill him too. People are just heartless.

You never knew he had not completed his divorce procedures with his first wife yen, yen ,yen. And you rushed in to reap where your lazy ass did not sow.
The bastard woman wants us to believe that she decided to leave him simply because she found out he hasn't completed his divorce with the first wife.....crazy stupid liars.

She acts like she's mentally unstable

Monsters

The man spent his first four 6 years blaming same Jonathan they are packaging for us now.

who else noticed that OP sounds gayish