Family › Re: Everyone On Campus Knew She Had Been Raped... by cococandy(f): 4:35am On Aug 21, 2015*. Modified: 5:48am On Aug 21, 2015 |
DDeliverer: i know plenty of girls who would just visit a total stranger.. the guy might want to phuck and you'd probably start giving him excuses......at that point what are you asking for?
only you carry your two legs waka go him house o.....nonsense! Are you aware that many rapes were committed by people who knew the victims? In many cases, they are hardly strangers. If a girl has 80% of the blame because she was the one who went to visit the guy in question, then Like someone said, you're telling us to never trust men. To consider all of you or at least most of you as rapists. If one can't be friendly with a guy without being blamed when he decides to behave like an animal, what's the motive to continue? You're going to say the solution is to not visit strange guys. Then I tell you again that many times the rapist isn't a strange fellow. What say you then? That we should keep all of them at arms length because any of them can turn out to be a rapist and we would be blamed for it? Be careful what you preach dude. |
Family › Re: The Unspoken Truth: Why Women Hate Each Other So Damn Much by cococandy(f): 12:32am On Aug 21, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: Chaiii with your description the thing dey fear me 
I remembered when I first had it I had to pull it off because I couldn't sleep at night but maybe this time I'll use piercing machine
thanks love You did the first time by hand  Girrrrlll! Well goodluck this time around. |
Family › Re: The Unspoken Truth: Why Women Hate Each Other So Damn Much by cococandy(f): 12:21am On Aug 21, 2015 |
SAMBARRY: haters of the truth
ahen I want to get a nose piercing like yourself. Is it that painful and how long does it heal  Oh well.... It was a little painful. Not much because the guy took me by surprise. Before I could say jack, he pressed the button. So I didn't have time to feel the pain then. But later it hurt. If you're strong, you'd say it's not painful but I've a low pain threshold so I'm not a good judge of that. For me Everything hurts.  It takes 3weeks to heal completely. Then you can take off the original piercing nose ring and put the one of your choice. But make sure not to take it off before the 3weeks expires. |
Family › Re: Help, My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And She Would'nt Remove It by cococandy(f): 12:16am On Aug 21, 2015 |
raumdeuter: What problem would he face headlong?
Lets be honest in this equation where the father isnt ready for a child its the child that suffers most followed by the mother. In most cases the father doesnt even get affected one bit
What stops the guy from dusting his shoe and fleeing or even staying and blatantly denying responsibility? This is Nigeria. No enforced child support to help the woman or the child. Best case the girl would go to the guys house and shout but can anyone force him to take responsibility?
The guy might even get money and even abandon the girl and the child
As bad as abortion is, Its still better than many options we see people resort to in Nigeria like selling the new born, dumping in gutter and refuse dump, Using the infant for rituals or plainly neglecting the child and tossing from one househelp job to another where they would be serially abused
In all of these I would say the girl should get rid of the pregnancy and either break up the relationship or define it as always use protection it's a question of personal beliefs. That's one thing no one has a right to decide for another person. If she's not okay with abortions, then that's final. |
Family › Re: The Unspoken Truth: Why Women Hate Each Other So Damn Much by cococandy(f): 12:13am On Aug 21, 2015 |
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Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 12:05am On Aug 21, 2015 |
MizMyColi: A beautiful one sef  Lol. Good evening.
I was going to reply posts where you mentioned me, but on seeing the posts on the thread, I changed gear. Lols.
I'm glad you get my angle though. Good evening Hun. No wahala anyways. Sometimes you wanna avoid unnecessary long talks, you don't reply posts that could lead to them. |
Family › Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by cococandy(f): 12:02am On Aug 21, 2015 |
CFCfan: I like aproko gist  Once again, Igando is in the spotlight I've given up on those people tey tey. |
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 12:00am On Aug 21, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Soldier Catches Wife With Another Man, Parades Them Both Naked In Public. Photos by cococandy(f): 10:02pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Wrong on many levels. |
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:58pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Thank you guys for confusing me. I guess there's history that my amebo hasn't caught onto yet. Make I go lay down and clear my head. Meanwhile I like and respect both of you. Very much. Pls don't fight. See ya babygirlfl: It's not mizmycoli am talking about. I actually like her post. It's the "non feminists" in this thread who wanted to stir a fight but mizmycoli did not buy it. Kimoni:
 I smell cowards...too tired to face you directly but bold enough for snidal remarks. Low self-esteem issues of the highest level Babygirlfl, you wanna quote me directly or mention me, let's get this dusted? I see you have not recovered from the last one |
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:47pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
I've not seen mizmycoli cussing or being derogatory towards feminists. As far as I can tell. babygirlfl: Lets face it cococandy if you don't understand something , you ask. You don't go round condemning something you don't understand and talking about it in a derogatory way and making baseless accusations and generalisations. Then go around trying to cause a fight thereafter.
People deliberating refuse to see when feminism has everything to do with it the call feminism when it has nothing to do with it. |
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:45pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
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Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:32pm On Aug 20, 2015*. Modified: 6:55pm On Jul 09, 2019 |
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Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:25pm On Aug 20, 2015*. Modified: 7:22pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Actually chillisauce is right. It's only because people misunderstand or should I say deliberately refuse to understand feminism when feminists talk, otherwise it's easy to see that those those parts she highlighted have everything to do with it. The thing is nairaland feminist talks never end well so mizmycoli if you have to call it another name to preach the same message, no qualms.  I still dey your back. So far the message carries on. |
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:17pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
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Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:16pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
TheMoonChild: Mizmycoli asa nwa oma, nwa nlecha babym!! Oyoyo nwa, tomato jos m, asim kam troway salute for your dp, nothing do you baby girl, imaka jare yes ooo  how many of you are toasting mizmycoli self? Get in line and get a number dude |
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:09pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Lol what's happening on this thread. |
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:08pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Help, My Girlfriend Is Pregnant And She Would'nt Remove It by cococandy(f): 5:38pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
You want her to abort it but tomorrow when you're ready to settle down you'll start looking for a lady that had never had any abortions before  And you'll even have the guts to insult those who have because in your mind you're not equally guilty. May god have mercy on you two faced individuals. Better ready yourself to be a dad. Next time use protection or abstain. |
Family › Re: Sex-starved Wife Secures Divorce As Court Dissolves 14-yr-old Marriage by cococandy(f): 5:09pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
Nigerian divorce. They must be made to air their dirty laundry in public and trust the media to spread it. Do they really need all these details?
Irreconcilable differences should be enough blanket statement to explain why they want to part ways. |
Family › Re: My Daughter Was Nearly Molested Yesterday By A Male Teacher! by cococandy(f): 5:03pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
francizy:
I tire for you oh! I should be asking you if you're normal because you can't be asking a mad man if he's normal.. Lol. He's obviously nuts |
Family › Re: My Daughter Was Nearly Molested Yesterday By A Male Teacher! by cococandy(f): 4:19pm On Aug 20, 2015 |
lobinche101: Ur girl nah virgin? I don't think so. May b d teaacher didn't buy her chocolate again or she doesn't lik d teacher again..I fear children ooo dem ft set u up oooo. But if nah truth, make unna clap 4 d teacher. His really teachin...idiot  Are you normal? |
Politics › Re: Senators Concerned As Buhari Overlooks Law In AMCON Appointments by cococandy(f): 8:34am On Aug 20, 2015 |
owobokiri: Brazen breaches of the law that could have earned Jonathan an impeachment notice. The fact that many in APC are very comfortable with this, shows how we run this country with double sets of rules. From borrowing and allocating funds without legislative approvals through injecting himself in the middle of the power tussle for the leadership in the legislative chambers to sacking technocrats and flooding officialsom with dimwitted party cronnies and ethnic henchemen, this disaster from Daurra has broken the law repeatedly while a hitherto vociferous press watches arms akimbo! Mercenery press and their phantom god. . |
Politics › Re: Senators Concerned As Buhari Overlooks Law In AMCON Appointments by cococandy(f): 8:33am On Aug 20, 2015 |
I'm not surprised |
Politics › Re: Amina Abubakar-Bello Works As Gynaecologist In Hospital by cococandy(f): 8:23am On Aug 20, 2015 |
@topic, good job madam. Bless you. |
Politics › Re: Amina Abubakar-Bello Works As Gynaecologist In Hospital by cococandy(f): 8:22am On Aug 20, 2015 |
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Family › Re: In Need Of Real Advice ..asap!!! by cococandy(f): 8:20am On Aug 20, 2015 |
Hian.
Slap. In public too. And for no reason according to the story.
In my opinion that's the height of it.
I wouldn't forgive that lightly so I won't tell him to. trying to wrap my head around that kind of behavior. It's only suitable in nollywood movies. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cococandy(f): 8:15am On Aug 20, 2015 |
Kimoni: Cococandy, who are your team mates 
Dis ur silent mode on this thread....hiann  The thread is just too fast. I can't even follow. I no know who be who. I'm Just reading and digesting where I can. You know it's not really a 'private' thread like that. |
Family › Re: Please Advise Me by cococandy(f): 7:59am On Aug 20, 2015 |
@mascarawand,
Jahblessme and kimoni have said it all.
Just be careful and love wisely. No need to lie to your parents.
Wishing you guys the best. |
Family › Re: Let's Separate Men From The Boys: Do You Remember This? (PHOTO) by cococandy(f): 7:15am On Aug 20, 2015 |
jnrbayano: But you know I am or am I not? 
It's a Manual/Hand VHS Cassette Rewinder. 
Why you no come across it? E be like say you no watch plenty Nigerian (Igbo), Karate, Indian, War and Ninja films back then. I did. Been ages. |
Family › Re: Let's Separate Men From The Boys: Do You Remember This? (PHOTO) by cococandy(f): 7:08am On Aug 20, 2015 |
Never mind. I've seen that it is video tape rewinder. Wasn't looking closely before. Abi the pic wasn't clear sef. It took me a while to figure out it was a video tape under there. The thing been resemble I pass my neighbor generator.  In your face  Cc jnrbayano. |
Family › Re: Let's Separate Men From The Boys: Do You Remember This? (PHOTO) by cococandy(f): 7:06am On Aug 20, 2015 |
jnrbayano: You don't know this??  What is it jare. Stop forming old man for me  Maybe I didn't come across it. Not that it was before my age. |