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I feel you girl. Just be careful, that's all I'm saying.

Wish you well~

nferyn:
Can you be more specific? I mean, how would (the absence of) God-belief be a determining factor in one's lifestyle?

Very good question.

The thing is that I was thinking of it in the other way. For instance, a person who promoted religiosity but lives an antisocial (in the most clinical use of the phrase) lifestyle would repulse me more than a jerk for whom "survival of the fittest" was liturgy.

But then John Lennon once "God is a concept by which we measure our pain." _{(those are the lyrics right?)} Point being that in so much as philosophy influences behavior it is the precursor to all lifestyles.

Some atheists are apathetic or nihilists as a extension of the (non?) religious beliefs. I meant all these things.

Samambaia, learning this man's native tongue will convey that you are interested in him. You obviously made an effort. . .

Where We Be: Abia state Aro/Ohafia Local Goverment
Villiage: Ihechiowa not far from Umuahia

Igbo kwenu! Igbo kwenu! Igbo kwezuee!

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I don't think you invited to this meeting of umunna. so just walk on by.

LMAO! That's killa!


Igbo kwenu! Igbo kwenu! Igbo kwezuee!

Hey Spiked! Nice profile pic mama!

@Topic
I guess it'd depend on how their beliefs influenced their lifestyle.

sareyah:
is it a terrible thing that a Nigerian man marry a white woman? I thought the world has gotten past this point by now. InshaAllah his family will not feel the same way as people here. I love his family even before I have met them because they are a part of him. I look forward to learning more about the culture and applying what I can to our lives.

My dear what are you on about? Nothing you said has any bearing on this discussion. Furthermore, this Naija lady married a white man. Perhaps you are one of those who think Nigerian men are chasing or lying in wait for white women. I guess white men are doing their own chasing as well.

Aww, Aicha's a big girl now! I really like her as a clown.

what a crazy thread. . .

@Nairamar
"Caucasian" people refer to themselves as "white" all the time. In TEXAS at least. And I mean from Lubbock to Harlingen. I'm not saying the dude is white -- don't care really -- just saying you're point is. . .er. . .

lovestinks:
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HEY GUYS I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP HERE.My ex boyfriend who left me for my own friend about six months ago,really broke my heart i mean the works.ie took sleeping pill 4 weeks,lost about 6kg in 2months,listened to all the old love songs possible.cried mysef to sleep for months.infact u name it i did it.now out of the blues he is back and begging me to come back and start afresh.the painfull thing is am just starting 2 recover and get over him and now he is back again.how do i forgive such a thing, the issues am having is

1.he dumped me really bad.u know like being with her in public and ignoring me,not taking my calls etc
2.how can i ever trust him again
3.wats the possibility it wont happen again
4.he broke an unwritten rule in dating.thou shall not date your partners friends,family and enimies
5.he said so many terrible things about me to his friends
6.he took back all the stuffs he gave me 4 my birthday,chrismas etc

PLEASE SOMEONE TELL ME WAT TO DO, I AM REALLY CONFUSED

Been there baby girl. Just keep your head up.

My advice: Stay away! He's no good. He doesn't deserve you & you know it.

Listen to more songs: "Never Again" Justin Timberlake, Common, IndiaAire & anything else that makes you feel better

But please don't go back to this dude. It'll only mean more heartache! Be brave.

Welcome Rainbow!

I've missed a few Sundays so now I'm a bit confused.

babe1:
Chinani, if you are IBO, u should know that IBO = TRIBE and IGBO = LANGUAGE period, no buts, ifs and ands. You can take note too Seun , we are ibos and we speak igbo.

Yes I am Igbo. And I know that Igbo = ethnic group, Igbo = culture & Igbo = language. No notes necessary.

K2DaC:
somebody give me an igbo name i think thyre so preety

How about Anyachi.

Old Glory:
Whatever the Bleep ever. I said Bill Clinton not the US Government. The US Govt gives Billions of $'s to Africa too. But Bill Gates gives his own money, so does Steven Spielberg,Larry Ellison gives tens of millions of dollars, Warren Buffet just made history a week or so ago. These people do not need African sounding names to make things happen. Oprah does not need an African name for her to do good with her fame and money. My point is we should give credit where credit is due. We claim he is Nigerian because he has a Nigerian sounding name. His ancestry may not even come from today's Nigeria. Why should i even care about his name. And yeah girl check your ego at the door, then make your point. I know you want to be heard.

I didn't say that we shouldn't give credit. I said that giving credit doesn't change identities. I gave little opinoin about Obba Babatunde so read well well. Check your bullshit.

diddy4:
and nairaland just made her popular. she aint all that to me. she is fine and stuff but no fine pass my sister. she gott@ try harder.

LMAO! Diddy you truly made me laugh aloud! She "no fine pass". You got standards jare. I ain't mad at cha!