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[quote author=190-the-clown][color=RED]katty perry - ROAR [/color][/quote]YOU CAN BE FUNNY AND MEAN AT TIMES. THIS TIME YOU ARE PLAIN MEAN.

WOULD YOU CRAWL BACK UNDER YOUR ROCK AND MIND YOUR BIZNIZ.

YOU SO MEEEEEAAAAAN

Eeeeew nana, I am so sorry.

Look at it from a brighter side, could be God was protecting you from something huge that this looser was gonna expose you to. Could be God is trying to push you to best things he has planned for you. He knows that you may have never left the looser, thereby delaying "YOUR BLESSING''.

Anyways, not to worry, AUNTY KARMA will surely deal with him, trust me, I always trust her to sort my enemies out.

Sad you time waisted will never come back, but the experience gained is invaluable. This will surely make you a better person and a good man is coming your way.

Let me ask :

What have you done to resolve this?

You didnt say what you have tried to do. You work on a relationship if you want it and not just sit back and complain. Looking @ this, you do not want it hence you have not tried to resolve the relationship.

Now u talking. The issue here is not the language. Its his abusive tendencies.

I think u need to sitdown with yourself and dissect what is really bothering you. Its not the language.

What if you find an Igbo man who is equally insecure

Lol. @ Green n blue woman

STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OUT

BEEN FIGURING OUT FOR THE PAST THREE YEARS, GAWD!!!!

POOR ME

sanniemoe: I fear if I would ever get married. Dont even have a gf,mean not dated anyone in like 2years...
I'm not the very patient type and I hold on to things alot,especially words that reminds me of ugly past..
I fear I might not be good enough
I fear being broke in marriage
I fear any situation that can lead to divorce
I fear greed
I fear crowd ( I HATE CROWD with a passion)

A live in lover is fine by me for now but marriage is a no no no at this point. ...

@ Sanniemoe really there are similarities between our fear,

I pray I work on mine, they are crippling me big time.

ppman: ChineloSA, there are some answers that are personal, but my contacts are featured. When you get in touch, I will tell you. All I can tell you however is that I am a good guy and I am very mature. I sure do want to be older than my spouse so I am above 33.

Ladies you heard. All those who qualify, there you go.

OP, all the best. I like the applicant above. She is well endowed, hope she fits the spec

ppman: u can still get in touch then.

OP, u are winning hey. She got all things in the right places. Goodluck.

OP.I asked u questions and u didnt respond.How are u suppose to find a woman when you dont hav listening skills? Eeeehh. Answer my questions abeg. And stop your blanket discrimination.

[quote author=Okija_juju]Nna, Okwu Nwoke anwa ku oto ka Amu..

I had friends that were from Polygamous homes.. Nna, that thing is never fun. It futher gets complicated when one has no male child and the other does.. Then it turns into Super Story when both find out that their was even a male child somewhere before the both of them. Then GOBE sets in when the one that had no male child or no child now gives birth to twin boys.. NNA MEN!!

And the problem follows you till death o!! Because your last Will & Testament must be abitrated by a Court or settled with Juju or hired killers..

A woman is s anturally jealous, possesive & protective creature. Then you now have two or three of them possessing and protecting one Man.. Nna even the gods will not answer you when you come running to them for help.. [/quote] classic

[quote author=Okija_juju]Ma again?!

How?!



My point is simply... Your Family ofcourse does not crowd space. Same way his family too will not crowd his space.. Now your problem has started..

My Family is good! They are saints.. His family are just sooooo annoying..


LG...


_{Goes back to watching Nairalanders Fear Factor SEASON 1}[/quote]OKIJA JUJU THIS IS ENGLISH SIR!!!!!!

YOU ARE SOMETHING ELSE, I JUST LOVE HATING YOU.

[quote author=Okija_juju]REALLY!!!!!!!


SO your family no dey crowd space?! You think so abi?! Lol...


Funny Stuff..

_{Back to reading other posts}[/quote]YOU AGAIN

MY FAMILY DOESNT, BECAUSE WHEN I NEED MY SPACE I BLUNTLY TELL THEM AND THEY RESPECT THAT. WITH IN-LAWS BLUNTNESS MAY NOT BE THE BEST.

Fear of :
Loosing my freedom (hard to trust someone with my whole life, God!!!!!)
Not being good enough ( wife and mother )
Being bored
Being broke
Being a begger to my hubby.
AIDS and other STI
In-laws ( crowding my space, my family doesnt )
Conflict
Being a stepmom

YOU DONT WANT YOUR SISTER TO MARRY A SECURITY GUARD WHY DONT YOU MARRY HER NAH? THE SECURITY GUARD IS NOT THE BEST MATCH, SO YOU ARE THE BEST MATCH

BIG BROTHER, I believe that God is the giver of anything and everything. The guy in question, I know that deepdown, he really wants to be in a boardroom turning around on a leather chair and sipping cappuccino. But unfortunately, Gods plan is different to our plans.
If you think you are better wherever you are, you are wrong, its only by GODS grace that you have what you have. In a blink of an eye it could be gone.The security job that the guy does is what his God has given him for now. GOD may turn his moaning into dancing

If you judge his character, I would support you. But judging the work he does, is not fair, especially when its honest living.

Let your sister make her choice, while you get busy looking for your partner who will keep you busy, that you will not have time to dip your long nose into your sister's biz.

ALL THE BEST

OP, ARE YOU THE HOSPITAL? OR DO YOU OWN A HOSPITAL?

IF HE IS SICK, WHY CANT HE GO TO THE HOSPITAL. STOP BEING MOTHER THERESA AT THE DETRIMENT OF YOU CURRENT PARTNER WHO HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOUR PAST, ITS UNFAIR.

YOU MAY LOOSE A GOOD MAN WHILE FOCUSING ON PEOPLE WHO ARE ADDING NO VALUE TO YOUR FUTURE.

YOUR EX IS NOT ADDING NO VALUE. YOU SAID IT YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE OVER HIM. WHY RESUSCITATE A DEAD HORSE? HUUUUUH?

LET YOUR PARTNER DO IT TO YOU THEN YOU WILL UNDERSTAND HOW IT FEEL.

If I were you I would go for Lady# A reason being

@ 30, She's been there, done that, probably knows what she wants, she is ready to settle, done with tertiary education and she can probably get a job, experience may have made her more matured.

@Lady # B, still not matured, still experimenting, likely to want to experiment a little, age gap puts you on different milestones, education still to be acquired ( and a whole lot )

But if you are not sure better postpone the decision, so you dont regret

NnamdiN: not one. I'm actually a very quite dude. I love my space a lot.
I've tried to have close friends but I always get exploited. Being a loner aint so bad.

I get you. Being alone is good, but there are some things that one needs to share and you cant share them with family.

There are some activities that you cannot always have your family with you all the time.

But I get you

SLIDE waxie: If we say we are friends, just like mine, since secondary school days, we dnt right each others off!

If there is a problem, we meet, talk abt it, and the erring party apologized.

But unless we are actually not friends, we stay together, offend each other, rant and shout, but in the end..we forgive and move on.

BFF. We dey gidigba!

You lucky. Woman are very petty and hold grudges for ever.

sunny t: Guy, ur 1st step is DELIVERANCE. You are in bondage. Pls visit T.B Joshua or any nearby cele church.

Maybe you need to take his advice. You posted the same thing over and over again. No success.

Dude, we have a problem there. Complete your profile nah, age, height, photo, bank balance etc

SLIDE waxie: Are u a stammerer?

Go ask yerima!

[quote author=gree-die]i came close to having a bestie twice but it didn't work out. we are now friendly strangers.

was it my fault? maybe. they exhibited certain traits i detest and i value my principles more dan any friendship

im not cut out to have best friends or close friends. i do ok with acquaintances[/quote] @ you came close. Classic.

I love friends, but I categorize them. I still have two left though, though I can see we are slowly growing apart.

NnamdiN: I have never had a best friend. No one ever graduates to that level, they always fail one important test or the other. I'm better off on my own.

Really, since childhoood, no close friend ? Very odd.

Hope you get a friend in your spouse. A friend is something good to have.

[quote author=esbjay@gmail.co][/quote] HAVE SOME SEVERAL SEATS.

ENGLISH FROM ENGLISH LAND FOOOL

Marthakings: neither do I want him... Jeez....

DEAR LORD, MAY SHE WAKE UP TO BE HONEST WITH HERSELF.

Sweety, the only person who can be honest with you, is yourself. Right now, you are deceiving your beautiful self.

If you dont want him, why what he said matters, that you should open a thread and curse his him? EEEEeeeeeeeH

The time you spent opening this thread should be the time you spend, penning down and visualizing what you want in you future husband.

You deserve better darling, not his yeye self.

Now, get back to your hospital bed, let them remove that useless appendix.

ALL THE BEST, I WILL ADD YOU IN MY ROSARY PRAYERS NOW NOW!!!! God luv u more.

I TIRE OOO

THESE ADVICE AND WHAT NOT FOR SINGLES, THEY ARE GETTING ,,,,,,HMMMMMMMM. CHIKENA

what you did is called SELF INFLICTED PAIN. And you expect us to feel for you. Why did you have to tell your ex? Seriously, why? Is he your father

Does his prayers get to heaven faster than the Angels prayers

Go remove that appendix, and while under that anaesthetic, please dream about another man.

HE HAS MOVED ON GIRL. HE DOESNT WANT YOU

IS IT A CURSE TO BE SINGLE??

Scun: Maybe it is a supermarket or a retail store, my point stands! People shouldn't be jumping up and down because of that, it is a disgrace. Wamlart also does online shopping so there is a difference

They don't loose anything by being happy for the development coming their way, I guess. So, are you trying to say they should be happy if its Walmart?? Is Walmart available. Its a step towards the right direction, am sure Shoprite will later on bring CHECKERS OR CHECKERS HYPER,which is a better/ superior version of SHOPRITE.

SO let them be happy. , we start somewhere.

TOO MANY FAINT HEARTS AND BROKEN HEARTS IN THIS ROOM. POOR THINGS