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People say: "birds of a feather, flock together." This is an apt description of my dad and I. Since we ventured into gambling, we have done and 'undone' lots of criminal acts to continue the habit. I will let you in on some..........

ppreye:
Finally a Nigerian movie that could take me to the cinema. As far as I know Ramsey Nouah could totally feature in a Hollywood blockbuster. He's an excellent actor

About the Tittle, pls what's that figure of speech used for 2 completely opposite words placed in a sentence. Its been long

if it isn't oxymoron, then it's antithesis

iLegendd:
I'll treat it like a freelance job. I'll pay for it. This is what you do. If you're using an Android phone to write, install the app Keep My Note and use it to write.

Reason is: it's the best I discovered lately. I lost all my file because I was using one without an option to backup, or syn to to Google Drive, but this app has everything. Even if my phone gets missing, I'll no longer lose my files as I used to. It has auto backup. So, I don't want you to lose whatever you type. For me, I have lost a lot and I don't want others to make those mistakes I made.

Writing Style

Write just the same way you talk (conversational) as you tell your story. Forget about writing it as a motivational book — I'll be the one to add the motivational side. All I want is for you to pour your heart without filter or editing. Keep it blunt and emotional. You can even copy someone of your old posts and add to it.



Extensively talk about...

1. The beginning when all things were good
2. How things began to change and what caused it
3. When things got bad
4. How unbearable it has become
5. Negative thoughts you used to have
6. Every other things that will make the story emotional

I want people who read it to cry after reading. Write in a way where your readers will feel your pains and start crying half way through the book.

Write it in a way that will scare any youth who loves gambling. If there were too much masturbation involved in your journey, loneliness, pains, etc. write all of them down and don't hold back. Don't correct typos — just keep typing and let it flow effortlessly.

If you need recharge card to get started, I'll send you 500 card tomorrow for sub. I want you to get started before the momentum dies. I believe in quick action.

One thing I want to tell those reading this is: even if you're not successful yet, the entire world is waiting to buy and read your stories despite how bad your journey is. In fact, the scarier your story, the better. All you need is to learn how to package it and where to sell it.

hmm.. My Android phone is faulty. Tilll month end or early next month before i can fix it

By 2023, about 5 million men and youths will be rendered useless, insane, in big trouble or dead by Bet9ja. The government better do something about these multifarious bet shops littering the country.

I'm a victim. My life is remaining 'one bar'. I know where i should have been by now if not for 'virtual'

iLegendd:
Do you want to write it like a freelancer would do and I own the copyright after paying you for your writing or you want to write it and own it?

just choose any option suitable to you. Any one is fine by me as long as it pays. I will start constructing my story by Monday. Once i write, i will send to you. Any length criterion or as lengthy as i wish?

iLegendd:
Your story can actually be turned to a book to warn the youth. If you write your entire story down, I'll pay you to own the right. Your spelling and grammar is sound.

wow... Never wrote a book before but i'm interested in the offer

ijesuoboikxp1:
Many people i know, they are worst than you so you are a very useful sperm, but you don't know it yet... Get a very good job when you got a good source of wealth you won't complain too much... One of my friend always compile a list of bet9ja slip every morning afternoon and so on in fact he has sold his phone one time to play the game so is a great addiction that need a great time, focus, support from others, infact it can lead to long time friendship breakup if you are not careful ....just look for a job to keep you extremely busy so that you will be able to keep your mind of it. . Good lucky...

true sort of. One time i added extra lessons to my teaching job that occupied me till 7pm. That period, i hardly gambled till the contract was off.

There are so many enticing things at bet9ja shops that makes one go back to the act. For example, there has been power outage in my area since 2018. But the bet shops always put on their generator. We go there to charge our phones. There is also a satellite dish there as you can watch matches for free

Filmewell:
Eyah! You now no you have a problem so deal with it. You may want to ask how. Join an AA group sort of a thing. Maybe your own will be GA(gambling addict) .talk about it too someone that cares until you hate the act and not yourself.
Don't mind relapse period, if you keep fighting you will make it.
Besides you still have hope but you need to stop comparing yourself to others they may be secret wasted sperm too. Just that they are good in hiding it.

Epistle? I know. who even ask me

you are being helpful but how do i cover lost grounds. Being in a group, if not composed of influential people might not help me.

For example, some one puts 5000 naira in my care. The money in question is probably the first i'm seeing in a long while as money is hard to come by these days.

I begin to think of my needs and i eventually spend from it to get let's say food or drugs or patch my clothes. Immediately that happens, i become scared of the reaction of the person who gave me money to hold.

Then, i'm forced to resort to gambling to see if i can fill up what i used. In the process, i loose it all & get into more trouble. Hmm..

I feel only a secure future can make me change

I can't remember when last i even bought a new belt or shoe. I look unkempt. Any little money that comes to me goes to virtual sport. People have lost trust in me. I swindled my last employer, my best friend, my mum and a host of other people to gamble. I had to flee where i once rented because a creditor was after me. I wish i can turn the hands of time. My former classmates have all moved to the next level.

Hmm... It's almost impossible to let go. Since i started, i have lost nothing less than 500k. My addiction to football put me in this mess.

I wish i could stop making my mum sober. I wish i could stop hurting. Life hardly gives 2nd chance. Either i get help and get my life back or i continue

My dad would always preach to us on how responsible he was during his youthful days. He moved to his own place at age 19. By age 26, he got married to my mum. All advice fell on deaf ears. I'm still under my mum's roof. Thank God she's still alive to tolerate my excesses. I have sold a lot of things to patronise gambling. From phones to clothes to electronics. I wish i could be the ideal son.

I'm close to my thirties but unaccomplished and a crook. Since I started Bet9ja in 2015, i have been miserable and deceitful. Do you know after tricking my mum to send my final year fee twice in school, i still did not graduate. Bet9ja virtual sucked my finances and destiny. The most painful truth is that there is no way out....

When a male child is born, there is rejoicing as there is a belief that a boy will uphold the family name. But my case is different. I have been more of a curse than a blessing to my family. Infact, 50 percent of boys these days are wayward as they are influenced by the Western World

hmm.. I doubt if I have anything to offer women. no funds no erection

Good health and my parents' trust

MyGeneration:
Romance scene is more appropriate. If u dae find sex scene check game of thrones learn

pirates nko!

Jesu! See our money. So so billion billion they will be calling. And i'm here unable to raise 40,000 naira for the past 3 weeks now to solve a pressing need

sparkle7:
Masturbation? No way. No form of addiction is beta than the other. All of them are bad sir. We have a book here for controling addictions. More focus was placed on masturbation but the steps outlined can be applied on any addiction.
HOW TO CONTROL MASTURBATION. MUST READ!! Full Ebook.
If you want the full PDF kindly send me a PM. It is goes for a token of just N500. After reading this book and you still cant't get over masturbation then your problem is from above
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no, thank you

damien22:
I Totally agree with him. its a very bad addiction

yes o and it gives no second chance. When the money Is gone, it's gone for good.

Not like when you gamble with your friends and you beg them to give you a little part of it after you lose. Hmmm

TarOrfeek:
I agree with you.

Nothing could be worse than having a compulsion to waste money by yourself.

Especially on something with an instant reward/intangible reward format.

i tell you bro. I've had a lot of apprehensive moments due to my addiction

Torg77:
Is this a true story?

very true.