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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: The Reason My Boss Said I Should Not Come To Work Again. by CaveAdullam: 11:58pm On Jul 11, 2022*

1. He knew you were replaceable, ergo was fast doing it.

2. Maybe you've gone astray several times and this current situation exploded the whole dish. He kind of waited patiently for all your wrongs to get to the summit before sacking you.

3. You didn't do well man. At least you w
Should have informed him. Perhaps, you were unable. But work ethics must be obeyed and followed, you signed for it.

But he should have still shown mercy because the current economic and political climate is evil, poor, and worse.

4. What next? Rally around your town and vicinity for any vacancy or work related to your field that can pay you salary. Hold the job for the main time as you strategize better plans for moving forward.

5. If you go seek your boss for mercy he may retain you. However, just know that his respect for you will drop down.

6. Don't fret. Be calm. This too shall pass away.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 11:49pm On Jul 11, 2022

ubunja:
alpha, beta is as simple as......

Perhaps, this is strong advice FOR MEN from the horse's mouth.

Tell men a secret without telling men a secret.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Important Lesson Did Your First Job Teach You? by CaveAdullam: 7:40pm On Jul 11, 2022

Lasisieniola77:
This is so insightful

Thank you sir/ma. Promise to do better.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Important Lesson Did Your First Job Teach You? by CaveAdullam: 6:09pm On Jul 11, 2022

Oyindamolah:
What you stated can only work in a standard organization, not a one-man business.

So, treat your employees right, competence, patience, resume early, do useful activities during leisure, no to office romance, look good, obey your superior, learn, make corrections, have standards, manage your resources, respect your cleaners, respect your clients...cannot work in sole proprietorship (one-man business) right? Indeed it is surprising.

Y'all just want to respond or perhaps counter without the ability in parsing sentences or having an understanding of nuance(s).

Have a nice day.

Family › Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by CaveAdullam: 5:45pm On Jul 11, 2022

virginboy1:
Always spilling Words of wisdom.

Thanks for your kind words man, I see them everywhere. I do appreciate it.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Important Lesson Did Your First Job Teach You? by CaveAdullam: 5:43pm On Jul 11, 2022

MITCHELL96:
Best Comment On this Thread, Think I should give you Follow

Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Important Lesson Did Your First Job Teach You? by CaveAdullam: 5:42pm On Jul 11, 2022

Hahjascho:
Nice feedbacks.

Not the kind of depressing feedbacks from some sets of people above.

Thanks for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Important Lesson Did Your First Job Teach You? by CaveAdullam: 2:01pm On Jul 11, 2022

Fantazy:
Na for Google u copy this thing come paste for here abi...

This is no justification for your 1-2 digits IQ comparable to each hour of the day. Maybe 24 Mb IQ points space i.e 1MB/hour brain processing ability.

Don't be the stupid and jealous same time.

There are enough plagiarism tools to verify the post. Or, better still, copy and paste on the Google search engine to verify if it is copy and paste or plagiarised. Go through my posts here, they are my track records.
Anyway, your intelligence is poor and low, no need to bother.

For the fact that some herds are liking your post...it sucks. Birds of the same feather.

Have a nice day.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What Important Lesson Did Your First Job Teach You? by CaveAdullam: 12:34pm On Jul 11, 2022*

1. Be competent.

2. Give no room for complacency; it will be used against you in the future.

3. Always go with the required tools or materials for work.

4. By all means avoid excuses; it will give you might to challenge anyone who wants to use their lackadaisical attitude to limit you.

5. Don't argue with your boss. Answer yes!

6. Suggest ideas to your boss why praise him. Your boss doesn't need your ideas by the way.

7. You can't change an already established system, you are there for the money, work for it and get out.

8. Respect your senior colleagues, if not, they will work against you.

9. Respect your junior colleagues, they can make work faster and run some shitty games for you.

10. Respect the janitors and other staff not directly connected to the activities of the business. They will help you someday. Tip them from time to time. They can defend you at the right moment.

11. Respect your clients or customers. Falling on the wrong side will either affect your profits or salary.

12. Customers and clients want praise. Saturate them with it. It takes nothing from you, just mere words.

13. Don't argue with your boss or superior. Doing the opposite will help him spot loopholes in your line of work and use them against you.

14. Learn how to defend yourself especially when you make mistakes. Explain yourself rather than apologize. You need competence to pull this string though.

15. Don't separate yourself from your colleagues, work with them so that you'll get a glimpse of what's going on.

16. Maintain your standard. Don't be cajoled into any nonsense. This sends a message to your colleagues that you are different and can't easily be fooled.

17. Office romance must be avoided. If you don't have the mental fortitude and deceptiveness to pull office romance, forget it.

18. Always do your work on time and finish on time.

19. Use free time to do other useful activities. It can be within or outside your scope of work. E.g reading, writing, teaching, etc.

20. Only argue with your boss when that month is the last you will be working with him.

21. Always pay homage to your superior's superior. This person will help you when you experience friction with your current superior or boss. E.g Manager, Founder, President of the organization.

22. Put yourself in a position where you can't easily be replaced. Only competence and great skill can help you here.

23. Learn to cover your mistakes and quickly correct them. Nobody loves a clumsy worker.

24. Be passionate about your work. If you are not, you will make foolish mistakes along the way.

25. Don't leave your current job because of anticipation of another job that you have not secured fully. Except you have big savings though.

26. Even if you don't like your boss or work, just do your assigned role and work your way out.

27. If a promotion doesn't come easily don't do extra work.

28. Extra work will make your boss use you as a beast of burden. Protect your competence from exploitation.

29. If you are not paid for extra work, feigned laziness. But do your assigned role perfectly.

30. Take corrections and learn. Despite your competence, you can't be perfect.

31. Be patient.

32. Be good-looking. Dress fine. Wear clean shoes. Wear a good necklace. Wear a good wristwatch. Wear good bracelets. They don't need to be expensive at all; hardly anyone will ask you for their costs.

33. Don't beg your colleagues for food and money. There can be a show of love through the giving and receiving of gifts. But make sure you don't beg. Learn to manage your resources.

34. Learn to resume on time.

35. Not everybody can become an entrepreneur. Employees must respect the ethics of their work. And employers must treat employees well because they are the backbone of the organization, and if they connive together, they can bring the organization down in a moment.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: The Key To Getting Quality Women,my Experience. by CaveAdullam: 8:37am On Jul 11, 2022

pansophist:
At the bolded, Lying and pride are not virtues, they are vices. Change because of you? Unto say na only you be the woman wey de this world, or na you go carry me enter heaven. Take ya time.

About redpillers being bitter male, the claim is nothing more than a self-consolation. When you cant beat them, you criticise them. So being a doormat constitute happiness right? To be a weak man who women (and men) can use as tampons and dispose after he has outlived his usefulness the ideal?

Last last you're a woman, leadership is not in your blood, your brain is wired for enjoyment not difficulties, so you probably won't even understand the implications, depth and concept that Im putting forward.

The good news is that there are more men without backbone that you can use, so seek them out and husband them up. But I'll tell you one thing, if you can use him stupidly, others out there can. A mugu is a mugu, inside the house, and outside the house. Or you just live upright and stop being threatened by strong men, that's better.

You have come again with some ballistic missiles. Hahahaha

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:28am On Jul 11, 2022

DAY 192, REDPILL 2022

Simping will not end if you constantly endeavor to make everything right with her before she can be happy.

Once she knows this she will constantly seek an ego boost even though you have done well.

It is a RELATIONship for a reason i.e both relate together, mingle, and intertwine to create the best for themselves and project towards their goal.

Withdrawal of one party along the way is possible. You must plan as if you are the only one on this journey despite the presence of your partner. This is to ensure that you don't get paralyzed on the spot when you get shocked by their withdrawal.

People change. Things change. Circumstances change. Men change. Women change. Children change. Government change. Society change. Culture and traditions change. Policies change.

As a man, you must plan and calibrate your desires with the mindset that everything is subject to change, including you and your partner.

Create room for this change so that you can be able to turn around and move forward to your desired goal when changes occur.

Authority: Always be on guard. Do not trust until trust is proven - it must be proved daily.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 4:14am On Jul 10, 2022

DAY 191, REDPILL 2022

Simping starts when you think you can't do without her. And this is when her manipulations, arrogance, and entitlement begin.

Authority: Value yourself. Don't be a simp!

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:19pm On Jul 09, 2022

DAY 190, REDPILL 2022

You don't build a relationship by incessant phone calls.

You don't build a relationship by superfluous texts and chats.

You don't build a relationship with an abundance of dates and flowers.

You don't build a relationship with a rush of gifts.

You don't build a relationship with a flood of apologies.

Calls, texts, chats, dates, gifts, and apologies are mere icing.

Commitment, value, and incentives are how the relationship is built and sustained. There must be provision, appreciation, and reciprocation of all these.

Authority: Avoid ingrates for they are pretentious fools.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:07pm On Jul 09, 2022

omotoso1989:
Pls house,from my own personal opinion,I think women are just there to destroy someone's life and after doing that,they leave the man and move on to another man to finish him again.they are purely enemies of men.

Well, it's your "own personal opinion" and it is just fine.

And to you and your confederates, women are your enemies, but as far as the redpill is concerned, men and women are complements.

To love women and not see them as your enemy is to understand their nature and leverage upon it. Intersexual dynamics is a game, learn to play and win.

Get outta the rage stage man!

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:05pm On Jul 08, 2022

DAY 189, REDPILL 2022

Men always get shocked in the future when they get a glimpse of the dark side of their spouses because upfront they wanted to commit and own her early. And this attitude can be a result of a lack of abundance mindset, deceit, rejection, and fear of solitude.

Authority: Be smart.

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Romance › Re: Cc by CaveAdullam: 7:11am On Jul 08, 2022*

1. They always call themselves "redpillers" to justify any of their "simpish" behavior. Meanwhile, the redpill always advises that a man should put himself first and not run along any course that's detrimental to his life because of a woman.

2. If you are not ready for marriage, don't give the girl and her family hope for it. Look at it two ways:

a. Your mother doesn't want you to get married now because of the expenses you run for them, getting married will hinder you from catering to them well.

b. Your intended father/mother-in-law wants you to get married to their daughter because probably you will be the one to sponsor her higher academic education and other family expenses.

3. In our contemporary day and age, love is not only determined by romantic feelings and Disneyland tales. The relationship is affected by politics, economics, and the overall zeitgeist. If you don't plan well, you may end up regretting your actions in the nearest future.

So, you need not allow yourself to fall into these various forms of persuasions cum manipulations.

4. You are obsessed with this woman, and as a supposed "redpiller" you ought to know that you are making the wrong decision.

5. After marriage what next? Remember that expenses will triple in marriage. What are your plans and backup plans? Will she continue with her skill and upgrade or will you start sponsoring her higher academic education? Do you want to establish a business for her and raise a family in concatenation with that?

6. What are your plans exactly? You got prospects and ambitions, and all of them are about going down the drain because you deflowered an an18-year-old woman. Fvck! Yuck!

7. Tell them you are not ready for marriage and spell it boldly before their eyes. If she wants to wait and build with you fine, provided both of you choose to be loyal to each other and not just mere casual relationship flings and swings. If she decides to stay fine. If she decides to leave fine. But make sure you take a stand and don't get coerced into what you are not interested in and prepared for.

8. As a man, you lose more in marriage. The only plausible reason for it whether monogamy or polygamy is to watch your genetic line metamorphose into a strong dynasty.

9. Be careful man. And make sure you go study the red pill thoroughly.

Have a nice day.

Thanks.

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Education › Re: Nigerian Mom Cries Out, Shares Chat With Son Who Tried To Defraud Her by CaveAdullam: 8:06pm On Jul 07, 2022

Seniorwriter:
Looking for fast ways to make money for the glam.

I wonder why they can't take up the abundant opportunities available on the online space(community) and become productive thereby build income to wealth and attain financial freedom rather they resort to all kinds of fraudulent acts like this one.
SMH.

Yes one if which is Vlogging....BTW do you have any Skills(Orthodox or Digital)?.
BTW if you have a browsing gadget and access to internet and you ain't earning even $5 daily with those materials then you are very much unwise.

I mentioned one already....

Good .....start earning passively with writing about your driving experience(s) or something related to your daily activity then create a podcast to have subscribers( you can build up to 100 interested peeps (foreigners also) ) who will readily subscribe with as low as $1 weekly/ monthly depending on your choice to listen to your writeups then monetize it by affiliate marketing ....if you don't have the know-how to earning with this suggestions then reach out to the Facebook ID on my profile for a 10days mockup mentorship for a token fee....

Reach out for further exposé to an exciting online earning journey to building wealth and financial intelligence.

What's your Facebook ID ?

Is this your Facebook Name?

You'll be reached.
No user as Beautifula phoenix.... courtesy the designate(my SM manager) that I instructed to reach you.

Send a friend request....but your response doesn't correspond with the fact that your Facebook names was not found via search by my SMM.

I was informed you've been reached so respond on Facebook asap....all the best.

@Seniorwriter

Replied. Thanks.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:56pm On Jul 07, 2022

CAPSLOCKED:
WHAT HE'S SAYING IS INCOHERENT WITH ANYTHING. JUST ONE LOUSY LOSER WITH NO PERSONAL LIFE AGENDAS LOOKING FOR ENGAGEMENT THE WRONG WAY ON THE WRONG THREAD. SMH.

Only one person. "Haba na" + uppercase fonts in red..."na wa o"

Luminouz "haff" corrupted you.

Anyway, comrade, increase the "vawulence".

"Taanchu".

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Education › Re: Nigerian Mom Cries Out, Shares Chat With Son Who Tried To Defraud Her by CaveAdullam: 6:27pm On Jul 07, 2022

Seniorwriter:
Looking for fast ways to make money for the glam.

I wonder why they can't take up the abundant opportunities available on the online space(community) and become productive thereby build income to wealth and attain financial freedom rather they resort to all kinds of fraudulent acts like this one.
SMH.

Yes one if which is Vlogging....BTW do you have any Skills(Orthodox or Digital)?.
BTW if you have a browsing gadget and access to internet and you ain't earning even $5 daily with those materials then you are very much unwise.

I mentioned one already....

Good .....start earning passively with writing about your driving experience(s) or something related to your daily activity then create a podcast to have subscribers( you can build up to 100 interested peeps (foreigners also) ) who will readily subscribe with as low as $1 weekly/ monthly depending on your choice to listen to your writeups then monetize it by affiliate marketing ....if you don't have the know-how to earning with this suggestions then reach out to the Facebook ID on my profile for a 10days mockup mentorship for a token fee....

Reach out for further exposé to an exciting online earning journey to building wealth and financial intelligence.

What's your Facebook ID ?

Is this your Facebook Name?

You'll be reached.
No user as Beautifula phoenix.... courtesy the designate(my SM manager) that I instructed to reach you.

Send a friend request....but your response doesn't correspond with the fact that your Facebook names was not found via search by my SMM.

@Seniorwriter

What about communicating via email?

Education › Re: Nigerian Mom Cries Out, Shares Chat With Son Who Tried To Defraud Her by CaveAdullam: 3:48pm On Jul 07, 2022

Seniorwriter:
Looking for fast ways to make money for the glam.

I wonder why they can't take up the abundant opportunities available on the online space(community) and become productive thereby build income to wealth and attain financial freedom rather they resort to all kinds of fraudulent acts like this one.
SMH.

Yes one if which is Vlogging....BTW do you have any Skills(Orthodox or Digital)?.
BTW if you have a browsing gadget and access to internet and you ain't earning even $5 daily with those materials then you are very much unwise.

I mentioned one already....

Good .....start earning passively with writing about your driving experience(s) or something related to your daily activity then create a podcast to have subscribers( you can build up to 100 interested peeps (foreigners also) ) who will readily subscribe with as low as $1 weekly/ monthly depending on your choice to listen to your writeups then monetize it by affiliate marketing ....if you don't have the know-how to earning with this suggestions then reach out to the Facebook ID on my profile for a 10days mockup mentorship for a token fee....

Reach out for further exposé to an exciting online earning journey to building wealth and financial intelligence.

What's your Facebook ID ?

Is this your Facebook Name?

You'll be reached.
No user as Beautifula phoenix.... courtesy the designate(my SM manager) that I instructed to reach you.

Send a friend request....but your response doesn't correspond with the fact that your Facebook names was not found via search by my SMM.

@Seniorwriter

Let me send a friend request now.

Education › Re: Nigerian Mom Cries Out, Shares Chat With Son Who Tried To Defraud Her by CaveAdullam: 2:50pm On Jul 07, 2022

Seniorwriter:
Looking for fast ways to make money for the glam.

I wonder why they can't take up the abundant opportunities available on the online space(community) and become productive thereby build income to wealth and attain financial freedom rather they resort to all kinds of fraudulent acts like this one.
SMH.

Yes one if which is Vlogging....BTW do you have any Skills(Orthodox or Digital)?.
BTW if you have a browsing gadget and access to internet and you ain't earning even $5 daily with those materials then you are very much unwise.

I mentioned one already....

Good .....start earning passively with writing about your driving experience(s) or something related to your daily activity then create a podcast to have subscribers( you can build up to 100 interested peeps (foreigners also) ) who will readily subscribe with as low as $1 weekly/ monthly depending on your choice to listen to your writeups then monetize it by affiliate marketing ....if you don't have the know-how to earning with this suggestions then reach out to the Facebook ID on my profile for a 10days mockup mentorship for a token fee....

Reach out for further exposé to an exciting online earning journey to building wealth and financial intelligence.

What's your Facebook ID ?

Is this your Facebook Name?

You'll be reached.
No user as Beautifula phoenix.... courtesy the designate(my SM manager) that I instructed to reach you.

@Seniorwriter

I sent the PM via messenger.

Education › Re: Nigerian Mom Cries Out, Shares Chat With Son Who Tried To Defraud Her by CaveAdullam: 2:24pm On Jul 07, 2022

Seniorwriter:
Looking for fast ways to make money for the glam.

I wonder why they can't take up the abundant opportunities available on the online space(community) and become productive thereby build income to wealth and attain financial freedom rather they resort to all kinds of fraudulent acts like this one.
SMH.

Yes one if which is Vlogging....BTW do you have any Skills(Orthodox or Digital)?.
BTW if you have a browsing gadget and access to internet and you ain't earning even $5 daily with those materials then you are very much unwise.

I mentioned one already....

Good .....start earning passively with writing about your driving experience(s) or something related to your daily activity then create a podcast to have subscribers( you can build up to 100 interested peeps (foreigners also) ) who will readily subscribe with as low as $1 weekly/ monthly depending on your choice to listen to your writeups then monetize it by affiliate marketing ....if you don't have the know-how to earning with this suggestions then reach out to the Facebook ID on my profile for a 10days mockup mentorship for a token fee....

Reach out for further exposé to an exciting online earning journey to building wealth and financial intelligence.

What's your Facebook ID ?

Is this your Facebook Name?

@Seniorwriter

Yes.

Education › Re: Nigerian Mom Cries Out, Shares Chat With Son Who Tried To Defraud Her by CaveAdullam: 1:30pm On Jul 07, 2022*

Seniorwriter:
Looking for fast ways to make money for the glam.

I wonder why they can't take up the abundant opportunities available on the online space(community) and become productive thereby build income to wealth and attain financial freedom rather they resort to all kinds of fraudulent acts like this one.
SMH.

Yes one if which is Vlogging....BTW do you have any Skills(Orthodox or Digital)?.
BTW if you have a browsing gadget and access to internet and you ain't earning even $5 daily with those materials then you are very much unwise.

I mentioned one already....

Good .....start earning passively with writing about your driving experience(s) or something related to your daily activity then create a podcast to have subscribers( you can build up to 100 interested peeps (foreigners also) ) who will readily subscribe with as low as $1 weekly/ monthly depending on your choice to listen to your writeups then monetize it by affiliate marketing ....if you don't have the know-how to earning with this suggestions then reach out to the Facebook ID on my profile for a 10days mockup mentorship for a token fee....

Reach out for further exposé to an exciting online earning journey to building wealth and financial intelligence.

What's your Facebook ID ?

@Seniorwriter

Business › Re: School Business Partnership Or Investment by CaveAdullam: 1:26pm On Jul 07, 2022

Seniorwriter:
@OP what ROI would you give Investor(s) that is ready to Fund you with $6K or it's naira equivalent...

In another news fellow earning Nairalanders i'm thinking it's high time to create an online credit line organ or group of Crowdfunders strictly for Nairalanders(Entrepreneurs) that need financial help or Funding for new and existing businesses and also extend help to the needy that are verified real not scammers that just post their account info unnecessarily.
If you are reading this and have a philanthropic heart and you are ready to lend a helping hand financially with just $1(or it's naira equivalent) monthly then kindly mention me.
Moreso if you earn via online alike as a Freelancer or via your online activities then do same so we can have an interactive session here to build a financial back up for cases of financial lack or under the weather cases.
I'm looking @creating a group of @least 500 Nairaland donors (peeps)...If OP gets just $1(or it's naira equivalent) from us I'm sure bouncing back financially is possible.

If you are interested just kindly quote me with your email link or contact details and you'll be reached with details(Terms & Conditions) in been part of this new setup which will also have monetary benefits because as a member you will be exposed to all of our over 30 earning ways we have tested and trusted and my team and mentees are earning daily or weekly or monthly with less stress via online and offline alike.

@Seniorwriter

I'm ready.

germaneson@gmail.com

Education › Re: Nigerian Mom Cries Out, Shares Chat With Son Who Tried To Defraud Her by CaveAdullam: 1:16pm On Jul 07, 2022

Seniorwriter:
Looking for fast ways to make money for the glam.

I wonder why they can't take up the abundant opportunities available on the online space(community) and become productive thereby build income to wealth and attain financial freedom rather they resort to all kinds of fraudulent acts like this one.
SMH.

Yes one if which is Vlogging....BTW do you have any Skills(Orthodox or Digital)?.
BTW if you have a browsing gadget and access to internet and you ain't earning even $5 daily with those materials then you are very much unwise.

I mentioned one already....

Good .....start earning passively with writing about your driving experience(s) or something related to your daily activity then create a podcast to have subscribers( you can build up to 100 interested peeps (foreigners also) ) who will readily subscribe with as low as $1 weekly/ monthly depending on your choice to listen to your writeups then monetize it by affiliate marketing ....if you don't have the know-how to earning with this suggestions then reach out to the Facebook ID on my profile for a 10days mockup mentorship for a token fee....

Reach out for further exposé to an exciting online earning journey to building wealth and financial intelligence.

@Seniorwriter

Good day. I already sent a PM on Facebook.

I await your response. Thanks.

Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:49am On Jul 07, 2022

heartofcity12:
Modern women and hypergamy are like bread and butter. Kevin Samuels said enough about stuff like this. Same women that’ll smash the dudes they lust on for free are setting standards for betas.

1. Women have three lives: private(sexual, lustful, dark side), public(obvious, real, innocent, angelic), and fake(social media, friends, simps).

2. Like women, every other human has different masks they put on for each occasion every day. Take for example our bodies: it is full of scars, but in a fine dress people appreciate us while remaining oblivious to the scars

The dress is a mask. The belly cover is a mask. The head is a mask. Our characters and attitudes are masks.

3. The secrets of her private life are for her knowledge alone and the men she allows access to in terms of sex or trust or both.

A1. The man who can unleash her from her sexual bondage and takes her to the edge is the man who is aware of this side.

A2. The man who's not judgmental about her sexual side because both of them have similar experiences is the man she can trust and can relate with - both may or may not fvck.

B. The other group of persons who are aware of this private life is other women in the sisterhood, they are like the men she trusts because they share something in common: similar sexual escapades.

C. To know about her sexual side she must trust you and you must be appealing sexually or share similar escapades. Why is this important?

a. Trust means you will not reveal her secret to those who only know about her two other lives.

b. Not being judgmental means she can have leeway to explore to the fullest with no hindrance in sight.

c. Guys love to KISS AND TELL because fvcking women are like conquering a warrior (see this from an evolutionary perspective as a result of the costly nature of a woman's egg).
On the other hand, women hate KISS AND TELL because it signifies that they are fallen warriors. It means they are cheap. It means their value has reduced. It means a drop in suitors rate.

4. Real life is the one her neighbors, family members, and CLOSE FRIENDS are aware of. That is, the religious angelic innocent good looking girl.

a. She is the obedient girl. The girl wears tattered clothes and wrappers in the neighborhood. The girl without make-up.

b. 99% of the time she's on this mode because most times she's around these people. She has established her character and behaviors that blend perfectly with this life and people have become aware of it. Do you know the importance of this?

bi. It will make these people come to her defense when any accusation is raised against her.

bii. It makes these people doubt her private life when there is any tiny revelation about it.

viii. Redpill says AWALT( All Women Are Like That) but these people(Bluepill) always counter with NAWALT( Not All Women Are Like That). Both the red pill and blue pill draw their conclusion as a result of these lives.

biv. Both are correct. But AWALT is more correct. NAWALT believes every woman will act in the SAME WAY ALL THE TIME. But that's not what the red pill says in AWALT. AWALT means every woman has that TENDENCY to act in the SAME WAY under the right condition, place, and with the right person.

To simply: Every human has that tendency to eat but not every human eats at every sight of food. However, all humans eat because hunger and food are positively correlated and hardwired into their psyche.

5. The social media life is the one she portrays from the confinement of her locality, outside her locality, or WITH HER FRIENDS - NOT CLOSE FRIENDS. Refer to 4 above.

a. It is this social media life that she used in tracking and trapping simps and thirsty men. This is because one can manufacture different social lives in different styles within a short period, and it is very fast.
The second reason: social media is ubiquitous and accessible to many people in many different localities.

b. As a result of this effect of social media, she can easily amplify her lifestyle, leverage it, and accrue her wants/needs.

c. The effect of social media is the bolstering of the entitlement mentality. Because she can be able to amplify herself via social media and latch upon men who are not cognizant of her other two lives.

d. Because of this social media use, she develops a sense of grandiosity. Arrogance is here. The misdemeanor is here. Contemptuousness is here. A lack of poor character is here. Lack of accountability is here. No sense of responsibility is here. No development is here. Pride is here. HYPER-hypergamy is here.

e. If she looks down on men it is because she leverages social media use. Simps and thirsty men are helping with the amplification because they are unaware of her other lives, and if they know they will no longer accord her the usual respect she garners from nothing.

f. When she meets other women who happen to be her friends and accomplice she maintains this life because it is a game of testing who has a good social media advantage over the other.

6. Women then misconstrue this social media advantage as REAL VALUE. Remember: women are status sensitive. So, if they can engage a king, automatically, they become queens even though they lack the prerequisites and materials needed for sustaining an empire.

7. They judge other men low because these men are not up to the standard of the men they frolic with.

8. Men are judged by their achievements. While women are judged by the caliber of men that are committed to them. No matter how big or rich a woman becomes, she needs a man, a high-value man, and society will first judge her using this yardstick. It is because of this reason she uses her proximity to high-value men to judge other men.

9. Since women can act this way, it means they can fool anyone who wants to hinder them be it Father, brother, husband, shepherd, or tyrant.

For this reason, necessary quality parenting and leadership are important in the lifecycle of a woman. And with it plus her willingness to cooperate, she can display her best. Men don't care about a woman's status, provided she oozes feminity and she is smart.

To end this note: DAY 188, REDPILL 2022

Authority: Don't buy into women's propaganda, develop yourself because of yourself and your love for humanity. (However, women always seem to be effective catalysts to achieving this aim).

Cc. Tonnyray, JESHAL, DEMZEE, Martinez39s

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Family › Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by CaveAdullam: 12:42pm On Jul 06, 2022

yinkbell:
You've got wisdom deep-rooted in you. I think is not bad being ur penfriend. Mention me, let me have ur WhatsApp number.

Thank you for your kind words. I do appreciate it.

My registered email is open, you can send a DM.

Thanks.

Romance › Re: Please Your Advice As I Plan Not To Marry Her - See Reasons by CaveAdullam: 8:40am On Jul 06, 2022

1. Humans will always find rationalizations to counter their errors and lack of accountability, and among humans, it is common with the female specie. Men shut the fvck up when they messed up, but for women, to maintain that angelic innocent facade they sell to others they must rationalize. It is to save face and avoids punishment - an evolutionary instinct though.

2. Don't promise a woman marriage and later disappoint. Pronounce marriage until you are ready! Don't say it from the beginning as this will grant her an opportunity to either behave wrongly or mask her nemesis. Just keep courting her, and if she is found worthy, you commit.

3. Withdraw that hope of marriage right now and call her to books, inform her of nonchalance, and poor character. She won't submit to a weak man, so it is expedient that you don't commit to a woman like her. Simple!

4. Removing that hope will save you a lot of disaster in the future: she may come for your head when you disappoint her in the future in regards to marriage, so you should end the relationship today on a good note. It may even help her in getting hold of another man, but certainly not you because you have freed yourself from her troubles.

5. She is for the street, let her go!

Thanks.

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Family › Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by CaveAdullam: 7:58am On Jul 06, 2022*

1. Calm down man. It is not easy anywhere in the world, especially in Africa, and Nigeria. But we do think it's always greener on the other side of the fence.

2. The economic and political terrain has been ruffled by corrupt leaders and politicians, hence, the current problem we are facing. Now we all can understand that it is not doing what makes you happy but what is the right thing.

3. The exacerbation of our predicament is also due to the prevalence of social media, we see the few successful people making headlines, all of the news and in every post and we do think we are failures. The reality is that these few people gained success either by chance, hard work, or charity from friends and family.

4. As a result of the effect of social media on the economic state of the nation, fraudulent activities have taken over, now a teenager who doesn't measure up to your level of intellect and exposure is the one now dictating the tune of the piper. It is a sad reality.

5. As humans, we only have a tiny control over how our lives go. But many do think that we can get whatever we desire by positive thinking and working hard all day. Though, there are some truths in the statement but not the whole truth.

A. You don't have control over the country you will be born.

B. You don't have control over your genetics.

C. You don't have control over your government.

D. You don't have control over the economy; you can't dictate peoples' buying and selling tendencies. The market is way emotional.

E. You can't dictate the legislature.

F. You don't choose your family, and can't even control them to the extent you want.

G. Different things cumulate and they are the deciding factors of our lives; our decisions and positive thinking are all that we have got to manage ourselves amidst the changes and storms of life.

6. It is not easy, but you must start from somewhere. It is hard for the ones enabling themselves not to talk of the unemployed, depressed and suicidal.

7. Look within, what do you have? What can you do? Where are you at the moment? Use this to start planning.

8. Don't set any resolution or target, you don't have control over the circumstances of life and how people will behave. The goal now is to engage in something worthy and start planning and building from there.

9. Life is filled with joy and laughter; peace and war; hope and anxiety, failures and success. You may be on the negative side of life today, and maybe tomorrow you will be on the positive side - it is all hope and a coping mechanism but we wish the good for ourselves and our loved ones.

10. Connect with people that are better than you. Go to places where you will either gain knowledge or money, or both. But better to remain in solitude than mingle with those who won't sharpen your life and experience.

11. If You want a beautiful edifice, start laying the foundation.

Time and chance happen to them all.

Thanks.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:15am On Jul 06, 2022

DAY 187, REDPILL 2022

Commitment is the mask women will eagerly look for or even kill for to encapsulate their past lives.

No commitment: "you see what your h0e life has cost you and the wrong choices you made?"

Commitment: "I'm a happily married woman".

Authority: Be wise.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:47pm On Jul 05, 2022

Someoneschild2:
This is bad . Why mock these women? The only crime they committed was being proud of their bodies.

The widows only had their beloved taken from them. They deserve to be loved too.....gosh! A real man mends the heart he did not break and loves the seeds he did not plant.

Where is your humanity?
Such herd mentality and toxicity!

If she doesn't have any sexual experience ain't gonna commit. At least, if I don't know how to swim in the water I should know how to swim in a vagina.

Please, take note: I prefer hookers to h0es, at least they are genuine, straightforward, and fvck good compared to ordinary h0es.

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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:44pm On Jul 05, 2022

Calibrator:
Wahala dey ooooo.... Takes a whole lot to shock me but my shock is presently shook AF!

Did you damaged your fan belt?

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