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ireneony:
Damn! Tacha would have won this show if not for her anger issues. I'm pissed at her right now

who am i seeing? It's been long o

Gofwane:
Guy, you never still repent? 2019 is almost over o!

I remember how you started the year with plans and tips on how to quit gambling

hmm.. My guy it's easier said than done. Our needs are numerous and the economy bad. Gambling is our only hope of making it big

I remember one time i stayed with someone not related to me. It wasn't funny at all. I had little or no source of getting money. He was always not around and so the pot was mostly empty. My mum was generous enough to send down soup and stew to me from where she was.

I messed up during my time with the philantropist sha. This is someone that could have linked me up to get a good job. I carried out some clandestine acts in his house i always denied.

I remember seldomly using his groceries and properties as collateral to collect money to gamble. I once used one of his expensive belts, a lap of chicken [you heard me right], umbrella, his babe's chain etc. The chain was the last straw that broke the camel's back.

Last last, na mumsi pay. I do feel remorseful at times though. I'm human. I will try to always wash plates and run errands for mum as my sign of gratitude since there is no sign i will make money to take care of her

I wonder what would have become of me if my mum had died. I may have become restless, gone out to steal to continue betting and may be get lynched or arrested. Those no longer under their parents, i wonder how they cope once bet9ja virtual drains them. I had just 300 naira today i should have used to buy bread and pepsi yet squandered it on games. I got home and luckily, eba and groundnut soup was already served, awaiting me.

I will let you in on what my mum does to make things okay.......

deedondavi:
Pele!

no one died. Just old habit hard to change. Punting is a cankerworm eating into the lives of youths now

0KNM:
You’ve been ranting for more than 3 years on this forum, do you ever get tired? Smh

in every nonsense, there is some sense. You can use me as an example when advising the younger generations

My 'only consolation' is that there are a lot of gamblers worse than me when you go to betting shops. Their bad stories give me hope. I pity any one who has a brother or father or uncle or son who wants to take to gambling. You better run or warn them or you will feel the repercussions.

Like me, i can't step into Edo State till further notice because of the toes i stepped on

my case

i never thought gambling could get into me until i encountered bet9ja virtual. It's like a virus as strong as 'spiritual manipulation.' since i started, i hardly get a grip of myself till i lose it all.

It has made me dubious as well. I remember gambling away 19k i was asked to deposit in the bank by my principal/employer. I lied that i misplaced the money.

In the same school i worked before, i fled after squandering money paid to me for extra lesson, graduation party, some textbooks and even cooperative money.

Gambling sha. It alters one's focus, makes one desperate, lose touch with reality, wayward, lose passion for working, broke etc

my dad

i used to despise my dad for causing misery to my mum. For years, while growing up, i watched him drain his finance and that of my mum playing coupon [pool] and Lotto.

He was good at tricking people to lend him in order to continue the act. As an influential member of his village, he was part of those selected to plan for the establishment of a fertilizer plant in the village by Dangote. He fled with a huge chunk of the money.

As a big society man, he got his friends to lend him money running into millions. He duped a retired military man, widows and a host of other people. He is currently on the run as he dares not step into Delta State again

People say: "birds of a feather, flock together." This is an apt description of my dad and I. Since we ventured into gambling, we have done and 'undone' lots of criminal acts to continue the habit. I will let you in on some..........

ppreye:
Finally a Nigerian movie that could take me to the cinema. As far as I know Ramsey Nouah could totally feature in a Hollywood blockbuster. He's an excellent actor

About the Tittle, pls what's that figure of speech used for 2 completely opposite words placed in a sentence. Its been long

if it isn't oxymoron, then it's antithesis

iLegendd:
I'll treat it like a freelance job. I'll pay for it. This is what you do. If you're using an Android phone to write, install the app Keep My Note and use it to write.

Reason is: it's the best I discovered lately. I lost all my file because I was using one without an option to backup, or syn to to Google Drive, but this app has everything. Even if my phone gets missing, I'll no longer lose my files as I used to. It has auto backup. So, I don't want you to lose whatever you type. For me, I have lost a lot and I don't want others to make those mistakes I made.

Writing Style

Write just the same way you talk (conversational) as you tell your story. Forget about writing it as a motivational book — I'll be the one to add the motivational side. All I want is for you to pour your heart without filter or editing. Keep it blunt and emotional. You can even copy someone of your old posts and add to it.



Extensively talk about...

1. The beginning when all things were good
2. How things began to change and what caused it
3. When things got bad
4. How unbearable it has become
5. Negative thoughts you used to have
6. Every other things that will make the story emotional

I want people who read it to cry after reading. Write in a way where your readers will feel your pains and start crying half way through the book.

Write it in a way that will scare any youth who loves gambling. If there were too much masturbation involved in your journey, loneliness, pains, etc. write all of them down and don't hold back. Don't correct typos — just keep typing and let it flow effortlessly.

If you need recharge card to get started, I'll send you 500 card tomorrow for sub. I want you to get started before the momentum dies. I believe in quick action.

One thing I want to tell those reading this is: even if you're not successful yet, the entire world is waiting to buy and read your stories despite how bad your journey is. In fact, the scarier your story, the better. All you need is to learn how to package it and where to sell it.

hmm.. My Android phone is faulty. Tilll month end or early next month before i can fix it

By 2023, about 5 million men and youths will be rendered useless, insane, in big trouble or dead by Bet9ja. The government better do something about these multifarious bet shops littering the country.

I'm a victim. My life is remaining 'one bar'. I know where i should have been by now if not for 'virtual'

iLegendd:
Do you want to write it like a freelancer would do and I own the copyright after paying you for your writing or you want to write it and own it?

just choose any option suitable to you. Any one is fine by me as long as it pays. I will start constructing my story by Monday. Once i write, i will send to you. Any length criterion or as lengthy as i wish?

iLegendd:
Your story can actually be turned to a book to warn the youth. If you write your entire story down, I'll pay you to own the right. Your spelling and grammar is sound.

wow... Never wrote a book before but i'm interested in the offer

ijesuoboikxp1:
Many people i know, they are worst than you so you are a very useful sperm, but you don't know it yet... Get a very good job when you got a good source of wealth you won't complain too much... One of my friend always compile a list of bet9ja slip every morning afternoon and so on in fact he has sold his phone one time to play the game so is a great addiction that need a great time, focus, support from others, infact it can lead to long time friendship breakup if you are not careful ....just look for a job to keep you extremely busy so that you will be able to keep your mind of it. . Good lucky...

true sort of. One time i added extra lessons to my teaching job that occupied me till 7pm. That period, i hardly gambled till the contract was off.

There are so many enticing things at bet9ja shops that makes one go back to the act. For example, there has been power outage in my area since 2018. But the bet shops always put on their generator. We go there to charge our phones. There is also a satellite dish there as you can watch matches for free

Filmewell:
Eyah! You now no you have a problem so deal with it. You may want to ask how. Join an AA group sort of a thing. Maybe your own will be GA(gambling addict) .talk about it too someone that cares until you hate the act and not yourself.
Don't mind relapse period, if you keep fighting you will make it.
Besides you still have hope but you need to stop comparing yourself to others they may be secret wasted sperm too. Just that they are good in hiding it.

Epistle? I know. who even ask me

you are being helpful but how do i cover lost grounds. Being in a group, if not composed of influential people might not help me.

For example, some one puts 5000 naira in my care. The money in question is probably the first i'm seeing in a long while as money is hard to come by these days.

I begin to think of my needs and i eventually spend from it to get let's say food or drugs or patch my clothes. Immediately that happens, i become scared of the reaction of the person who gave me money to hold.

Then, i'm forced to resort to gambling to see if i can fill up what i used. In the process, i loose it all & get into more trouble. Hmm..

I feel only a secure future can make me change

I can't remember when last i even bought a new belt or shoe. I look unkempt. Any little money that comes to me goes to virtual sport. People have lost trust in me. I swindled my last employer, my best friend, my mum and a host of other people to gamble. I had to flee where i once rented because a creditor was after me. I wish i can turn the hands of time. My former classmates have all moved to the next level.

Hmm... It's almost impossible to let go. Since i started, i have lost nothing less than 500k. My addiction to football put me in this mess.

I wish i could stop making my mum sober. I wish i could stop hurting. Life hardly gives 2nd chance. Either i get help and get my life back or i continue

My dad would always preach to us on how responsible he was during his youthful days. He moved to his own place at age 19. By age 26, he got married to my mum. All advice fell on deaf ears. I'm still under my mum's roof. Thank God she's still alive to tolerate my excesses. I have sold a lot of things to patronise gambling. From phones to clothes to electronics. I wish i could be the ideal son.

I'm close to my thirties but unaccomplished and a crook. Since I started Bet9ja in 2015, i have been miserable and deceitful. Do you know after tricking my mum to send my final year fee twice in school, i still did not graduate. Bet9ja virtual sucked my finances and destiny. The most painful truth is that there is no way out....

When a male child is born, there is rejoicing as there is a belief that a boy will uphold the family name. But my case is different. I have been more of a curse than a blessing to my family. Infact, 50 percent of boys these days are wayward as they are influenced by the Western World

hmm.. I doubt if I have anything to offer women. no funds no erection

Good health and my parents' trust

MyGeneration:
Romance scene is more appropriate. If u dae find sex scene check game of thrones learn

pirates nko!