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LiteratureRe: Addicted To Romance Novels? by chychy(f): 3:27pm On Dec 11, 2007
I hate romance.
They are too boring and shallow for me.


@ yimiton, u got it right girl, i totally agree,
Nairaland GeneralRe: In Luv With A Guy by chychy(f): 3:20pm On Dec 11, 2007
Wat do we have a romance forum for?
Forum GamesRe: Movie Names A-Z (Game) by chychy(f): 3:14pm On Dec 11, 2007
Vendetta
CultureRe: The African Man And The Womens 'bottom' : by chychy(f): 9:35am On Dec 06, 2007
huhI think i'm lost!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wat's all this booty talk?
HealthRe: Beautiful Skin by chychy(f): 9:23am On Dec 06, 2007
yeah yeah. how come u guys are 4getting the camera effect?
FoodRe: How To Prevent Yam Discolouration by chychy(f): 9:36am On Dec 05, 2007
When u peel the yam , just soak it in water (like d water u'll use to wash it - put each slice in water as u peel), it won't change colour, it has never failed me.
tongue
FamilyRe: What Is Wrong With A Single Lady Living Alone? by chychy(f): 3:51pm On Dec 04, 2007
@zheroes

u couldn't have said t better
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Before You Take That Step To Marry That Guy/gurl Read This by chychy(f): 1:39pm On Dec 04, 2007
wow!!!!!

wow!!!!!!!

wow!!!!!!!!!!
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Why Females Get Hurt In Relationship by chychy(f): 1:32pm On Dec 04, 2007
Very good and insightful
Nairaland GeneralRe: Does He Love Me? by chychy(f): 4:46pm On Nov 30, 2007
Let him go deary, if he's urs, he'll come back n if he ain't, u'll get better.

it's hard 2 let go esp when u truthfully luv d person but u have 2 do wat u have 2 do
Christianity EtcRe: Is It Biblical,islamical Or Whaetever For Females Wearing Trousers? by chychy(f): 10:49am On Nov 29, 2007
Na una know that one oh.

As long as a woman covers her body and is modest about it, y shd it bother anyone?

Depending on how u look at it, a pair of trousers could act as a form of protection from harsh weather conditions, rape ,

Ladies should dress well and be modest abt it, that's all that really counts.
Christianity EtcRe: I'm Afraid Of Being Born Again by chychy(f): 10:28am On Nov 29, 2007
u guys know what? When it comes 2 dating, i've never really been happy n i just felt it was God telling me that He doesn't like that kind of thing n even if i must date, it has 2 be done d xtian way,  Funny enough, i'm searching for peace within my soul and i stumble upon  this,  it's still God working. I've answered d call 2x already but at some point i fell along d way side n i have made up my mind to answer the call n like someone mentioned, let Him worry about changing me.

Joey, i feel that 4 d fact that u've started this thread means God is nudging u gently, to retrace your steps and is also using this to touch people like me that are searching for peace and acceptance.

As for your lifestyle, it ain't going to happen instantly, now that u know the implication of what some of these secular music say, u're better informed. It's gradual but u can start by filtering your music, movies and the like, pray often n mk out time 2 at least read a passage of your Bible. If u n ur girlfriend are committing sin, it is best u cut it off and if both of u rededicate ur lives 2 God and if he has destined that u'll be 2gether, then it will be but just let His will not urs be done. (It has happened b4)

I've not gotten there yet but i know i will and so will u by His unending Grace.

No one was born without sin and we all have to choose who we want tto serve God or the devil.
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Redeemer, Redeem my heart again
Saviour, come and shelter me from sin
U're familiar with my weakness, devoted to the end
Redeemer, Saviour Friend.
RomanceRe: Get Married To The One You Love Or The One That Loves You. by chychy(f): 4:58pm On Nov 28, 2007
Making decision is always complicated but made worse when people double date.

On the issue on ground, I think your friend should marry the woman he loves. That is if she agrees to marry him,
If he's afriad she might say no, it will be better to ask her first and then, deal with the problem if she refuses.
Once a woman is married, she's settled, she realizes that her world is built round her home, family and most importantly, her husband. So, she can't wonder around. Instead she'll learn to love her husband since she has no choice.
Once a woman likes you at all, it's easy to make her love you. Just be there for her without chocking her.

But if this man marries the woman that loves him and he doesn't really care about, it will be almost impossible for him to be faithful and he'll end up hurting his family. He'll not respect her and will not really care about her.

conclusively, it's ok for a woman to marry a man whom she's not really crazy about but a man should marry a woman only if he's totally into her and loves her to death.
Remember, even the bible says 'husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the Church and gave Himself up for her'




Well said.

Is it possible 4 two pple to love each other @ d same time. Yes d Bible says men shd love their wives, in a case where a guy really loves me n 4 some reason, i can't seem 2 love him back, wat happens?
RomanceRe: Please I Need Your Advice. by chychy(f): 4:48pm On Nov 28, 2007
@karikatalk

u couldn't have said it better.

U r Christian, she's muslim, Can u marry her? Will ur family accept her? Or do u just wanna have fun? R u willing to pay d price of mixed religion esp if u get married n have kids?

I almost dint reply but all d same, have a talk with urself,
RomanceRe: Why Are Some Girls Nasty by chychy(f): 4:34pm On Nov 28, 2007
Silence is the best treatment 4 pple like that, just ignore her and don't let her get 2 u.
TV/MoviesRe: I Hate This Advert by chychy(f): 5:39pm On Nov 27, 2007
I love bank phb ads, glo n mtn ads, indomie also, guiness is good 2.
Christianity EtcRe: Your Quiet Time With God. How Interesting? by chychy(f): 12:16pm On Nov 27, 2007
i won't say i usually have an xact period i call "Quiet Time". All d same, i talk 2 God when d mood strikes me but u know this thing abt listening and waiting to hear God's voice, i can't really say i've experienced that. i mean how wld i know it's God talking and not my mind saying stuff i think God would say?
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do God Leave Us To Suffer? by chychy(f): 11:52am On Nov 27, 2007
The Book of Ecclesiastes says there's a time 4 everything, for joy and pain, for suffering and enjoyment and so on,

Suffering is a part of life after all, Jesus said "take up ur cross and follow me". Imagine that u had all u wanted in life, every damned thing, would u call on God? Would u as much as remember to thank Him? Be sincere 2 urself,

4rm my experience, in as much as i hate suffering just like every other person, i interpret it as a gentle nudging from Jesus asking me to let Him handle it or give me the grace to bear it.

If u ever feel that God has let u down all u need to do is look around u, visit hospitals, mortuaries, cemetaries, orphanages, and the like and u will be humbled. It is a spiritual exercise. by the time u r done visiting these places, no one will need to tell u how Blessed u are.

Wherever u are, whatever u do, no matter how much u think u r suffering, always bear in mind that u r better than someone else not because u deserve it but because for some reason best known to God, u r wat u are and who u are. Besides whatever form of suffering u r going thru is because He knows u can handle it. He WILL NOT give u wat u cannot handle.
RomanceRe: Help Me- Soon To Be Married by chychy(f): 9:13am On Nov 27, 2007
Trust is an issue that should never be compromised, My dear, if he does not trust u now, it wont change when u get married. I think u should call it off, Better a broken r/ship than a broken marriage.

i just hope u aint giving him reasons 2 distrust u.
Nairaland GeneralRe: One Reason Why You Hate Or Love Nigeria by chychy(f): 2:14pm On Nov 26, 2007
i love nigeria because even in the midst of suffering, we still share with one another and we still smile grin grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: TV Shows: Prison Break, Lost Or 24? by chychy(f): 7:38pm On Nov 23, 2007
Prison Break 4 breakfast
Prison Break 4 lunch
Prison Break 4 dinner

Prison Break anytime, anyday
TV/MoviesRe: Most Annoying Nigerian Actors/Actresses by chychy(f): 7:12pm On Nov 23, 2007
Lilian Bach is a horrible actress, she lacks attitude
Christianity EtcRe: Who Is Your Favorite Gospel Singer? by chychy(f): 7:05pm On Nov 23, 2007
Cece Winas
Darlene Zscelch  - did i spell that right?
Don Moen - Some of them
Women of Faith
Mary Mary
Nicole Mullen

Cece Winas, Darlene Zelch and Women of Faith get to my soul.
TV/MoviesRe: Novels U'll Like To See In The Movies. by chychy(f): 6:43pm On Nov 23, 2007
Beowulf has an adaptation, i'm so happy, can't wait 2 c it, we read that in the uni

Leota's Garden - Francine Rivers
Redeeming love - Francine Rivers
Lethal Seduction - Jackie Collins

the truth is i usually prefer the books to the movies

This is officially inviting all book lovers to www.shelfari.com
Christianity EtcRe: Can We Pray Together? by chychy(f): 5:49pm On Nov 23, 2007
Please pray that i get a job asap and that i find peace of mind.
Christianity EtcRe: New Year's Resolution. Your Hopes And Dreams For 2008 by chychy(f): 4:18pm On Nov 23, 2007
New year resolutions!!!!!!!!!!!!! how many times have i made them and somehow derailed?

For the year 2008, in fact, starting now, i want a closer, more intimate r/ship with my maker, no form of sin all in d name of romance shall be a part of my life. I want to ever remain in His graces, I just wanna be as innocent as i was when i was in sec sch.

I also want a job in d yr 2008.
RomanceRe: The Day You First Fall In Love! by chychy(f): 4:05pm On Nov 23, 2007
Love? Wat is that? Guess i'm in d wrong thread, undecided
RomanceRe: For The Guys : Can U Date Ur Friend's Ex by chychy(op): 11:27am On Nov 23, 2007
@ Illusion2
I'm fine oh. u dint give ur reasons,

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