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It actually looks good.

I was expecting to see another case of what I ordered versus what I got.

I saw this unfortunate video on Instagram today.

It shows how worthless Nigeria has become that these criminals can move freely and post videos to public domains and nothing is done to track them.

Women/girls have built mansions inside this OPONU's head. Living rent free in his head. 24/7 na women matter him dey think.

What a hullaballoo

Biglittlelois:
Eyah what a lifetime achievement on nl, go and collect 100 million naira from the bank, what a great feat

This is exactly what I thought when I saw him jubilating over his post trending on this trash forum

What a kid!

Felimax:
Getting kids without my marriage was never my desire. I told my wife then that if she finds out I have a kid outside she should accept my hand in marriage that by God's grace no two woman will have a child for me till I expire from this world. I really want my kids to be proud of my principles and try to follow my standard. I don't want to be a boy father but a man father. At least for that I seriously thank God. I really did not deserve it.

I wish you will stop replying that frustrated Red Pillar.
I am happy for you that you are enjoying your marriage, I pray your marriage continues to flourish and love and happiness blossoms in your family forever.

Saturn444:
Yes, what I am saying is that you can not condemn all great women who have lived successfully with their husbands and children even till their death because of some random prostitutes that you have encountered.

I have had bad relationships and have great ones and still happily married without any reasons for doubts.

So you are inexperienced and may be unlucky in your choices especially since you are not equipped to look for women with occupation but to dine with slay queens.

With regards to spirituality, that's shit, I am tLking about root races. it is the root of your crisis, not knowing your roots means you do not know your friendly domain hence choice of women becomes canal.

You will suffer hardships until you know your root, I am not Religious, so Bleep religions.

Thank you jare

Don't mind that guy, he has been hurt by women so he spends all his time lashing out against them.

He needs therapy ASAP

Trust me Op, it's because your mouth is smelling.
Your gf cannot tell you because she doesn't want to hurt you.

Wittyduchess:
Lol, I am just happy the lady didn't make a fuss, she kuku find her way no sweat and drama ,but the guy is pained cos she left and wasn't desperate enough to take "the devil's deal". :DIt would have definitely ended in tears for her.

Very smart girl. I pray she finds a hardworking and rich, generous man to marry not akagum like OP.

pompeiimagnus:
Thank you my brother. There’s no point going to school for over 16 years, if all that education would end up not being of any financial use to your husband. Even our mothers and grandmothers went to the farm and market to financially contribute in any small way to their families.

I Hope Op and the woman he wants to share bills with will divide their kids into half half, half the kids bear the woman's name and the other kids bear the mans name.

Hope they will divide authority in the house since the wife is now paying bills and feeding her husband?
Will they have cooking and cleaning time table too? Will the man back the baby to market when his wife is tired and wants to rest etc??

Wittyduchess:
She jakpa .May God give her a more sensible husband and may any parent never have to have a son in-law like the op.

Amen

What a stupid topic from a lazy leech.

And after the girl don feed am pay him bills finish he will still want to lord it over her and demand submission. Infact I want to slap this OP.

pompeiimagnus:
As I have asked before, as a single lady who pays these bills for you?

As a single man who cooks and cleans for you?

Thank God the girl ran away.

So ontop the fact that she will change her surname and start submitting to you as authority in the home, she will lose her looks and beauty bearing kids that answer your name and belong to your family/lineage, she will be on charge of cooking, childcare, housekeeping etc, this oponu OP still wanted to collect over 80% of her salary instead of being a provider like the Bible and Quran instructed.

Many men these days are just useless pieces of shit.
You idiots will remember to quote the Bible when it comes to demanding submission from women or claiming to be leader of everybody, but you will not remember where the Bible said a man who cannot provide for his family is an infidel.

The worst part is that after the poor woman spends her life savings building this selfish OP home he can still cheat on her and spend on side chics and nobody will blame him because Nigerians think sexual immorality in males is normal and women should tolerate it.


Thank God OP girlfriend ran away.
Selfish and foolish OP.

Wawuu

Ilegend abi is it illegend
Your format don dey reign oo
See someome that wants to be like you, using controversial topics to sell market.

Wow, congrats illegend for being a trailblazer and mentor of gidredpiller

OneCandleAway:
You see, you need to understand something about a man's anatomy. Deep inside a man's anus, you have the prostrate, and when the right guy enters with his d.i.c.k and reaches it and hits it the right way, he's gonna bust a nut stronger, better and more intense than when he's in your punanni.

Don't worry, one day you will find your soul mate that will enter your prostrate with his d.i.c.k so that you too can bust a strong nut.

Pele.

Magnoliaa:
Logic, sis. It's the masculine brand of logic. You can't understand. It's only them that can come up with these kind of threads and still believe it.

Honestly, It's annoying. I don't know why they like playing victim all the time even to the point of dreaming up fantasies of situations where they are victims of females.


And the mods never waste time to move garbage threads like this to front page.

BRATISLAVA:
Why can't you people ever talk about men staying true to their wives? Or are faithfulness, perseverance and loyalty only qualities for women? Is it that you people revel in sufferings of women as a test of character, while you never give such in return?

Why must Nigerian women suffer to prove they are good enough to Nigerian men? There's a problem with Nigerian men. This over-flogged looking for who is there in the hard times only is becoming boring. As if women were built to suffer and take all manner of things from men who can't do the same.

Exactly. You put it so eloquently.

And the small boys on the thread are still coming out to blame failure of marriages on wives inabiility to bear difficult times as if marriage is not a union of two people. As if the success of every marriage is 100% dependent on the woman's ability to overcome trials.

What about the man? The so called superior and leader?

Such annoying mentality these people have and they dont have enough sense to see that their reasoning is problematic.

Funny how all the stories of one spouse staying in trying times to help are all about wives supporting their husbands.
Nobody said anything about their father praying for their mother or staying to take care of her when she was bedridden.

Men have always been the ones benefiting more from marriage. They are now bitterly complaining because things have changed, now the current woke generation of women refuse to be relegated to the background of submitting and praying housegirl wives.

Una sorry oh, sorry that girls no longer believe in tolerating infidelity and maltreatment and all manner of sufferhead just to stay married.
Things have changed, deal with it or keep complaining and then shut up.

What kind of pleasure do you fools gain from concocting lies just to insult females?

I dont even know how so many nairalanders could be so retarded_ to believe this thread of lies.

UncleKoboko:
I pity you.
No woman alive can manipulate me with nonsense, drama and bullshîts.

Because I go dig your life from when dem born you to up to date.
You can't pretend
You can't lie
You can't manipulate
If you want me to be peace with you, you'll create a peaceful environment, you'll make peace with me and continue to be peace.
I don't really care about peace and happiness, all I care about is fulfilment and contentment.
Don't try shîts with me.

Oga go sleep. After all your ranting na guys like una dey collect steady with bullion van sef

UncleKoboko:
All you think all men can be emotionally manipulated?
I pity you, you never jam. You go humble with all your nonsense drama and bullshîts...

Hahahaha

You sef you go collect from your wife hand.

All of una go collect tire after all your boasting.

Benbellamor:
dont worry...you will hear more
ooni himself spoiled Naomi...employed her people to take over some of the ooni estate projects
families of Naomi were living and causing trouble in the palace...
and Naomi wants to threathen ooni just becase the first marriage didnt
work....do you know gbenro Naomi brother thar defrauded ooni of 1.2 billion....
you would wonder why fraudulent prophetess want to rush first to social media

So you just read that facricated story by one hungry blogger then decided to start peddling it as truth. How can Oba give 1.2 billion to one single illiterate individual for building project.

When the guy no be central bank or julius berger/setraco?

Make una dey try reason something naaa

Pataricatering:
try to dey lie small small !

Una too dey make noise. Last last all of una go collect for your wives hand. Plus red pill, plus alfa mail, una go collect.

You people think women are stupid? Just pray you marry a good woman if not your eyes go clear after all this noise you are making here.

There are three sides to every story.

Op side, his wife side and the truth gangan

I dont even believe what Op wrote is the full story. He must have omitted the part where he was showing his wife pepper from the story because he wants people to sympathize with him here. Unless your wife is a mad woman, I don't know why she will just get up and start misbehaving for no reason and without any trigger.

KanwuliaExtra:
Givvvvvvvirrrrrup for Lil Nas X.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTHLKHL_whs

I really enjoyed the naked dancing scenes in this video. I hope more male musicians do this type of choreography.

No be only women go dey comot cloth.

GenBuhari:
I have an outside kitchen in the village with a wood fire stove, and to a cook a meal require almost constant effort to keep the fire going.
I just cannot understand how a supermarket built from concrete and steal can burn with the type of intensity usually only seen in burning petrol tankers.

You really get the point.

I have seen a three bedroom apartment burning on my way to office and even after one hour the entire apartment was not engulfed.

How did everything in the entire NEXT shopping mall that is as big as a mini estate burn to ashes in less than two hours?

Seems fishy.

Yes, like the topic said, I believe (my personal opinion), that the fire was started by an arsonist and was done in a way to make sure the entire building was destroyed.
Witnesses at the scene that witnessed the start and spread of the fire reported hearing a loud explosion at around 10:00am before the fire started and fire services started arriving to put out the fire about an hour after the fire started at around 11:00am.
In the one hour it took fire services to arrive the scene, 80% of the entire building was already engulfed.
How else do you explain a fire starting in a huge supermarket covering over 100 plots of lands, and in just one hour, damn near the whole building was already on fire?

I might be wrong though. But the quickness with which the fire spread seems very suspicious to me. I think explosive and flammable items were strategically placed inside the supermarket to make the fire spread fast and ensure that it destroyed the building as much as possible so that nothing could be saved.

Again I might be wrong. Just thinking out loud.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JAeqSiH5V4

TheGidRedpiller:
You all already know how sensitive i am for my fellow men

TheGidRedpiller: i was really POURING out MYSELF TO brian cuz i feel comfy around him. He makes me feel like am in charge and .

Sterope:
I was about to ask you to consider post partum depression until the part where she and mother haven't had issues yet. You should discuss what happened with her. I am curious to hear her excuse.


Personally, omugwo should be the wife's family. The woman is starting a new life. We have new mothers with new knowledge that contrast with our mothers' practices. It will be easier to stand her ground and for her mother or family to feel less offended when she opposes their approach.

Is this not common sense?

Moreover a wife will be infinitely more comfortable with her mother than with her mother in law but some men don't care.

sunjai:
I'm not in support of what the wife did, but have you asked yourself what could have prompted that? Did she just wake up to carry knife and point at them? Do you know what they must have made her go through? Did the husbands mom helped at all or was she expected to do everything considering she gave birth newly and through csection? Was she treated with care at all. Given birth through normal delivery is painful talk more of doing it through csection. After going through the stress of taking care of the new born throughout the night, did your mum made her(your wife) go through taking care of her(your mum) and yourself during the day?

I don't support disrespecting elders but I have to agree, your point is valid.
Some mothers in law and aunties in general no get joy.

I have witnessed first hand where the in-laws that came to visit a mother who newly put to bed less than three days before, expecting the same woman to go into the kitchen and cook and serve them food.

All the while they just sat down comfortably in the parlor gisting.
They were waiting for a woman who was still having post partum bleeding and in pains from giving birth to entertain them. Some old people no get sense at all.