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Romance › Re: Is There Any Downside To Dating A Girl The Same Age As Me by cassyrooy(m): 12:16am On Feb 25, 2023 |
Damilare65: why? People are yabbing you? Is that your main focus? Your focus should be that the lady is right for you, loves you for who you are and will fight for you same way you fight for her. But people mocking you, are you mocking them back for their spousal choices? If you like no mature quick, na Congress you go need to decide on whether she's OK or not. Guy, forget my harsh words, as a man, you're tough on the outside and inside, but you see family, especially, your wife and kids, they need to give you something unique. Don't let another person's unique experience becomes yours. Decide and damn the consequences, if you choose right, you've proven them wrong, if you choose wrong, you better pray there's enough time to correct the mistakes yourself or pads it on ad wisdom to younger generations. |
Politics › Re: What's The Best Time To Start Going To The Polling Unit? by cassyrooy(m): 12:06am On Feb 25, 2023 |
doctore212: My polling unit is near one olosho hotel. To avoid story that touch the heart, me I left my house pay for one olosho for TDB .
Na from there I go vote and na Kwankwaso I go vote .
But if she knack me well I fit vote OBI Chai! 😂 😂 |
Romance › Re: Is There Any Downside To Dating A Girl The Same Age As Me by cassyrooy(m): 12:04am On Feb 25, 2023 |
Damilare65: hmm thabks some people have been yabbing me you're just behaving childishly |
Romance › Re: Is There Any Downside To Dating A Girl The Same Age As Me by cassyrooy(m): 12:03am On Feb 25, 2023 |
Holybaddo: Comrades sincerely Younger people no dey attract me at all infact my mate is a turn off for me
I like older Ones like 2yrs older Most People younger do reason like their age I see them as not mature enough
Everyone have a choice so comrade if you like her keep her
Love Heals 💘 I can't deal with younger girls. I've tried but I can't deal. Life with a matured lady, trust me, is much easier because she naturally plays her role but these younger ones can pretend to be submissive but very rebellious and stubbornness is their hallmark because they believe you'd beat them, we die here mentality. So, I don't look them. |
Politics › Re: NASS Election: LP Claims INEC Omitted The Party's Name, Logo On Ballot Pappers by cassyrooy(m): 11:45pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
saphiere: I wish it was the presidential.
I am Igbo. Enugu precisely. I got this to say. When you do the same thing over and over you will definitely get the same result. Men have been governing us since 1960 and nothing comes out. Give chance to the female folks let's see if there would be a chance. After all, Queen Esther changed the history of her people.
VOTE Ojei Princess Chichi of Allied People’s Movement (APM) for President. She's a beautiful woman, I believe a better person but stop being irredeemably infantile. Vote her and let LP supporters vote theirs, don't propose to rise in life by dragging others down, it's beyond morally wrong. |
Crime › Re: Don’t Do Crystal Meth : My Experience by cassyrooy(m): 7:26pm On Feb 22, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: APC Campaigns For Tinubu, Akpabio In Essien Udim, Akwa Ibom State by cassyrooy(m): 1:26pm On Feb 21, 2023 |
tsephanyah: Collect their money and vote Obi or Atiku. |
Business › Re: The Reality Of Scarcity Of Naira Notes: How Are You Coping? by cassyrooy(m): 12:14am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Blazebond: Please stop using VPN when you want to open your bank App,don't be a victim. They're fingerprint powered, I don't type in password or pin. I just did a transaction now with this same VPN-supported login now. But I'm just having a rethink because of this your post. I'll practice how to stop. |
Business › Re: The Reality Of Scarcity Of Naira Notes: How Are You Coping? by cassyrooy(m): 8:53pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
I've hardly used cash these past few weeks.
Even to purchase water, bread, watch football, I've practically paid for these through transfers via Bank Apps (which sometimes work if I use VPN to open them) but people hardly transfer to me because they mainly use USSD and this has affected me negatively.
Na lockdown protocol I dey like this.
I no dey leave house say I wan enter motor go anywhere. |
Celebrities › Re: I Have Logged Out From Anything That Will Lead To Wedding - Actor Alexx Ekubo by cassyrooy(m): 11:23am On Feb 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Common, shush. What do you know about marriage to call it frustrating? Irresponsible men hiding under the guise of ‘’marriage no pay me’. All of ona na one and same. 😂 😂 😂 Biko, leave me abeg. Nairaland no be where I go dey put body anyhow. Have a lovely week dear. |
Celebrities › Re: I Have Logged Out From Anything That Will Lead To Wedding - Actor Alexx Ekubo by cassyrooy(m): 9:32am On Feb 20, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Mugu. Just continue being gay in peace, you vile, vindictive and narcissistic faggót. And yet, your signature reads, "It is better to cry in a Lamborghini than a Keke-Napep". Why not allow him cry as a single person than a frustrated married man? |
Literature › Re: The Twelve Fuvk-filled Days Of New Year!!! by cassyrooy(m): 10:17pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
Therock5555: Thanks for the encouragement Sir, na una dey give me motivation to write more.
Hope you're doing well? I gallant well for my area. Thanks for asking. Hope more dey come? |
Politics › Re: Popular Nigerian Actor Chidi Mokeme Endorses Peter Obi For President by cassyrooy(m): 8:38pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
SmartPolician: What about Tunde Ednut, Mr. Macaroni and Falz? Perhaps they are sleeping with Igbo girls too. 🥱🥱🥱
Let's face it: APC's presidential candidate is an ex-druglord who's not sellable. 😂 😂 😂 😂 |
Politics › Re: Court Awards Cristiano Ronaldo $300k As Compensation Over False Rape Case (Pix) by cassyrooy(m): 2:09pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
alfredilly: 1999 was an all Yoruba poll as a compensation for June 12. Our choice was Olu Falae of AD. Obasanjo was a northern imposition. But rather than going with the west, Igbo went with the north. It has always been that way. Only Tinubu sustained AD, later transformed to AC, ACN and later APC through alliance with Buhari CPC. That's why the Igbo hate APC. Now I understand the painment about Igbos choosing OBJ over Baba Olu Falae; Awo factor. I get it now. But consider this; Igbos are nationalists hence the amount of support they give when it comes to federal elections. This will be hard to reconcile between you and I. |
Politics › Re: Court Awards Cristiano Ronaldo $300k As Compensation Over False Rape Case (Pix) by cassyrooy(m): 9:01pm On Feb 16, 2023 |
alfredilly: Their agenda is to take over Lagos. When an Igbo man own a big company in Lagos, 99 percent of the workforce will be Igbo. You can't say the same of Yorubas. I'm yet to see 0.1 percent Easterners who aren't for Obi. And they tell you it's not a tribalist agenda. Ask about their intention. They oppose Fashola, Ambode and Sanwo Olu during election while reelecting the failed PDP governors of their region. Some of you Yoruba youth are too naive not to see beyond their facade of friendship. PO is an Eastern agenda. You're still immature to deliberate politics; Eastern Agenda didn't exist when Igbos voted in OBJ, Yar'Adua and GEJ, but on picking Obi over Atiku whom they voted for oj the past, it has become Eastern Agenda? Can you learn Igbo? Or speak English consistently and constantly for 5years in the East to do business or work there? Oga drop this your hegemonic line of thought that has resulted in leadership badminton games that favours no one and vote. |
Romance › Re: Lady Passes Out After Crying Non-stop Over Valentine’s Day Heartbreak - Video by cassyrooy(m): 2:08pm On Feb 16, 2023 |
Na wah o! |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Do You Survive A Bad Boss? by cassyrooy(m): 3:35pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
I recently left my job, my boss was just not it.
I showed too much competence that he started leveraging on solid task deliveries to play politics in the Organisation.
He bullied me into delivering from 1st to 31st monthly, I was his stallion but I plotted my exit and took it.
Since 1st January, despite the typical workload, they're really struggling to meet up.
Things that usually close on 3rd or 5th of each month lags until 13th, and the more you left Things unattended, the more it piles up.
So, my boss was a complete bully and opportunistic boss. |
Literature › Re: The Twelve Fuvk-filled Days Of New Year!!! by cassyrooy(m): 12:33am On Feb 12, 2023 |
Senior man! Weldone Sir.
Reading through, I can only say thank you for writing beautifully, I've been following up for almost a month now but the explosive growth in each post kept me refreshing this tab.
Keep writing. |
Nairaland General › Re: Big Snake Seen Inside A Toilet (WC) In Ekpoma, Edo State (pics/video) by cassyrooy(m): 7:12pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
mysticwarrior: That is a west African Forest Cobra, it's black in colour and they are long, fast and deadly. Plant lemon grass inside and outside your compound and you will never see anyone of them again. This snake is very powerful and strong. I saw one in Ikwo, Ebonyi State last year and despite running it over with a bike, it didn't stop but kept bouncing into the forest. |
Family › Re: My Wife Takes More Instructions From My Mom Than Me by cassyrooy(m): 12:58pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
destiny4luv: Good day Nairalanders.l; let me go straight to the point. I work off-shore so most of the times I am not always around, some times I can be at work for three months and be given one or two weeks time- off that's just the nature of my job.
But they is something troubling me seriously, when I give my wife instructions regarding anything at all she will first of all ask my Mom before she carries out the instruction I give her, that's if my Mom is in support of the instruction. Recently I gave her an instruction regarding a particular matter while I was on time-off, only for my wife to call me fee weeks later that she has carried out the instruction when the time I told her to carry out that instruction is not yet. I was so mad at her I asked her why can't she wait till the time I told her to do it; she said my Mom came over to the house and told her to do it so she did it. At that point I cut the call.
Later that day my Mom called me and was asking why I cut the call on my wife and refused to pick her call even why she was calling back, I told her she was the course, and she said how, and I told her why will I give my wife instruction and u will come to counter that instruction without the both of u letting me know not after the did has been done. My Mom was angry that can't she have say in my home, I told her to an extent not to the point of countering my instructions. She was very angry we both had some argument on the phone before I told her am late for work I want to cut and she hang up, she knows I was seriously angry with her. Since that day she hasn't called me and I haven't called her too.
My wife called me and apologized that it won't happen again. I forgive her and we both made amend. Now my Mom is not talking to me and my wife at the moment. Please what I did was it wrong or did I over reacted?
I love and respect my Mom likewise my wife, but I won't want her to control my home for me. Should I call her and apologize to her or just let her be till her mind comes down? While I understand that you should be a bit more angry, take a time off and be grateful that; 1. She rather turn to your mom than hers, or to friends and outsiders. 2. She follows instructions but not as at when you instructed (lacking timing). But be careful how you react, you're more detached from home and may not be feeling the emotional side that makes people waver impulsively. Correct her but respond to her calls whether you're happy or angry with her, else, you lose the marriage completely. Don't follow people who don't know what it takes to build a stable and strong relationship on Nairaland. |
Family › Re: How Many Kids Do You Still Wanna Have? by cassyrooy(m): 5:05pm On Feb 06, 2023 |
3 kids.
I wouldn't add to this, and I'll let my wife understand that I don't compromise on this. |
Politics › Re: Angry Nigerians Attack Bank Over New Notes (video) by cassyrooy(m): 5:38pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Igbo people burning Ibadan. |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Jokingly Said She Will Separate Me And My Brother When We Get Married by cassyrooy(m): 10:35am On Jan 26, 2023 |
Ndubuisipaul1: My fiancee told my younger brother that she will send him out of my house if we get married. She was joking, but it didn't sound like a joke to me.
Let me tell you how this started. My younger brother told my fiancee jokingly, that he will be sending her on errand anyhow, when she marries me. Although he went too far for saying he will be sending her on errand anyhow. But he has every right to send her on errand because he senior her. She then replied that if my brother do anyhow, when we get married she will ask me to send him away from my house. At this point I stop seeing the whole discussion as joke. I asked her to repeat what she said, she repeated it again (take note: she was saying everything jokingly)
I told her right away that if my brother comes visiting when we get married, she will not send him away. She said she will use her woman power to make me send him away.
She went further to ask me, that if they ask me now to choose between her and my brother who would I choose. I told her I would choose my brother (she could see the seriousness in me).
And I really meant it, any girl that will separate me and my brother will have to use jazz .
This my younger brother established the business that I am doing today. Has done countless number of things for me.
We don't joke with each other, and she knows that.
So am really scared, could this be a joke ? even though it a joke. How can a woman joke that she will separate two brothers ?
Nairalanders, please help a brother with your advice. is this a red flag ? I just dey pity your destiny. She thinks you can stand alone without your brother but don't let her make you learn the hardest way because you may never recover from that mistake. I won't share my personal life experience but trust me, you'll hurt your brother so badly that your life will become useless. |
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Politics › Re: Constitution Alteration Bill: 35 Items To Be Transmitted To Buhari For Assent by cassyrooy(m): 6:00pm On Jan 25, 2023 |
LG autonomy that was killed should be redrafted into the NASS immediately a new legislative era begins. |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Yet To Receive My Salary After My Resignation Last Year by cassyrooy(m): 3:07pm On Jan 19, 2023 |
dosage150: https://www.nairaland.com/7355662/what-duration-notice-period-resignation
Good morning fam, After my resignation on 24-09-2022 which I posted here. Some faulted me for not taking my salary and leave without notice
Yea I felt bad but I served in a very vital department that I had alot of their properties in my care. And the firm is known for taking up cases like this up and declaring you "missing" with your pictures all over their branches.
This can tarnish one's image or even cause my new employer to dismiss me , so I had to do all neccessary documentation
After my resignation The HR asked me to send my IDs, handbooks and other documents to the HQ in the East instead of the one here in Lagos where i stay
I sent it accross to them , after some weeks when I called to know if they recieved it She told me that they got only the handbook and nothing else (I sealed all these together) I stood my ground and was ready to travel for this After two weeks, she admitted that they have seen every of the documents
My new job took my time because I have been on training I never called to ask of my salary, when I in Dec, she assured me that they are working on it 
On Monday this week, I was ready to meet the MD because of this issue I called the lady again, she was ranting that i should allow them to work on my benefits and all that , I raised my voice too and told her that I only worked with them for 6 months , i really wonder what benefits she is calculating and I am ready to meet the MD because of this and that she should have it on mind that I am not forfeiting this salary for ANYTHING.
She dropped the call, later the secretary called me to assure me that they are working on it
Yesterday my pension account was credited  I have to wait for my salary at the end of this month I will be patient till March , because she once told me that it is after 6 months I should be worried not "disturbing" her everyday
Till then |
Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Men Find It Hard Marrying A Single Mum!!! by cassyrooy(m): 10:37pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Pierocash: I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.
The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.
I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her. Decide sooner; marrying her or releasing her. Indecision will only make things linger on for much longer, and which is much worse. |
Nairaland General › Re: Have You Ever Been Threatened Before? Share Your Experiences by cassyrooy(m): 9:01pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Many years ago when u was hustling in Abuja, na so someone carry motor jam our electronics wey we dey sell, damage am partly.
I just approach am, tell am make him come out make we reason as Oga no dey and e no go funny when him show, and we no give better reason for the damages.
Guy start to blow shoulders for me, immediately I remove key for Ignition, and lock up. My manager and other folks start to look, dey beg make I calm down.
As him see their begging, him threaten to shoot me, I tell am straight up say I wan die make him do im worse.
Small time Oga come, I hand over everything give Oga, if him wan forgive make him forgive. When Oga hear say the guy threaten to shoot me. Oga quickly discharge the guy because of fear.
Later on that night, I from my sister house dey go back when one idiot wey be their Oga of cultists, stop me, na so I waka pass dey go my thing. Immediately im ma follow me, con tap my shoulder.
I tell am say if him like him life, make him no bother me again. Na so, him start to rant say him go shoot me and do this and that, I just comot earphone plug dey listen to Eminem dey go.
Another person threaten to cut me off in 2018. By 2021, na me cut am off.
I no dey send sha. |