₦airaland Forum

crackhaus:
You don't want the crack?

it is not funny. Not in the least .

SeverusSnape:
Can you imagine?... They used the stadium for their own rally. The president is even gentle, If it were some other president, He'll just make a triumphant entry, and nothing will happen.

GEJ's gentility might be his undoing. Imagine one of those gangster past presidents being denied use of state stadium?
Even Buhari the 'change' champion will jail and exile the so called governor.

crackhaus:
See how you have steadily but surely got yourself to that place where no one else can know if you've been reading the thread or not, except you?

That's how you know someone who is sneaky.

The crack is good, gets the neurons firing...want some?

Except you're on my tablet, only you know how you could have known if I was following the thread actively until the day i commented or not.
Did I even notice the dates on which each comment was made until you snooped it out because such little things mean HUGE deal you

Keep seeing ghosts in the shadows.
Your discomfort not mine.

Or maybe you're right I'm after you because you
Stole my girlfriend.

Sigh

Ogbono soup? As in already made. Dear lawd.

EfemenaXY:
You're lucky you didn't miss your flight o!

That aside, I'll never forget the image of someone's Ogbolo soup in a transparent local bread polythene bag, just going round and round and round on the conveyor belt at Heathrow airport.

I think the owner probably saw his soup but was too embarassed to collect it. Not with everyone looking and interested in seeing the owner of the escaped-Ogbolo-soup-in-a-polythene-bag...

crackhaus:
Cococandy,
That comment was made Jan 15, yours a full two days later on the 17th - keep lying to yourself...

you're the one In Delusion. What makes you think I visited the thread again until the day I made the comment?
This is an old thread that I wasn't even following actively until the day I clicked on it again and read from where I stopped before.



Really your impression is that I follow people who insult you around to know when they will?
As in what?

Get off the crack.

esmeralda1:
Pls help me to understand, what is special in a person working in ano hotel is it that smone that came with a woman will call me that is at the desk to come join them on bed or a single man will want me to leave my work n warm his bed.

help me ask

Better grow tough skin like me

edwife:
You guys like bullying me,no problem

Especially chillisauce then efe and cococandy will add salt and pepper....





On the other hand,byvan has deactivated,why na?

Jennykadry,now byvan.....

alutacontinua:
e be like say he come ugly on top

TV01:
The lil' sister I always longed for - who knows me so well

i hope madam was finally worth the wait and the search

something doesn't ring true in this story.
He had the kids before he married her according to him and they have been married for 18yrs, the children are obviously not kids. Why should she be the one to feed them? I don't get it.



Clothes and bla bla bla. Is that even a reason to get divorced?

alutacontinua:
I saw the post of an angel on NL, checked her profile and my heart skipped 10 beats
I am now the proud husband of cococandy



TV01, na so you ugly reash?

@tv, I don't think that was the case with him.
He was probably too picky . You know he won't say the truth now on nairaland

But I'm sure then he wanted a Beyoncé body with mother Mary Christian devotion and mother Theresa's heart blessed with Martha Stewart skills.

So if a man beats you up all the time so much that you're in fear of him and are afraid of stepping too hard on the ground before he takes that as offense to beat you up again,

you want me to believe you will have So much love and excitement In your heart to wait up for him happily when he comes home late at night?
Instead of being happy to go to sleep so that that night's beating will at least pass you by.


Mutter fear God small. Just small.
Play has levels. Don't trivialize people's pain because it didn't happen to you.

mutter:
Abeg It is okay. The two are different issues. She said the nanny was on break.
Let us focus on the man that beat her and the girl for not opening the door.
You are lashing out too hard at her.

But OP if you love your husband you would be watching out of the window and listening for him to come in, no matter what time.
Imagine criminals had followed him and shot him at the doorstep. You would be the first suspect.

BlackLeopard:
A, we're on a public forum,
B, human rights are everybody's concern,
C, Bleep your attempt at silencing me, try harder.

And yes, patriarchy & misogyny (which are something that men exhibit and have spread to communities & system of power to do it by respectively) are what moves those women to be abusers, at least in part. If you can't see how a system contributes to individual decisions, then you're really missing a big part of the picture.

One doesn't have to be holding a knife to be a killer; who profits from murder is as much if not more guilty.
Same deal here.

did you read this one? Crackhaus? Did you even see it? I bet you were busy looking for who's after you to understand what he was saying in that post. Read it again. Tell me how the message is not clear that he imples that misogyny is the driving force behind FGM.

You quoted the one where he was bashing you because you think that's what made me ask who he was.
More evidence to show that you're basking in the 'everyone is out to get me' euphoria.


When actually I asked who he was because this truth he said here in the above quoted post is hard for a man to say. And I'd be delighted to at least meet one who calls it the way it is.

Has nothing to do with you.
It is getting boring. This new thing you've learned to do. Person no fit agree with your opponent again without you getting personally pained.

crackhaus:
I don't know why you always want to force my hand, I always try to avoid performing an intellectual lobotomy on you - but you seem not have realized that once I type a comment, I already think about at least two different ways the person I'm quoting is going to respond.

Now this is the post:

So where therein is your inference, put it in bold as you're now the next-gen Mac OS that does extrapolation from non-existent data.

I don't why you people never learn.

bukatyne:
@Carefreewannabe,

Lovely tread

Met him 9yrs ago on March 28th 2006 (we were both in 100L)

Started dating around July same year & got married May last year.

see baby love. Oya full gist

crackhaus:
Sore? Awww, such over-estimated sense of self...

Just quit getting all up and gloating over posts meant for other posters, it's pitiful.
Then when you get called out on it, you revert to faking innocence - so preposterous

[FYI, that guy never made this assertion in that particular post: FGM is based on the olden misogynist principles that used to govern many traditions.

You still lie in broad daylight huh?

He actually did. But you weren't reading as Usual. More busy looking for who's witch hunting you to read and understand your opponents post correctly.

I don't know if this is a new form of trolling you adopted, anyone who agrees with an opposing opinion than yours is out to get you. Even when they did not insult you or use nasty names for you, you go off the handle in response.

I mean I can understand if someone insults you and you give them the insult back 10times. That's allowed.

But these days common disagreement has you howling like something else apart from nairaland usual debate is going on.

Lord have mercy.

Babymama1:
When coming from overseas yes
Not when you are taking a local flight

ok

Ewuro4:
Cc wants a washing machine in Naija this woman sef .. What happened to local Togolese washer men/women .. They even iron it too. All inclusive.

those people will cut her neck with prices.
After 3months the money they will collect will buy one functional washer.
A washer will be cheaper for her jare

oyb:
Since we are talking washing machines, pls who has experience of dishwashers in Nigeria. The available selection seems very small - ignis and lg.

What are issues and challenges esp with our power over here.

Do they work very well or do they become kitchen furniture.

lmao @kitchen furniture

Babymama1:
Within the US?
Not true

Oh really? I will try then. I just assumed because those are the general rules.

moca:
Collect from her and plant
It saves a lot.
My people hv everything u can think of in their various gardens.

i can't board the flight with life plants. They will discard it for me there

When I go back, I will look for Africans who live around and see if any is growing nigerian special vegetables like bitter leaf and scent leaf.
Instead of eating dried bitter leaf all the time

edwife:

forgive me. She's so funny

moca:
I was thinking aloud,
All these Oyinbo people, if u hv backyard or garden, why not look fora stem, or seed of any of these veggies and plant.
Abi no way to get them?
If it's me, that's what I will do.

I think I will do that too when the weather is Warmer. The cold ehn! You can't even touch the soil.
It depends on where one is.

I just traveled to Florida to spend some time with my aunt there and she has bitter leaf, scent leaf et al flourishing in her backyard because of enough sun and good weather enough for others to come pluck too.I'm so jealous.

Chillisauce

Chillisauce:
Just wash it twice, then add to it.

You will never use any other vegetable.
Trust me.

I added okazi because I didn't have enough scent leaf

wow.
Will try that sometime soon.
If I can find scent leaf

EfemenaXY:
"Friends" only get the chance to hurt you if you give them the ammunition. i.e: giving them complete insight into your life, your business, etc. The less they know, the better for you.

Privacy is key.

i don't have many friends but how do you call someone a friend if you can't turn to them in time of pain and seek comfort?
This invariably gives them insight into your personal life.

Just sad and horrendous that some of them will use it against you later,that's when friendship turns to enmity.

I guess the older one grows, the less friends they keep because of past experiences.
I can testify to that because my friend pool diminished drastically these past few years.

Chillisauce:
First-time at tuwo. ( blended rice).

Egusi soup with scent leaves and okazi as vegetables

scent leaf for egusi soup. Never tried that before.

I met him during my undergrad days 6yrs ago.
I was just 18 almost 19. More like a little girl.
I didn't know our small friendship then would turn to something else years later. As in I didn't know we would part ways and meet again and everything would happen

That's the story.
Ok bye

carefreewannabe:
Ileobatojo, Cococandy, where are you? I saw you. Come and join this thread. Share your stories.

crackhaus:
Okay who's next?
Ahhh I see it's the market women again, obviously still hurt and can't stay off my radar.

I really don't know what to make of these two anymore, it's quite sad really - I must be appearing in your dreams for this obsession to have so much hold on you, I have that effect on people though

Cc: Ileobatojo, Cococandy

not everything is about you dude.
I'm sorry your opponent gave a wonderful and truthful speech that I didn't expect from a man which is the truth that FGM is based on the olden misogynist principles that used to govern many traditions.

And you're sore that I agree with him?
Why do you take everything personal?

What next? You're gonna quote everyone who likes a post that opposes your opinion and call them names?

Na wa

BlackLeopard:
Random nairalander with generally no patience for inhumane bullshit

lol
I can see

In my experience friends can turn to enemies overnight for inexplicable reasons leaving you flabbergasted.

But moving on sweet die.

Only a few friends have I manged to maintain from childhood until now and I value them tremendously because of how far we've come.
But if they fvck up too , moving on. Life is sweet.

Losing friends hurt but I've learned it is not the end of the world like I used to think it was.

Who is blackleopard?

moreeni:
Coco, let this guy find a replacement and get her out of his house/life. Its the most amiable form of eject I could think of as sis in-law is as shameless as they come. Imagine her refusing to leave when asked to like it's her father's house. Second yr is what he won't pay for.

my annoyance is that he even offered to pay and she refused insisting on living in their house.
What Insolence
I would have agreed with you except that father in law came to the house to enforce the daughter's staying too. For that reason alone, he shouldn't pay again if he was serious about paying.

That kind of rent you will pay and nobody will tell you thank you. Then the second year that he doesn't pay he will become the evil son in law with not appreciation for the ones he already did in the past.

It is like fetching water with a basket

Does he even have the legal right to do that?
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