₦airaland Forum

DIG1: Depends on my relationship with d person, but @ d level I'♏, I don't expect a female acquaintance τ̅☺ offer me such goodwill, unless she is a senior female relative or family friend.

You might not expect it but you might experience it one day. What do you think would be your reaction? Will you like it or not?

Acidosis: @Topic, I'll simply say "thank you" even though I'm not expecting the offer. . then I'll look for my own opportunity to bless another person be it a man or a woman. It might be God trying to reward you for the good you did in the past . .and he's not gender selective- he can use anyone.

As for the men ""wey dey form for inside molue bus"" , na dem sabi. . If they are that rich, they should be the one trying to give you a lift with a nice car. . .

@bold, LMAO.
So what will your opinion of that woman be? What kind of woman would you take her to be?

These are questions for men.
How do you feel when a female does things like sending you a recharge card or offering to pay the transport fare when you board a cab together?
These are things that society has designated to be the duty of men, so how do you feel or how would you feel if a woman does them? Would you feel emasculated or would you feel that she is desperate for male attention or would you simply be grateful?
I have tried things like that out, just to see the reaction I would get from the men and I didn't like their reactions. I have paid the fare for two guys I got on the same bus with before, one of them was embarrassed and tried to avoid looking at me and the other one outrightly told me that the man is supposed to pay for things like that.
I don't want to generalize with every single man based on my limited experiences, so I want to find out from more men.
Are you going to be ok with a woman paying the fare or even paying for food on your dates? Or sending you the occaisional credit card?

As a female who enjoys art and hence also enjoys the shallow delight of seeing an attractive male, this whole concept has been antithecal to my personal experiences.
I see people saying over and over that men value physical appearance to a very large extent while women are more swayed by what they hear. I did take a neuroscience class wherein we reviewed the differences in male and female brains and I found that men can be generally better at handling spatial problems, however there was not a single citation regarding men being innately more visual in regard to aesthetics, than women.
So I wanted to get the opinion of women and knowledgeable men on the issue. Are men actually more interested in beauty than women or do we think they are simply because we have been conditioned by society to have this belief?
Any scientific researches or findings regarding the issue would be highly appreciated.

By the way Seun, thanks for changing the time format to what is easy to understand.

Cortisol is supposed to make us hungrier when we're stressed. . . . that's what appears to happen with me.
I eat more when sad. Like to drown my sorrow in food.

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And I think it is unfortunate that the list does not exclude foolish women that cannot hold a meaningful conversation on any worthwhile topic but it excludes those that don't know bedroom acrobatics.
Your number 1: Over skillz, the one about the party loving, out-going extrovert, those girls get men easily, make no mistake about it. I have one of them as a close friend. Men who want women that can get them publicity, especially political aspirants; those men seek such girls.
And number 10. Can't take shi.t from a man.
What type of 's,hit' do you mean? And I think that if a girl corrects you instead of just keeping m.ute and 'taking s.hit', then she is trying to improve you which is a good thing.

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imaging shame and disrespect

The word is 'imagine' not imaging. If you are going to insult people with English, at least make sure you can speak correct English first.

So are the association of Nigerian women still going to riot over it?

When I saw those silly posts that made it sound like she must get married very soon at all costs, I was filled with anger. Why do we punish ourselves like this in

Is the 2500 is just for a single night out of the whole month?

HI. I wanted to know so that I can choose wisely. MTN is quite popular but I heard that they sometimes cut your connection even before you exhaust your plan, ie finish using your 500mb or whatever MB you bought.
So which is best presently? Glo, Etisalant or Multilinks? Or whatever modem plan there is that I didn't mention. Thanks.
Really.