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Oyindamolah:So, treat your employees right, competence, patience, resume early, do useful activities during leisure, no to office romance, look good, obey your superior, learn, make corrections, have standards, manage your resources, respect your cleaners, respect your clients...cannot work in sole proprietorship (one-man business) right? Indeed it is surprising. Y'all just want to respond or perhaps counter without the ability in parsing sentences or having an understanding of nuance(s). Have a nice day. |
virginboy1:Thanks for your kind words man, I see them everywhere. I do appreciate it. |
MITCHELL96:Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it. |
Hahjascho:Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it. |
Fantazy:This is no justification for your 1-2 digits IQ comparable to each hour of the day. Maybe 24 Mb IQ points space i.e 1MB/hour brain processing ability. Don't be the stupid and jealous same time. There are enough plagiarism tools to verify the post. Or, better still, copy and paste on the Google search engine to verify if it is copy and paste or plagiarised. Go through my posts here, they are my track records. Anyway, your intelligence is poor and low, no need to bother. For the fact that some herds are liking your post...it sucks. Birds of the same feather. Have a nice day. |
1. Be competent. 2. Give no room for complacency; it will be used against you in the future. 3. Always go with the required tools or materials for work. 4. By all means avoid excuses; it will give you might to challenge anyone who wants to use their lackadaisical attitude to limit you. 5. Don't argue with your boss. Answer yes! 6. Suggest ideas to your boss why praise him. Your boss doesn't need your ideas by the way. 7. You can't change an already established system, you are there for the money, work for it and get out. 8. Respect your senior colleagues, if not, they will work against you. 9. Respect your junior colleagues, they can make work faster and run some shitty games for you. 10. Respect the janitors and other staff not directly connected to the activities of the business. They will help you someday. Tip them from time to time. They can defend you at the right moment. 11. Respect your clients or customers. Falling on the wrong side will either affect your profits or salary. 12. Customers and clients want praise. Saturate them with it. It takes nothing from you, just mere words. 13. Don't argue with your boss or superior. Doing the opposite will help him spot loopholes in your line of work and use them against you. 14. Learn how to defend yourself especially when you make mistakes. Explain yourself rather than apologize. You need competence to pull this string though. 15. Don't separate yourself from your colleagues, work with them so that you'll get a glimpse of what's going on. 16. Maintain your standard. Don't be cajoled into any nonsense. This sends a message to your colleagues that you are different and can't easily be fooled. 17. Office romance must be avoided. If you don't have the mental fortitude and deceptiveness to pull office romance, forget it. 18. Always do your work on time and finish on time. 19. Use free time to do other useful activities. It can be within or outside your scope of work. E.g reading, writing, teaching, etc. 20. Only argue with your boss when that month is the last you will be working with him. 21. Always pay homage to your superior's superior. This person will help you when you experience friction with your current superior or boss. E.g Manager, Founder, President of the organization. 22. Put yourself in a position where you can't easily be replaced. Only competence and great skill can help you here. 23. Learn to cover your mistakes and quickly correct them. Nobody loves a clumsy worker. 24. Be passionate about your work. If you are not, you will make foolish mistakes along the way. 25. Don't leave your current job because of anticipation of another job that you have not secured fully. Except you have big savings though. 26. Even if you don't like your boss or work, just do your assigned role and work your way out. 27. If a promotion doesn't come easily don't do extra work. 28. Extra work will make your boss use you as a beast of burden. Protect your competence from exploitation. 29. If you are not paid for extra work, feigned laziness. But do your assigned role perfectly. 30. Take corrections and learn. Despite your competence, you can't be perfect. 31. Be patient. 32. Be good-looking. Dress fine. Wear clean shoes. Wear a good necklace. Wear a good wristwatch. Wear good bracelets. They don't need to be expensive at all; hardly anyone will ask you for their costs. 33. Don't beg your colleagues for food and money. There can be a show of love through the giving and receiving of gifts. But make sure you don't beg. Learn to manage your resources. 34. Learn to resume on time. 35. Not everybody can become an entrepreneur. Employees must respect the ethics of their work. And employers must treat employees well because they are the backbone of the organization, and if they connive together, they can bring the organization down in a moment. Thanks. |
pansophist:You have come again with some ballistic missiles. Hahahaha |
DAY 192, REDPILL 2022 Simping will not end if you constantly endeavor to make everything right with her before she can be happy. Once she knows this she will constantly seek an ego boost even though you have done well. It is a RELATIONship for a reason i.e both relate together, mingle, and intertwine to create the best for themselves and project towards their goal. Withdrawal of one party along the way is possible. You must plan as if you are the only one on this journey despite the presence of your partner. This is to ensure that you don't get paralyzed on the spot when you get shocked by their withdrawal. People change. Things change. Circumstances change. Men change. Women change. Children change. Government change. Society change. Culture and traditions change. Policies change. As a man, you must plan and calibrate your desires with the mindset that everything is subject to change, including you and your partner. Create room for this change so that you can be able to turn around and move forward to your desired goal when changes occur. Authority: Always be on guard. Do not trust until trust is proven - it must be proved daily. |
DAY 191, REDPILL 2022 Simping starts when you think you can't do without her. And this is when her manipulations, arrogance, and entitlement begin. Authority: Value yourself. Don't be a simp! |
DAY 190, REDPILL 2022 You don't build a relationship by incessant phone calls. You don't build a relationship by superfluous texts and chats. You don't build a relationship with an abundance of dates and flowers. You don't build a relationship with a rush of gifts. You don't build a relationship with a flood of apologies. Calls, texts, chats, dates, gifts, and apologies are mere icing. Commitment, value, and incentives are how the relationship is built and sustained. There must be provision, appreciation, and reciprocation of all these. Authority: Avoid ingrates for they are pretentious fools. |
omotoso1989:Well, it's your "own personal opinion" and it is just fine. And to you and your confederates, women are your enemies, but as far as the redpill is concerned, men and women are complements. To love women and not see them as your enemy is to understand their nature and leverage upon it. Intersexual dynamics is a game, learn to play and win. Get outta the rage stage man! |
DAY 189, REDPILL 2022 Men always get shocked in the future when they get a glimpse of the dark side of their spouses because upfront they wanted to commit and own her early. And this attitude can be a result of a lack of abundance mindset, deceit, rejection, and fear of solitude. Authority: Be smart. |
1. They always call themselves "redpillers" to justify any of their "simpish" behavior. Meanwhile, the redpill always advises that a man should put himself first and not run along any course that's detrimental to his life because of a woman. 2. If you are not ready for marriage, don't give the girl and her family hope for it. Look at it two ways: a. Your mother doesn't want you to get married now because of the expenses you run for them, getting married will hinder you from catering to them well. b. Your intended father/mother-in-law wants you to get married to their daughter because probably you will be the one to sponsor her higher academic education and other family expenses. 3. In our contemporary day and age, love is not only determined by romantic feelings and Disneyland tales. The relationship is affected by politics, economics, and the overall zeitgeist. If you don't plan well, you may end up regretting your actions in the nearest future. So, you need not allow yourself to fall into these various forms of persuasions cum manipulations. 4. You are obsessed with this woman, and as a supposed "redpiller" you ought to know that you are making the wrong decision. 5. After marriage what next? Remember that expenses will triple in marriage. What are your plans and backup plans? Will she continue with her skill and upgrade or will you start sponsoring her higher academic education? Do you want to establish a business for her and raise a family in concatenation with that? 6. What are your plans exactly? You got prospects and ambitions, and all of them are about going down the drain because you deflowered an an18-year-old woman. Fvck! Yuck! 7. Tell them you are not ready for marriage and spell it boldly before their eyes. If she wants to wait and build with you fine, provided both of you choose to be loyal to each other and not just mere casual relationship flings and swings. If she decides to stay fine. If she decides to leave fine. But make sure you take a stand and don't get coerced into what you are not interested in and prepared for. 8. As a man, you lose more in marriage. The only plausible reason for it whether monogamy or polygamy is to watch your genetic line metamorphose into a strong dynasty. 9. Be careful man. And make sure you go study the red pill thoroughly. Have a nice day. Thanks. |
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CAPSLOCKED:Only one person. "Haba na" + uppercase fonts in red..."na wa o" Luminouz "haff" corrupted you. Anyway, comrade, increase the "vawulence". "Taanchu". |
Seniorwriter:What about communicating via email? |
Seniorwriter:Let me send a friend request now. |
Seniorwriter:I sent the PM via messenger. |
Seniorwriter:Yes. |
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Seniorwriter:I'm ready. germaneson@gmail.com |
Seniorwriter:Good day. I already sent a PM on Facebook. I await your response. Thanks. |
heartofcity12:1. Women have three lives: private(sexual, lustful, dark side), public(obvious, real, innocent, angelic), and fake(social media, friends, simps). 2. Like women, every other human has different masks they put on for each occasion every day. Take for example our bodies: it is full of scars, but in a fine dress people appreciate us while remaining oblivious to the scars The dress is a mask. The belly cover is a mask. The head is a mask. Our characters and attitudes are masks. 3. The secrets of her private life are for her knowledge alone and the men she allows access to in terms of sex or trust or both. A1. The man who can unleash her from her sexual bondage and takes her to the edge is the man who is aware of this side. A2. The man who's not judgmental about her sexual side because both of them have similar experiences is the man she can trust and can relate with - both may or may not fvck. B. The other group of persons who are aware of this private life is other women in the sisterhood, they are like the men she trusts because they share something in common: similar sexual escapades. C. To know about her sexual side she must trust you and you must be appealing sexually or share similar escapades. Why is this important? a. Trust means you will not reveal her secret to those who only know about her two other lives. b. Not being judgmental means she can have leeway to explore to the fullest with no hindrance in sight. c. Guys love to KISS AND TELL because fvcking women are like conquering a warrior (see this from an evolutionary perspective as a result of the costly nature of a woman's egg). On the other hand, women hate KISS AND TELL because it signifies that they are fallen warriors. It means they are cheap. It means their value has reduced. It means a drop in suitors rate. 4. Real life is the one her neighbors, family members, and CLOSE FRIENDS are aware of. That is, the religious angelic innocent good looking girl. a. She is the obedient girl. The girl wears tattered clothes and wrappers in the neighborhood. The girl without make-up. b. 99% of the time she's on this mode because most times she's around these people. She has established her character and behaviors that blend perfectly with this life and people have become aware of it. Do you know the importance of this? bi. It will make these people come to her defense when any accusation is raised against her. bii. It makes these people doubt her private life when there is any tiny revelation about it. viii. Redpill says AWALT( All Women Are Like That) but these people(Bluepill) always counter with NAWALT( Not All Women Are Like That). Both the red pill and blue pill draw their conclusion as a result of these lives. biv. Both are correct. But AWALT is more correct. NAWALT believes every woman will act in the SAME WAY ALL THE TIME. But that's not what the red pill says in AWALT. AWALT means every woman has that TENDENCY to act in the SAME WAY under the right condition, place, and with the right person. To simply: Every human has that tendency to eat but not every human eats at every sight of food. However, all humans eat because hunger and food are positively correlated and hardwired into their psyche. 5. The social media life is the one she portrays from the confinement of her locality, outside her locality, or WITH HER FRIENDS - NOT CLOSE FRIENDS. Refer to 4 above. a. It is this social media life that she used in tracking and trapping simps and thirsty men. This is because one can manufacture different social lives in different styles within a short period, and it is very fast. The second reason: social media is ubiquitous and accessible to many people in many different localities. b. As a result of this effect of social media, she can easily amplify her lifestyle, leverage it, and accrue her wants/needs. c. The effect of social media is the bolstering of the entitlement mentality. Because she can be able to amplify herself via social media and latch upon men who are not cognizant of her other two lives. d. Because of this social media use, she develops a sense of grandiosity. Arrogance is here. The misdemeanor is here. Contemptuousness is here. A lack of poor character is here. Lack of accountability is here. No sense of responsibility is here. No development is here. Pride is here. HYPER-hypergamy is here. e. If she looks down on men it is because she leverages social media use. Simps and thirsty men are helping with the amplification because they are unaware of her other lives, and if they know they will no longer accord her the usual respect she garners from nothing. f. When she meets other women who happen to be her friends and accomplice she maintains this life because it is a game of testing who has a good social media advantage over the other. 6. Women then misconstrue this social media advantage as REAL VALUE. Remember: women are status sensitive. So, if they can engage a king, automatically, they become queens even though they lack the prerequisites and materials needed for sustaining an empire. 7. They judge other men low because these men are not up to the standard of the men they frolic with. 8. Men are judged by their achievements. While women are judged by the caliber of men that are committed to them. No matter how big or rich a woman becomes, she needs a man, a high-value man, and society will first judge her using this yardstick. It is because of this reason she uses her proximity to high-value men to judge other men. 9. Since women can act this way, it means they can fool anyone who wants to hinder them be it Father, brother, husband, shepherd, or tyrant. For this reason, necessary quality parenting and leadership are important in the lifecycle of a woman. And with it plus her willingness to cooperate, she can display her best. Men don't care about a woman's status, provided she oozes feminity and she is smart. To end this note: DAY 188, REDPILL 2022 Authority: Don't buy into women's propaganda, develop yourself because of yourself and your love for humanity. (However, women always seem to be effective catalysts to achieving this aim). Cc. Tonnyray, JESHAL, DEMZEE, Martinez39s
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yinkbell:Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it. My registered email is open, you can send a DM. Thanks. |
1. Humans will always find rationalizations to counter their errors and lack of accountability, and among humans, it is common with the female specie. Men shut the fvck up when they messed up, but for women, to maintain that angelic innocent facade they sell to others they must rationalize. It is to save face and avoids punishment - an evolutionary instinct though. 2. Don't promise a woman marriage and later disappoint. Pronounce marriage until you are ready! Don't say it from the beginning as this will grant her an opportunity to either behave wrongly or mask her nemesis. Just keep courting her, and if she is found worthy, you commit. 3. Withdraw that hope of marriage right now and call her to books, inform her of nonchalance, and poor character. She won't submit to a weak man, so it is expedient that you don't commit to a woman like her. Simple! 4. Removing that hope will save you a lot of disaster in the future: she may come for your head when you disappoint her in the future in regards to marriage, so you should end the relationship today on a good note. It may even help her in getting hold of another man, but certainly not you because you have freed yourself from her troubles. 5. She is for the street, let her go! Thanks. |
1. Calm down man. It is not easy anywhere in the world, especially in Africa, and Nigeria. But we do think it's always greener on the other side of the fence. 2. The economic and political terrain has been ruffled by corrupt leaders and politicians, hence, the current problem we are facing. Now we all can understand that it is not doing what makes you happy but what is the right thing. 3. The exacerbation of our predicament is also due to the prevalence of social media, we see the few successful people making headlines, all of the news and in every post and we do think we are failures. The reality is that these few people gained success either by chance, hard work, or charity from friends and family. 4. As a result of the effect of social media on the economic state of the nation, fraudulent activities have taken over, now a teenager who doesn't measure up to your level of intellect and exposure is the one now dictating the tune of the piper. It is a sad reality. 5. As humans, we only have a tiny control over how our lives go. But many do think that we can get whatever we desire by positive thinking and working hard all day. Though, there are some truths in the statement but not the whole truth. A. You don't have control over the country you will be born. B. You don't have control over your genetics. C. You don't have control over your government. D. You don't have control over the economy; you can't dictate peoples' buying and selling tendencies. The market is way emotional. E. You can't dictate the legislature. F. You don't choose your family, and can't even control them to the extent you want. G. Different things cumulate and they are the deciding factors of our lives; our decisions and positive thinking are all that we have got to manage ourselves amidst the changes and storms of life. 6. It is not easy, but you must start from somewhere. It is hard for the ones enabling themselves not to talk of the unemployed, depressed and suicidal. 7. Look within, what do you have? What can you do? Where are you at the moment? Use this to start planning. 8. Don't set any resolution or target, you don't have control over the circumstances of life and how people will behave. The goal now is to engage in something worthy and start planning and building from there. 9. Life is filled with joy and laughter; peace and war; hope and anxiety, failures and success. You may be on the negative side of life today, and maybe tomorrow you will be on the positive side - it is all hope and a coping mechanism but we wish the good for ourselves and our loved ones. 10. Connect with people that are better than you. Go to places where you will either gain knowledge or money, or both. But better to remain in solitude than mingle with those who won't sharpen your life and experience. 11. If You want a beautiful edifice, start laying the foundation. Time and chance happen to them all. Thanks. |
DAY 187, REDPILL 2022 Commitment is the mask women will eagerly look for or even kill for to encapsulate their past lives. No commitment: "you see what your h0e life has cost you and the wrong choices you made?" Commitment: "I'm a happily married woman". Authority: Be wise. |
Someoneschild2:If she doesn't have any sexual experience ain't gonna commit. At least, if I don't know how to swim in the water I should know how to swim in a vagina. Please, take note: I prefer hookers to h0es, at least they are genuine, straightforward, and fvck good compared to ordinary h0es. |
Calibrator:Did you damaged your fan belt? |
Silentgroper:Women are not made, they are molded. The women you chase will never be loyal. But the one who chases you will be loyal. As a man you want a woman who will be loyal and submissive to your commitment, not one that you will be begging not to leave. Again, this doesn't mean that the relationship will be happily ever after, like love made in Disneyland, but that to a larger extent, you will enjoy the relationship while it lasts. Women are first of all, loyal to their feelings, and they judge what is right or wrong based on their feelings at that particular moment. Thanks. |
DAY 186, REDPILL 2022 CaveAdullam:Authority: Be wise. |
1. Every woman got a man she loves. Yes, love. Love not in the entire meaning of sacrificial - threshold exclusively to men. However, a woman who loves you will be sacrificial to an extent, that is, based on the romantic feelings she has for a man, she can go the extra mile to please him. 2. This love( not sacrificial but romantic) is what is termed genuine desire. Genuine desire doesn't care about age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man A, the poor man. This is the man that can titillate her emotional spring, the player, the bad boy who doesn't give an fvck about her reality, the smoker with six packs. These men satisfies the first half of a woman's sexual nature - search for protection and dominance. This doesn't mean that women are not attracted to age, status, looks, or wealth. Let's call this man, man B, the rich man. He is the ultimate provider, the easy nice intelligent dude with good glasses. He satisfies the other half of a woman's nature - search for provision, care and support. > Said woman has a genuine desire for man A. But she can frolic with man B and in the end, still falls back to man A. > To man A, she is a hostage. While to man B, she is a diamond in the rough. > Funnily, she will not marry man A, but man B, except man A, has the same level of wealth and status as man B. Here lies the genesis of paternity fraud. >However, she will ever be more loyal to man A than her husband, man B because she has a genuine desire for man A. 3. Problem many men of today are having is that they don't know about this. They chase the woman helter-skelter in an attempt to change her mind from loving man A. Smart women have discovered and capitalized on this and are manipulating men of different classes just to sponsor themselves while remaining loyal to man A. Everything happens behind the scene of her heart, man A may not even be aware, however, still got the woman at his beck and call. (Men date. While women multi-date). a. Men date because with one woman he is satisfied and can channel his limited resources to her. Women multi-date because she wants to accrue many resources as a result of interaction with many men. Then, you may ask: "aren't men more polygamous and promiscuous than women?" b. Monogamy and polygamy rest based on RESOURCES AND COMMITMENT - it is men that provide them not women. Now, men by their testosterone in high volume want to fvck different women, without committing and squandering their resources because it is limited. No wonder monogamy is the human primary mating strategy, however, men are still promiscuous but will never commit to other women. c. Men fvck different women and will not commit; only the woman that wins his heart will he commit to. d. While women fvck different men looking for the one that will commit. She will not be loyal to the man that eventually commits; women are highly loyal to the men that deflowered them, they may no longer be close to each other, but it was that man that opened her eyes to the gateway of sex that she will ever be loyal to both consciously and instinctually, and this is the man that always owns her heart and has a genuine desire for. Women are slightly less promiscuous than men, in their dating or sex spree they are still cautious and selective about the men they fvck. e. So, a man fvcks and commits to a woman that wins his heart. While women fvck but not looking for a man to win her heart, she already has one, what she needs now is commitment. 4. You may ask: "but men spend heavily on side chicks and sugar babies". > Yes, that is true. For a man to effectively pull polygamy he must be wealthy and resourceful. However, only a few men in the world are wealthy and can successfully commit to different women at the same time - this is a solid claim for polygamy. > (Rich) men may squander their money on side chicks but what they spend is minuscule compared to their net worth. The baseline is that they are not going to commit to these side chicks. Why? a. They know that side chick's love is fake and fickle. b. Side chicks are damaged goods and can't sustain a family. These men only commit their entire resources to their families, wives, and children. On the other hand, these men may be spending to win a woman's love which is a futile journey from the beginning. A man can't win a woman by spending exorbitantly. She will only fake submissiveness. 5. Back to the beginning: every woman has a man she loves genuinely, the man may not notice it and both may not care about it, however, there is a spark once they unify. 6. Guys should therefore upgrade and better themselves, and it will be easy for them to get hold of these women that has a genuine desire for them. However, they must be cautious as some women may fake genuine desire just to siphon them. 7. Guys should look around them, there are some girls/women that have a genuine desire for them instead of chasing women that don't have any iota of interest for them. 8. Women always date high. True, a woman may be loyal to man A, but her nature still gravitates towards man B. Upgrading and bettering yourself as a guy is not only to fvck women in their hordes, but that when you are sitting on a high pedestal, men, women, children, and society either fear you or respect you. You become a force majeure. Thanks. |
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. Why mock these women? The only crime they committed was being proud of their bodies.