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byvan03:
The babe is home already, no more options to browse.

byvan03:
Hello Chilli pepper, compliments of the seasons to you dear. Biz deyooo, hope you are enjoying the holiday. The thought of the break ending makes my heart skip .



Coco, Efemenaxy , Bukatyne, edwife, lyndaro....no need asking of that one, I know where to find her. Hope you all are doing great, compliments of the season.


Cococandy what have you been bargaining about with babygirl? Kpachara anya gioooo!! If I hear story on top that chic matter eehhh!!

bukatyne:
Merry Christmas dear

How are you and family?

@bold, Lols.

Maybe not same set of posters.

dasparrow:
And this advice is coming from a woman. You Nigerian bred women are indeed your own worse enemies. Let me ask you this, is his wife an eagle that she will need her wings clipped or is she a child? Why should he terminate his wife's job? Is he her father? You think heavens will not fall should he do such? You are indeed naive. Let him go ahead and eradicate his wife's livelihood. When she poisons his food or does some diabolical sh!t on him to make his life turn upside down, then he will know how far. This is why so many Nigerians are constantly having to deal with spiritual attacks. You people are good at aggravating the hell out of other people thinking you can get away with your foolishness because you are in a place of authority. Then when you get attacked you begin to jump from church to church, pastor to pastor seeking deliverance from your woes.

Do you think we are still in the 16th century? We are in the 21st century and communication is key. He and his wife must find a way to sort out their differences. If they cannot even do that, then maybe they ought to have remained single because marriage is no joke and requires a lot of patience and compromise. No be to marry be the matter. Staying happily married is where many Nigerians fail woefully.

agohmamuda:
Person dey under influence of high una dey waste una time rendering advice. I laff.

bloodyBLOGGER:
he was wrong to have touched the woman even while pregnant.

The dog was more human than him for not attacking the wife when she flogged it.

The dog was more reasonable for showing empathy by not attacking, cos it must have seen that the woman was pregnant which was something it just passed through. That single gesture by the dog shows it was more human than the woman by not attacking while getting flogged.

It is awful to flogged even a goat that just gave birth none the less a dog. As a woman, she ought to understand the female dog's plight, but she didn't care cos she saw it as a mere animal.

If you are made to live as an animal for just a day, you will forever appreciate them. The dog's barking was as a result of the fact that it couldn't talk, hence it communicated through that means to show it was going through something. It could be going through pains inflicted by fleas and ticks or maybe it was chained under the sun cos the man forgot to provide shade for it(that's a bad owner). Perhaps, the dog noticed that one of the puppies was feeling sick and needed urgent attention, so she had to bark to alert her master. Imagine a situation where you cant talk nor explain a certain condition you are going through. That was the situation the dog was.

If you can understand dogs, then you will be able to appreciate humans cos it takes patience to understand an animal. Disregarding and being cruel to animals is animalistic itself. That was what the woman was, though it still doesn't justify her beating from the husband. That is why I said their argument over the dog wasn't what caused the beating. They must have been having issues before then and saw the dog's case as something to open up old wounds. From that argument to another and to another, they decided to end it with that fight. Except the man is a dog himself, I don't see why he would just pounce on his pregnant wife for beating his dog, something the dog didn't even do while she flogged it.

Let me tell you a story.


I once had a german shepherd dog which was about 6months old. GSD are known to be picky eaters, so it made me waste a lot trying to satisfy it. I became fed up at a point and decided to neglect the dog. The dog decided to feed itself by killing our chickens then eating the flesh. That got me angry to the extent that I flogged the dog merciless like it was a slave. Everytime I raised the stick to hit it, it tried to bite me but withdrew just show its high level of loyalty even when it wasn't getting any food from me again. I still regret that action of mine.

Few weeks later, I was spending the night receiving fresh air inside our compound cos it was hot that night. I laid by the wall just almost under the eaves of the roof. Suddenly, my dog started barking incessantly. Worse was that it was doing it very close to my ear lobe. I chased it away then continued my sleep. After a few minutes, it came back to disturb my sleep in that same manner. This time I decided to even try to understand why it was doing that. I checked to see the direction it was facing while barking. Lo and behold, it was facing the roof of the house where a large Owl about the size of a 4yr old child was standing. It had been looking at me with its bulging large eyeballs. Perhaps, checking to see if it could attack me. If not for the dog, maybe I would have been blinded by that Owl. And this was a dog I beat mercilessly weeks back. A dog's loyalty knows no bound.

That dog of theirs must have one day put food on their plate through the sales of her offspring. That dog can lay down its life just to defend that family. The woman clearly didn't see the dog as part of the family, that's why she descended on it in that manner. What is her husband's is hers as well.

A righteous man has
regard for the life of his
animal, But even the
compassion of the wicked
is cruel. Proverbs 12:10

If you are opportune to sit both couple down just to hear their explanation, you'll realise that their talk might not even centre on the flogging of the dog but on their own issues as a bad couple.

Blaming the man alone without also the woman is just like solving one evil while you let the other walk free. That free evil will one day give birth to another and the cycle will continue.

EfemenaXY:
Seasons greetings my people!

Pls oh, I've been searching for an Isoko movie to watch for a while. I love my movies being absolutely traditional. Epic movies are my preference. The closest I've got are Epic Urhobo movies.

Don't we have any Isoko movies at all? Abeg someone advice. BarryX, Akposy, Cococandy, everyone else - your input pls..

Miami11:
Enduring, fasting and praying in the mountain of fire, because divorce is a sin is always applicable to women only If it were a woman they would ask her to kneel down and beg,
Or they would demand to know what wrong she is doing

Now it's a man, they are hiding lol

If you are not familiar with this forums double standards

Truckpusher:
Including your husband and your father. Happy now ?
If you can't engage people from a logical point of view you better shut the hell up .
Learn how to control your hormones.
Peace out .
You deserve more ,but I'll let it be .
Jeez! Can't believe I said that - Yes ! I said it .

Truckpusher:
It's a universally accepted fact and I'm not making it up ,though you can drown in your own ignorance.
Rubbish.

Truckpusher:
You have no idea what men can do for sex.

Just calm down , men have been lying just to have sex since Adam.

He was sexting with his ex abroad telling her how she was the only family he wanted and that he will come over again and make her his rightful wife, that I was just a Bleep and I know he's still in love with her.

r231:
Happy late comer anniversary cococandy

Merry Christmas and happy new year in advance guys!!!

SAMBARRY:
merry Xmas girl and happy wedding anniversary

salsera:
Face me I face you issues

thorpido:
Merry Christmas to everyone.May the joy of the season enrapture your homes now and beyond.

Happy anniversary cococandy.God bless your home.

zeb04:
it is the most wonderful time of the year HoHoHo merry Christmas.
happy anniversary beautiful cococandy

babygirlfl:
The article was massively generalised. I believe a large number of African men would treat a foreign wife better than they would treat an African wife. However, there are African men who treat their African wives well and like a queen. The African man and African wife both share a fault in the difference in the way the African woman is treated.

The African wife: A good number of African women go into married with the mind of being treated badly. They don't even know they are not being treated right. You will be amazed at the number of women that expect to be cheated on because they believe all men cheat. You will be amazed at the number of women who go into marriage expecting to endure because they confuse tolerance for endurance. Also a large number of african women expect to accept rubbish because that is the only way a marriage can last. The African woman prefers to be suffering in a marriage than to be happily divorced. Then the believe that the woman is responsible for keeping the home.


The African man
The African man knows this and being the human that he is, will treat the African woman as he wishes because he knows that she expected to endure, take his rubbish and is going nowhere. There is simply no reason to treat her well because she is going to take whatever you dish and stay put.
Another thing is some men simply suffer from inferiority complex and think he has won a jackpot marrying a white woman. However, I do acknowledge that they are African men that simply fell in love with a white woman.

While I always advocate that women are independent, I do not believe that African men treats the African women worse off because she is dependent on him. I have seen and in more than one occasion an African man leaving his single working African woman to go for a white woman with three kids and on benefit. Some white women who were even career women stay at home to look after their kids for a long time before going back to work and the African husbands still treat them right.

In all these, I give the biggest blame to our African women. If you are satisfied with Keke napep, why should I kill myself giving you a Range Rover. People treat you the way you permit them to. Our women need to ask to be treated well to get treated well.

7footre:
To think the wife died while pregnant! The guy should chill abit abeg.... if the tables were turned, d social media would have cum for d wife full throttle!