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izzou:
[color=royalblue]Always read to understand okay?

She knew he had a wife and a kid. And yet she got pregnant... That's my question

Whether she wants to have sex everyday with him for the rest of her life is not my business. [/color]

There are two adults here who had consentual sex. One is married and should have protected the interest of his partner but chose not to... Why blame only the baby mama?

Alvin212:
A Child born outside wedlock issa bastard



Baby mama culture is a trash culture.

For your info, he wasn't born outside wedlock. Don't just come online and spew trash because you want to follow the bandwagon.

3rdavefarms:
Most People think Illetracy and Political Gain is responsible for massive POPULATION of the NORTH, not knowing it is Caused by CLIMATIC FACTORS




Spermatozoon will be flying left right and center

It is illiteracy and nothing else! Are they the only ones experiencing extreme weather? How much is family planning!?

Mutemenot:
time to impregant women upanda
Men don't joke with this weather atall

Be prepared to carry STD up and down

A very clean nigeria used camry car 2008 model.upgraded to 2012
Location : Ibeju lekki.
Price: 1.5 Million Naira (negotiable)

NwaAmaikpe:





There is no greater prove of true love.

Her husband died in 2014, she chose to die 5 years after him.
Not only because she truly missed him but that she didn't want to be tempted to cheat on him.

Unlike these endtime wives that want to live for another 26 years after their husband's death so that they can use widowhood as an excuse to be jumping from pendulum to pendulum.

The Oputas were the type of parents every kid wanted to have.
But they are a confirmation that having ideal parents will not stop an offspring from being dysfunctional.

But Charly Boy should have atleast buried her on the 1st of January so that her corpse will also see the new year.

You ended up saying nothing.

Igbo women and wickedness...

So na because of this wack song make you claim say assassin attack you. Wish you what you wish yourself!

Kindheartedd:
I opened a thread sometime ago about my husband's attitude.

I won't just go into details but all I need now is leave, leave him for good.

My plan is to totally leave the state we live now to a different state to start life all over with my kids. I work, I will make sure they have the best. I won't let my family know my whereabouts. Change my phone number and live a new life.

I do not want any one to link me up with him again. I hate him now. I have heard enough, enough of abuse. He's done more damage to me than good. His is proud and ungrateful.

He is owing me a lot of money but I can let go.

I want to teach him a hard lesson by leaving with my kids before he return from work on Monday.

My advice to young ones especially God fearing ones, don't marry a man who is just a casual Christian, who answers on paper 'Christianity' when asked which religion.

He never believed I can move forward, I struggled to raise my status by hard work n prayer, I went to a private uni, he even insulted my dad to my face that he waisted money on my for sending me to private uni, Haa, my ears twingled when he said it all because I was earning about 100k, he was earning way more than me and he'd never give me peace because he earns more. Named me all sorts of names. I saved little n resigned since there was no hope of earning more money where I worked.

When I asked to open a joint account his response was my income was meant for eating not saving. And ridiculously told me to hide my face for trying to measure him to my standard. That we don't earn the same amount and we can't jointly run an account. For days, he shamed me with that.

I boldly took a decision to resign and I almost end it all but I was putting things in place to get the best in life no matter what. Alas, God helped me and now, I'm doing well and my monthly income is daily getting more than his. I painfully went for a training and have decided to get an office and employ more hands because I can no longer handle tasks alone due to work load and he is killing the dream.

I know him, he wants to frustrate me, he knows the sky is not my limit again even, but I want to teach him a lesson that in his next life he will never talk any human being down.

He is getting worst daily by being abusive, I won't know peace if so stay with him. Now he wants to do what I do, so jealous and unsecured.

I live in a recluse due to my work and I have an abusive man, if not for my belief on God maybe I would have taken my life since.

I was abused as a child, I think the best for me now is live alone. Human beings are not worth it, I hate relationships and marriage now, like it's all a scam. I just want to be alone with my innocent kids.

Am just weak, it's going to be a shame, my friendd n family won't like my decision but I want to send a message to this man. He must learn to respect me, called my brain fish brain,? My own father waisted money on me? I will surely break grounds to send him a message.

Am just in pain, am soo so so sad. Once I leave him I will be a celibate for life. I will never allow any man to make me experience abuse again. Never!!!

So sorry about what you went through. And also what business do you do? Help a sister who is trying to be self sufficient.

ceasare:
Oga if u r not ready to drive that car urself just put it on hire purchase with d driver else las last una go quarell.better still register with all this old transport company as a franchisee and let d driver deal with d company .
Basically I think 7*7k to Onitsha will gv #49k/trip d bus company deducts a commission and they gv d driver his stipend+fuel money to Onitsha and d rest is yours.same thing if he's returning back to lag.i think that's d best model to tow.
Cheers.

Thanks for the insight!

TPound:
Provided it's not hire purchase, it's excuses upon excuses from him at the expense of your benevolence... This week,police,next week ,NURTW, meanwhile, he's smiling to the bank... He will never deliver fully... Any amount he gives you might be used to treat High BP

Thanks for your input... Once it comes to that, I will kindly retrieve the vehicle from him.

TPound:
You just lifted the driver's family out of poverty

Can you kindly expantiate on the above assertion. I'd appreciate all useful advice.

Good day house! I just acquired a 7 seater Sienna for transportation. The driver will be plying Lagos to Onitsha . Does anyone in the house know how much drivers who ply that route remit to the owner on a weekly basis?

Note: Not on higher purchase terms
Gladly await useful response.

Why did I find myself in this part of the world... Instead of giving her emergency medical attention, they are busy making a video. The people who made that video killed her!

bonaventure73:
They want to ruin this format too.

Nonsense police

You will meet your waterloo soonest!

AfroKnight:
Good.

Now that the truth has come out, I hope fake social media gladiators can examine their foolery. Spreading tales of tortoise and Yanibo to garner sympathy. Tales that didn’t add up. She was doing drama at school, the security chased the girl away... Rubbish!

The panel is not swayed by social media bullies and an unruly mother.

Just wait for another version of the story... awon bloggers of life !

NwaAmaikpe:





This is a very faulty inference Obafemee80.
Please do not rewrite history for us or mislead the uninformed.

The car Kennedy rode in that day in Texas was not his official car.

Well.
It did make convertibles the least vehicle of choice for US Presidents while on public tours because of the risk of snipers just like the very similar assasination of our own Murtala Mohammed made it very unfashionable for our leaders not to go out with Odeshi.

Welcome back!

Yankiss:
And we should do what? This isn't front page worthy. There should be a dislike botton to mark down nonsense posts like this. Davido, his son his problem.

More reason I like Quora. I’m leaving Nairaland for good.

babyfaceafrica:
so if security abuse you,you will fight them?..when one fights with a pig, isn't he or she a pig?

There is a level you would be harassed that will make you fight back. I can even fight dirty if my kids are involved... don’t judge me, parental instinct.

JONNYSPUTE:
Story. Let's even agree that the school security was not aware of the school drama and the school could not provide for the makeup and asked her to do hers from home,the mum should ve simply inform the school authorities about the development at the gate instead of fighting the security guards.

You simply do not know what prompted her to fight the security. She could have been verbally abused or something, or maybe the security manhandled her... what stopped the security from consulting the school management also. There Re two sides to the story. Waiting for Queen’s College to make a statement on the issue.

tofolo:
welcome back....

That’s not the real NwaAmaikpe... check the spelling

I can’t go to any public place that they won’t allow me custody of my kids while there. They go everywhere with me. Haba! Abeg , everyone hold your pikin!

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

Lol, you talk too much!

Congrats Sinach! Your songs brings relief to many souls, you are a blessing to God’s Kingdom.

donjon:
Shut up,
Many rape victims cannot speak out cos of the shamefulness of revealing the circumstances that led them there (ie their sluttiness) will expose them as hoes ab initio!
Feminist advocate, baba for the girls!
Mumu!

Rapist spotted!

Agboriotejoye:
Even though she was raped and she recognised them, she moved on. Busola needs to hear dis

I hope your female relatives will move on when they get raped?

ayukdaboss:
Madam abeg park well. The real rape victims have no one to fight for them, you all spent so much time and resources on social media fighting a dead case for reasons best known to you. As we speak a young girl in the North is being raped by one old fool, you'll see it in the news sometimes but no one really to fight for them

In essence what are you saying? That she should remain silent?

Scatterscatter:
I stand with Freeze on this.

You can't win a Rape case in court by mere story telling. Provide evidence and watch your story gain credibility.

PS: don't get me wrong, I don't support rape, neither do I support Fatoyinbo. I'm only saying we should learn to resolve issues by going through the right channel.

The case should be taken to Ogun, Sango or Amahdioha and not the court.

Thank you!

Let’s go there!

Mamabright:
Top loading washing machines are not as strong as the front loaders or manual. My advice is,it's either you go for manual or the automatic front loader.

This is fully automatic top loader. Thanks for your contribution, it is noted.

Rhyah:
We use normal detergent o...nothing special
Yes...user friendly

Thanks

Rhyah:
That's the machine in my family house...so far so good after more than a year's use.

Is it user friendly? What detergent do you use with it?