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Awoo88:
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Left my house one with 20k looking for cheap wears. After a frustrating 5 hours of looking, I was forced to pay 8k for one shirt because the cheap one are so obviously cheap and not new. A lady with the same amount will go very early and get herself bag full of clothes and claim she bought it in one high end boutique and u can not tell the difference

Exactly! Quality Pam slippers starts from around 8k. Good shoes around 15k upwards. If the shirt is too cheap and manageable, it starts from 5k. Ladies are enjoying sha.

That's the thing with ladies clothes. Very cheap to buy. As a guy,you can never find a shirt for 500 naira that wouldn't be obvious to all and sundry,how cheap it is. Even 2000 naira shirt would look obviously very cheap.

i think it has to do with a lot of maturity on the girl's part. you can be sure she isn't in her early or mid 20s. i met someone like that on facebook recently and it's been fun chatting with her everyday. the normal woman shakara still dey there but it isn't the frustrating type.

exactly what i wanted to ask. he was driving you to a destination different from yours,and you didnt wind down the windows to raise alarm and shout,you continued with him until he parked,tried to pull you out into a house and attempt to rape you and no one saw all of these from the point where he diverted off your route,till he got to his destination? God is wonderful.

Klamour:
Story looks like a character assassination and defamation attempt. No details of the movement, where she boarded the taxi, where the driver purportedly took her to, how she kept mum while being driven to a "random" house that's not her destination etc.

Just didn't add up.

What's the point getting married when you don't dig the person? There are issues that do not need advice and this is one of them.

iamJ:
if kanu makes mistake and allow her to go because of his brother, men that will climb her eh, her yansh na corola 2018 model ooo

dont play that kind play kanu, a word is enough for the wise

go instagram and view kanu's wife and see what am saying, he met her a virgin, she is 2nd hand, how many 2nd hand women u know? most girls are 40th hand and some 200th hand, her body still new like Belgium motor, dont play oooo

advice kanu if u know who knw am

dem no dey advice person twice
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Who told you he met her a virgin? Amara had a boyfriend in Ebonyi state university that she was dating back then,before KANU came into the picture and she had to ditch the bf for KANU. That being said, you can not conclude if she was a virgin before she married him.

Organs:
Na sooo, why do you think MMM succeeded in Naija.... also why do you think we have more Churches than schools, plenty mumu's upandown.

Sad truth.

LordAdam16:
Some IDIOTS would not read the interview comprehensively before commenting.

She was talking about her failed marriage to Paul Odekina.

OAP Freeze's name is Ifedayo Olarinde.

Had to drop this before the religious scammers start their nonsense.

-Lord

As in ehn,I just weak. To think that all these brain dead idiots who would read a thing and cannot understand it,or who wouldn't bother reading before throwing tantrums up and down,actually have PVCs and would vote in an election, is quite scary. When they want to count educated people, these morons would still come out...

Hate to go out and taste.

Cardozzo:
You are more Dumb than i thought you are..... Because as a Sane Person you would know when to laugh and when not to......... I think everybody here tonight are having fun reading different. Funny comments..........why should you bring up National Issues on this kind of Post.......... You are the only Insane human being i have seen all day..... Am serious about it. You lack common sense....... So Wisdom I very very far from you......

I have given you the only advice I can give you. Quit being a dolt;you wouldn't earn laurels for it. Look at all you wrote up there;incoherent and laced with a bad writing pattern. Anyways, I'm not surprised. The small sense you would have had,is what you have invested into arguing about sex dolls. No wonder your IQ is this low.

Rozaytee:
thats y some naija youths arent productive...their only concern is how to have sex and have sex.. okparii

Even the ones that haven't eaten today,and are jobless, are busy spending time arguing about sex dolls. Bunch of unserious folks.

Elxandre:
I tire for this generation.
So much rubbish!

Too much nonsense. It's so annoying. I've seen up to 4 threads on sex doll today alone.

Rozaytee:
my dear....instead of talking about better things to do. .they are there talking about stupid.. sex doll

As in,I just tire. Too many dull minds in this era. I really wish I do not belong to this generation. Everything is just about sex,sex and sex.

Divay22:
That's why the old ones will still be senators, governors, Rep and the rest..
Our youths ain't ready or serious for anything in life... Later they'll be shouting Buhari,but the so called youths who are suppose to take over from him are the ones flooding the internet with campaign of sex doll...
Are they ready?

They ain't no different from the politicians we have today..if you noticed, it's only the broke ones that will resort for aba made ,they are the ones advocating for it..
You don't expect someone like Seun to be thinking about one sex doll.

I weep for what I'm seeing

It's so annoying. You hardly hear them discuss meaningful things on twitter... I've had to delete so many of them on my Facebook for posting foolish things. Imagine that dolt up there talking about having fun;what's the fun in this topic? Even the citizens of the countries where these dolls will be manufactured,are not paying so much attention to it like our people.

Cardozzo:
And what have you as an individual done about It......... All work no play. Make you your self a dull Idiot....... I had rather have fun when around dis time of the day..... Than having in daylight when am supposed to work....... Get a Life dude...

Quit being a dolt;you wouldn't earn laurels for being one.

Hisses. Nigerian youths are quite foolish. Instead of them to be bothered about the genocide and level of insecurity that is threatening the continuous existence of this country, they are busy debating about sex dolls and irrelevant mundane things. Such a wasted generation.

How much does it cost to get a mobile app and website(fully functional and responsive)?

I had to read all the comments and questions that the op was asked, before commenting. I have seen a lot of foolish comments from some ladies here and I can only feel pity for the men they end up with. Now,let's get to the main isht.

Marriage is for better for worse like they say. It's for two people to come together and become one. It is supposed to be a partnership,not a one person's show.

I'd take these issues one by one.


1: You married her against the wish of your parents. This proves that you love her,and you were ready to damn the whole world to be with her. Not many spouses,end up marrying once parents from one part,kick against the union.


2: You talked about footing all expenses as regards running the house, and actually "giving her what she says she needs,not what you think she needs". This implies that you tried as much as possible, to meet all of her demands.

3: She started building a house without your knowledge while you were struggling to pay rent in Abuja and lagos,simultaneously. She only told you about it when her pastor scolded her and when she wanted to borrow money from you to roof it. You gave her the money but when she had 200k and you asked for 20k,she refused. Your wife is a selfish idiot that doesn't deserve help. I dislike such people. You also talked about how you lost your job and how she would leave you with only 200 naira to eat until she comes back from shop... If she gave that from the meagre resources she had,it would not be a problem. But if she had more than enough and gave you just that, she must be a very wicked person.


4: You talked about how you got a job in Abuja and your fortunes changed after you lost your previous job,and all she asked was that you resign and come and stay in Lagos... Stay in Lagos to do what?

5: You talked about how you asked her to come to Abuja so you can get her a new shop and restock it but she declined cos she didn't want to lose her clients in ogudu... Your wife is selfish,lacks wisdom, isn't serious and doesn't strike me as someone who was ready for marriage.


I'm not absolving you of not having any faults but if your wife truly did these,then I'm sorry to say you do not have a wife yet. When a lady is carrying out an important project like building, and the husband doesn't know, check well for the third party who she is talking to. I've had experience of a married woman buying land and even wanting to build but the husband wasn't aware she even had a land. Our affair was short(no sex involved and was just emotions and feelings)and I managed to cut it off before it grew into a big thing. Just like you provided everything for her,this lady's hubby did. I never gave out a dime but I knew what she wasn't saying to her hubby. Find out who she is confiding in. The distance between you guys,isn't helping matters and her medical issues, complicates everything.


I don't know you or how much you can take but if you can salvage this situation, it would be better for you both.

Tallesty1:
Are you guys intentionally ignoring the part where he said that even though she never informed him before building the house, she asked for 800k for roofing which he obliged but when he asked her for just 20k she refused? Am I the only one that saw that part?

You need not be surprised na. You should be used to how ladies think and approach issues even when the facts are starring them in their faces. They would always approach it with sentiments.

Thegeneralqueen:
Not nice like seriously what the hell was she thinking if she'll build a house let it be in you guys name...... but I still don't know why some ladies behave like this..... a man is showing you love and your mumu level is on a long thing..... the only problem I have with men is if they don't love their wives..... but you're showing her love and care despite all this year's of barrenness I just don't want to go hard on her cause she's your wife.......please if you're married or in a relationship there are something's you shouldn't do when angry biko..... I wish

Another lady with brain.

ETHIX:
I just pray your wife will do that to you. U will come back to read what u wrote to console urself

You should have known the person you quoted is a lady na. You can always tell when it's a lady talking as far as issues like this,is concerned.

Adamrealman78:
she told me categorically that she can't relocate to Abuja cos of her shop.I promised to get another one in Abuja and restock. She said that she has established herself in ogudu GRA,claiming that sales would never be the same.

Sorry to say but that is the talk of an unintelligent selfish woman. Her shop obviously means more to her than the marriage. Truly,you were never meant to marry her.

Finally, a lady with a good head on her shoulders. Not those rushing to assume things and taking sides out of sentiments without thinking things properly.

frozen70:
You dont know the poster from Adams, you were attacking him instead of the advice he needed.
He wasn't bracing that he maintains two homes he is just telling us the sacrifice he made for their comfort, though he wouldn't have said he has never beaten the wife that's not what a man should be proud of.
Yes its wrong for a wife to set up a building with out the knowledge of the husbands, but like the husband said that probably she is sensing danger because she is yet to give birth. I think the man should notify the wife family his intention to get separated or divorce their daughter ,it might not be easy but it's one of the way out.

That her "h factor" is annoying. Pronouncing hut as "hunt";wtf?

Nobodys:
where arsenal dey??

They are at home. That team just dey disgrace person week in,week out.

All these people that usually date for as long as 5-8 yrs, are trying o. I have never had a relationship that lasted for more than 1 or 2 yrs. I doubt I have even done 2 yrs.

Toks2008:
Apparently they must have seen loads of pics of each other and communicating via video call and stuffs like that so it's not that they have no clue of each other.

Furthermore,this romance thing is a. risk no matter how well you think you are prepared.

true but this is a risk taken too far for my liking. i'm a crazy dude,capable of a lot of mischevious things but this is certianly out of it...lol.

Lol. It. Is well. I fear person wey nor fear women.

Congrats to him. I'm happy and proud of him.

Toks2008:
Real guys know what they want and will waste no time to have it. Only boys will tell you long story.

So,carrying your family to go and do introduction to a lady you have never seen before in your entire life,whom you met on the internet, is your definition of a "real guy"? Oga Ade,abeg say something else. The girl could easily have mistakenly gotten married to an armed robber or a drug dealer, and the guy could also have married a philandering prostitute,that way if luck didn't fall on their side... I still don't know how he managed to convince his parents on such a move but I see that as some level of carelessness on their part. They didn't even have time to find out anything about the family they are marrying from... Very risky venture. Na so people dey by mistake, ruin their lives. I wish them well, but I don't support it one bit.

vitality22:
This Pocochantas and Nezzar needs to get married as soon as possible.
They will make good couple.

Seriously. Their make-up sex would be lit! Them go just dey slam themselves against anything slamable.