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ENOCHAKIOJA:
CaveAdullam

Once you improve yourself, your body and personality become a filter that helps you stay aloof from people that'll drag you down.

Improving yourself is a good vetting style. It makes you aware of women who have no value.

Authority: Grow.[/b]

PS: My watch has ended.

It's high time I take the back seat.

Thank you all.

Happy 2023


Cave in conjunction with the committee of read, learn, discern, apply, appreciate but never comments redpillers and guests of the thread we say Thanks for your consistent inputs.

Thank you oga sir.

Happy New Year. Double trophies for you in 2023.

Martinez39s:
You don try. I would have adviced you to rest for a week, but I know you won't heed such advice. More oil on your head.

"You sha don know me finish. I will shock you just wait."

Happy new year bigger man.

More grace. More Elevation. Many wins.

Hedgefunds:
CaveAdullam post=119602974]

Hi Cave,
Hi Jeshal
Hi Martinez39s
Hi Ubunja
Happy New Year, God bless you Greatly as you have Touch our heart with ur Wisdom, May this year Favour You in all your Endeavors .

STAY BLESS

Happy new year big boss.

More progress. More medals.

hazard7:
New year, new goals . A lot of things are going on not just in Nigeria but around the world.

Will be looking at improving my Game cause I'm becoming a little bit rusty and if most of you want infield Game then I will do a thread on that.

But other than that, more effort into making more money cause naihim to be the main Koko.

Anywhere special shout to @ubunja @caveadullum @heartofcity @martinez39s
and the rest of y'all.

Keep them coming.

Happy new year chief.

May your plans be achieved.

maak400:
A standing ovation for you! 365 days of daily dose of redpill is highly commendable. You deserve all the accolades bro. Great work!

Happy new year chief.

More wins.

Peaceyw:
@caveaddullam, ubunja, heartofcity12, JESHAL Martinez39s happy new year.
Thanks for your contributions to this thread

You were truly peaceful. Thanks.

Happy new year.

Smartb0y:
You're on Twitter now, that's good.

I recall asking sometime ago , you said you wasn't

Yes. That's where I will posting many of the sh!ts sitting in the garage. Just gradually.

Happy new year man.

Pardoning prisoners when there is a high level of insecurity, and constant loss of lives and properties daily in his state. A state where terrorists and bandits have an important branch.

This is not pardoning. It is an exchange as a result of tough negotiations between criminals and the state government. The number is specific. The prisoners are vital. Plus the fact the election is around the corner. An evil political play. This man is an insàne tyrànt.

Nigerian politicians don't rate their citizens a bit. It remains a mystery how the same citizens corral around stadiums and sing praises to politicians during political campaigns when they seek re-election.

Until the peasants push back there will be no change. Nigerians are yet to reach their breaking point.

What a pity!

Happy 2023 to y'all great niggas.

As you start the new year, know this:

https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1609229220001243139?t=SFGoaXlcTILlNKDDx0n4Cw&s=19

DAY 365 REDPILL 2022

Once you improve yourself, your body and personality become a filter that helps you stay aloof from people that'll drag you down.

Improving yourself is a good vetting style. It makes you aware of women who have no value.

Authority: Grow.

PS: My watch has ended.

It's high time I take the back seat.

Thank you all.

Happy 2023

It's good to have a good resolution.

It's good to have good plans and set goals.

It's good to have nice plans for yourself and your family and loved ones.

But know that things don't always go as planned.

Be courageous and let the universe guard you.

Aim for the best and become the best you want to see in others.

Happy new year.

Complete thread here below:

https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1609229220001243139?t=f-XLkd3yi-ut8BJRrAnblA&s=19

1. Stay aloof from her. Just hope she doesn't know your residential address.

2. Gradually cut all forms of communication.

3. Don't create a ground for further emotional attachment.

4. Always be brief when interacting with her. Pretend you're in haste. Always form busy.

5. Don't reveal her secrets. Keep your mouth sealed.

6. Don't date any other girl for now if she can easily access you. If you insist make sure she's far off.

7. If she reciprocates the same emotional feelings, be plain and tell her that you don't want to break her heart. And that both of you can just be friends.

You men are always in a haste to fall in love. What a pity.

Small breast like this, "she ticks all my boxes. She's the woman of my dreams blah blah blah". Arrant nonsense!

NB: Be careful man. When it comes to area networks and locations, cultists know every nook and cranny of their base. Make sure you stay in a far and "confused" location.

Anyway, nothing to fear. Braze up. End the relationship smoothly and with wisdom and you'll be free.

Sigh.

If you are interested in a long-term relationship, you must know this.

You don't force it.

ubunja:
true, as a man no one is coming to help you.

That's the thing about the Male Peak Sexual Value, it's in his own hands. a teenage girl will simply wake up hot one day, signalling the start of her prime, nature has no such free gifts for men. A man's value he creates himself with toil and sweat. While women's peak sexual market value is almost always guaranteed, men's own is never guaranteed and many men never fully actualize it cause they fail to make something meaningful of their life. Hence a man's 20s will always be important cause the moves and the decisions he makes here will have an impact on how his 30s turn out. His 30s are when he's supposed to be in his prime. But with no success, his prime won't happen. Since a man's prime is never Sexual but financial.

Now many guys may feel a type of way cause their prime is delayed while women's own comes first, but it's better this way.

When women hit their prime between 17 and 25ish, they're hot and everything but most don't even capitalize on it cause even though physically they're everything men want and desire, the girls at that age are clueless about the game. They have the assets but without the wisdom to benefit the most from the assets. Hence most end up just squandering the gold on good-for-nothing jerks and by the time the women hit their 30s they've nothing to show for it - just phones and clothes. And once gone, the peak never returns.

But men's peak is thankfully delayed as they go through the trials of life. They gain much-needed insights and wisdom on female nature and life. By the time the men hit their 30s and life starts going their way, men have a useful understanding and appreciation of women and the game and are better positioned to make better use of their own prime sexual market value.

1. The thing about getting something for free is that you don't value it until you struggle to get it. It happens every time. Free things aren't treated with dignity and respect. Ditto for women.

2 ...at the commencement of life, the stars fall on pleasant places for them. People desire them. Double credit for the beautiful ones. They see it as a norm and some even become arrogant as a result of the applause. They didn't work for it, so they don't know how it operates not to talk of protecting it or leveraging it at an early stage.

3. You see many of them wasting their beauty, time, and age for frivolity. Because this is an inherent value, they think it will last forever. Nothing in nature lasts forever, except the immaterial - life is stopped by death; young age by old age, etc. Even the immaterial have contradictions - mountains and lowlands; sunshine and rainfall.

4. That's why many of them get frustrated when they hit the wall. Attention reduced drastically. Options reduce. Fertility reduce. Suitors reduce. Beauty declines.

But the plot twist here is that many don't get frustrated or angry because they have hit the wall. There may be some form of resentment but they still got the package. And that package is that they will always get a man that will commit.

5. On the flip side, success isn't guaranteed for men. Whereas, security and provision are guaranteed for women. Women have options but men don't.

6. The only grace men have is that since they are stronger and more risk-taking than women, as they age, they may hit a goldmine. But this is not guaranteed. As we age, our energy declines, and testosterone declines. And life is unpredictable.

7. Men don't have any down payment or future security. They work by trial and error expecting the best from all of their endeavors. It's a sad reality.

8. This is where parents become vital in the lives of children. The essence of a strong family is to guard the child as he/she moves toward adulthood.

The father and mother already have the experience, therefore, the right lessons to coach their kids. Daughters will not waste their prime chasing clouds. Sons will not wait till 25 before they start figuring things out.
The family is a solid ground the young woman and young man can get things right.

The family is the last resort that's capable of bringing stability and normalcy. Religion also has a big role to play. State laws too. However, in our contemporary world, all these, have fallen apart. Ergo, the instability among young men and women and the high level of degeneracy.
A society where a divorce is an option for a flimsy excuse. Where virtues and morality are scorned. And where people trespass laws with impunity.

9. The problem is now on a macro-dominant scale. (Almost) nothing we can do. Hence, we must put ourselves first as we swim through this polluted ocean to the other side.

May our energy reap good fruits in the end.

DAY 362, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Be calm. Keep moving.

This is an unbearable loss.

1. Dreams shattered. Hope quenched in split second. Bonds broken. Joy lost in the dark. Sorrow abounds. Sorrow upon sorrow upon sorrow. Henceforth, every joy felt will be tainted with sadness, fear, and anxiety. A great loss indeed!

2. Such is life. The unexpected happens. Joy today and sadness the next day. We think things will always go as planned, but the vicissitudes of life shock us beyond our boundaries and set us flying around looking for help where there is no help.

3. We spend our days searching for luxury and pleasure. Our minds don't like thinking about the negative turn of events, we skip them and hold a strong faith that only good things will happen to us and all will be favorable. Of course, some bad situations can turn favorable but not all and so many leave scars that will never heal.

4. What is life? If we sing for joy today and mourn tomorrow? What's the essence of life then? Why this sorrow? Why this pain? Why can't we be with our loved ones for a long time till old age?

5. Anyways, these whys and whats are the core intricacies of life. Probably, life wouldn't live without them. Innocent life. Endangered man.

6. Maybe with love, we can subdue. And with love, we can bear our losses, failures, and disappointments.

Sigh.

ubunja:
you're doing about average. For us guys, the 20s are the coldest harshest most horrible time of our life. Your female age mates are having the time of their life but your own life sucks major balls. Do these 3 things: 1) deal with your courses to get your career going, 2) soak up all the game and wisdom about women NOW. No matter if you can't understand it all, just read read read read read - one day your brain will connect the dots 3) watch out for the girls who like you and only deal with them. Never stay away from girls cause if you tell yourself you'll start to talk to girls when you've everything in order, you'll find that you don't even know how to.
I'll let others add their own.......

1. Things are hard for modern men because they set unreasonable goals for themselves + under unfavorable societal laws, orders, and policies.

Thinking big is good, but life is a gradual, complicated zig-zag process you can't unfurl in a space of 30 minutes of thoughts and imagination.

Take the gradual steps and see where life leads you. Be consistent. Seek Truth, knowledge, and understanding.

2. Men are meant to build. You will hate your life if you are not building. You feel like committing suicide because you are not building.
Build a book.
Build a business.
Build a career.
Build a program.
Build a good reputation. Not chatting and whining like women.
Build good connections by talking and sharing quality information and knowledge.
Build anything.

3. All men are on different paths but will arrive at one end: the good of mankind.

Don't see the paths of others as more important than yours. In the aerial view of things, everything connects no matter how minuscule you are, even if you are a dot.

Purse your mission with zest.

4. Women have many things running through their minds daily. A woman rejecting you doesn't mean you are bad. Try other women. Better if you deal with women that have organic desire for you.

The litmus test: if men don't respect you as a man, then, the problem isn't women. Men judge by going deep, and women judge by looking at the surface. Should you be found wanting, upgrade yourself.

5. Best way of approaching women is by invading their space. It allows you to have connections with other women while pinning for the one you desire.

In that space, some will like you for your dress sense, others for your personality, intelligence or physique or status, etc. It erases that hurt when you approach them singularly.

6. At the end of the day, women will always get what they want even though not the full package. There will always be men to sweep them off their feet.

7. As a man, nobody is coming to help you at the end of the day. That's why you must fight tooth and nail, every day to reach the apex or at least reach the point you can be confident about yourself and not be under the influence of every Tom, Díck, and Harry.


DAY 361, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Upgrade.

Dabronze:
No time to waste time!

After 12 years, man still played himself by engaging with a h0e, and he called it a win (photo/news may not be true though). Lol.

Men are "logical" indeed.

They keep playing themselves, shooting their heels consistently, and expect women to upgrade. No.

Same with Peter Okoye. Same with Yul Edochie. They think it's a win. But their eyes will soon see "shege".

May Ned Nwoko and the kings occupying different monarchies in Nigeria live long. (Behind the scene may not be perfect, but these men know their onions).

Pukkalolo:
@ the first bolded:

First of, I never "strictly" said women never Bleep the bottom men. I only said bottom guys get the leftovers.

Women get hit on all the time by different men, I mean sexy beautiful women. For example, when she's hit on by 20 men, she'll select the top guys before considering the bottom guys.

1. We're the ones trying to EXPLICITELY classify men into top and bottom. I don't disagree with it though. But I think it should be cushioned when it comes to hypergamy.

Women respond to hypergamy. ANY MAN A WOMAN IS DEALING WITH (SEXUALLY) IS BETTER THAN THAT WOMAN. Simple. Because women only date men higher than them.

Take for example: there are many poor and dirty old men in rural towns and villages with wives and mistresses. Judging from a city standard, these men are bottom men. Yet these men have their own share of women.

Of course, women want to date men with power, luxury, and status. However, will settle for the men without it when they can't get their desire.

To the cruise of the matter: who is more likely to get married to so called "leftovers" between male and female?

This is another point to tell you who's hungry for much sex if you can get your answer correctly.

It is an easy verifiable fact that thousands of women get married weekly. And all of them wouldn't have married the man if he can't cater for them.

Then the question: how many of these women are virgins? This looks like a contradiction right?

But what I want to point out is that: women will hold on to marry their choice of men but men don't bother about virginity judging from our modern world. This doesn't means that men don't value fertility and nobility in women, but will not waste time searching for a virgin woman in a world filled with degenerates, and will get the readily available.

Hypergamy is not about does "he have a house, car, money?" It is "is he better and higher than me?" A house, car, money because the litmus test she uses to verify the fact.

That's why a woman can stay with a broke man for long and still jump ship when someone better arrives the scene. If she stays back, she has already sense that the broke boyfriend level is still somehow better than the new boyfriend aside money.

Pukkalolo:
@ the second bolded:

For example, Let me assume you love eating cake as much as anyone does.
Now someone present you with 2 type of cakes. The first one is "top notch", highly decorated and look delicious. While the second one looks poorly made and doesn't seem nice. Yes, you love cake in general, but which cake will you select?

That seem like pretty much easy question, but please put some thought into that question.

I think that answers the second bolded

2. The better cake of course.

But between men and women who's more likely to eat (have) poor leftover (sex) cakes?

Aside prostitution, nowhere in history has any woman have the leverage and opportunity to sexually deal with tens of men at a particular period of time. But from time immemorial, you hear of men having to deal with many women at a particular time.

But wait. What about married women that cheat and have sex behind the door in secrets?

Of course, that's true. But how many of them are opened about it and do it with pride?

You'll say social programming right? But what about apes and other mammals? Who socially programmed them to share similar actions like humans?

Pukkalolo:
@ the third bolded:

I totally disagree with that bro. Who told you men don't have a problem fúcking any kind of woman. I think that one bullshit the society spread about men.

Actually, men have a problem fúcking any kind of woman. I have a friend who doesn't like short women at all; he said, he rather jerk than Bleep a short woman.

I have anignoresbuddy who only prefers to bleep thick and big size women; he practically ignore other women.

I know another guy who told fact loves slim women; he said that'sthrowind of women that turns him on. Infact he said, sometimes "thick" women throws the pussy at him, but he declines them. sounds funny, but that's what he told me.

My point is, saying "all men desire to fúck every woman in the world" does not make sense.

Using me for example, just looking at some already turned off by how they physically look.

3. The exceptions don't cancel the rule bro.
Your experience and those of your friends don't cancel the rule.

Is Nigeria a black nation? Yes.
Are there millions of fair-skinned or albinos in Nigeria? Yes.

Does the presence of a fair-skinned population erase the fact that Nigeria is the blackest nation in the world? No. No bro.

We have thousands or even millions of eunuchs in the world. But does it erase the fact that men are polygamous in nature? No. No bro.

Stay focused on the rule, not the exceptions.

Pukkalolo:
@ fifth bolded:

I totally agree with you on that one. the

To sum it all:

I was in a group setting about a month ago, and we were severed coffee. But sugar was placed at center of the table so we can seyourselfsela

The ladies around me were heaping lots of sugar on their coffee. But I added only a little bit of sugar, just the a little bit. On,e lady observe it, then asked, "why are you taking little sugar, don't you like sugar?"

I playfully said, "of course I like sugar as much you guys like sugar, but I'm just baleful so it won't affect my performance...you know what I mean?" I wink at her.

She laughed and said," I definitely know what you mean"

I intentionally carefully release my sugar intake, but that doesn't mean I don't love sugar as muMamanyse ladies love sugar.

Ok, CaveAdullam let say you are in the room with this sexy lady. You are thinking, "Mhen, she's so hot I want really Bleep her."

But she's thinking, "OMG, I'm so into this guy, he's so hot. But I might get pregnant, or he might Bleep me and dump me. Or he might be a Playboy who has other girls he's fucking and he justthesetpsychologicalhe number. Or if I give him the pussy, he might think I'm a cheap slut."

While she's having all this psychologically barriers in her head, when you make a sexual advance, she probably rejects you.
And you'll be wondering, "I thought she's attracted to me, psychologically want to Bleep me?"

has, she wants to Bleep you as much as you want to Bleep her. But you don't have those psychologically barriers, but she have. And that's why she's rejecting your advance, and that's why it seems like she doesn't want to Bleep you as much you want to Bleep her.

Merry Christmas brothers.

4. @bolded is true and that's one of the differences between men and women.

So, if women have this psychological barrier and men don't and can advance to any woman they come across, does that not tell you who will jump into sex readily and who won't?

Well done.

Pukkalolo:
If you’re among the top guys you'd Bleep lots of women (if you want to).

If you’re in the bottom, you’ll get the leftovers.
When I say top guys, I mean men who are either famous, high status, handsome, Highly confident and dominant, or experience Playboy...

Women enjoy fucking as much as guys do. They just don’t enjoy fucking with the bottom guys.

Guys who believe that women don't love sex are probably aren't among the top guys.

I agree.

But just to add some clarification:

1. Men and women enjoy casual mating.

But the emphasis has always been on who engages/loves casual mating MORE.

Or, to rephrase it, who's HIGHER on the scale when it comes to being promiscuous? This has been the bone of contention.

2. Are men tall? Yes.
Are women tall? Yes.
But between males and females who's more taller?

Do men have high IQs? Yes.
Do women have high IQs? Yes.
But whose IQ is higher on gender, population, and demographic scale?

3. You are only looking at it at the average/mean side. That's men and women share almost the same average height and intelligence.

Meanwhile, on the right side of the curve, men are the shortest and dumbest and on the left side, men are of the higher IQ and tallest.

I don't know, but if you are familiar with the bell curve you'll understand better.

4. Now, if women love sex as much as men (which I don't agree with completely) or even more than men, then why same women are not fúcking the bottom men?

Take note: Only <20% of 100% of men are at the apex. >80% of men are dispersed at the middle and bottom unequally.

So, if you say "women don't fvck bottom men" how come they still enjoy sex as much as men? Hope you get what I'm pointing at here.
(I'm not talking about the pleasure side of sex per se but the quantity of sex).

5. Now, men don't have a problem fúcking any kind of woman. As far as she is a woman (aside from his close genetic line) a man will fúck.

Men are not selective when it comes to sex. But women are selective.

Men are selective because they have a shorter life span (ràpe, paedophiliá stems from these reasons - though I'm not in support of it as is illegal and a criminal act). But I'm just trying to point you to the evolutionary details behind it.

Production of millions of sperms also finds its root here.

Women are selective because the cost of pregnancy is high. Raising and nurturing is a difficult game for women. That's why ova is short in supply. And also the reason women are in charge of reproduction and only allocate pússy to the top men.

6. Do women love sex? Yes of course.
Do men love sex? Yes. Yes.

But how do we know who loves sex more?

Without data and statistics as I have provided in a few pages backward, the sex/gender that will fúck at any time is the one that loves sex more.

That man will fúck high, middle, and low women.

And women desire to fúck and reproduce for the top men only. (Women only settle for the men at the middle or bottom level when they don't have any reserving option. It is an internal and eternal punishment for her).

8. So, you can't say women love sex as much as men or even more than when same women will not fúck >80% of the men population.

Meanwhile, all men desire to fúck every woman in the world.


DAY 358, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Up your game. Elevate yourself.

marlow1962:
This Xmas I dy my house dy play my game and smoke my loud, if money for colos come I go buy colos.
This period get as e b for Nigeria, I no go use cus of Xmas waste the one wer dy my hand for unnecessary things cus of enjoyment.

But everywhere good sha.

Normal thing king.

Life is a gradual process. It's not easy anywhere.

Merry Christmas.

Welcome to my brief Ted Talk.

You can let us know which one you picked.

Or, did you pick all?

Merry Christmas.

More here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1602955599658254336?t=K86uzMnshsZzIegiTSt8MA&s=19

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