MChoc24:
@stuffs4me what if the men abused them first and then didn't know what they were getting in to I know because it happened to me

That's a whole lot of "what-ifs"!

Victim-blaming is one thing we need to stop regardless of the Gender.

I know you'll have heard of men getting raped, right? Domestic Violence pretty much goes the same way and is far easier to perpetrate in all its forms for the 'headcase' folks who do it!

Being naive about these things actually prepares us less for giving quick and apt help to sufferers.

IdeyFindWife:


Am from a so-called minority tribe but av been privileged to have related with government service infrastructures all over the 6 geopolitical zones and frankly speaking, politicians and civil service structure's the same everywhere all over Nigeria. Don't deceive yourself, aside from the good ones, majority of politicians and policy-implementing public servants have been a let-down to this country thus far.

People in each State first have to think for themselves by electing forward-thinking administrations with strategic long-term business plans and developmental models for their States which will not only grow them but answer all the deeper yearnings of the individual tribes/people-groups present in them! That being done plus good representative governance comprised of compassionate and conscientious men who won't go to Abuja to sell-out would have being great foundations for autonomous state developments.

Instead, what do we do? We tribalize every little thing right from council and ward levels. We queued up behind kolanut&yam eating deceivers who are ran elections with Bank Loans and long lists of pay-back conditions from different groups, financiers and godfathers!

When did the narrative change from thieving governors stealing enough money to be richer than their own States? When did everybody suddenly forget the stupidly-meddlesome contributions of the Military regimes and their damaging impact up till the present OR the need for constitutional/public sector reforms and restructuring the country?

Most tribalistic Nigerians have no personal history or reason for devolving into such hateful goblins with shallow mindlessness and perennial selective forgetfulness of everything else except their spite; they just stupidly buy into it!

The push-pull effect of you, Yoruba/Hausa/Igbo tribes and your constant puerile bickering has sabotaged the rest of us long enough! We don't need Lagos, y'all who want it and go take it and die for all we care. Being paired with y'all has been backward-tracking curse, not a blessing! And you're still talking shyt!

You people should get your shyt together!

That Lagos that you are crying over didn't start out as a problem to you. Lagos never campaigned to usurp any other State's position, resources or opportunities. The fact that you're not thinking or moving does not mean others should stop for you to overtake them. This is a Capitalist environment! If Lagos was not openly all inclusive, all tribes wouldn't be so glaringly well-represented there to the point that people call it a "No-Man's-Land"! To turn around and bite that same finger that fed so fat reveals depths of moral blindness and ungrateful wretchedness.

You've printed and distributed "Blame-cards" to Lagos and everyone else for your problems thus far. I'm sure you'll soon go and give God his own copy personally if you don't stop raising your Blood-Pressure needlessly like this.

Bravo Sir, well sir!

People vote intellectually sapped leaders who only flew into to rig and win elections to 'rule' over people who's struggles they know nothing about and for whom, they have no plans, mercy or compassion. they're just political-prostitutes managing their own political-olosho career.

Governments ought to be integrative and holistic working first for the good of their people/State instead of upholding biased, destructive party sentiments...nobody is saying anything about that!

JideAmuGiaka:
1) Somtimes their skirts are not wide enough to give them that balance at the middle.

2) Some lustful guys wants the breast to be hitting them.

3) Okada men sometimes gets hard on when these breasts start hitting them at the back and may lost control.

A man once beat the hell out of his wife for this. Accusing her of adultery.

Fair enough; wonder why pple're getting all tribalistic for nothing. Back in the days in the S.E, women sat astride motorbikes for rides and nobody frowned on it. Now, that bikers, population explosion and traffic-problems constrain people to sit more than 2 passengers per bike in the overcrowded Lagos, it should be expected that normal complications that humans bring to all areas of their life will come to that sector too.

These are practical reasons plus I don't even expect a lady to feel comfortable sandwiched in-between 2 male strangers anyway.

Yet, in the event of a fall, the person wedged in-between has lesser freedom of movement and is thus at the mercy of whatever disaster happens next.

The best thing to do will depend on the environment you find yourself in and your judgement of your co-passengers.

DrGoodman:


Stop crying, accuse your forefathers for making you this hate filled. Pele.

U see yourself? Already twisting facts and adding lies to ur bigotry..

and where is the hate you can pick out in my post...show it now.

Change ur ways, mr man!

Raine80:
There is strong evidence that marrying first cousins has many genetic implications.
Saying that most Christians tend to frown on the practise the exception being Mormons and the Amish.

If you look at the list cousins are not included. If I may use Jacob, Rachel, and Leah is any indication, it would appear that cousin marriage was fairly common in those times . In Genesis 28:1, 2, Isaac charges his son: "You shall not take a wife from the daughters of Canaan. Arise, go to Padan Aram, to the house of Bethuel your mother's father, and take yourself a wife from there of the daughters of Laban your mother's brother."
However how does our culture view the marriage of first or second cousins? The view of society will influence religion and vice versa. We adapt certain aspects of the bible to suit the society we live in.
No European country bans first cousins marrying each other but it's still frowned upon.

Cool, i was expecting to see someone bring up the practical biogenetical impracticality angle instead of loosely interpreted Bible verses and conjectures based oon historical antecedents of which we may not have the actual specific catalysts.

Anyways and simply put, just the same way a lot of sstuffs you read in Leviticus etc have a compassionately practical endpoint of God building the Jews a socio-spiritual framework that'd promote goodhealth, longetivity and fair civil relations while guaranteeing the ultimate survival of their race, am guessing that, this close-kin marraige stuff was been discouraged just like that.

Notice that, close-kin marriage was practiced earlier on in Genesis but was discouraged as soon as the population-numbers could support interbreeding. Even up to WW I era, the Jew's practice of marrying, mostly, one another to preserve genetic/racial purity had already being rewarded with certain health disorders common, more to them than others, like Haemophilia (a condition where the sufferer has unusually fragile blood vessels that rupture easily or bleeds fail to clot easily on time from cuts, wounds and bruises).

And was that peculiarly new to them, nooo? As far back as 2nd Century AD, early Jewish Holy Scriptures Talmudic writings recorded some of the first accurate descriptions of Haemopholia as a human malady common to Jews. Can we say that that God was trying to keep them from stuff like that all the while? I'd guess so. Even other practical issues remain to consider like the effect of failed love attempts and divorces etc

Having enjoyed a mutual crush with a distant cousin before; I can testify that the pull can be powerful when it is there but only on the long run, it's best that folks should sow-their-oats well outside the confines of home.

The one I'd like to hear about is the issue of marrying ur late elder-bros wifey to "continue-his-lineage" and all the factors that led to the death of that guy that wanked in Genesis!

simplyhonest:

anyway, if your intention is to take advantage of Seun's hard work and platform... I won't oblige you by clicking the link... go and work hard

> you ought to have gotten the pun, sorry english language aint our mother-tongue,
anyway, bye!

DrGoodman:


Your ancestors invented tribalism, I wonder why you are crying about it?

The way you so-called Igbos and ofonjas go about making noise upandan like you're the only tribes in the country is laughable. And as for your ofonja counterparts, they've actually fared better than you thus far, haven't they?

Keep up the hate, am sure it will feed you one day!

NwaObinkita:
This a lesson to all women who leave one man for another.

This woman will not have died if she remained with her first husband.

Changing of sperm affects the female body so much.
Just like changing of engine oil affects the performance of an engine and kills it.


Ask your doctor.

Mazi, u might've had a point if it was cervical cancer or thereabouts...
She had a heart-attack. That particular engine doesn't knock with "changing of oil", ok, so stop scaring the ladies!
However, that does not mean arbitrary changing of partners is encouraged; just setting the records straight, medically!

Edu3Again:


Should be Crisis looms between the North and South

The North want their own share of BabiJebu Bet money!

Northern Cabal should kukuma evacuate Nigeria and fill the space with their almajiris.

So, so, replacing every viable position with their stooges.

That won't save them come 2019!

Always a dear to work with.

one actress who still embodied self-dignity, virtue and kindness.

you will be missed, adieu!

May the good Lord grant the family all the necessary fortitude to bear this painful loss.

DrGoodman:
Hope they don't give this one tribal marks o.

Fine girl with good home training.

Tribalism has robbed you of humanity; you're so barely human the apes would adopt you in a blink, sir.

A little girl exhibited a virtous conduct most adults won't manifest which all well-meaning individuals should commend, you're here doing this. Repent o! You will have ur own kids one day!!

Ahhhhhhhhhhhh, moji...

dead

why?

how??


Oh no...!

This had better be a joke...

Modified
Adieu..old colleague!

what else did she expect.

it was all a set-up. such guys don't like getting tied down...gigolo like him, sponging off a woman and still plotting her death, smh!

Hmmn, the thirst is real. IceP is prolly looking to nut the poor gal.

Would he have taken a 2nd glance at her if not for the euphoria and glamor of her BBN performance?

If a girl were to do this...we would say she was gold-digging. So, what is He doing now...pvnny-digging? smh...

Debbie rise kor, debbie fall ni

simplyhonest:
where are they....

They are there..look well!

only those who've eaten breakfast can see them!

Hmmn, how juicy?! The stage is set, the atmosphere is ripe. More maggots are landing to feast on the rottening corpse of the Dikeh-Churchill broken home...

Naija celebrity weddings are now acquiring the lifespans of house-flies and Naija Celebs are now getting extra-good at, glamorously, dragging out scandals.

Next-Stop: They'll start signing PRENUPs to shield demselves against their yeye arrangee liasions....we're getting there small. Una well done!

Celeb marriages are really over-rated even folks who opt for the money later find they exchanged it for their anonymity, right to privacy, non-judgemental living and peace of mind. y'all can have it and shove it!

The whole country had been stolen, from under our forefather's noses, by Lugard, right from the beginning of this farce but they didn't know it but as students of history, we are not surprised at this Lootocracy, most of which happened under Northern-led Rule.,

But, anyone who thinks things will continue like this till "forever and world-without-end" is obviously stupid-beyond-measure and that includes the politicians, northern "slave-master" oligarchy and their south-western co-conspirators.

Jungle go soon mature. It will surprise everybody when the zoo may cracks like a palm-kernel.

People give the best of advice they wouldn't take to others expecting them to comply by force.

The tolerance and level of excuse-making for this man is legendary and even by Nigerian standards fantastically stupid!

It's #LinnJazzy Again!


Bet he's warming up the Bridal Chamber for Linda as we speak.

Never underestimate a short man!

Boys @home will go Bovi-Mode like:

Baby, see me here
Oh Baby, wake up from sleep...oyah, o baby!

Tiwa wailed like a dirge mourner,
Tonto cried like a movie star
Mercy own nor get Part 2; her performance was assisted by cheek-uplifting slaps and gully-erosion punches!

Yo Ladies, ladies, slayQueen-or-not, the new motto now is; while patiently, busily and wisely auditioning your prospective Magas, make sure He is not a Puncher (#Tyson, #BoboMayWeather, #BashAlli-Bros)!

Nuff said; wise ones will decode, wiser ones will imbibe!

Happy #MagaHunting, girls!

Id10ts on Ofonja/Ipob lunacy trajectory will soon come.an start derailing this thread forgetting that, once you come outside the country, all that asinine brain-torched zombie-ist reasoning ceases to count; dude, they only see your skin color and reckon wiv ur nationality man, and Naija lots ain't got much of that these days.

They shouldn't just mess CA up, that'd be tragic, if Canadians have to start upping the Immigration Regulation laws for Naijans because of a few accursed b@stards!

JoelNkantaBlog:

The Nigeria Union in South Africa said on Wednesday that two Nigerians were shot dead in Western Cape Province of that country.

Mr Mike Ibitoye, the Chairman of the Union`s chapter in the province, told the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on telephone from Cape Town, South Africa, that the Nigerians were shot by unidentified assailants.

“ Mr Ernest Ughakwesili, 42, native of Nkpor, Idemili North Local Government Area of Anambra State, was shot in a night club by gunmen at Strand Area of Cape Town on Sunday.

“ The assailants escaped after the shooting and the victim died before being rushed to the hospital,” he said.

Ibitoye also said the second victim, Chimezie Oranusi, 26, from Oba town in Anambra State, was shot with a friend in a car at Delst area of Cape Town.

“ The friend is a South African and is still in the hospital receiving treatment.

“ The incidents have been reported to the police and the national secretariat of the union,” he said.

The chairman said that the (Click on the link below to read more)
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What would they accuse these ones of now? What cooked-up lies are they gonna trying feeding us again?

Its unfortunate.

A lot many Nigerians seem to be tapping into the negative energies of their host countries abroad, these days, why?! And judging by South Africa's past and current violence-prone society, a nigga gats to step lightly, either ur packing or not; the streets of SA ain't singing love duets any more, eh?

Ma boy almost got shot getting mugged in Jo'burg; lost a lot but you won't hear about that. It's "Nigerians this, Nigerians that"! And we know their police force is complicit too.

For all of y'all over there, we pray for your continued safety and success in all ur legit endeavors!

Eyah, you poor child you! Getting your feelings all mushed up and hopes played up like dis, sorry. But, see, you're still in great shape.


You should consider the poster,Quidditch, above's line of thought; he's on to something you mightn't have considered earlier, y'know?

From the questions raised by ur guy, possibly, not considering settling his Fortunes in SA, your life plans aren't aligned despite all he's telling you and doing with you.

He may not wanna settle down out in Southie for life or to move on from there, let's say, to Canada/US, as you could later feel inclined to. Issues like that will generate problems late in the future and with an intelligent guy like the one you have, his smart ways of solving those problems may not pay you on the long run because trust me, if things go sour between you two, he's gonna sort himself fine, you're the one who's gonna be left hanging. Don't forget he already has somebody while you're looking to him as your "one&only"!

Take it from me, baby girl, as long as you're sharing him with some other chick somewhere, with you holding the short end of the stick, your life plans ain't aligned, you're gonna have to let him. The mere fact that he could travel home behind your back to "Snag&Shag" another lady should tell you that all you have here are the romantic talks etc.

The other Naija homegrown was prolly handpicked or rubberstamped by the family and, I can assure you, all the auntie&"Mother-Hens-in-law" of the family are busy monitoring her tummyline now for the results of your Bf's marital "research practicals" on his new bride! So, who's on ur side now?!

You're way-too-young for all that kinda drama. Dont let anybody tie you down.

As an Embassarian, I suggest its time you "walk-your-(faith)-talk" to the point where God perfects your desired marital dream of bliss.

Dont play a winning game in a losing way. He's a married man. You've dated him casually all this while. He wasnt then, now he is. Disconnect your emotions and plans for future from him and get searching for the best of God for your life!

Advice well given that shouldn't be taken lightly!

TroubleMaker47:

So someone cannor fvck his fiancee in piss again?


*MODIFIED*
Seun sometimes I wonder what is wrong with ur mods in their heads oo.
A Christian converts to islam= muslim thread.
A Muslim converts to Christianity= muslim thread too?


Ah ah. Kukuma make nairaland an Islamic forum na?

Leave uncle seun alone o
Dunt let dem binladin him
besides political correctness is always good for business
political correctness....the curse of the free world!


NB
As for freeze, i always knew saw fvcker's pontificate and envied how he slept well handing out all that ITK-ish he called wisdom
with his perms and curls oozing enough gallons of oil to fry a big Easter turkey...
i always suspected he musta be a weak sick mudafvka snitch in grade school too
weak dudes do sh!t sturvs like dat...screwwing a milf on the low prolly in her hubby's bed too...
if you were man enuf, you shoulda just snatchd her or wait out the Divorce case...

Basic123:

Lolz...this is the best your brain could processed in a discussion like this.

By the way,is your mum a baby mama?

Nor ask for my mama joor!
Stay ur lane o, uncle, u don baff?
Dem say fast, u nor fast, dem say pray, u nor pray, after u chop ur Easter chicken alone finish, U come dey find persin who fada be babymama, who u epp sef?
babymama ko, babypapi ni! Abegi, my mama don marry o...nor come dey arrange cougar paroles hia
u nor dey fia sef...wait make i catch u

brainless b@stard

Godprotectigbo5:
d person wey snap this picture no try.... y show all the woman body




anyway thank God for ur life

when people get scattered all over the road in ghastly motor accidents too, that's how their pics are snapped without they being able to speak up for themselves.

May the good Lord protect us and ours forthwith from all and such occurrences of life that render one powerless to help oneself or even bother about decency or not. Where the grace of Baba God nor go fit protect us, may our feet not carry us there because this Nigeria sef, everytin just be like ticking time-bomb waiting to blow kwa.

Na persin we dey kampe, persin wey get choice, na dem dey remember all those things.

Happy Easter bro; go eat somthing good, sip somtin nice and thank God for ur own lot in life.