₦airaland Forum

edwife:
@cococandy that was some movie,i really enjoyed it because lately in Africa or should I say in Nigeria,we are meant to believe that every men who cheat or sleep around is a womaniser without even bringing the possibilities that they might be addicted and need help,rather we will ask the spouse to leave because there is a better man out there....without considering the fact that this is marriage,a contract.(same with women)

If We have people from the west(not immigrants) that can still keep these values then i still stand on my belief and morals.
Bottom line,don't jump to conclusion and always communicate in a marriage.

aprilwise:
This thread is an eye opener. I always do the cooking in school when my girl friend visit some times she will package food back to the hostel. By God's grace when we get married I will be facing problem of her cooking for the family. I no want dey make mouth now make that time reach I know weiting I go do.

babygirlfl:
Even a woman who already built her house before getting married will be sent back to her fathers house . Even the men who are living in the woman's house will also send her to her fathers house . The woman who met her husband and they got married abroad will still be sent back to her fathers house in Nugeria . The one sharing rent with the woman will send her to her fathers house . Very funny people.

all4naija:
I didn't mean to laugh but the way you put your comment is very funny. I apologize to you if my post offended you in any way.

all4naija:
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kosplateau:
in her fada's?

kandiikane:
this is what they have been doing to women for millenniums na, let them feel how women feel. Instead of even dragging her feet, she should put them up on the sofa in front of the TV with a glass of wine, eating the food he cooked.

Kimoni:
Sheriff777 and chigold101 -

Pls you guys should leave the poor innocent househelp alone Biko. Stop raping and maltreating her. In the first instance, she is a minor and shouldn't be a maid.

madam chigold101, who gave her all those marks on her body? Even if your husband is lying about everything, those marks are for real. So how did she get those marks? Pls fear God o

Oga sheriff777, pls stop sleeping with the help if you truly are. Use your plenty money to send her to school and not physically abuse her or take advantage of her. Please I beg you. She is too young to take care of your kids, hire a more matured woman to take care of all of them.

I honestly feel like reporting this case of child abuse to the authorities. Can somebody help plssss?? Whoever flogged that girl like that should be behind bars!

lezz:
Time for ladies to devote some time for physical fitness, won't you say? Never know when it might come in handy.

Kimoni:
**sighs**

When God give people nothing to worry about, they must give themselves worry by force by force
Pls instead of worrying about the weight and height of an unborn baby, just go to the ttc thread and encourage mothers with genuie things to worry about. About 6 or 7 mothers encouraged you not to worry about weight, now you are bothered about height

***no offense intended, your posts are just doing me one kain for borri

GboyegaD:
The bold was what I meant in my 1st post however, the man need not force it but tactically with wisdom, make her adjust.

4stylz:
Pls stop quoting me; you are the type our African mothers warned us about

4stylz:
One day all this girl's will give us wrapper to back kids, and wash their clothes self.

GboyegaD:
In my case, cooking can be done by any party, and growing up, there were some days my dad did the cooking and it never made him less of a man. Expectations were made by men and everyone has a right to which expectations he chooses to live by and which ones he changes.

Tallesty1:
I asked a simple question, you can tell me if y'know

Ishilove:
I seriously doubt it. This is Africa, and although I understand that most folks in the western countries have more liberal views of shared responsibility in domestic issues, the fact remains is the cooking is the duty of the wife. Whatever the husband does in the kitchen is only support.

The girl needs to wake up and grow up

GboyegaD:
Don't tell me it's too late.

Tallesty1:
Like seriously?



Which woman on earth does not know that cooking is 95% a woman's responsibility in her home?

I don't understand you sef.

Ishilove:
Anyway, the reason why I was asking is because his opinion was...I don't know how to put it. It is obvious from his response that he isn't married. Single folks giving advice about marriage

pcguru1:
Amen o, because mehn it's really perplexing i have married friends both female and male telling me how lucky i am to be single, to think i was the one envying them for being married. anyway sha true on the bold words.

GboyegaD:
Na you I want

Ishilove:
My sister, see as e dey para o.

When a woman asks a man if he is married, he is suppose to double take. Instead he was raking

pcguru1:
Well i think they should have discussed all these before marriage.

*Na wa o family section dey discourage peeps from marrying, there's always one issue threatening a marriage*

waxdude:
Chai

pcguru1:
seriously househelp is 15k a month that's 7500 per couple, it will save their marriage rather than this childish behavior of who will cook.

4stylz:
You think we are in America? If you are looking for does things you see in Hollywood movies, you can as well travel there and get married to an American

This is Africa; development nor dey reach that level, women must do the cooking over here