₦airaland Forum

incandescentena:
I hope the fallout of these recent elections isn't started to haunt people from that region o. Its well... The elections really brought out reality of Nigerias politics. I blame these politicians for your woes Op

you foolish, tribal bigot. First your hate filled mind concluded the lady was Igbo, then after your poor, Ill mind was proven wrong, you still twisted to assert your foolery. Animal

Moh247:
No family is obligated to help you, help only who helped you... You are not God

And do you think those who helped you would have done so if they wanted to help only those who helped them. Help those you can if you can. It's common sense.
I'll give you a story of my life.
My dad gave my cousins and their mum a portion of our house in the village after they lost their dad in the early 90's which they normally use whenever they are home on Xmas or any other period.
When I got admission, my parents were already old and couldn't really afford to assist me. Guess what? Those my cousins were always there whenever I got choked.
Presently, things are not really moving so well for one of those my cousins at the moment since the wife got retrenched and he moved overseas. Guess what? I helped them pay part of their children's school fees with an amount of money no one has ever given me for free in my whole life just two weeks ago. He asked me to lend him, but I gave him for dash. I'm waiting for the day he will try to refund and then I'll shock him be telling him not to bother.

Now you see how the table keeps turning.

Bottom line, help when you have and when you can. It always comes back.

Lol. You could mine btc several years ago, but you don't know how to sell them now. Olodo

We already see his smartness everywhere

If anything happens in this life to require my mum moving in with me, instead wey my wife go prevent her from moving in with us, she go pack go her papa house.
Bleep!! If parents nor sweat fire train you, that silly woman of a wife probably would not have accepted you as husband.
Mum went hungry in order to see us feed, slept just three hours daily for over 20 years just to keep business going and see us survive, sent us to private schools in a neighborhood where majority attend public schools, fought for us if older peeps ever tried to bully us, would wake up even by 2am to prepare fufu just to ensure I had something to eat before leaving whenever I visit home.
Now,after all these, one woman will tell me to rent nanny for my mum when age gets her to her knees. That girl or whoever suggests that must be a bastard.

GLK or Spider as first car?

Men are always the problem until it is time for DNA

Half of Nigeria were submerged last year, I wonder who we offended and mocked then. Even though I am very sure the mockery video and the corresponding disaster video never happened simultaneously.
People just concoct shits just to trend.

Olachase:
I went to a technical college 3 years (Mechanical Engineering) within 3 years I have worked with 5 manufacturing companies as Mechanical Technician, I'm currently taking home 100+ salary, by next year I will enrolled for OND then HND, my boss told me I will be needing those certificates in future time for promotions and salary bargain, I'm not ashamed I want to start my OND at the age of 27

Pls nairaland guard me Dos and Dont in polytechnic

why polytechnic sir? Any specific reason? If not, why not university straight up instead of OND and HND? I think a University degree would have been a better choice

Parrot69:
For how may rooms, bro

four bedroom or five bedroom duplex

qwertyboss:
10-15million with great finishing

You don't know what you are talking about. That house won't cost anything below 35m. It could be between 40-45m depending on the finishing standard

In as much as you should have no business with that girl who sees no future with you because you live in a self con, you self should have no business with marriage for now until you have built up yourself to some extent.
Baba how can you be discussing marriage while still living in a self con and without any tangible means of livelihood. Wtf!! Is i trade crypto and forex. Do you have a side business?, other investments?, Have you started making plans to get a better apartment?,
These are the things you should consider before you can start thinking marriage with person daughter.
The girl for you will not outrightly deny marrying you because you live in a self con. Rather, she will make you understand why now is not the best time for you to be thinking marriage.
Most of the times, women tend not to see the bigger picture. They are often impressed by now.
Sometime in 2020, I met one girl and by then, I was sharing a self con apartment with two other friends since we just finished school 2019 and were all trying to start life. Somehow, we started dating, but this girl never took me so serious because she felt I was just a fresh graduate with not so much to offer, but she failed to see the bigger picture, the possiblity that we will all eventually grow.
Fast forward, 2021, we broke up and moved on. Fast forward again, 2023, I currently live in a three bedroom apartment, fully furnished, with one or two investments to my name. intentionally, I got chatting with that girl again and eventually invited her to come visiting just three weeks ago and guess what?, She hasn't still been able to get that ready made man she's been dreaming of since we broke up and indirectly, since it is now obvious that I am financially balanced to some extent, she is now giving me those let's get back together vibes and deep down, I say "fvck her".

Never look down on anybody today.

IyaebeTheGreat:
God knows I can’t marry my age mate, If you are not above me in everything then you can’t conquer me. I don’t even know how people date their agemate, classmates, job mates and the rest.

You still feel you need conquering? Then you still a kid. From 26-30 and above, you'll begin to realize that commitment to someone does not require conquering or subduing or lording over anyone. It simply requires two matured adults who come together to be each other's peace.

SuperSupremo:
These are the people that introduced slave trade in Africa and brutalized masses of our forefathers,introduced Christianity and later throw it away to embrace homosexuality......how will Black Man follow these imperialists........

Nigerian election has always been like this,if anything this has even improved,the West wanted an Igbo to come and destabilise Nigeria for their own gain because they will get the chance to come steal oil......it failed and they are pained

you sound so unintelligent

anyilalaz:
Get a new email, tell your friend about doing her private investigation anonymously. From his work, house, phone, life style, circle of friends, phone calls, chats, pictures, etc give her a wide angle to checks. Tell her any mistake from her end that is not thorough could be at the risk of her life.

By so doing, you informed her anonymously and her husband might never guess you are involved.

The only sensible opinion so far

It's your turn to be a father soon. I hope you do better than your dad did.

As someone who spent 6 years on the streets before gaining admission into the university, I can categorically tell you that school refines.
It becomes a disappointment when you so much rely on the certificate instead of relying on the overall development.
On the same pedestal, a University graduate who eventually went into business will do better and package better than a non graduate.
A graduate who ended up driving Keke or danfo bus will do better and present better than a non graduate.
And so on.
I left so many friends on the streets to go to school and guess what, when I travel home and get to meet those my old time niggahs who never went to School, it us easily observed that our reasonings no longer align.

Pickmycall:
Did the crowd enjoy their performances?Did they understand pidgin English?

Music nor dey hear language. Music is language on its own.

Qtrpst4:
Is it not obvious that you do?

In all your life make sure nothing brings you in my part. You are free to raise your children for prostitution, dont bring it close

I already told you man, your children's value would be inconsequential. Bleep off.

LarochelE:
This woman wasn't like that When I met her and her boy child was really obedient. But I guess things changed when I started confronting her about the lies she told me about the father of her child. I've done a lot for this boy, and I think I deserve to know the truth if at all I'll be taking full responsibility.

Now she refused to unblock me on my WhatsApp and Instagram despite my begging yesterday. Her friend that I sent to her to help me call and beg her did nothing to help the situation. I think that one has interest in me which I had, in the past, constantly told my woman to avoid her.

I've decided to go to her place later this evening. The outcome of our conversation will determine whether we'll still be together long term or not

who be this fool.

Qtrpst4:
We don't eat from the dustbin

Neither do we. So run along.

Qtrpst4:
The mum doesn't want his son to marry that kind of next generation. My wife and daughters won't be that kind of next generation and your daughter should never come close to my sons as we will ridicule them. We don't want that kind of useless next generation of foolishness

My sons and daughters will never get close to your sons and daughters because your sons and daughters would definitely be significantly less valuable to them as they would share same stupidity as you do.

Please, if you've got any shop for rent around awka, amawbia, ifitte, mbaukwu, Nibo or enugwu ukwu axis, suitable for the sales of building materials, kindly notify. Urgently needed.

Qtrpst4:
Can we also tell her to remove the bum short as that too is a trend abi you never see korra obidi before?

The next generation will definitely go that extreme. For now, this is our own reality. To you, do you think that lady's wear is enough for the guy not to marry her?

[quote author=pedrozone15 post=120748143][/quote]a young lady putting on bum shorts is on no way relatable to lesbianism or whatever gay shit. Like I replied someone before, fashion trends change over time and most times it is difficult for the older ones to accept the fashion trends of the new era. I believe your mum or sisters put on trousers now nomatter how decent. Bet me, your mums mum would have condemned them putting on trousers because in their own time, trousers were an abomination for women. That is the same scenario here and that's the direction I am coming from.

MadarasBlade:
You're the daft one here.

I am not sir. The mum is old fashioned, same as my mum and definitely same as your own mum. To them, bum shorts are abominable, same way their own mothers would have frowned if they saw them wearing trousers in their own days. That's the simple truth.

Your mother is simply not so civilized. And if anyone on this forum is calling that picture bad, then the person too is uncivilized. I personally bought those bum shorts for my woman, with waist beads, eye lashes and nails. These things make me see her as beautiful and she is the most sensible woman I have ever come across. One who doesn't put herself first unlike others I've met.
My mum or anyone can never detect for me the woman to marry because I am the one to live with that decision for the rest of my life and not anyone else.
As for the story of your father and mother, like someone already said, women will always paint the father as evil in cases of breakup even if they might be the bad ones in the story. A typical case is one am a witness to. You need to let go of any grudges and be at peace with your dad since he is no longer alive to tell his own side of the story.
Finally, you sound so soft as would someone who was trained by a woman. Every home needs a father figure and you should be one for your family.
It is never good to have any part missing in a home. Women bring the meekness while men bring the authority......I wish you the best in your choice, but let that choice not depend on what your mum thinks.

yarimo:
8. He defrauded small Anambra state as governor for 8 years
9. He is the leader of UNKNOWN GUN MEN killing innocent people
10. He is a promenent leader of IPOB

you sound so daft

Keegan:
Truth is bitter. No rightfully thinking comfortable people will leave their towns and cities and migrate to less developed cities elsewhere. You eboes can brag from now to eternity, your home is nothing to write about.

I hope you are making a good life for yourself, if not, even if Lagos like make e be like America, if you nor get money, na poverty go wire your eyes.

siofra:
I wonder why a guy will not marry a girl who has a past like this. Like that's her past and you are her future and that's all that matters, dude😒😒😒

If I was a guy, I would even be happy to have a girl like this, it means she has experience and won't be a bore.

daft

Napata77:
You have no shame.

Other states are building and showcasing brand new rail networks, with ultra-modern train stations for the masses, ultra-modern bus terminals, deep sea ports, brand new cities on land reclaimed from the Atlantic, world class airports, and other relevant infrastructure, while a TOAD like you is pre-occupied with how beautiful your Government House looks.

And expecting others to join you in posting their respective government houses, to compete on whose is the 'most beautiful'.

I mean, damn....

Something is seriously wrong with many of you South Easterners.

I was reading through your comment with joy until you came to the part of generalizing south easterners and I was disappointed. You not wiser

DannyWalker:
be like this one dey mental.


You heard that a guy beat a woman before their wedding and you think he was painted bad.

Something dey worry you for head guy.

Can a good person do such a thing?

And you that is as wise as Solomon, shebi u bin dey there when he beat the lady. Or you just swallow anything they throw at you without proper reasoning.
Is there anyone who doesn't paint theirself saints in their own stories?