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An office environment is a place of "useless" politics and maneuvers. Most times, you lose more for less. To survive is to be aware of these maneuvers.

Here:
https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1624002269271187457?t=AuoxL-qZZWf3tDW9YYoUGw&s=19

Dear man, don't be afraid to speak.

Be bold.

Be active and alive.

"Better to be respected than love".

"Better to be feared than disdained".

Apply wisely.

Full gist here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1623730711181070337?t=yq5jbm0qkpww1ORq6dIadw&s=19

JESHAL:
Women are not as intelligent as men, they are infact not intelligent at all, the ones that possess high IQ are dogmatic to indoctrinations and have the capacity to rationalize their delusions , they are good at cramming ( memorizing) , they lack intellectual curiosity like men and can't come up with inventions and innovations, women are Emotional in their innate core, prone to groupthink and herd consensus like religion and Feminism

On average, women are slightly higher than men in intelligence.

On the left side, men are the dumbest. While on the right side of the bell curve, men have higher intelligence(*why men are considered more intelligent than women).

Saying women are not intelligent at all, is incorrect!

Innovations and inventions are performed by a few men and not the majority.

There is no need to twist a known fact to make ours more acceptable.

Alright.

Be active and alive.

"Better to be respected than love".

"Better to be feared than disdained".

Apply wisely.

Full gist here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1623730711181070337?t=yq5jbm0qkpww1ORq6dIadw&s=19

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out, and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job and didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and she's the one that feeds him the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experienced or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But it looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions? I am curious.

"He has that handsome bad boy kind of look".

1. Such aforementioned characteristics are an evolutionary desire that satisfies women's need for protection and provision instinctively. It signifies: confidence, might, adventurousness, courage, and fearlessness. Handsomeness signifies good genes which are tantamount to having quality children.

2. It is expedient that men leverage these characteristics to upgrade their lives and become better individuals, however, deadbeat dads fall on this hill. Their failure can be borne out of procrastination, negligence, low energy, ignorance, socio-economic factors, environment, family background, etc.

3. Women's mistake is that they don't decipher if these signals match the supposed qualities they desire in men. Women are myopic. They don't have the patience to observe and analyze before making a sexual decision, hence, get entangled with the wrong men. It's an evolutionary instinct gone wrong in a modern science and technological age; in the wild, this mistake was minimal. Ditto for men, misconstruing beauty for values and character.

4. When women get engaged to this kind of man, they expect them to perform like good men/leaders, but they are unable or limited. They can't easily sequester themselves from these men because they believe that the man will become relevant in the future, so, they bear every domestic abuse even though the man deteriorates every day. + the women have invested in the relationship by birthing a child or becoming emotionally vulnerable and easily controlled.

5. It's bewildering that women have " nice men" around them but choose "bad boys" because the former doesn't signal evolutionary desires. Remember: women are not patient to observe and analyze, they flow with the waves of their emotions.

6. I have also observed that deadbeat dads and the girls that frolic around them belong to the same circle, community, or environment. High-class women will have lesser deals with deadbeat dads. This is the case of the quotidian in poor communities.

Note: deadbeat dads or bad boys are lesser than the nice guys in the male population.

7. Average humans are under the influence of their emotions. They jump ship without thorough introspection considering both intended and unintended consequences. This results in a series of mistakes and regrets.

8. Women who have low parental protection are the victims of deadbeat guys. Guys without parental leadership and guidance become deadbeats or wayward.

Nice guys lack proper masculine coaching, they don't know where balance exists on the scale, hence, are exploited for their "niceness".

9. This is an evolutionary game going on. To match it (correctly) with our contemporary world we must endeavor to learn and understand human nature. Doing so will enable us to work with our biological and evolutionary wiring.

Thanks.

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1622479188128067585?t=t-KzOGKHk_WEFeOfD8ibFQ&s=19

muizbabatunde:
God bless u

And you too.

There are good women and men around. The problem is the multitudes of bad ones that shift them to an unknown corner and even shame them for their honor. Hence, it becomes difficult for you to access them, as you'll first sort many stúpid individuals before you reached them. This alone can wear you and make you lose hope, you may even settle for the one among the bad eggs because you've wasted enough time and energy sieving without progress.

But if you've identified yourself as a quality man, separate from the multitudes, you'll not settle for less. Quality people always endeavor to obtain quality things and have relationships with people similar to them.

In matters of relationships, it is better to remain in solitude than become tainted with defective behaviors because you seek love and human interaction. Once you become interested in the game, you must be patient and deliberate in your choices. This will minimize your mistakes and enable you to pick the right one.

Thanks.

muizbabatunde:
How can men know when they meet one?

Only when you climb to the summit of a mountain will you be able to see what's on top and below. You can only know such kind of woman when you've refined yourself as a quality person - a man of honor, integrity, and competence. And also cognizant of the feminine nature. At this stage, you unconsciously become a filter that sieves everyone you come across, and in the process, you get the better woman. You can't expect a golden woman when you are not refined and fine-tuned. The best woman only goes for the best men.

If you become this kind of man, you'll only desire people who are like you for a meaningful relationship as others will steer clear from you. Except you become complacent along the way. You'll not make the mistake of choosing the wrong woman. This doesn't mean that the woman you'll get in the end will be perfect; you aren't perfect. However, both of you can work things out together in love and unity as you take control of the wheels, molding her in the right way and manner.

If you find or mold such kind of women:
https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1621897955732033546?t=H-8P27q5U6IvrTNiishxkw&s=19

Eric247:
Good afternoon sir,
I must say I am one of your biggest fans and secret admirer, I wish I could be knowledgeable like you, you have too many insights on various subjects regarding to the affairs of life ranging from politics, religion, human nature, education, female nature, finance, self improvement, you are a great man with abundance of wisdom, I read and re-read every of your articles every week, they give me inspiration, root me in reality, nuance my world view, like pls can you list materials on the various subjects of human affairs you covered that I listed, I want to operate in wisdom like you, when I'm depressed I read your posts, when I'm idle I read your post, you might not know this but asides my faith in God through his holy Bible your words are my second companion and adviser, the same way Martinez39 helped me to battle my sexual addiction with his words on glycolysis forum, you are my anonymous helper, I really love and admirer you, I wish I could meet with you in person to see such a great man, you deserve respect, honor and accolades, asides saving men from simping you are making us understand masculinity and it's complementation with feminity, you are not just after our sexual success but you are educating us on the complete side of male nature, I read your work like gospel that I find having great bearing with my current reality, the other aspect of your work forces me to think and nuances my understanding with regards to life affairs.

Keep up your good work
God bless you.

Thank you chief. These accolades can "belleful" me for 10,000 years. I do appreciate your kind words.

Set your mind to seek for truth regardless of where it leads you and you'll find the truth. According to your Bible: seek and you shall find, knock and the door shall be opened, ask and you shall receive.

If you want to get better, have someone you hold so strong in your imagination that's better than you. You may not know a person accurately, however, a chicken doesn't roam far from home. Use that person as a benchmark to check and refine yourself.

Let's keep aside, whether God exists or not. If God becomes the person you look up to, you'll get refined daily, not in the aspect of salvation to gain eternal life to avoid hellfire but to live eternal life on earth. There are many Atheists and Agnostics that live purer lives than the religious. This is a simple way to overcome addictions.

The question should be: "will my mentor masturbate? Will he spend all day binging on porn? Will he complain rather than work? What if my mentor just enter this place and see me lollygagging?" These are some of the questions you must constantly ask yourself as you thrive toward ascendancy.

It's not easy, what matters is your willingness to change and continue till your last breath. Nobody in the world has it all or above temptation. Every person has a trauma to contend with. Your progress is all that matters regardless of the delay along the way.

Once you discover the person you want to become, the way will gradually open as you'll see the materials or people that have also helped that person.

E.g
Jordan Peterson admires Frederich Nietzsche, Frederich Nietzsche admires Fyodor Dotyevsky and the list goes like that.

If you follow the rope, you'll pick interesting materials or books that suit your pursuit. The sieve will be on your hand. Don't be afraid, as far as you seek truth, you'll not miss it in this life, provided you are ready to learn, unlearn and relearn.

Every books I read are interesting. I will be bias in my selection. They include:

1. Holy Bible.

2. Counte of Monte Cristo.

3. Robert Greene's books.

4. Rollo Tomassi's books.

5. Life of Pi.

6. Educated.

7. Endurance.

8. When breathe become air.

9. Crime and punishment.

10. Fate of empire.

Follow the following on Twitter:
@tellyoursonthis
@MrPossidez
@John_d_doe
@baba_cave

So far, on nairaland: Pansophist, musicwriter, Ubunja, martinez39s(he's kinda on a sabbatical unlike those days he spends much time writing). Quora, Reddit, and Youtube should become your best friends.

The aforementioned (books and people) are not the best, however, they can be your guarding angel as you move toward the throne of God.

Thanks.

tensazangetsu20:
Abeg gurus I wan ask o. My girlfriend's birthday is coming up soon and I offered to cook for her on that special day I have been having second thoughts about doing it. Does a man cooking for a lady make him a simp? Please help before I do something I regret

"I know say you be craze person".

There's nothing wrong with cooking for her as a surprise on her birthday, provided you don't include cooking as part of your role.

If you know your game well, start when she's around, and be romantic. She may end up cooking the food.

As part of the feminine nature, she'll test your frame, to see if you'll cook subsequently, or even include laundry and cleaning, on that note, you must refuse. Those are not your roles.

As a husband, I don't expect my wife to provide for me, but I expect her willingness to help me cater for the home. Similarly, like the appearance of a black swans under the blue moon..."daddy's food is sweeter than mummy's food".

Happy birthday to your girlfriend. May she live long.

Thanks.

PS: I'm neither a redpill guru nor an alpha male.

Here:
https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1620111277900304384?t=ihRaWnVEnSFUpsGtL9DQVw&s=19

luminouz:
Hey Guys!!!!




Thanks for all the mentions.

*A pill a day keeps the simp-fever away*

"Come and narrate your whereabouts. Where you go?

Skepticus jux creep in like that like that. I just dey look baba with one eye like this.

CAPSLOCKED, where are thou? Abi Jesus don finally catch you? Martinez39s, come and answer.

Herbswork I see you. More growth.

Na Tonnyray remain".

SavageBoy:
For a fact, coding is hard. But you saying coding is tougher than medicine is WRONG.

Why do you think folks who were known as the most intelligent in secondary school often get humbled by medicine? And many of them even struggle not to be kicked out of med school.

No matter how complex machine learning as a field is, its complexity is nothing compared to a field like neurosurgery or cardiology.

Why is the path to becoming a doctor a long and rigorous one? Why aren't doctors made in 9 months to 2 years?

You're just an advanced learner in this thing called coding. You must have learned one or two during your self-taught coding journey.

All you have to do is just encourage complete newbies never to come with a mindset that coding is an easy-peasy get-rich-quick scheme.

And like Caveadullam once said in his post. Anything hard can be made simple by increasing the amount of time you spend learning that thing. It's true with coding and medicine.

1. The simplicity or complexity of a matter has different sides.

To a man who has taken his time to understand complex material, that complex material becomes simple.

To a man that is unfamiliar with that complex material, that material is complex and confusing.

2. It comes down to understanding whether the f material is simple or complex by popular consensus. There are some things that by popular consensus are easy, but, difficult for the average or dumb man. It is no longer a matter of if that material is inherently complex or simple but the capacity of the learner.

3. Here comes IQ. Most people downplay the effect of IQ until it becomes difficult to cross a mark. This doesn't indicate that those with Low IQs, can't achieve better performance if they put in the work; the fact is that they will struggle hard, and only a few of them will succeed especially when it comes to STEM.

4. The STEM field is hard, a tough struggle, and only fit for those with high IQs. Even intelligent people struggle with many scientific and technological sectors, not to talk of low IQs. The people that hit it big in programming/coding within 6months - 1 year are those with two or all of the following:
A. High IQ.
B. Good environment for learning and support.
C. Easy access to top programmers.
D. Mentors from day 1.
E. Money.
F. Free time.
G. Early internship.

High IQ will struggle if environmental and socioeconomic factors are not taken care of. And harder for those with low IQ.

5. What the Op said is correct. You are correct too. Programming is no child's play according to experts and those proficient in the game. To succeed in this game, put aside making it big in the next 6 months - 1 year. Invest much time and be patient. With constant practice and investment, you too will break through.

6. Whether medicine or computer programming, STEM is hard. But you can succeed if you choose to + being favored by luck and chance.

Thanks.

1. If you say they are "horsebands", I get the point. But to say "they lack empathy is a twist of facts and reality".

Ok. Let's go.

Persephone1:
"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy, and kindness.

2. Genuine love means the tendency to go beyond your boundary and make sacrifices for the person you desire. This can cause you pain and loss, however, you don't care because you are obsessed with this person - your lover.

3. Firstly, is there anything like genuine love?

"Genuine" becomes attached to "love" when the sacrifice of one lover supersedes the other. Or, when both are working together and reciprocating the benefits they gain from each other, albeit, unequal.

There's nothing like "genuine love".

Though, we may want to cancel the aforementioned by introducing religion: God and his worshippers, and nature: a mother and her child.

It seems genuine because both God and the mother are stronger and wiser. They cater for the ones beneath them because they are weak. However, if this relationship between them can tarry amid sin and old age, it would have been "pure genuine love". But this is not the case. In the end, God wants stainless worship and the mother wants to be taken care of in old age. Their present sacrifice is speculation of reciprocity in the future.

4. Empathy and kindness are easy byproducts of "genuine" love, even outside the sexual relationship.

Take note: there is nothing like Nigerian men or Nigerian women. Men are men. Women are women. There will always be tinctures that tend to differentiate them in their behaviors, but these are just social behaviors, that sprout from their culture, tradition, background, etc. To get the full scope of "men are men" and "women are women", you must begin to microscopically examine them from their evolutionary behavior, biochemical makeup, and physical and psychological makeup. Now you don't judge from one demography, you conclude by judging men and women from different demographics.

5. Constant weddings keep churning weekly. Men in their hordes still complain about being manipulated and losing their money.

Young women still see young men without luxury as useless (of course, they are useless to women in the grand scheme of the reproductive game).

Weak men who plead for love aka "simps" still abound.

This evidence questions your take on their level of empathy, kindness, and genuine love. If they were absent, it wouldn't have been the case.

6. To date, (Nigerian) men are still proving their love for (Nigerian) women. Empathy, genuine love, and kindness are famous in men's corridors. They may be suppressed, but for the women they love, it manifests.

7. Meanwhile, men don't marry women they hate. But a woman can deceive a man into marrying her even if she doesn't love him. It is a psychological and evolutionary game.

Persephone1:
Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

8. I agree.

But as stated above, relationship is a transaction, love is the currency. It is less mechanical because both love themselves and fight to stay above the odds or see each other not as tools but rather, as an unequal useful pair.

9. Let me tell you, it is women and children that benefit not the man. The man holds a greater power because he's able to provide and protect for his family. What's his benefit there?

10. Women cook and clean, a role that can easily be reversed and given to a maid for lesser amount and problems. But can the woman wake up one morning and pick any man that will commit? No.

You may think that this is the reason women should become independent and have their money. Yet if she gets married, she desires the man to meet up with his primal duties. In egalitarian societies, there are still sexual differences.

11. The benefits men derived are evolutionary. The benefits women derived are evolutionary, physical, material, and emotional.

Persephone1:
Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately, they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko file eko ni" (Your husband's house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavorable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for a young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange, unknown,wn, and possibly unfavorable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons? Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either? To understand another person there must be a certain level of self-awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believes all she needs to be is a good cook and good kanji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.

12. You are correct.

What you must understand is that the average human is under the control of their primal instincts. Despite our evolved environment, that hunter-gatherer instinct wired in us for thousands of years still got a loud mouth and a loudspeaker.

It takes self-awareness to understand another person, only then will you be able to reach reasonable conclusions about people and not fall into feuds daily.

13. Based on their nature and environment, cooking and cleaning were the appropriate ways to get their number 1 priority, which was to get married to a man that will fulfill their needs. In the same way, "horsebands" work hard to provide for their wives.

These were the thought of 99.9% of women even to date. The reason you are objecting is because of the rapid change in our environment, level of exposure, and information consumed.

14. However, there is a need for women to understand themselves before even choosing a man. Here the importance of a father and mother becomes imminent, to guard, lead and counsel her in the way of men and the operations of the world.

Persephone1:
Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to possess is the Financial ability to provide.

15. Financial resources are not all they need, however, come first on the list of what they should possess before getting married.

Finance is important for his personal growth and development.

Without finance, he will be ridiculed.

Without finance, no one will respect him.

Women want commitment, finance signals that. This is what women consider before marriage.

16. Intelligence, personality, wisdom, kindness, empathy, confidence, and braveness comes second. If women chase this second bag in men, many wouldn't have been baby mamas/single mothers who complain about deadbeat dads; finance may not be obvious for this reason, but there was the mystery of it. They made the mistake of choosing wrongly.

Persephone1:
The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy, kindness, self-care, sense of belonging, or self-love

17. These personalities may be suppressed due to circumstances at a particular time, but for the average man, these personalities are quotidian in their domain. You just need to observe the way they treat their loved ones and the people around them.

Persephone1:
but burdened with a sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic-minded, unable to connect emotionally without aid

18. Women or not, men must provide, either for their family or themselves. It is because of this eternal burden to provide that makes them dwell less in the emotional domain. That emotional plane is for women because nobody expects much from them.

Men must either provide or create or else, be considered a nuisance. A bigger nuisance if he opts out of the game because he will first be disrespected and later die of hunger.

Persephone1:
yet these men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, society (Men and Women) mocks them. Aside from this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by society.

19. To be sincere, all men desire in a woman is teachableness, smartness, boldness and being able to fulfill her common role: nurturing, cleaning, and cooking.

Woke and independent women going off the scale find a problem with men since in the long run, men aren't willing to comply.

Many men are sheep though.

Persephone1:
We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections bring liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, and he gets to do with her what he seems best and not what is good for her. We have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horse bands [/i] 😡🤬

20. For the record, men don't marry women they hate. The cost of a wedding ceremony and running a family is too risky a task to treat a woman wrongly. Disagreements will always arise but they wouldn't get to the point it will erase his love for her except otherwise.

21. It is left for the woman to do a thorough job on the man she decides to submit to. Women make mistakes in selecting the wrong men and cry cats and dogs when these men aren't what they bargained for.

Thanks.

Cc. Emmaodet, Hedgefunds, Reminderz

1. The generation of weak parents is already reproducing a generation of weaker children. The weaker generation will reproduce children softer than an egg white.

2. We are in a generation of parents who ignore questionable characters in their children. Some don't even mind if their wards are into various social vices or are criminals, provided they contribute to the family. Parents can't even stand toe-to-toe with their kids. No counseling and guidance. Thereby creating empty children who wander in this evil world to fill a disturbing internal void.

3. Even an innocent man is being questioned for his integrity and competence. Arrogance, stupidity, laziness, and hedonism are contemporary. Worst if he is poor and doesn't have any luxuries. He's like a sheep amidst goats. The odd one who's ridiculed for his sound standard and principles.

4. Humans are hypocritical. We keep soiling our hands and keep asking why our linens are stained. We know the right thing to do, however, our inclination towards pleasures, materialism, luxury, and money takes the upper part of our hearts and renders us slaves to our lusts and primal instincts.

5. Children these days are copy-and-paste kids. Ignore them at your peril. The parents who don't take care of their kids and mark their territory will see their kids used as experimental specimens in decayed labs.

Anyway, the criminal and his package should be well prepared for the guillotine. Men that think with their d!cks don't go far in life.

Sigh.

Loyalty is a serious matter in relationships. Genuine people abound, but not without a mask.

Here:https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1618519509274603520?t=kPtWHaNbgVH6xltMZcPvog&s=19

Here: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1618519509274603520?t=kPtWHaNbgVH6xltMZcPvog&s=19

adambeatz:
Guy, if u dey into tech already, assurance cover you

"How I go fit take get the assurance like Chioma na"

Good morning.

0neal:
Sir Cave

Please do you still have the back door link to access Z-library?

I need two books
1. The energy paradox
2. Longevity paradox
Both written by Dr Steven Gundry

You can send the link to my mail taientneal@yahoo. com

Thanks

Use tor browser. The links are still working.

Thanks.

If you don't like fish, don't taste fish oil.

You are an adult. Own your decisions with full chest. You've listed the downsides of marriage, which stimulated your decisions and they are valid.

Since you are a Christian, you must have read that passage that said "better to remain single than married". There's no problem with your undertakings.

Don't fret. Don't be cajoled. Because if you do, your husband and children will feel painful pangs from your end. Except otherwise.

If the disturb gets too much, you can choose an inaccessible location.

However, I hope this is not a coping mechanism. Not that you'll cry in the corner of the bedroom and come form a terminator online. Or, start screaming men are scum and how no man wants you, or how men are after your money instead of love in the future.

Stay well, dear sister.

adambeatz:

I got a call from a longtime friend who needed my help as their IT guy in their office packed up and left, everything crashed and everyone they brought in can't solve the problems on ground. I went to their office in wuse and after a meeting with their CEO i proceeded to their IT department and omoh their equipments were up to date. The setups alone were worth millions, but one of the supervisors told me he had to setup the cctv camera as i work. I told him no problem.

After going through their network security, cyber and all i discovered the former IT guy is a guru. He had locked everything and setup a failsafe that should anyone attempt anything their backups would self erase, i was like which kain devil be this but i was equal to the task and after hours of work i was able to get everything up and running. I also found out the guy had set a keylogger into their systems(for those that know what it is) and all their systems from the day he started working till now. I submitted my findings to the CEO, he told me kindly wait so he could make some calls.

I spent the next 2 hours within the office observing the staffs and discovered the environment toxic die, after some few conversations i heard millions were moved from the company's account and no one knew how come. Later on the CEO sent someone to call me and when i entered his office i met some police officers and narrated what i found out, thats when the CEO came clean that 37million was gone after he left and they needed to find out how. I said omoh me I've done my part so pay me up lemme go. An officer among them told me i had to keep in touch with them cause of the ongoing investigation, i told him "oga, i dont have any business with you guys, ive done my part and don't want to dive deeper into whats happening". The officer started flexing his mouth muscles telling me if i don't have any thing to hide why should i not keep in touch with them. I then remembered someone came in to set up a cctv camera, i told them to excuse me, i went to fetch it and told them this is a recording of all my activities, after much indirect threats and side talks i said if I'm going to be in contact i would be paid for my time, ill get my own lawyer who they'll speak with and ill get my own people involved.

I had a stubborn dss guy who i knew in lagos back then but was also in abuja, i quickly stepped out put him on call and begged him to come.

After an hour he arrived fully kitted and ready for nonsense, i explained what happened, he then proceeded converse with the officers and CEO. A funny thing happened in my front, one of the police guys and my guy vibed then i quickly sighted them anchoring themselves, na there i know say my matter dn settle. After that scene guy man proceeded to make friends with some of the female staff exchanged numbers with like 3 of them and then told me lets leave, i collected my pay and we went out.

When outside i split the pay into half and gave me, then asked him "guy wetin happen" he told me thank God for the guy that setup the camera recordings and one of the officer na en guy man. I was like guy uno tell me say u na strong man he said who strong man epp, no be to cashout man dey find.

Guy man called me the next day that he has gotten a girlfriend from the office, she even paid him a visit, he enjoyed himself and booked appointment for 2nd round. He's happy cause she's the one doing all the spending and shishi no comut from him hand.

All within a space of 3days.

"Bros Come teach me work na. Abeg"

PS: From the story, lesson learned.

Thanks.

Predictable unpredictability.

Here:
https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1617565344033300480?t=hNk8rvxDHQAN_DBecchYag&s=19

Should in case you missed it: https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1617063923827748864?t=OpIc_WodZNnUJicOtvZAMg&s=19

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1. All that I pray daily is to get relief from work and have time to be chatting and chasing women on their DMs. Because you guys got a lot of time at hand, and become bothered that a lady doesn't pay you enough attention. Gosh!

They aren't as jobless as you man. They are busy hustling either by hook or crook. You are a distraction.

2. All women have that 1 man they have a genuine desire for. Or, strong romantic feelings for. The man may be poor, broke, rich, tall, short, ugly, handsome et al. That's their business, not yours.

3. Even virgin women and prostitutes have a crush/boyfriends. Immediately puberty sets in, estrogen and progesterone start doing the Lord's work.

4. You can cajole her by being seductive or throwing wads of cash on her roofs. She'll fall for you depending on the amount of pressure you applied and how well you used it.

5. However, she'll never feel you. She'll never go the extra mile for you. She'll never be submissive to you. She'll take a walk out the door when your leaves turn brown.

6. Of course, sex is what you wanted and you got it. But what about the resources, time, and energy you used in chasing and fvcking her? In the end, if you're truthful to yourself, and do a proper analysis you'll discover that you wasted your time chasing the wind.

7. This is the same woman that will use her two legs to go to her lover's house without being invited and get fvcked mercilessly. And after the tryst, will thank him. But here you are acting like a little puppy.

8. It's easier to get beautiful women. But you guys want to see down in your ghettos and get one for yourselves. If wishes were horses.

How do you get them?

It is simple.

For you to get women and not get frightened in interacting and dealing with them put yourself in a place women are abundant.

If you want beautiful hot women frequent the club.
Intelligent women; visit the library often.
Religious women; don't fail to attend Jumaat or Sunday service.

Anywhere women are plentiful position yourself there and 1 woman will choose you.

And make sure you do your homework.

9. Jumping from DM to DM trying to force words out of women is a contributing factor to their entitlement mentality and mono-syllabic reply. The woman that chooses you and finds you interesting will be all over you.

You guys have much time to waste. Precious time that makes me envious.

Mtcheeeew.

chiefolododo:
Nonsense...iNEC is independent. If these people continue, one day Nigerians will wake up and start burning them one by one

1. This man just gets it. You get it.

Nigerians are still suffering because they have not reached their breaking point, that point when they've been pushed to the wall and have nowhere to turn to but to fight or die.

Death is imminent but why not die in the struggle for survival than being idle, weak, poor, manipulated, and dumb?

2. Nigerians have a way of managing and maneuvering. If it gets bad, they can succumb to an ugly situation; if it gets worse, they move to bad; if it gets worst, they move to worse.

Because of this ability to be flexible in dire situations, Nigerians don't know the level of their penury. They are literally in an abyss. Until they reach that death ground where the knife is on their neck to rip off their gullets, they will not move an inch but keep adapting to higher levels of pain and predicament.

3. Nigerians fall easily for politicians. Why shouldn't they? After being romanced and punished by poverty and neglect, any slight of hope, promise or stipend becomes enticing like gold not minding if they are plunging further into the abyss.

4. The power of politicians is the divide and conquer strategy by using tribal differences and the security arm. Meanwhile, as a group, we are million times larger than them and can bring them to their toes. However, the politicians have captured their minds with fear while dangling the carrot before them.

5. Until the peasants rise, their oppressors will continue to extend their boundaries.

Kudos.

You need incentives to keep moving here:
https://twitter.com/baba_cave/status/1616358931479019523?t=2E5Ycafp5PaerVZrJIjr6g&s=19

Paygram1:
Yes sir.

Do you have reservations about that?

Send me your email address. Or, check my signature and send an email.

Thanks.

Paygram1:
Good morning Kings. As we all know, the Redpill movement is about Money, Status and Game. I have been here since the begin of this thread and it has revolve my thinking.

I had issue sometime ago, and this community showed concerns for me. I appreciate CaveAdullum and Adambeatz especially.

Right now, I'm on a path to financial freedom and it has been difficult. I have skills in trading the financial markets but no capital. So I decide to use the opportunity available to me.

I'm surrounded with travel agents as family members, some have be doing this for almost 18 years now.
If I get clients for them, I will be commission a token.

I just created the thread down below, and I am very certain of everything written there.
https://www.nairaland.com/7533098/experience-journey-lifetime-us#120210298

Please, if you want to travel or you have friends and family members, please recommend me.
This will go a long way for me.

Thank you. Stay kings!

Travelling agent right?

Good day.