₦airaland Forum

Good question

Ilekeh:
They're not slaves, they're prisoners of war.

Slaves is a derogatory word used to devalue the lives of black people in America. Unless we shift from that thinking, racism will continue to persist.

@bold, Racism is going nowhere when all blacks do is feast on tribalism. Who respects those that don't respect themselves? Not white people at least. That racism will be here a long time to come.

@OP (vicadex07)
Disgusted and disappointed mehn. (Or maybe not)

Anyway at topic, I think like what he's doing.

Too bad it is being derided and belittled this way to score cheap tribalistic points.

Davidddon:
cococandy, you can say anything you want but what i just said is the fact. Perhaps the lady happens to be a victim, you will see tongues rolling that he is a beast but if a guy happens to be the vic, you will say that the guy was lucky. I call it stupidity of the millennium. Gender equality connotes that any treatment melted to the other, likewise should be done to the other. Lol

What does this have to do with my post?

You're the one saying it's fun for a guy to be raped, and when I tell you how silly it sounds, you start preaching to me as if I posted your original post?
Nna preach to yourself.

babygirlfl:

This thread sef

sheriff777:
@ Timothy001 I am not bother at all. The brain dead X of mine just show up on this tread and exhibited her Lying Acquired Syndrome once more , so I got so upset. As a wore you put her pic and her no just to get costumers. Any reasonable fellow will understand that I talk with facts and figures. Anyway thanks for your advise, but note I am not bothered about those monies , I spend more now on Charity. I have also got a new wife the sinker is that I married a new one from the same Umunze, when she gets. To know she will crack. I am already working on my traditional wedding date etc and will let my friends in Nairaland know.

Yet you kept all the receipt for the 16 handbags and 20 pairs of shoes that you bought her in the 10yrs of your marriage.

I'm glad for you that you're getting married again but you have very unresolved issues from your past marriage that you should consider settling before dragging another woman into the mess.

For one, creating this thread shows you're still hung up on your ex. Marrying someone from her area and hoping it will make her crack is another sign that you may not be marrying for the right reasons.

You guys need to reach an amicable divorce for the sake of your kids so that they won't be caught in this web of messiness and a new step mother who may not like them because your hate for their mom will give her an angle on how to treat them.

Think of your kids first. Always.

Story don change o

Claver2015:
Obinna!! Why are you hiding under Sheriff777, you pathetic devious monster! Your wife left you because you are evil not because of any Pastor.

You rape, beat and abuse her. You raped her househelp, a Minor!! Did she not run away with her Madam?

419 buffoon like you! Look at the document you tendered as evidence. Where in it, did it specify that your wife should leave you? The name on that document, is it Chuks?? Is it not Udoka?

Did your wife not find a calabash under your bed, you monster! You want to make love to a woman you claim you love and you place a knife over her head!!

That man you are blaspheming his name, his God will deal with you! Chuks Mbamalu is a seasoned man of God grounded in sound doctrine back from his days in Scripture Union. He's married with three kids so what is he doing sitting with yours in fast food joints like you claim? He was the one that tried everything in his power to make sure your wife stays with you because the church doctrine does not believe in divorce!

Two years ago, on this same Naira land, you claimed your wife was possessed and was the cause of your downfall in business as if 419 is a business to be proud of. Today, it's a Pastor that destroyed it.

Get a life you Animal! And pray God shows you mercy!!

hahn:
Lol @ living on past glory. Their "past glory" is going to take us more than a century to catch up with. We can't even provide ourselves with 24 hours electric power supply.

By claiming we are moral do you mean by being a country that can only produce corrupt leaders, or a country that sees nothing wrong with lynching "suspects" without a fair trial because we lack faith in our judicial system or a country where the youths are busy stealing IMEI just to browse for free?

Developed countries are by no means less moral than us, they only give everyone the right to live as they choose without fear of discrimination meanwhile Yorubas, Ibos and Hausas can barely live together.

Can you honestly point to one "moral" trait of an average Nigerian?

Being judgemental and obsessive about oyibo people's morality is one of our moral values.

Edwife watch "Addicted" if you have not.


Damn.

Let me see how many indigenous actors they will cast.

Davidddon:
Mehn, its gonna be fun. No be small thing to be raped. To ladies, it is a traumatising event or experience. To guys, it is an exhilarating experience coupled with invigorating joy and fun.

NovusHomo:
Can a woman please rape me? Rape me please! If interested, let me know.

You guys are unbelievable.

@bold, that's so true.
Some people need psychiatric evaluation before being allowed to marry.

LadyFiona:
Imbecilic Buffon. Why didn't he buy the foodstuffs and keep since the wife can't and he wouldn't let her send someone? With those kids around her, how can she get to the market peddling those children with her? The ediotic monsoon believes it is better for the kids to be exposed to the hazards of Nigerian roads than let a neighbor buy the foodstuffs.

Somebody commented on psychiatrist and psychologist being the hotbed of jobs in Nigeria, I think I believe him.

An eye for an eye

Let the calculated measure of the hot oil be poured on his PEN!S. Animated FrankStein

On Challenges, You can use a breast pump to extract some of the milk and keep in the refrigerator.
That way, your nippless won't take the heat for all that sucking and you can sleep sometimes while daddy feeds him/her.

As for the benefits, some people don't practice exclusive yet their babies turn out okay.

If you find it too stressful, you might wanna add other stuff (formula. Whatever) jare.

Shey Person will come and go and die say e born pikin

On the good side, I heard it helps you burn the baby fat faster. That should be encouraging.

Killed himself? Over Wetin?
Mtchew.
Waste of life.
Worst case scenario, is that his church will scatter and his wife will leave him.

Not enough to kill oneself in my opinion. Not like anything is enough anyway.

R.I.P

egift:
Right or Wrong, the question is why is the so called Senator we pay millions of naira unable to attach his name to his opinion and debate the merit or demerits? Why is he hiding in the dark and shadows?

Maybe because they know the guy to be a vindictive bastard.

Beautiful

kenny987:
First, I do not think anyone should be bothered about how Biafrans fare when on their own. I believe modalities are and will constantly be in place to co-ordinate their existence.
Secondly, on ur assertion that the more united a people are the better, I need to tell you that d ethnic identities and nations that make up Nigeria are too distinct and strong to ever achieve such supposed unity. Now at this point someone will try to point out how diverse the US is for instance but they fail to recognise certain points. The union of the US is voluntary and not forced like Nigeria. Again, the system of government allows individual states to maintain their individuality, manage their resources and contribute to the unity on agreed terms. That is also not the case in Nigeria.

The SE and SS have always demanded for regionalism but that is always thrown out because certain regions have allotted the status of majority to themselves to the detriment of others. The SE is limited to 5 states while other regions have 6 and even 7. That automatically reduces their representation.

The religious differences also come into play here and will in fact force anyone to rethink continued existence under same conditions. For instance why are churches always destroyed in the North? Has that happened anywhere down South? Why would a caricature of Mohammed in Denmark warrant d death of Igbos in the North? Why would d election victory of a Southerner cause the deaths of Igbos n Christians in the North? Why would an Oba threaten d lives and livelihoods of a particular group of people in Lagos because of their political choice in a supposedly democratic country? Are these few and many more instances not treasonable offences?

Now, about the way they are going about it. Deep-seated pain and anger cannot be ruled out. Some here and out there always say why can't they let go and I ask, if they hadn't believed in 'one Nigeria ' would they spread out like they do? Have the Igbos ever exhibited violence against any tribe in other parts of Nigeria and in Igbo land? The right thing to do would be to call for a conference or negotiation of sorts to hear and address grievances but no, they are being arrested and intimidated.

Until recent times MASSOB has been on about Biafra peacefully without any 'hate words' or treasonable threats. Have they been allowed to function freely? Yet their activities aren't criminal as u affirmed. People were going about peacefully and they were shot, some killed. U should expect threats and retaliation when they do occur cos they are human too.

Take a moment, put yourself in the Igbo man's shoes and tell me what you think. Whose crimes are worse? Who has even committed crimes? They haven't killed o! Yet a contract is out on Nnamdi Kanu according to u.
Again, being alone and separate from Nigeria is no crime.

Lekwa monkey

Delusions of grandeur.

Get well soon.

bolaino:
I know this is a faceless Forum where people come to make up all sorts of lies and distortions to further their different selfish agendas, But let me tell you one truth you can sleep with tonight, I have been hiding from some Foreign Intelligence agencies for some years now, I have suffered, in ways you could never imagine, why are this people after me? Because I have voiced my fears about their evil intentions to split Nigeria this year, everything I have been doing in the past few years is to avoid what these foreign powers have been planning, and under my nose, Under my foolish nose, there comes this Ibo Boy. Who wants to play james bond, by causing disaffection in the country, it's funny, because I and some other colleagues were thinking it would be the Insurgency in the North that would be used to disintegrate this country, But Alas, Nnamdi Kanu comes along, having being trained by British spooks on how to carry out covert broadcasts activities etc, and he wants to spoil everything that we have invested Time and Money in trying to secure, The fool is a dead man, I can tell you as a matter of fact that there is a Contract on his head, and the thing is we did not even have to spend much money on this contract, as there have been Friends who have volunteered to execute this contract without much financial assistance, anytime from now, you will all hear what will happen to him, even the Nigerian government can not save him now, you know why? Because it is too late, The fool is already a dead man.

Let's agree to disagree

Mindfulness:
There is a HUGE DIFFERENCE between the two scenarios.

You wanted your HUSBAND to be the father of your kid. They wanted a stranger's sperm. The issue they have is not that the baby is not THEIRS but that it is MIXED. The issue is RACE. If they had said that they wanted a father, in whose family history there were no occurrences of cancer, or something similar, I would have had more understanding but making race and color an issue in he 21st century America is sickening to say the least.

I have already mentioned on this thread that nobody has yet considered the effects this whole scenario might have on the child. Not only will she not know her biological father, she is also already being treated like the odd one out, is she not?

The person who took that pic is a perverted peeping Tom.

Mindfulness:
You are comparing apples to oranges.

Emotional stress?
3 million DOLLARS for a healthy baby because it is mixed?
I am not sure whether to laugh or cry.

Which one is the apple and which one is the Orange?

It's the same thing jare.
Fertilizing the egg with wrong sperm.


Maybe 3million is steep but that's up to the judge to decide. They sure do know they won't get up to that amount.

They definitely have a case.

And who are we to say they didn't suffer emotional stress for having a race of baby they didn't want to start with?

Two yrs ain't too long ago to sue. Some people even sue after 18yrs. Kiloshele.
Next time they will be careful.

Shey if me and my husband go there for IVF and they mistakenly replace my husband's sperm with another man's, you go tell us say we no get case because the baby is two yrs old?

tchidi:
Here's mine....made this last week.

Chai. Igbuolam.

The man is a bunkum.

That's clear by now.

DedeNkem:
If I were the president and elect only my childhood friends or my closest associates I trust who happened to be only Igbos, should that be a problem? I guess, Buhari will be the first person to attack me for my provincialism and tribalism.

Buhari is an id*iot for giving that stupid reason. Does he think every Nigerian is as old and st*upid like him? He's neither the APC president nor his associates' president, he's the President of Nigeria!! He's the President of all Nigerians irrespective of the region, ethnic, social class, literacy level, culture, friends/enemies and political party affiliation!!

For the fact that we're a country of many tribes (more than 500), at least, the three major tribes (Igbo, Hausa and Yoruba) should be well represented in any Nigerian government to encourage unity and fairness.

How could an id*iot who called himself president say he only trust his northern friends? He confirmed what everyone has been saying that - he practices tribalism. He only wants his northern brothers to be in government which is very evident in his lopsided appointments.

Yet some fools can't see anything wrong with that.
Imagine if it was GEJ that made such a comment.
The media would be abuzz now with various modifications of that single line.

BiafranNigerian:
I see everything wrong with the assertion that a Nigerian President has to use government positions to reward his good friends before they suffered together.

This is the clear definition of Nepotism.

So, if I am to become President, I will only give positions to my friends within my political zones because we suffered together.

And if everyone does that, where this geographical expression head to ? Common-sense is truly not common.

Buhari, your brain is your skull, locate it and use it.

Chillisauce:
So your friend dey play away match you come here dey ask nanscence question.
I wonder if N'a the woman ex come over. You will be here asking questions

don't mind him.
I'm surprised he's asking.

5minsmadness which kind question be this? Is the answer not clear already.

Cigarettes ?

^^^^

ifyalways:
I'm not sure the size or name of ship matters but I do know for sure that the excursions cost varies depending on factors like duration, meal included or not and the activity(ies) involved.
Some excursions are simple and pretty much straightforward like shopping in the local market with a guide of course costs about $39 while more detailed excursions like swimming with dolphins, scuba diving cost as much as $209. So it's basically cut your coat according to your cloth and need abi want.

We went swimming with the Dolphins.
Abi I go call am floating with the Dolphins

(because I can't swim)

And shark sighting/feeding.
I must say we were lucky. Because we didn't pay that much.


Me pay money to go shopping with a guide? When I get map.

The fun was in getting lost and finding your way back

If you people have divided roles that you must provide and she must face the home keeping, then don't complain that she's nagging.
Do your own part.
I'm sure you will nag her if she doesn't cook for 3days.

When they tell people to relax their rigid rules of who does what in the home, they will think someone wants to divide their home.

If she doesn't see you as sole provider, why would she have problem bringing her own money to supplement your income?

Is the number not to make calls? Abi something special is going on again?

pcguru1:
All these break up marriages dey fear person sef , it's really not encouraging at all

Well we always hear the bad stories.
So it seems magnified.
For every bad marriage, there's 3 good ones.

tpiander:
I cannot believe the op actually typed this story here and mentioned she and her friend were wowed by all these basic things?

used car at an auction site, really?

$1700 for what year of car?

I was going to ask what kind of car sells for 1700 that's worth doing thanksgiving for.

In my neighborhood, owning a car less than 4000 qualifies you for food stamps. Aka charity case.

The friend must have really been in a bad place then. She said her friend was wowed. Not her.