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Babyforever:
Enyaaaaa it's well with you

thanks

She was really glad today and prayed for me when she found out for the first time, i was calling to send her card and not talk about problems which i always fall into. What is left for me to surmount is self-service and arrogance. Omo man gat turn a new leaf and grow up. I've resolved to pick up the pieces left of my life and go back to school or learn a trade.

I'm really grateful my mum didn't do away with me during my chronic gambling days. Even my siblings had suggested she left area boys to deal with me due to my dubious nature but she kept coming to my rescue. I really wrecked her heart into pieces. I remember her shedding tears one time when she found out i gambled with my school fees. Now, it's 2 months now and i'm yet to visit a bet shop. Getting a stronger addiction helped me pull through

GODPUNISHUNA:
ChildofD.oom

unwarranted mentions yet again

99 percent of our problems is money-related joor

Let me book space. I smell frontpage

ahnie:
that guy z over funny....i swearigawd!

hmm... I guess my life is a joke then

Me too. Airtel annoyingly sucks people's card

Uglymugg:
I'm not addicted to any of this things but still unhappy

hmm... Maybe your problem is woman or money. Your case is different then. Be happy you don't play bet9ja virtual. The effect on people is undescribable until you fall in the trap. No matter the money bet addicts get, it never has value. You get restless and go to betshops. Till now, i still curse the day some one introduced me to it.

Hector09:
I dont play virtual but i do play paper bet but nt that much, i can never be addicted to anything, its my life and i am incharge of it

not everyone can apply moderation

OneSentence:
I'm a slave to none of these. but here's my advice to anyone who's addicted. find a stronger higher desire to chase. in some cases people escape with the regular 'don't go there again, don't keep money on you, pray about it, etc kind of advice. but even with that if nothing higher or more desirous occupies the mind then the person returns to his old habits.

when a man lands his first job and it buys him that car he feels he has arrived but on seeing the chance for a better job that can buy him that dream house he loses the enthusiasm for that once awesome job and schemes on how to go about getting the next better job...so it is with addictions...I found someone higher and it's Jesus and it didn't stop there...all the best to you and him.

it's good to know jesus helped you. Trust me, it won't work for those deep into gambling. Prayer won't make them forget the hurt. Either they get help of a comfortable life by a philanthropist or they get a stronger addiction.

fykes:
What a wasted life.!

i hear you. Acting as if you have no bad side/vices in your life. It's the unadulterated facts i wrote up there

This might sound crazy but it's the only way out. Join a lot of sex chat groups on whatsapp or visit flirt and sexchat room on 2go to get naughty female friends. I have a lot of them. Anytime i'm free from work, like from 4pm, i go home, enter my blanket and go straight to errotic chats. After the naughty stuff till maybe 8pm, i sleep off till the next day. It's daily routine. It motivates me to work during the day because there's something to fall back to at night. If not, i had lost passion to work or learn after my ordeal. It's also better than betting 100percent because it kills depression, it doesn't make u bankrupt and it keeps your sanity intact.just me and my room from now on. Even if it takes my blood, i'll always refill with food and pepsi.

I know it's immoral and i'm doomed but it's far better than those who rob, kill, gamble with people's things and enter problems etc.

There's a method i adopted which has helped reduce my sorrow. I've decided to pick masturbation from all the addictions. So what i do, immediately i get paid my salary [9k], i quickly drop 2k with my mum, pay down 6k with a food vendor who would give me 200naira food everyday for 30days. Then use the remaining 1k to buy data on my etisalat line for porn. That way, no money is left on me to think of gambling. Try this @hardlife

There's just no way one can forget the pain gambling has caused. It keeps staring at you. When you go out, you see your mates who have graduated, it strikes ur heart. One can't help it but to go back to the shop either to sleep there and think your life or to continuing playing in order to seek solutions. Especially when you hear of people still making it from gambling.

Boys [14-35yrs] are slaves/bondaged by one thing or the other. Either women, drugs, yahoo, gambling [bet9ja] or masturbation

Any one admitted to uniben is doomed. A new complex opposite uniben has all bet shops in it. Surebet, bet9ja to merrybet, nairabet etc. I sold anything sellable just like the guy whose thread was on frontpage. From trousers to fan, bucket, meat in fridge, my friend's belt, umbrella etc just to find money to bet. I've been beaten up by thugs when i gambled with someone's phone. Unimaginable things were done by me because of bet9ja virtual. I can go on and on but i'll stop here. Youths are finished in this generation. Its either gambling, drugs or masturbation.

I was close to graduating when i started. I gambled with 40k school fees mum gave me twice. Borrowed from friends in school and church [saying it's life on the line because people pity a lot when u beg with education] and gambled. Bet9ja is too sweet to resist. They have sockets for u to charge, free dstv to watch and u meet wayward peeps like you who u can share your downside with.

I smiled when i read the thread of hard.life because i started bet9ja virtual almost the same time as you [mine 2015]. No one gives me money to help them buy something again because they know i won't come back. The truth is, there's no cure. You're only repentant when you're broke!

Booyakasha:
When you are successful watch how her attitude will change completely.. She doesn't really love you, she's emotionally abusing you.. You have to be calm and don't resort to violence or exchange words.. Just endure this difficult stage.. I know it hurts seeing a person you love treating you this way.. you can't simply force knowledge into her head, she's ignorant and unfortunately, you can't change that.. fortunately, It'll all be over soon. You're an amazing person with a lot to achieve in your life, you'll do great in life just keep believing in yourself.. cheers and stay safe.

hmm... True talk. Only success can silence her

kingxsamz:
emergencycase,Frustratedrat,Chi.ldofdoom. . . . . hmm...

unwarranted mention!

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Lonestar124:
Are you for real?.....though they're many children like you outside and inside this furum

Reason why parents should be praying for their children.

did you read through the lines? I said she's provoking me to anger

Every one have their issues. She better not rub hers on my body. I'm busy thinking of my life and how to make money. It's not like i'm the most wayward boy in the universe. Some have killed their parents.

She caused her own problem. When she had plenty, she was always giving my father money. Now he has made her miserable by borrowing every where, she won't let us hear word with her psychological issues!

I can bet that what she spent on my training and to bail me out of trouble is not up to 10 percent of what my dad duped her of. She better stopped saying i turned her to her wretched state

Mumsi just got back and has been running her mouth as usual. "who finish the rice? Why did you not fetch water in the drums? So you did not wash the plates? You are useless. You know how much i suffered to train you......."

i just walked away from her presence to the verandah to avoid confronting her. She has come outside to continue. She better let me be before i do something i will regret later!

lovelybugs:
Vasectomy:Vasectomy is a surgical procedure for male sterilization or permanent contraception. During the procedure, the male vas deferens are cut and tied or sealed so as to prevent sperm from entering into the urethra and thereby prevent fertilization.

You said you don't like children and your worst fear is to get a woman pregnant. The logical thing to do would be to get a vasectomy as it would eradicate the possibility of that happening.

See that hesitation when you consider getting one? That means you don't hate the thought of having children as much as you think.

I believe your still young and your opinion will change as you mature.

If it doesn't then consider getting a vasectomy as fathering a child that you don't care for is completely irresponsible and cruel.

ohh! Sense will not kill you

joseo:
how can someone say that he his mature and then publicly blame his mother for his behaviour........doesn't he he know his left from his right or does his mother dictate to him on a daily basis?

At a particular age in life u start thinking of dropping some character you have emulated from your parent and reason out who you need to become.

All I can deduce is that you are not matured enought to accept responsibility as far as life is concerned


start by telling God to help you and start accepting responsibility for the choices you make...good or bad and blame no one but yourself no matter what.

hmm... I'm advanced in age oo. Maybe it's because i'm still staying with my mum and she doesn't starve me as a punishment.

candyguyofficia:
Word!!! But hope you know a living gambler has hope to stop gambling than a dead gambler

mightyify has a point bro. Betting [bet9ja virtual] is the greatest addiction i ever got myself into. You lose your feelings in the process. I keep hurting and letting down people i love because of the 'virus'

jumiasalesguy3:
Why masturbate when you can afford a girl. I'm not a saint so I know what exactly you feel aside the betting thing which I have never tried because I don't believe in luck.
So on the masturbation. Get a sexually active girl and you may reduce your rate of masturbation. But if despite sex , you still need masturbation then your case is medically inclined because for me if I get regular sex I can go months without thinking of masturbation.

hmm.. You right. Good regular sex would suffice. But that would be herculean because i'm broke, unkempt, timid and with a weak erection

AdaAde:
Abeg make we hear word

Today problem, tomorrow trouble, what is your problem gan sef

Kindly give your life to jesus

that will be tough in this current era where 90 percent of the populace subscribe to immorality