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Please can I get a review for this WM?

fidelitystrs:
@Op nairaland is the worst place to get marriage solution they will only break your marriage for you.

You will loose your wonderful husband to be and meet the worst men out there that will only take advantage of you and dump you.

Your family killed your marriage not your husband, he didn't even maltreat you by touching and you want to leave him.

Your better fight and get your man back or else he will see someone to do that.

Your man is the best husband you can ever get with these your UNGRATEFUL ATTITUDE.

concerning bride price he will surely pay it. Just pray and always support him no matter what.
nobody is perfect.

SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE!!!

You think maltreatment is only when he physically assaults her? What about the emotional torture he is putting her through? Shouldn’t he be the one to stand By her when everyone else isn’t. Wasn’t it the action of bth of them that resulted to the pregnancy her family was against. Where exactly did she go wrong here?

Your husband should be your support system even when both families Bleep up... I’m sorry you lost that. Try and cut off every of your family member that has contributed to your misery... let them know you still resent them for what they have done. Na Belle you carry , you no kill person. Haba! If you were a millionaire they would have come licking your toes like the case of Linda Ikeji. Always try to have a positive attitude about yourself whenever you are around your husband...stop begging him to pay your bride price. Work on yourself!

Na only she them they knock-up every time? She should have been more careful knowing her religious background.

Joel3:
I'm a fan of wholewheat best prepared the normal stirring on the pot and served with soup the Africa thing. But the countries where this wholewheat originated they don't prepare it like we do here in Africa. They do pantha and puri which I do eat sometimes when I was in the Asia/middle east.

Today I was wondering if I can prepare something else from it outside the as usual.

Here is what I did.

Pic 1 wholewheat bag.
Pic 2...... The stuff I made.

No recipe?

SugarBozz:
Yes I get sexually attracted to a lot of ladies, but then I don't have the urge to have sex with them when I have the opportunity to.

Maybe there is a hormone you are lacking... doctors in the house over to you.

What appliances can it power?

Apart from her, have you been sexually attracted to any other woman before?

FreemanTJ:
They both dont live in lagos. Yes, I'll definitely try to work on this.

Please create some time and try to connect with your wife. I’m sure something attracted you to her at first. Lookout for those positive and appealing part of her. Concentrate on your family please!

myang500:
Morin Nlanders,

Is it true that marriage is actually a do or die affair that whatever comes ur way u have to take it and live with it? That question is solely for the married men, and for the married ladies on here, I just wanted to know if you would react the way my wife did regarding what am about to explain, because she said all women are the same that even if i am to re-marry, that the woman will be worse off than she is, but i disagree.
The issue of tending to my food comes with a struggle at times, and being a father of two and living in lagos aint easy. She told me she was going to market to get some supplies for her clothing biz, i was like i hope u did come back soon so i can get breakfast cos i was working from home. She said she would be back before 9, lo and behold, it was already quarter past ten and she called saying shes on her way asking what i would like to eat, i was like is this the promise u made to come back early, she said well there was traffic and that i need to understand that we are sharing bills to pay equally now so I must give her the freedom is hustling per her own timing. I was like I didnt marry you to give me rules, part of the reason why u are my wife to give me food and not what ur saying, i said i have arranged breakfast she should bother. She got back, and the first thing she said is..i have bashed the car because i was rushing home to make u food, i was like i already told u before u drove off that i sorted myself, whats the rushing home to make food for me for. Then it came to my attention that she has consecutively been bashing both cars over the course of 4 days, i was pushed to ask her what she has been doing causing these sort of ill-luck bashing the cars here and there and having the other being fixed almost everyday, weird and un-unsual, she quickly termed it that i was trying to say shes cheating, that i need to get a life and stop being insecured. I was like i'm not insecured, and i cant be insecured over a woman of her looks. She got angry and said, me with my small pen**s, i was like an ugly woman like u can never make me insecured. I kept quiet but she continuously carried out her tantrums. This is coupled with the fact that somestimes last week, she made a statement out of an argument that she will have sexxx with another man in the house and i will never know of it. I was really angry and wanted to report to her dad, she cried and begged me not to, knowing fully well of the consequences that might follow. Ladies can u guys say these sort of things to your hubby out of anger? are u guys all the same?

Young man, call your wife and have a hearty talk with her, you should both apologize to each other and carve out ways to make your marriage succeed against all odds. Above all forgive and let go!

May those robbers meet their doom with each step they take henceforth! Pathetic... speedy recovery young man

Family planning is almost free.

Beautiful women. RIP

midnighter:
Greenleaf's active ingredient, Fipronil, has a low toxicity for humans except if you purposely eat a large amount of it. Can you say the same for Sniper??

I’m sure you read where I emphasized “minimal contact”. Green leave, fipronil, sniper or what have you should be used for the purpose they are meant for. I still reiterate that sniper is more effective in eliminating roaches and all crawling insect!

CaptainKool15:
Sniper is dangerous to human, meanwhile this one,to some extent is safe..

Thought sniper has been banned?

They are all dangerous to humans including your mosquito spray, just ensure minimal contact. You can still get snipers in some stalls.

CaptainKool15:
German Cockroaches are the worst..
They are the small little cockroaches you see around. They reproduce at a rapid rate, very hard to control, if care is not taking they will send you out of your house.

I am currently battling them , and I think I'm winning the war.. Thanks to "Green leaf"

Green leave Dey learn work where sniper Dey... use it and you will see them no more. Tried both anyway

sauceEEP:
What's the name of this movie?

Illusion

pappy2000:
What am I supposed to do brother, the reason why she said she left her ex was because that one na boxer, but I have for once hit her even when provoked,I think I made the mistake of my life , my thinking is to finish the wedding in November give her one month to displayher madness and then file a divorce early January, that lady used to be so loving that I didn't even pray about it,

It could be pregnancy hormones at play... if she is her first trimester the hormones are raging... you guys can chill for now to see how things goes.

NoGender:
SMH. A lot of people in this forum are policemen or have relatives that are policemen, do you think what you just typed is sensible enough? When catastrophe befalls like this, a lot of people are quick to judge and make insensitive comments, meanwhile the proper thing would be to sit and let the course take it's place, there are bad eggs, these bad eggs should not be the cause of a hateful generalization —humanity starts from you!

Go Sidon for bush...people like you don’t speak against police brutality, but are quick to take sides with the corrupt and heartless beasts in uniform.

Bloggers can do anything to generate traffic...expect to know the true details of this picture in a couple of days.

Iamsammy:
did u know Burna boy father na fela manager

His grandfather, not his father.

The OP and FFK are in the same category...they are both dancing to the tune of their pay master.

Sanchez01:
So many of your angles are wrong!

Rent accounts for over 50% of the problems in marriage. In a country where the average Joe barely earns 100k monthly, breaking the barrier of rent is like winning a jackpot. And if you think becoming a broke landlord is insane, wait till you get overwhelmed by financial demands in another man's house while your rent due date edge closer.

Most people think venturing into a business automatically translates to steady inflow. What you don't realize is that mishaps are very common with personal businesses and just one would have been a problem in another man's house as you'd need to secure loans or borrow to temporarily stay afloat. Typical business folks who mostly survive this ugly phase often go as far as selling other stuff they own to stay alive in business. It is not the same with people who don't have other money raising properties to fall back to when things get ugly.

My family stopped paying rent in Lagos since 1999 and growing up, there were moments when money would be scarce but the single thought of not worrying about paying rent eased so many things.

Plus while you brazenly suggest they sell off the property, you failed to ask what state it is situated, which should have been your major concern before going further to talk about whether or not the move was wise.

I think we all should learn to put 'just my opinion' after suggesting some things in this section so that we don't end up destroying lives in the name of counseling. Opinions are opinions and some, if not most are somewhat dangerous.

As unwise as you think the move is, I'd advise you invest your last penny in a landed property and conveniently add swag to soaking your Cassava flakes in your own property, after developing it to a reasonable extent.

Best advice ever! I am sure he has never been harassed by a landlord before and his properties thrown out... he would appreciate staying even in his personal uncompleted building. Personal property pays off even in old age when you are too weak to hustle.

kestolove95:
Na only one jeans nd belt him get? Mtseew

Is that all you could type? You don’t know his struggles so let him be.

toolovely:
For more than two years now, I've been eating local rice. That's what I buy. Abakaliki rice. All these people bashing local rice of having stones and the rest, I have never picked stone or eaten stone in my own local rice.

Was it this expensive 2 years ago... why can’t it be cheaper? Must Nigerians pass through hell for team government to make a point...

May all child abusers rot in hell! I’m pained

She and her predecessor look like twins

WorWorBoy:
Why is her face like that?

Too much pancakes

Kingrexyl:
Is that your problem

Please ask her...mindset of an average slay queen.

Please stop forcing Halloween down our throats It’s not our culture.

These ladies are happier than some of the babies that spew trash on Nairaland... you will know the only confidence they have is hiding behind their screen typing trash.

frankyskyboi:
Thanks for your opinions.. I'm sorry I can't move ahead with such relationship until I know my woman and where she's coming from in totality. We may underrate this but it's very vital especially in my family. I can't take a one sided story and even if she pops up an answer tomorrow, I'll still do my background investigation. Before presenting her to my parents, they'll ask her same questions I'm asking her so to save the headache, it's better she does the needful.

She has told you what she told...what else do you want to hear if you do want to do again beg leave the girl alone so she can have her peace!