₦airaland Forum

Impera:
Tell your wife your mother's ghost visited you and told you you will die a horrible death suddenly if you allow your mother in law to move in with you

Oshe Baba Nla. Na beta yarns you drop like this.

cococandy:
@bold, that would have been the ideal thing but I highly doubt it.

Ask me how I know. I know from reading the things you guys post on here. Any expectation that a man should take on domestic responsibility is vehemently condemned as emasculating. It’s considered a woke western ideology that will kill the soul of the family to have a man contribute domestically in his own home he claims to love

I didn’t make up those situations in my head. It’s the things you guys type here that provided information for such conclusions.

Consider my input an excellent exception to your derived assumptions "based on my gender posts on Nairaland".

I no dey post based on some wannabe ideology, I cook for my female friends, sisters, Aunts and anywhere I come to be so chanced to do so, even though, I'm "equipped with limited skills".

The position should be a sweet-smiling no for the wife. I no want make OP reason much cos, that woman no deserve am at all.

cococandy:
When sick and old in-laws come to love with the family, the expectation is that the wife will be the one to provide care for the sick and old family member. So your wife should have the final say on who’s coming for extended say in my opinion.

Because let’s face it, your wife would have been the one to give your mom bed baths, bathroom care etc. now that her mom is coming, she’s still the one who will be expected to do that. Not you.

So it might not be the presence of your mom she didn’t want. She just didn’t want the extra responsibility which invariably falls on her. Before you ask why she can’t treat your mom the way she treats her mom, know that her mom will be willing to die for her but your mom won’t. That’s the difference

Okwu ihuru extra responsibility and care, she still won't take up any.

Her primary duty is to care for my family, since I couldn't negotiate for same with my mother, she too by her own precedents can't as well.

It's the equaliser effects. Cos if she had taken in her mother in-law, op would have assumed some more domestic responsibilities to ensure there's enough cushion on her, now she wants to stress baba. Make kitipa blind op if him simp on this matter.

She has other siblings, let them care for their mom, money no be problem, op will provide.

What a narcissistic and inconsiderate level of self entitlement? Bia op, thunder is pressing up already to devour you if you don't strike back. Imagine someone who threw your mom out until her death, let her mom die too the world will not end.

ozalogbo:
I want to thank you all for your responses. I know exactly what to do. I am not weak as my write up probably portrayed, from the responses of some of you. But a lot of the time, 'forgive and forget' has been a strong weapon of blackmail that others always use against others. I shall not say much for now. Let me thank you again. You never really know the extent to which opinions expressed on a platform like this shape and influence peoples opinions and actions, especially those expressed outside sentiments. Kudos!

Oga Boss! Please update us later on the steps you took and the outcome.

We dey wait and the best of luck!

Thanks.

Slimm01:
Lies. Stories that never happened. How long and sturdy can an 11 years old boy's penis be...to think of using it to satisfy a woman who already has children? The size penis would be like a menthol nose inhaler. So pls stop with this fictional story.

It's not for pleasure but a deliberate attempt to initiate body fluid exchange between her older self and the youngling.

And trust me, 11year old penis can ejaculate too.

muyico:
Back to u op? If u adopt nko? Stop having african mentality? If u truly love her? U wil truly love her kidz!
my wife she a single mom whn i marry her! 3kidz in d house now! And all doing fine! Thnk GOD He a boy! He bearing my surname! If his dad come one day! I will willy hand ova to him.nah u property! "oke oku loku re baba omo lo ni omo"

You write like a Sociologist, and by many indications, you've incisively solved the much social problems around your environment as possible. Kudos.

I love your beautiful submissions. All the best.

UYEMDO35:
I got an urgent call and i left my phone at home on getting to were I was going, l later discover that I didn't go with my phone......
On returning home the were everyone at home were looking at me was kind of strange... I never knew my younger brother knows d pin on my phone... I was kind of shocked when he told me that mum wanted to make an urgent call and she has no airtime
on her phone so dey decided to make use of my phone.... I don't even know what prompt my younger brother to open my (vault) how he got the password of my phone is still strange to me....
Immediately he got access to the (Vault) he open all d porn video and shouted as soon as he saw it..... That prompt and called the attention of everyone and now everybody are on my neck.

My brother don spoil my package....... Me that dey all know as Pastor.

Though! I don't watch porn video, it has been on my phone for long perhaps I even thought I deleted it.

Right now, am still looking at my brother, I don't even know what to do to him.....

Since you thought you had deleted it but didn't, just go to court and prove your innocence and collect your Pastorship Mandate back.

😂 😂 😂

santos247:
What then happens when Political parties do a ballot paper recount.
IF this has happened on a grand scale, then it wont stand for long- d court will unearth it and recalculate votes PU by PU.

You have to have indelible and concrete proofs, else, the power and Established system that be will frustrate and scuttle your judicial pathway to victory.

LP need Governorship and Abia State will almost practically be theirs through alliance with YPP.

santos247:
Please how does vote transfer work?
Can you break it down for me please.

when Party A scores 51, Party B scores 31 and Party C score 71.

The "Establishment Party A" candidate with "Structure" can have his Structure transfer results from Party B by taking 20 (31 - 20 = 11) and 15 (71 - 15 = 56) thereby making his own votes 51 (+ 20 + 15 = 86).

So the real voting is;
A 51; B 31; and C 71, but declared results will look like A 86; B 11; and C 56, thereby coasting to victory.

Simeonjoe1:
Check the kkk state atleast all has nothing less the 1.3M votes even jigawa do over 1M votes but here for south apart Lagos I don't think any has up to a million votes.

Thuggery that leads to wasted votes, voter suppression and marginalisation, and electoral victimisation and outright vote transfers leads to voter aparthy in subsequent elections.

ahnie:
I m enjoying the attention,I want to see how long it would last .
This one is even small,I need them to clone surplus of my account. .
All these scum.bags still dey learn,oya kimmon clone more,awon werey.


Dem never chin sontin.
Smelling shildren,make them go chop red oyel rice.

😂 😂 😂 😂

Ahhnie:
Yes I ahnie is raising my two kids alone.
My husband is always away working
So I am like a single mum😏😏😏
It's not easy as long I don't cheat like Goodlady and Simplepee

Why clone Ahnie's account?
Make una leave her alone.

Sheistoopretty:
Br*ke boys like u will always read meaning to everytin is it bad to help the less privileged? She has seen dat u are just like the normal wr*tched Nigerian men we have everywhere and den decided to help ur mis*rable life and u are still here suspecting ur br*ke self

In Asari dokubo's voice; ur mumu no too muuuuuch?

Dis is just a normal tin we girls do daily to men but dey all go unnoticed and unannounced, but if it was done by a man, u will see it all over social media we ladies are too matured for dat

Meanwhile:

Nigerian men are Us*less..... All of them

Whatever prompted you to Putin these submissions is strongly strong.

😂 😂 😂

Ahnie come and see o!

ahnie:
Some days ago,a grown up man fell down after walking for hours looking for money on empty stomach.

We had to give him water to drink,got him a loaf of bread,then contributed 2k for him,a family man for that matter with a wife n 4 kids waiting to be fed at home.

Aaaaaahhhhh! Things have gone truly bad for Nigerians because of an anti-government policy that we don't know whether it will fail or succeed.

ahnie:
I knew I was in Nigeria when I trekked for one hour as early this morning.
Shame didn't even catch me

What I haven't done before the experience was killing.


Painment was I had to borrow 100naira to come back to my place of business.

Sofia pains was all the sales I made today were mainly transferred into my acct,some sef I never see alerts.

Foolishness was only #300 followed me home at all at all naim bad.

The other day I bought 10k and the charges was 3k, honestly e pain me.

So this night after looking for POS,I saw someone I knew he was merciful to collect #200 for #1500.
For my mind....I be the richest woman in nigeria

Tomorrow I m definitely gonna queue at accessbank and wildraw money, because I cannot imagine dashing someone 4k.


So guys how have you guys bn surviving?

This past week is the most crushing of this cash scarcity; sorry. 😂

Nigeria want make you strong small.

Ephesians 6:4 (KJV) And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

Many parents need to learn when to stop interfering in kids lives; once kids turn to adults and you don't control your discipline and love giving tactics and become more befriending to many, they're going to revolt, which is very dangerous for the wellbeing of the offspring.

creatorsverse:
Bank way no dey work with cashless policy

I don trek from festac to igando with money in my account o, I can't do transfer.. the next day I open 5 different account with 5 different banks with all their mobile app


UBA owner will die of hypertension

UBA has me on presidential lockdown orders.

If the cashless policy hasn't been affecting me before, this week, it came triple-prepared.

Every contingency measures I took in anticipation of this elections/naira policy has exhausted it cushioning effects on me.

I don join everyone else dey lament.

Kobonaire4:
History is still on the curriculum, last I checked. It was reintroduced by this same Buhari admin...after your beloved PDP removed it in 2009/10

History was available in 2009/10, stop saying rubbish.

While I can't confirm which administration removed it, but your submission on when it was removed is false.

Blesschemical:
Please can an intending corper apply with olevel result

This is tricky, you can give it a try but if you're taken, your degree is a waste and will not be accepted later except you start afresh.

Slimzjoe:
You can't upgrade. It's clearly stated that any document you don't submit before employment cannot be submitted thereafter

Because it wasn't available at the time of application.

But if obtained later, can be declared for considerations.

If God willing, he still has time, he can switch to another agency for employment purpose with his new qualification.

pendragonbladgo:
Please I need advice. I am in 100L in a University, but I really want to apply with my Olevel. If the job comes, what do I do?

Please add me to any available whatsapp group for more updates: 08100640022

Apply and if you get, you can continue studying a course that befits your line of focus, while your career grows.

Then, after graduation, you still have a job that is guaranteed and you'd be hoping for upgrade.

But note that this will be very stressful, time consuming and importantly, will cost you money.

LeoDeKing:
Well, I may not know the tribes that donated.

But what I know for sure is a tribe that will never donate except money is involved.

If money is not involved, just forget it.

Shebi I no mention particular tribe. But they know themselves and will certainly respond, most likely with insult.

Why you sounding dystopic like this?

When I wanted to donate at UCH in August 2017, they offered money but I was doing it for a friend who had asked me to help out a family relation.

We weren't compatible and I still remember the courage that flowed through my mind that day.

NB: we're not of same tribe but he was a very good friend who still respected me to date.

Get your head outta your arse and think straight for once.

Ilaje1:
How many of them compare to Igbos all over SW? Nobody hates igbo but Igbo attitude. I'm sure the prof and other Yorubas there respects the native and never claimed Anambra to be no man's land. Try to say the truth for once

Come and test yourself in another man's land.

Owerriboi:
Good development. Alot yorubas live in Anambra, particularly Onitsha and Awka. Just like lagos and River states, Anambra is a multi cultural society where you can meet people from all over Nigeria

Yorubas, Fulanis are equally found in Imo State, even in the remotest parts of Obowo L.G.A.

The Northerners are part of the maintenance team that keeps those places on front of government house Owerri clean.

I've greeted lots of them "Ekale or Ekaro Egbon mi" just to let them know that I recognise their linguistical difference from mine but I head out.

But some Yorubas keep shouting nonsense on media.

I've probably met more than 50 Nairalanders.

I can't mention any, one even drew my attention to one of our conversation where we shared contacts years ago to edit outa phone number and I obliged.

I just spoke with one who saw me reading this thread.

😂😂

I remember the day Homeboy's thread made front page and he was ecstatic "Chinedu my thread dey front page for Nairaland".

Lol.

I pity those soiling their reputation here.

leisuretym:
This is where Chinedu should be contesting, Lagos is not a No Man’s Land as Chinedu think

Chinedu is Yoruba.

His father named him Gbadebo being a Yoruba man, his mother named him Chinedu being an Igbo woman.

He has rights to contest as Gbadebo, as well as rights to contest as Chinedu.

Chinasa-Abiola is contesting in Umuahia because his mother is Umuahia while his father is Yoruba and his constituents will vote for him regardless of where his father comes from as long as they love him.

There's some special thing with Abraham for me; a man whom God told get thee out of thy country to a land I'll shew thee and he responded, yes Sir. Faith-personified he is.

Jacob, a street-smart youth who understands that to ascend and succeed in difficult situations, one that comes with birth, you must not relax but go all out for it. Esau lost, and he married same way to two sisters, he's a master of targets and patience.

David: a soul so responsible yet so ungirded and inclined to wayward lifestyle. He gad borderline characters but for God, his worst characters didn't actually kill him, he's brave and a schemer.

Daniel: a youth of letters. Who through reading and studying startled the King in captivity and triumphed over his court-adversaries.

Joseph: a boy with so much patience, I believe he first dreamt of himself and his destiny to truly not go off rails following the wickedness from his siblings, days of slavery, Potipha's wife and imprisonment. Na person wey get long-term vision go perfect this script wella.

My namesake, Ceasar Augustus (Luke 2 Verses 1 to 7. [1] And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Caesar Augustus, that all the world should be taxed. [2] (And this taxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.)).

Jennyclay:
1 Timothy 5 vs 8.

"A man who cannot provide for his wife/girlfriend is worse than an infidel"

Men should learn to take good care of their wife/girlfriend.

Stop misinterpreting the Bible.

There are rich and irresponsible men, as well as average-income and responsible men.

Stop emphasising and reinforcing nonsense.